Solitude is Addictive /Rant

[Anonymous 5]

Thank god for threads like this.
I feel almost borderline guilty for enjoying my solitude so much.
I still love to talk to people as I bump into them down the street, but only for 5 or 10 minutes interaction. Any more than that and it quickly gets tedious.
A lot of people love the sound of their own voice and they think they’re marvelous conversationalists. They’re not. They’re hard, unpaid work.

I’ve got the same repetitive experience as Gargamel in that the real reason most people put you, me and everyone else on their “Friends” list is because they see you as a potential resource. They always have some noble reason for doing it though.
Even Blue Pill’ers know that if you can count the number of friends you have on more than one hand, you’re in for a shock.
The more successful you are, the more people will want to put you on their “Friends” list.

[joetechParticipant]

Azrael wrote:

Preach it, man. I feel the same way. I was just thinking about how I can’t go to a bar for a pint without fratboy assholes starting s~~~, spoiled whores harassing me for attention, etc

This thread really hits home. Remember my thread about the cops showing up at the bar cause she made the phone call? I found this new Mexican place just down the road. The bartender’s cute and everyone speaks Spanish. So, I have no idea what anyone is saying, I get to watch soccer instead of the pussified NFL, and I can relax and play some pool if I like. The rest of my time is spent on the bike trail or at home with a good episode of some old sci-fi shows I used to love as a kid. I think remembrance is a key part to retirement. Solitude is grand, but like anything else I prefer to do it in moderation. It’s best to keep your sense of humor about you when dealing with other people.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

The Black Scorpion wrote:

Solitude is highly and wonderfully addictive.

Inventors and technicians must be alone or suffer.

When I have an idea at 3 in the morning, I get up and energize my lab(s). And no one bitching about anything that I do.

Whatever I do has me by the b~~~~ until it’s finished. And I can’t imagine having someone else plan out my day or free time.

And having someone keeping me from things I enjoy because of her disapproval…

Stuff like: I own 20 USB 3.0 HDD Cases of that same type and in one of them one cheap capacitor exploded for no reason… And so I recapped all 20 of them in honor of my beloved data and to protect the server disks inside.

No one bitching about this “useless” and “unnecessary” work…

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[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Anonymous wrote:

Thank god for threads like this.

This qualifies for TopGun.

Yes some of us are “basement dwellers”…

Luxury all over, big place, big car and a house full of hobbies.

And we live in the “basement”… LOL. My basement is the first floor and I look into the trees outside.

And no c~~~ took it in some divorce. And that’s what triggers all c~~~s who happen to see the way I live.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

I use to wonder why Dictators and some leaders torture their own people. If you know what those people are like, I say why not. Good for them!

They say if you work out, or do something heavy that is physical, it gets the aggression, or anger out of your bloodstream. That’s bulls~~~ when every single thing around you is screaming at you. Yelling at you. Telling every cell in your body that something is wrong. Yet you can’t do s~~~ about it.

No matter how far you go, someone comes in that just wants to ruin it all.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[MonkParticipant 16988]

Carnage wrote:

It is all pending though in a last attempt to get out of Spain.

Spain has some wild areas up in the mountains. Portugal has some really empty, desolate areas. A Scottish island, perhaps.

Are none of these a possibility?

In my youth, I wanted to emigrate. I based my research on population density – the fewer people, the better.

[HermitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I agree with you, solitude is addictive. However, no extreme is healthy.

You will enjoy your solitude better after hanging out with some “friends”.

And “friends” can be people that get together to do things, like: cycling, running, fishing…

There is no need for big buddies. And its a good thing, because they are rare.

In this time and age people are conditioned by social media for being extremely selfish and self-centered. That is the outcome of having content shaped to your tastes and preferences.

So, there are small chances to find someone that can be a real friend. That does not means, however, that we do not have any kind of socialization… Its just that relationships need to be more shallow.

Agreed. I am definitely one who enjoys solitude and in fact, I absolutely need it. I have to have it. I will never live with anyone again. I hate sharing a house with someone else.

However, I do enjoy hanging out with a friend once in a while and as you suggested, going fishing, or shooting guns at the range. Because of some friends, which are very few, I have been able to more enjoy my hobby of guns and modifying them and finding places to buy ammunition cheaply. Same with fishing, I would’ve never bought a boat had it not been for a friend helping me find one.

