Single Mom Refuses to Settle

[CaregiverParticipant 101]

Dating Is Harder Than It Looks When You’re A Millennial Mom

I love my daughter more than anything in the world, but I have found that being a mom during this era has been more difficult than I thought it would be.

You’d think that having a child during this time would be easier. “Oh everyone understands what it’s like to be a single mother nowadays.” That would be great if it was true.

The honest, raw truth is that no one really understands it, because everyone has different situations, everyone has different things going on in their lives.

Lets begin with the dreaded idea of dating as a single mom in the “millennial” time. Don’t get me wrong, having social media at our fingertips has made it much easier to meet people, chat, etc… but at the same time, people now think that if you don’t answer them within a few minutes you are ignoring them or aren’t interested.

All of that is still a mystery I am trying to figure out. For one, not only does it seem like men my age don’t understand what a real date is, they just expect me to drop everything and anything for them to go on this “date.”

Also, men don’t even know what a real date is anymore! No, I do not want to go out to a bar and get hammered with you. How about a nice dinner and some chit-chatting, and you take me home, not expecting to get in my bed after the first date? Now that sounds like a good time to me.

However, it’s never like that, nope. I’m not sure how other single moms are doing, but for me it seems like there is never a guy around that understands that I have responsibilities, and those outweigh the importance of staying out until the bar closes while having drink after drink with a guy I just met that night.

In the end, all I want, and probably any other single mother wants, is the best for their child, and for myself as well.

In the end though, I realized I am not the problem at all, I am perfectly fine the way I am, and there is nothing wrong having high expectations for my daughter and I.

So if there are any other woman out there, single moms or not, just know you don’t have to settle for just anyone or anything. You control your happiness, and no one else is going to make you feel happier than yourself.

This woman is delusional. She expects a man to be third place in her life (first place is her daughter, second place her own happiness, third place the simp). She never explained in her article why she is a single mother. Maybe she cheated on her boyfriend, or maybe she thought she could do better (hypergamy at its best). I hope no man falls into her trap.

[OldBillParticipant]

Duplicate. Please see:

Dating Is Harder Than It Looks When You’re A Millennial Mom (LOL)

Last post was three minutes ago.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Lee22Participant 126]

There’s a lot of that where I’m from this city is crowded with single moms who refuse to settle but they don’t realize nobody want used goods.. Now that I’m going my own way I get all this attention lurkers waiting to make a move, but they don’t stand a chance! Lol

[AttonParticipant]

I love my daughter more than anything in the world, but I have found that being a mom during this era has been more difficult than I thought it would be.

Less women and child die or suffer permanent disability now than ever nuff said.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[OldBillParticipant]

Uh, guys? This is a duplicate thread. You can use the link i posted to get to the first one. Okay?

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Hahahaha

F~~~ you bitch.

Hahahaha

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 11]

Carnage wrote:

Hahahaha

F~~~ you bitch.

Hahahaha

That’s what her Chad said too.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

No offense to @caregiver and thank you for bringing it! The thread is closed to new replies so we don’t have too many repeats.

Otherwise….

Caregiver wrote:

This woman is delusional. She expects a man to be third place in her life

That’s not even the prime reason why single moms are bad news, and they just don’t seem to get it. Well, they DO, when you dig a little deeper . . . .

/audio/leykis-stumps-a-single-mother/

Men don’t even know what a real date is anymore! No, I do not want to go out to a bar and get hammered with you. How about a nice dinner and some chit-chatting, and you take me home, not expecting to get in my bed after the first date? Now that sounds like a good time to me.

OK, honey.

Yeah how about it. How about you make a nice lasagna and invite a man over for dinner that you prepared – and have a little chit chat at your home. AND you get to be there in case little Suzie needs mommy. Wouldn’t that be a nice date?

Since the child is “the most important person in your life”, why would you leave it and go elsewhere to eat when you can make dinner at home and save the cost of a sitter? Either the child is “the most important person” in her life – or it’s not.

You won’t need to constantly glance at your smartphone either, or get up between courses and “check in” while he twiddles his thumbs.

That would be more consistent with her singing about “responsibilities” and “wanting the best for your child”.

So if there are any other woman out there, single moms or not, just know you don’t have to settle for just anyone or anything

Just know a man doesn’t have to “settle” for being the wallet that wines and dines you.

Dating Is Harder Than It Looks When You’re A Millennial Mom

They talk like “dating” is a sport. When “dating” (in her mind) consists of being chauffeured , wined and dined . . . . . how is that “HARD WORK”?? Surely she’s not imply showing up on time and ordering off a menu is “hard work”.

Would love to know what part of “dating” is hard work.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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