Should I?

[IndependentlyFreeParticipant 108]

wanna send this email to my boss, not sure if i should though….i could just let it slide like water off a ducks back.

“I am not okay with the way you presented a lack of packets being done on my part. I feel like you are showing a prejudice against me personally, and attacking me like that publicly is not okay. If you would like to talk about my packets, we can do so privately. However, I expect to be treated like an equal. There are many things you are choosing to not address about our working conditions. If rules are applied to me, they must be applied to everyone equally, which is not the case currently. Also, I had duties that may take me away from my desk, namely the need for me at the window. I consistently put out just as much work as others, and I would appreciate it if you treated me like an adult, instead of sneaking around the corner to look at my computer. ”

its only a problem to me cause its me being targeted.

Don't be a slave. Be yourself.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Emails and texts are for women. Go talk to your boss in person.

[MonkParticipant 17000]

If you want to have it out with this character, then as Nero says, it’s best done in person behind closed doors.

That said, be careful that you don’t start something that you can’t finish.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Agreed. Confrontation in an email usually doesn’t go well. Besides, you don’t have the context of tone of voice, body language, etc. If you have a real beef, give the boss the benefit of the doubt once and just tell him your perspective of what you see and ask if you are correct.

Order the good wine

[IndependentlyFreeParticipant 108]

emailing- so its documented. boss is female, and sexist. i am not welcome where i work (looking for new job), didnt want to be walked on top of.

Don't be a slave. Be yourself.

[Anonymous 3]

I recommend reading this book first:

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Your Boss is a Woman and a Sexist.

Just what do you think that YOU WILL ACCOMPLISH by approaching her either through e-mail or in Person ????

You are ONLY CAUSING MORE PROBLEMS FOR YOURSELF.

YOU CAN NOT WIN.

Ghost as much as you can, and get a NEW JOB.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[It’sallbsParticipant]

IndependentlyFree wrote:

wanna send this email to my boss, not sure if i should though….i could just let it slide like water off a ducks back.

“I am not okay with the way you presented a lack of packets being done on my part. I feel like you are showing a prejudice against me personally, and attacking me like that publicly is not okay. If you would like to talk about my packets, we can do so privately. However, I expect to be treated like an equal. There are many things you are choosing to not address about our working conditions. If rules are applied to me, they must be applied to everyone equally, which is not the case currently. Also, I had duties that may take me away from my desk, namely the need for me at the window. I consistently put out just as much work as others, and I would appreciate it if you treated me like an adult, instead of sneaking around the corner to look at my computer. ”

its only a problem to me cause its me being targeted.

Firstly I understand your frustration and feeling of injustice.
However there is nothing to be gained form sending that email as it will not change anything.

Your best option is to put up with the place as long as you can until you can find another job for cash coming in whilst you are training to get a trade or looking for a trade apprentice ship or whatever you decide you want to do.

If it reaches the point where you just can’t take it any more and you decide to walk do it it very calmly with a resignation emal/letter that just says you are resigning and nothing else, no reason, no emotive language.

Trust me mate I’m telling you right-I’ve worked in just about every s~~~hole job, boiler room s~~~ fest nasty a hole boss there is in the UK pal.

As a general rule of thumb if you are questioning whether you should send an email don’t send it.

If the bosses gave a s~~~ about what you or nay of the other employees though then conditions would not be as they are.

It may sometimes feel like you are the only one taking this s~~~ form them but trust me you won’t be other sin that office will be as well.

Do you mind me asking, is it a sweat shop type place that basically con sit’s customers/

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Don’t send the e-mail. As a good rule of thumb “You will never win an argument with your boss”.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

IndependentlyFree wrote:

didnt want to be walked on top of.

I hear you but from what little I know about your situation it’s not a battle worth fighting.

Unfortunately in the corporate world you have to let a lot go as you climb the greasy people and you have to bite your tongue like mad.

To survive in any office job at any level you have to be a consumate politician and whils’t it’s true not all office are as toxic as this one sounds most are to some degree.

But like you said before yo don’t have to work in an office there are other options treat you roffice job as a stepping stone.

You send that email and I guarantee you you will be out of a ob by the end of the day.

Don’t send it you leave on your terms when you want to leave.

I’m sure you already know this but HR are there to protect the bosses not the employees.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[MACHOParticipant]

IndependentlyFree wrote:

However, I expect to be treated like an equal

A Boss rarely treats you as an equal, and women have stopped respecting their men over 50 yrs ago. They all have turned into narcissistic idiots.. WHAT do you expect?

IndependentlyFree wrote:

and attacking me like that publicly is not okay

Totally disrespectful!

IndependentlyFree wrote:

treated me like an adult, instead of sneaking around the corner to look at my computer

Typical of today’s females who treat all men as if they were toddlers that need to be spanked!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Say it forget it. Write it regret it.

Do not send that email.

[ZerenityParticipant 500]

Actions speak louder than words do.

Resign when you can. Don’t fight a women with logic. They don’t use that.

And finally!

Run to the hills!
(After you have another job of course)

God grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change: Courage to change the things I can: And Wisdom to know the difference. -Reinhold Niebuhr 1951

[Anonymous 11]

Land your next job and leave. Until then, eat it.

[Anonymous 54]

What do you think her reaction will be.

[GregB0Participant]

Never send an email as you never know where it might wind up. Conversations you can control and limit, but emails go wherever they are sent.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

IndependentlyFree wrote:

emailing- so its documented. boss is female, and sexist. i am not welcome where i work (looking for new job), didnt want to be walked on top of.

It’s good to write it out and get it off your chest mate, but don’t send it.

Go in, do your job, GO HOME.

Act like EVERYTHING IS FINE until the day you hand in your notice.

IndependentlyFree wrote:

boss is female, and sexist

If this is the case, it’s a lost cause anyway.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[It’sallbsParticipant]

MarketWatcher wrote:

Say it forget it. Write it regret it.

I like that you should have been a fcuking poet.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

It’sallbs wrote:

Market~~~cher wrote:

Say it forget it. Write it regret it.

I like that you should have been a fcuking poet.

Thank you Sir.

[IndependentlyFreeParticipant 108]

how do you quote someone, but then make your input not part of the quote?

Don't be a slave. Be yourself.

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