They are rare, but there are some good people out there and I don’t mind spending a few hours with them once a week, but I mostly cherish my time alone at home. As you said, I do enjoy my solitude more after hanging out with friends, but what really makes me love my solitude is having to be around idiots and stupid people, men and women alike.

Being forced to interact with them on the job and at the stores causes me to press down hard on the accelerator so I can quickly get home and enjoy the peace and quiet with no idiotic people around.

Almost every day I say to myself that no matter what happens today, later this evening I’ll be home alone and happy and content away from all people.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[HermitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I still love to talk to people as I bump into them down the street, but only for 5 or 10 minutes interaction. Any more than that and it quickly gets tedious.
A lot of people love the sound of their own voice and they think they’re marvelous conversationalists. They’re not.

Why is it that these people don’t want to listen? I’ve always been a good listener and I never interrupt people when they’re talking. Most people these days never shut up and don’t give a s~~~ what you might have to say. Once they stop to take a breath and I try to get a word in edge wise, some of them will interrupt me and start talking again. They just talk right over me!

Most people these days are rude, useless idiots and their numbers seem to be increasing. That’s why when I find some good people that I can have an intelligent conversation with, I’ll take the time to be around them and hang out with them. People who really listen are more intelligent than those who talk and don’t listen. I think I have found almost half a dozen.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Sometimes I go for days without speaking to or seeing anyone and it is WONDERFUL! Solitude, peace, serenity, and tranquility are all analogous terms to me. And I am never ever lonely. Once a man is at peace with himself, he becomes his own best company!

Recall the story of Robinson Crusoe. Alone for years marooned upon an island. In fact so long he almost lost the power of speech. But after many years on the island he took stock of himself: “Crusoe takes stock of his goods and how he has spent his time: he has made a wall, grown fields of corn, built a country house, tended goats, planted grapes, and all in all kept himself very busy.”

And all this without anyone else around.

[Diamond DogParticipant 142]

DarkRyu wrote:

I really can’t handle other people’s s~~~ anymore. Other people just annoy me so much! Their stupidity, their entitled attitudes, their fake pleasantries, etc. I find that I’m happiest when I lock myself away in my house and don’t see anyone.

I know what you mean, it wasn’t until my senior year of high school that I realized just how stressed the “popular” kids looked. Before then I wanted to be in that crowd, I thought that I’d be safe from the assholes. But by senior year I realized just how good I had it. They were talking petty drama when the only thing I focused on was getting good grades so that my parents wouldn’t take my PS3 away. From a young age other people’s drama always wore me me out.

I’d be the guy at family parties that would go into a different room to play video games or watch the History channel. To this day I don’t drink alcohol after experiencing a few run ins with the drunk relatives, I resolved to never put myself in that position of being intoxicated. Solitude is bliss less drama and more time to focus on what you want to do.

Don't be a "provider" unless you are providing for yourself.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Twist wrote:

Listen for it – “Just” has become the modifier of choice, and it reflects the value she places on you doing something for her. You are the one doing it, so it’s no big deal – it’s “just”.

You accomplish her wish, but all you did was “just”. See – no big deal that you did it. She valued it beforehand and determined the minimal gratitude necessary – because all you did was “just”.

So – when asked “can you just…..”, the proper reply is “No. I’d rather help you with something important enough that you would appreciate the help”

Women make that certain face and give you “that look” when they expect things from you…

… even more so when they get “disgusted” about you wanting some appreciation or else in return…

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[Anonymous 1]

Solitude is a great thing. I deal with the blue pilled world all day at work and the grocery store. I am glad that my father no longer lives with me. He would be the gate keeper at the door to my own house ready to tell me about his blue pilled day.

Reminded me when I would stand at the back door and would stare at it for 5-10 mins because I didn’t want to deal with the onslaught the ex old lady would beat me over the head with when I walked over the threshold.

Give me my solitude. My dog. My whiskey and my fire pit and I’ll show you a guy who is content.

[TwistParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

Im going back to the Caribbean, use the little money I have to buy cheap land, guns and ammo and go rogue for a few years.

I have a friend heavily touting Costa Rica – he says outside of the tourist spots (Jaco, etc., Beatle Bar gone anyhow) it is great. And a $ deal.

