Should I tell a married friend about MGTOW?

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

A guy who was a very good friend has been married for a few years and is now a cuck – his life is REALLY NONE OF MY BUSINESS yet I still wonder sometimes if I should tell him about MGTOW and what could happen if he ever is confronted with divorce.

I have also read the similar thread here I guess I wonder is there a way to warn him without actually sticking my nose in HIS BUSINESS/ or inadvertently rocking the boat of HIS MARRIAGE or should I say simply say nothing at all. Thank you very much for any MGTOW insight/suggestion on this.

More info if needed:

This guy was a very good friend to me over the years before he got married. He is married with a kid a few years and his wife completely ‘wears the trousers’ – runs the show. Since marriage he has turned into a pathetic controlled mangina cuck jumping to her tune yet seemingly happy enough to continue in that mode (he probably sees no other choice) – he is the type of guy who will put up with s~~~ forever before finally bursting. I have largely detached myself from him and them the past few years – I realised I will likely see very little of this guy in my life so I have logically moved on – yet he has been a very good mate in the past so I wonder should I warn him about what could happen if he ever gets divorced and tell him about MGTOW.

Maybe I am wrong but I currently cant picture this guy living life as a single MGTOW man or to be the boss in his marriage – his wife is a step ahead of him with tactics etc.

His wife was fun, pleasant and likeable before he got married but since they got married she has put on a load of weight and is now your basic bitch using shaming tactics, complaining and causing needless drama etc to get him to do what she wants.

I will meet him soon for the first time in a long time without his wife him in tow. She had made sure she was ‘always’ there whenever we met in recent years.

I am tempted to tell him about mgtow.com. In this way he would become more aware of what could happen if they ever get divorced.

BUT OF COURSE HIS marriage is NOT my business so from that point of view I should say nothing. I do not want to inadvertently rock the boat of his marriage – who knows maybe he is happy the way things are. If his marriage goes wrong I could be blamed as the one who broke them up.

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[Anonymous 13]

Place a MGTOW.com printed business card in his hand.

Look him in the eye and say quietly,

“you will need this someday, don’t forget”

Pique his curiosity but no more.

It’s all you can do.

He’s deep in the Matrix just now and not ready to be unplugged.

Also, let him KNOW you’re there, whatever happens.

It’s not if,

but WHEN.

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

Too late, tell him to start hiding some cash, maybe he can save a few grand for when she decides to throw him away. He will need the cash to survive.

Get a vasectomy.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Not your business but make him know that you have his back when s~~~ happens as Matrix suggested…Some guys are not ready to be unplugged from the plantation…

Its a delicate situation and you, yes, you can ultimately be twisted as the cause of the divorce or turmoil for your friends life in his eyes…Just set an example of how good your life is and your buddy will naturally search that freedom and control in life again…Good luck…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Admiral CrunchParticipant 776]

send an anonymous email with MGTOW in the subject line. Plant the seed and let it grow from there.

Women do not love men. Women only love what men can provide.

[Diamond DogParticipant 142]

Christopher wrote:

Since marriage he has turned into a pathetic controlled mangina cuck jumping to her tune yet seemingly happy enough to continue in that mode (he probably sees no other choice) – he is the type of guy who will put up with s~~~ forever before finally bursting.

At this point in my opinion he is too far gone. If he’s happy being led on the leash of marriage, he will not think straight until they divorce. Even after that he might marry again. If you feel that you should tell him about Mgtow wait until they divorce. It is only when s~~~ hits the fan that people are open to change both good or bad. There is a quote of a TV show Legend of Korea that summarizes my point perfectly. “When we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change.”

Don't be a "provider" unless you are providing for yourself.

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

F~~~, just lost a whole long post because I got logged out. This version will be more brief.

Part of me wants to save these blue pilled simps from disaster, but the other part of me realizes that it’s likely a waste of time.

Remember… in his eyes: She is cupcake. She is special. She isn’t like other women. She loves him unconditionally and forever.

He will defend her like a good white knight. Your “attacks” will likely be seen as “jealousy” because you “haven’t found someone so wonderful yet”.

He is a part of the system and, therefore, dangerous. He is practically the enemy, and will be, if cupcake wants him to be. Keep your distance. When he’s ready for the red pill, you’ll know it.

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[DocParticipant]

I don’t know if what I’m about to say is relevant but..

I have an old wooden drawing board that me and two of my brothers have periodically written on over the last 30 years.

One of my brothers came over at the weekend.

He said he was gonna sign the board again. I didn’t pay much attention. When I looked at the board a few days after he had written

‘I want your life’

He is married with a daughter and cucked.
He has already said he envies the freedom I have.. not having to answer to anyone.

I found it interesting.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

Thanks very much indeed for the great comments/advice. This has given me much better perspective on the situation. I’ll be away all day so all for now. Cheers your perspective has really helped.

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[Anonymous 9]

TheSpice wrote:

He will defend her like a good white knight. Your “attacks” will likely be seen as “jealousy” because you “haven’t found someone so wonderful yet”.

That’s the most likely scenario. It’s something that is easily believable by everyone, because so many blue bill men express jealousy in their behavior.

And they assume all men think the same way.

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

No, it’s already too late for him. Tell him after he’s divorced so he doesn’t repeat his mistake.

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

Anonymous wrote:

He’s deep in the Matrix just now and not ready to be unplugged.
Also, let him KNOW you’re there, whatever happens.

Cheers Matrix. I like this letting him know Im there whatever happens.

Oldschool wrote:

Too late, tell him to start hiding some cash

Cheers Oldschool. Makes sense.

NerdTunneler wrote:

Not your business but make him know that you have his back when s~~~ happens as Matrix suggested……Just set an example of how good your life is and your buddy will naturally search that freedom and control in life again

Cheers Nerdtunneler. This really rings true.

Admiral Crunch wrote:

send an anonymous email with MGTOW in the subject line. Plant the seed and let it grow from there.

Cheers Admiral. Awesome idea.

Diamond Dog wrote:

If you feel that you should tell him about Mgtow wait until they divorce

Cheers 16BitRagnar. Noted.

TheSpice wrote:

He is a part of the system and, therefore, dangerous. He is practically the enemy, and will be, if cupcake wants him to be. Keep your distance. When he’s ready for the red pill, you’ll know it.

Cheers TheSpice. Noted !

Doc wrote:

When I looked at the board a few days after he had written
‘I want your life’

Cheers Doc. That is interesting! One of my family said to me a while back in a insulting way after I had been away cycling ‘God – you have a great life’ – as if there is something wrong with me having a great life – we were not put on this Earth to have s~~~ lifes I should have said back. This concept of not having to answer to anyone is v important to me also.

The married mate said to me a while back “enjoy your freedom”. My MGTOW life had been more and more SOLID since I joined MGTOW.com – I gained a new kind of confidence I never had before and sense of calm. (Although things went very bad health wise the past 2 months (long story) I think I will recover my health again and more MGTOW confidence. As you and others have mentioned leading our own lifes as MGTOW nfg is an example other men and maybe my mate will take note of.
Cheers.

Anonymous wrote:

He will defend her like a good white knight your attacks will been seen as jealousy..That’s the most likely scenario. It’s something that is easily believable by everyone, because so many blue bill men express jealousy in their behavior.
And they assume all men think the same way.

Cheers Kristianr. Interesting angle and definitely possible. I have seen my Dad behave like this when I asked him once why he puts up with s~~~ from my Mom.

I was in the city today and wrote MGTOW.com in big letters marker pen in the Mens at my location in a large building. First time in my life I ever did anything like that. I must be turning into a vandal in my forties. I couldnt resist 😉

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