So is anyone here NOT against marriage/dating?

[LightBringerParticipant 440]

WE can dispense with the generality that it is usually bad for males, this climate is toxic etc etc. My question is, are any of the guys here STILL ok with dating or perhaps marrying that one special girl? I don’t mean to be too dismissive either, but as much as I have been burned and AWALT, I still would like to think I’d enjoy seriously dating or marrying a girl if I thought it wasn’t going down.

[Anonymous 0]

I’ll make this blunt and quick. In my case yes to dating, but not now idealy. Plans change, life is as fluxuating as the shape of water. As for marrage 99.9% no, I have no interest and too much to lose already but, to say it is impossible makes no logical sense to me. Not against it, just do not prefer it for my own way as it goes now.

[TuneoutParticipant]

No and no–unless it’s ‘dating by the hour’.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Anonymous 1]

If she murdered me, kept me propped up and waited for rigor mortis to set in, she could probably have me standing at the altar.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Marriage yes, as for dating that one is fuzzy. I don’t date but I think some of the others do just very cautiously. I think they call that MGTOW level 1 or zero.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

I’m not, just like I’m not against finding a 10 lb nugget of gold.

Haven’t used my shovel for a long time, and its getting rusty anyway.

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[Anonymous 3]

You can do whatever the heck you want, I don’t care.

I only care about me, and I have no interest in these things.

I actually congratulate people and smile when they tell me they’re getting married. Maybe this is why people actually respect me and leave me alone about it for myself.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Anonymous wrote:

You can do whatever the heck you want, I don’t care.

I only care about me, and I have no interest in these things.

Kudos..Spoken like a true MGTOW!

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 16]

No marriage.
No cohabitaré.
99% no dating.

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

If she murdered me, kept me propped up and waited for rigor mortis to set in, she could probably have me standing at the altar.

Ha! Youd look good up there in your tux! Shed be rideing that stiff cold c~~~!

[Anonymous 54]

NEVER GET MARRIED

HEED MY WARNING

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

100% no marriage.

100% no cohabitation.

Possible return to dating sometime in the very distant future, but I’m not about to give up my three and one half year record with no dating. Life is just so much calmer and simpler now, ahhhhh!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

I’m not against marriage or dating in the same way that I’m not against people poking out their eyes with a blunt stick. Just so long as they go at it with both eyes open to what’s coming.

It’s an incredibly stupid thing to do, with no real benefit and long term consequences, but it that’s you thing, the go for it.

But it’s not for me.

That being said, I am against all the lies we keep being fed promoting marriage.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6413]

I see the definition of GYOW as following your own path. Not my path, yours. This means that if I choose to ghost and live a strict monk mode existence, don’t necessarily do as I do but do what’s right for you.
I don’t care to date and have no prospects. Many guys can and do and probably have a blast. I’m just not interested in socializing enough to initiate or follow through with the dating thing. I also must admit that I like the quiet life without any contact that dating would require. I guess to be totally honest, I also have to say that it scares me somewhat to have any relationship that could possibly come back to haunt me or bite me financially.
I totally respect those who can do this. Monk mode isn’t for everyone, but I enjoy it and don’t foresee changing.

[Anonymous 54]

I dont want to hear there voices.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Anonymous wrote:

I dont want to hear there voices.

^^^^^^ BINGO.

[GrumpyParticipant]

How do I word this correctly?

1. I am 100% against marriage.

2. I am 100% against cohabitation.

3. I don’t understand what “modern” dating is anymore, outside of an expiry date/time of my interest in a huge majority of women and their issues/drama. – I think that makes me against dating.

3. Casual meetings explicitly for sex I am OK with, as long as I’m the only one playing in her sandbox, and that’s about as far as I am willing to go. – I guess that makes me a serial monogamist.

4. I am dead set against being held responsible for the emotional, sociological, financial, physical, mental, and general well being of any woman at my expense. Outside of the sexual arena that is. – I suppose that makes me an asshole. IDGAF

5. I refuse to put my complete well-being at risk in any type of relationship where my resources can be stripped from me on the whim of a woman and her thug (the Government)- If that makes me selfish, so be it.

6. I do NOT waste my time, money, or efforts chasing pussy, if it is offered to me freely, I may partake if I find it desirable. If not, well there’s no sweat off my ass. -I’m pretty sure that rules me out as a PUA

Hmmm.
Based on what I wrote, that would put me squarely in the camp of the opposite demographic.

Cheers

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Anonymous 16]

Anonymous wrote:

No marriage.
No cohabitaré.
99% no dating.

I mean for me, i dont give a s~~~ if people date or marry or what ever.
But me? marriage? been there, done that.
Noo ty.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

I’m not opposed to other people doing it.

However, there’s no way that i would marry or live with anybody. I enjoy my own personal space too much to allow somebody else to jepordise it on a whim because their feelz tells them to break up with me.

That said, i think people who raise children should do it in a family unit. It’s just a shame that it’s become ever more difficult for men to exist in that lifestyle.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

For me personally, no marriage.

I’d be open to dating if there was someone I’m really interested in. The ‘problem’ with that is I’m finding less and less women interesting in general, and am not willing to put much time/resources in one. So yeah, effectively not dating either.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

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