Slowly Losing Him

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

When I gave my life update last time I was on here, my main topic was my best friend of 16 years.

I know I should let him do his own thing and let him experience his own failures. I technically owe him no money, anything he gave me was because I was his “best friend” (from his own words), and I’ve paid for things for him quite a bit lately as kind gestures. Favors for favors. That kind of thing.

Well, my internet is completely cut off now, and so I have to rely on another friend’s laptop and internet until I return to work on Monday.

The day before he told me that I “owed” him $400 from the times he’s helped me, he had posted a picture on that waste of time called Facebook of himself and his girlfriend at a VERY expensive steak restaurant, and said “happy anniversary!” Funny that, he didn’t actually start dating her until about February this month. He was just “sleeping with her” before then. I guess sleeping with someone = dating them now?

The same day he changed the password to his internet so I couldn’t access it (just two days ago), he posted ANOTHER thing up. It was about something like “right now, there is a man in Japan enjoying [enter activities here]. One day soon, that will be [his girlfriend’s name] and I.”

I guess his decision is to move with her to Japan.

It’s taking a LOT in me not to say anything, but I’m letting him do as he chooses. I’m letting him go HIS own way. He’s been exposed to the MGTOW philosophy. He was earlier this year and watched a LOT of videos with me and agreed with every bit of them. I thought I actually had a legitimate fellow MGTOW-in-construction that I knew in person. Yet, at the same time, he’s drawn to the power of his female. He’s told me time and again that he doesn’t think it will work out with her at all. Then, the next day, he’s all over her worshiping her feet. I feel so powerless about this, and THAT’s why I’ve backed off. I shouldn’t be making myself so emotionally distraught over this. I have my own life to worry about.

The old me would be fighting tooth and nail to get him back to the light. But I’ve found the logic I’ve fed him has done nothing. He’s going to move to Japan with her and they’re going to continue to fight as they have been. I’d hate to see what will happen if he MARRIES her.

[RoyDalParticipant]

He will come back to the light, or he won’t. It is totally up to him. It seems to me that he has cut the ties that bind you two. Let him go.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

I’ve often wondered the same, man. I did kind of like you, dropping hints about MGTOW, showing some videos around, that sort of thing. MGTOW happens for some after they are burnt, and it’s too late. You’ve gotta let him choose. It sucks, and I’ve seen some of my best friends fall for it. All I can do is sit and wait for them to come on back, and they might remain hopelessly blue pill forever. Hey, that’s life I guess.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[AttonParticipant]

Write him a letter with your views and concerns, put your mind at ease. If his relationship goes to the s~~~ you can say you warned him and you can have the comfort of knowing that you tried to help.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[UntamedParticipant]

So your “friend” decided to leave you behind for some stinky t~~~, after you showed and explained to him what the deal was with weemins, relations~~~s and the marriage plantation…
Never underestimate the influence that pussy has on men. It’s Kiptonite to the Blue-Pill deluded poor saps who only see smoke and mirrors when the t~~~s sink their claws in and that’s why I think the concepts of MGTOW are best understood by most men after they’ve had their hard-earned cash, properties and children ripped from them by unscrupulous t~~~s and the inJustice System.
You say they already fight and haven’t even yet been living as a couple but he’s moving to Japan with her?! I guess the Herbivore Men might soon have a new member. That’s if your friend ever realises how manipulated he is and he might find it the hard way.
As for you, Megachris, you did what you could do, the rest is up to him. You gave him all he needed to make serious decisions regarding his relations~~~.
I suggest you find yourself another friend and quit bothering Aladdin and his Jasmine. I’m sure you have better things to do than waste your time on him.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[Anonymous 42]

Hey Governor, “He’s” acting like “her”. We see the way estrogen seeps in better than WD-40 into rust! To him it’s all just the same, he doesn’t see himself becoming her “bitch”. I run like a muthfucca whenever I see the WD-40 staining a man’s sole!
Just get on with “your’ life, his is over……..

[VettenParticipant 110]

Write a letter to him as expressed above and be truthful. Pay the money back he ‘thinks’ you owe him. Let him be on his way with his new love.

After she has decimated his emotions, overworked his utility and exhausted his resources you can be there for him when he returns, you won’t have to say I told you so because he will have lived it and understand the error of his way.

Right now he is blinded and is unable to recognize the obvious, don’t take it personal even though it is personal.

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