Evilcpu wrote:

Really, if there’s not a 100% probability that if go out I’m going to have sex, the most of the time I just stay home

I there is chance of having sex when going out, I am staying home. What’s in it for me? Now, if it’s delivered – we are talking. Please pick up a bucket of chicken on the way, sweets…

[HermitParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Give me my solitude. My dog. My whiskey and my fire pit and I’ll show you a guy who is content.

Replace dog with cigar and whiskey with gin and I’m right there with ya’. Too bad the weather is getting too warm for a fire where I live, but I’m running short on wood anyway. Need to fell a tree so I can stock back up.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

Anonymous wrote:

Dude, didn’t you recently say you had a net worth of several million dollars? If so, please explain how that is not enough to live comfortably on.

My net worth is several million dollars. I don’t have that much cash. And even if I did, that’s not enough to live on.
I’m 26 and have to make whatever I have last at least 60 years. I figure I need at least 20 to 30 investment properties in order to get enough cash flow to make a comfortable living. I currently own 8.

Cash flow on each property is about $400/month. So 8×400 = $3,200/month. But then you have to take into consideration the cost of property management. Take $800 away from that. So $2,400. Then taxes are going to take another $1,000. So that’s $1,400/month. That’s s~~~. I’d make more working at McDonalds.

The key takeaway here though is that once the properties are 100% paid off, that $3,200 is going to turn into $16,000 at least. So after taxes it will be more like $10,500. After property management about $9,700. And that’s if I only have 8 properties. If I have 20 or 30, those numbers are even better.

But I can’t “retire” until I can survive on the income I make AFTER expenses (mortgage, insurance, taxes, etc.). I’ve got a long way to go. The sooner I buy the properties, the sooner they get paid off and I get my big payout. Then I can either keep renting them or sell them off and live on the cash. I don’t think I’d ever sell unless the area turned into the ghetto or something. Then I’d sell them and buy more houses in a better area.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Anonymous wrote:

There are lots of ways to make money. Some are going to involve you being fake as f~~~ to people you hate. That’s a choice you have to make.

Exactly. I made that choice and I had to deal with a lot of bulls~~~ from people.

But it was WAY BETTER than dealing with a blue pill boss and his ugly c~~~’s bulls~~~.

And dealing with customer bulls~~~ on top of that. And they don’t even respect you when you are not the boss…

My game is at a level on which a police interrogation just passed right through me. All traps that this corrupt asshole tried to lead me into were so damn visible to me that arguing was like some stupid game.
And it cracked them up. No perpetrator, no “playing hero” in front of the press and no promotion points. And no proof.

Well, sales speeches with borderline c~~~s are like court trials, that’s how I got my stability.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

WTF? Assuming someone has say 3 million in the bank–they could pay themselves 75K a year for 40 years. I’ve lived on as little as 15K a year comfortably. I think someone needs to dial back on the expenses if 75K a year is not enough to live on.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Solitude is good I have live don my own for over 20 years I speak to no one at weekends until recently when I joined zoom.

I go walking by myself an dit’s great never once been lonely the 6 months I spent out of work recently I got bored and was climbing the wall but that was just because I didn’t go anywhere to save money in petrol.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[EvilcpuParticipant 217]

Twist wrote:

I there is chance of having sex when going out, I am staying home. What’s in it for me? Now, if it’s delivered – we are talking. Please pick up a bucket of chicken on the way, sweets…

Well, in these limited cases I do it for physical pleasure, more or less like when going to restaurant. Delivery service for that would be a dream. Don’t worry, I’ll get some potato chips, too.

PistolPete wrote:

I’ve lived on as little as 15K a year comfortably. I think someone needs to dial back on the expenses if 75K a year is not enough to live on.

That’s interesting, how do you live comfortably just on 15K a year? I plan to go off grid and enjoy solitude more freely.

Out of your prime, out of my sight.

[Colin Combover in a ComaParticipant 5066]

Hell is other specimens. My Cytoplasmic structure is nearly dissolved, time for me to depart from this stratosphere. If I was that way inclined, I would be exterminating a few lower life forms before. Go out in a blaze of glory. Vengeance is mine saith Colin. We are just a virus with shoes.

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