So … She Writes Back!

[Anonymous 18]

For those few that read my biopic 8-page intro post or many who didn’t – same old story.. c~~~ carousel, hypergamy, monkey branching, with a mix of an ex who committed suicide and single mother plus all the land mines of red flags that yours truly ignored because of pussy-allure. The mangina I was.

Anyways, here is a synopsis of when we spoke for the last time on the phone from my first post:

-I am a sociopath.

-I am a lying bastard. And she deserves someone new. (I am sure she is already sleeping with a few guy(s))

-Me not matching into surgery is a baggage (coming from a woman with 2 kids, sleeping with any man interested in her, an ex-who committed suicide, being a full time nursing student, having no source of income other than her dad paying house mortgage and living of social support)

-She has her own home and going to be a nurse. She tells me to figure my s~~~ out. Says I am confused and desperate. And to top it all, suggest I should seek professional help.

*Hangs up the phone*.

Fast forwards a year and few months and she sends me an email (from a different account since everything I had of hers was blocked):

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Hello, iLearn. It’s Post-wall struck princess. I’m hoping that you still have this cell number although it’s unlikely.

Was wondering if after all this time you’d like to talk. I have a lot of things I’d like to say to you, and apologize for, and attempt to make amends for. Even if it’s the last time I ever get to speak to you I feel the need to clear some things up. Please consider it.
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For those of my brothers here who are hurt and going through pain while the recent ex is jumping on c~~~ carousel, hear me out. I had a tough time getting untangled from the emotional mess and unhealthy attachments I had built with this woman. Back then I would have been somewhat relieved, ? ecstatic perhaps that at least she is still thinking of me. Now I am quite surprised at how indifferent I am to it all. Like 0% effect on me. It had been lying in my junk for a few weeks now and I accidentally stumbled on this manipulation piece of a typical post-wall woman back paddling her way once the other prospects don’t look great beyond being pumped and dumped.

Hope she finds someone else to raise her kids because iLearn DOES. NOT. GIVE. ANY. F~~~S.

Again, brothers who may be going thru pain and heartache, time heals it ALL. And you become a stronger version of yourself.

I stand as proof.

She will never hear from me again.

THANK YOU TO EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU WHO HAVE SHARED THEIR THOUGHTS AND HELPED MEN LIKE MYSELF REALIZE THEIR TRUE POTENTIAL.

MUCH RESPECT TO ALL OF YOU MEN OUT THERE!!!

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Right on, brother!!!

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

You have made the right decision and don’t yield an inch. She had her chance with you and destroyed it. Now she feels remorse, but you feel nothing for her. Good for you!

[The_Mad_PirateParticipant 1278]

Deelete that email and forget that woman. She cant harm you if you dont let her.

"We didn't start the fire. It was always burning. Since the world's been turning" "A world that vilifies men only breeds a generation of men that feel no empathy towards women" “In a woman’s mind , there is really no such thing as a ‘we’. In her eyes, earth allways revolves around her, not the other way around. So thinking that your needs , aspirations or desires are valid enough to be persued, or even that you are entitled achive such goals, is like asking your boss for a pay rise in your very first day at the job.”

[Anonymous 54]

As KM says one chance per woman per life time.(where were you when I needed to hear that)Once time allows your mind to think clearly again things become easier,more obvious. A Man can never think clearly with a woman in his life.Way to go Brother!

[MedicalScientistParticipant 159]

Amazing how cynical women can be… she’s just looking for a provider but since she can’t get an idiot to land in her trap, she goes back to good ol’ plan B. Good for you for not taking her bait, and keep on going your own way.

P.S: Thank you for your advice on how to deal with women in college, really appreciate it!

"Never theorize before you have data. Invariably, you end up twisting facts to suit theories instead of theories to suit facts."

[Anonymous 18]

Badger wrote:

Now she feels remorse,

Brother I guess that’s what differentiates purple pill from red pill. I see it as an outright attempt to manipulate me when the field experience revealed how washed up she is compared to younger, kids-free women who are giving it up. And men would actually prefer women without baggage.

Pay attention to how she says, “Even if it’s the last time I ever get to speak to you…”. I made the topic so men can decipher and decode the manipulation. I granted her wish … without her knowing. It was the last time she got to speak with me because she said so over a year ago. The tide has turned. Coincidentally I just wrote about that earlier today and then stumbled on her emails in my junk folder.

Can we say MGTOW is evidence-based or what? Lol.

As the saying goes- made your bed, now lie in it.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Good on you brother. I wrote a post about a week ago regarding narcissists and the fire triangle. Fire needs heat, fuel, and oxygen to burn. Ignoring her takes away the oxygen. Fire can’t burn in a vacuum.

She can’t burn you if you don’t respond. Perfect!

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 18]

TaxGuy wrote:

Good on you brother. I wrote a post about a week ago regarding narcissists and the fire triangle. Fire needs heat, fuel, and oxygen to burn. Ignoring her takes away the oxygen. Fire can’t burn in a vacuum.

She can’t burn you if you don’t respond. Perfect!

I read that brother. It was insightful and made a ton of sense because while reading I just thought of this woman and how the pieces fit together.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

Funny how if you ignore a woman in any capacity long enough she WILL seek out your attention.
You deserve way better than to be some post wall’s plan B. KM also says that if you aren’t her priority, you are an option and apparently she has run out of those too which is why she is trying to mend fences.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

To quote KeyMaster. One chance. Per woman. Per lifetime.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Badger wrote:

Now she feels remorse

I’m not sure women have the capacity to feel remorse. She’s just trying to fit back in to the comfortable old shoes.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

Sweet f~~~, I wouldn’t even respond bro.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

iLearn, you’ve been KILLING IT lately. No f~~~s given, man. Keep on getting it. You called her s~~~ from a mile away, women’s attitudes change when confronted with the wall.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Anonymous 11]

Congratulations iLearn! It sounds like she was phishing for a wallet. Yours!!!

It took two years before my diagnosed borderline quit contacting me. She wanted someone to use for cheating on her current cuck who has a trust fund by the way. The way that bitch burns through money it won’t take her long to extract all of his resources.

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

She will never hear from me again.

Absolutely perfect, iLearn. Abso – f~~~ing – lutely perfect.

I’ll toast you with a couple fingers of Laphroaig 18 tonight.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[FreedomParticipant 295]

She could have apologized in the email, rather than trying to persuade you to call her by claiming she just wanted to apologize.

If she is having guilt issues, she can talk to a priest. Or a therapist. Don’t be the nice guy to your own detriment. You already know the costs, risks, and benefits of interacting with her…if they don’t stack up in your favor, then just block yet another email address.

It is wise to fear dangerous commitments.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Well done, your experience is similar to what happened with me almost two months ago. Read my post here if you wish:

I said no to sex for the first time

You keep the control by rejecting her. She might try other tricks. Be prepared.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

She will never hear from me again.

Damn right.

However you can expect to hear from her again.

[OldBillParticipant]

sidecar wrote:

However you can expect to hear from her again.

That’s the stone cold truth.

She will make another run at you, iLearn.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

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