So you're MGTOW now but does that mean you're broken, paranoid and woman hating?

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Mitzreal wrote:

So I’m a pretty decent MGTOW (about two months) and let me preface this by saying I don’t doubt I may need therapy. So right to the point I have lingering nice guy syndrome. I have sightly controlled issues with seeking of approval, I tend to fixate on things for far too long and have some paranoid leanings in that I have a tendency to think things are about me even when they aren’t. Once you realize this how can one combat it? I refuse to the uttermost taking any psychoactive drugs and fear that any therapist I find is going to be a tradcon or a blue pill heller who will just invalidate my thoughts and feelings. Has anyone had any luck with this? Does anyone have any suggestions? I will gladly share more in a later post if it becomes necessary but I didn’t want to food you guys with all my crap right off the bat. Anyway thoughts? Suggestions?

Mitzreal,

There are many types of men on here…all of which have gone through their own type of hell.  Some of them have the resources to navigate that hell, whether they were material, mental, physical…others do not.   Just a statement of fact, not a complaint on whats fair or not.  With that said, some of us are left broken and shattered into a million pieces.  While I do not believe there is not a single man here in this forum who would not want to try and help you put them back together, some of us need professional help, another statement of fact.  I am not ashamed to admit that I am one of those shattered and broken people.  How I got here at this point in not important, I will share sometime but I spent a life in bitterness and hate at what I suffered at the hands of women, so for now I want to focus on the whats ahead.  I say that because I am in Therapy myself, I talk, I pray, I reach out to whoever can help me so that I can become the man that I hope I have the potential to be…even at my age of 45.  There is no shame in getting help to undo the damage, there is no shame in admitting your broken, insecure, or nice guy or whatever your thing is.  There is shame in doing nothing about it, get help if you feel you need and and let us know how we can support you in that.  Heal yourself because someday there will be another in your shoes need help from someone who has come out on the other side, and that person who will help them will be you, if you allow it.  I will quote ILiveAgain words who were very true and powerful

ILiveAgain wrote:

1. You’re a man
2. You can & will find a way
3. Forget who you ‘were’ it’s who you are now.
4. You’re mgtow.
5. Nothing can stop you Rise up my friend.

 

 

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