Should Have Listened to My Gut

[Anonymous 3]

Magpul wrote:

She was married at 19 and divorced at 20

Big red flag!

Magpul wrote:

She became short tempered and little things would start to set her off. Things like me giving her crap for not being able to get things straight when she hangs them. Or when I wouldn’t answer the phone with “hey baby”, or say “I love you” at the end of the call. It’s like she would completely change and go into this weird mode where all of a sudden I was like an employee of hers that she was scolding, or a mother getting onto a child. She also seemed to have no interest in my personal history or the things that I liked doing.

My ex was exactly like that, too.

Keymaster wrote:

Threats and ultimatums i.e “propose by Christmas or it’s over”.

There is a saying on how to react on that ultimatums: “I don’t negotiate with terrorists!”

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

Anonymous wrote:

If you want to make sure that she never comes back write her a very heartfelt letter that a mangijna would write.

Use phrases like she is the air you breathe, and without her your life ceases to have any meaning.

You want to give an impression that you are an utter spineless cuck.

This is to ensure that she will never come back to you. And if she does she has exhausted all her other options.

LOL I always love this advice.

“You’re the centre of my universe” and “I’d do anything for you” are my personal favourites.

[Anonymous 6]

Hey It’s good that you’re here. Something that I’d like to highlight from your story is that women use sex as a loss leader.

A loss leader is a retail term. The store, let’s say a grocery store, decides to mark toilet paper way down. So much so that they know that they’ll lose a few cents with every unit sold. That being said the store knows that most people, once in the store and with the marked down toilet paper in hand, will most likely start picking up other items while they are there. “Oh yeah, I need milk…and toothpaste too!” These are the things that people will say. Also the store will then pick another commonly purchased item and then raise the price a little, coffee is a common one, to offset the loss on the toilet paper.

Now apply this to women. They want your resources and for you to sign that contract and/or knock them up. They know that men have a sex drive and enjoy seeing naked women. So they will provide that at an extraordinarily low price, practically free. All in order to get you hooked, i.e. into the store. Meanwhile she’ll start moving in on your turf. Bringing crap over to your house and leaving it there, etc. Then she’ll pull the “no more sex until marriage” crap. Or when she’s moved in she reduces the screwing.

These are just my observations and it seemed liked the chick that you hooked up with was pulling the same crap. In essence, trying to f~~~ you into a commitment.

Take all of this for what it’s worth.

[Anonymous 18]

Great analogy @travis.

Thugs and bad boyz must be shopliftin’ all these years lol.

[Y_Participant 4591]

Here you go

[Anonymous 6]

Anonymous wrote:

Great analogy @travis.

Thugs and bad boyz must be shopliftin’ all these years lol.

Actually you’re not far off the mark. Grocery stores absolutely hate it when people come in for just the loss leader and then leave. I used the toilet paper as an example. Someone could come in and use a coupon for the already on sale toilet paper and then they’ve really done the deal. But it takes foresight, it takes knowing the game and exploiting it to do that. Extreme couponing is a great example.

So to bring this full circle, MGTOW is the person with foresight. Do I want to play this game or not? What’s in it for me? Do I keep my money or not? Do I really need this or not? That’s where my example ultimately leads and that’s what I want for the OP to take away, other than welcome of course!!!

[MagpulParticipant 59]

Thanks all. I have been searching the topic of mental health disorders and there is no question in my mind this girl suffers from BPD. The eating disorder, mother abandonment, anxiety, depression, mood swings. This is a serious condition that had led men who fall into the web of these women to PTSD, depression, anxiety, and suicide.

While the affection and attention was nice, now my mindset is shifting to s~~~, I think I dodged a bullet.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Magpul wrote:

While the affection and attention was nice, now my mindset is shifting to s~~~, I think I dodged a bullet.

Not a bullet THE speeding bullet.

[LightsOnParticipant 22]

Magpul wrote:

Thanks all. I have been searching the topic of mental health disorders and there is no question in my mind this girl suffers from BPD. The eating disorder, mother abandonment, anxiety, depression, mood swings. This is a serious condition that had led men who fall into the web of these women to PTSD, depression, anxiety, and suicide.

While the affection and attention was nice, now my mindset is shifting to s~~~, I think I dodged a bullet.

I dodged the same bullet. No marriage, no kid. But she f~~~ed me up real good and put me through the ringer. PTSD is a pretty accurate description and I don’t use that term lightly. Just reading your story I felt my blood start to boil and had to back off. I’m so glad you made it out alive and sane. Welcome

[MagpulParticipant 59]

MarketWatcher wrote:

Magpul wrote:

While the affection and attention was nice, now my mindset is shifting to s~~~, I think I dodged a bullet.

Not a bullet THE speeding bullet.

Certainly seems that way.

LightsOn wrote:

Magpul wrote:

Thanks all. I have been searching the topic of mental health disorders and there is no question in my mind this girl suffers from BPD. The eating disorder, mother abandonment, anxiety, depression, mood swings. This is a serious condition that had led men who fall into the web of these women to PTSD, depression, anxiety, and suicide.

While the affection and attention was nice, now my mindset is shifting to s~~~, I think I dodged a bullet.

I dodged the same bullet. No marriage, no kid. But she f~~~ed me up real good and put me through the ringer. PTSD is a pretty accurate description and I don’t use that term lightly. Just reading your story I felt my blood start to boil and had to back off. I’m so glad you made it out alive and sane. Welcome

Thanks man. You know what its like then. I’m p~~~ed at myself more than anything that I let this happen despite knowing exactly what was going to become of this. I knew it from the very beginning and I did it anyway.

[ghostParticipant]

Magpul wrote:

I should have listened to my gut.

You did. Your gut wasn’t as experienced then. You cannot fault yourself. Your gut also brought you here. Your wisdom will continue to increase and you will achieve higher and higher levels of success. No pain, no gain. Stay strong brother.

[.50calParticipant 62]

You should become a highschool teacher and just teach this one lesson…pure gold. You could probably turn this into a college course but the only problem is that most people that need to learn this lesson don’t know it until its too late.

So then, he who marries the virgin does well, but he who does not marry her does even better. 1 Corinthians 7:38

[MagpulParticipant 59]

ghost wrote:

Magpul wrote:

I should have listened to my gut.

You did. Your gut wasn’t as experienced then. You cannot fault yourself. Your gut also brought you here. Your wisdom will continue to increase and you will achieve higher and higher levels of success. No pain, no gain. Stay strong brother.

.50cal wrote:

You should become a highschool teacher and just teach this one lesson…pure gold. You could probably turn this into a college course but the only problem is that most people that need to learn this lesson don’t know it until its too late.

Thanks guys. Thankfully I’m pretty much 100% recovered from the experience. Thankfully it didn’t last long or it could have had a bigger effect on me, I think she realized she couldn’t control me and bailed. Nothing of value was lost.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

The Batman 2020 wrote:

xlrsnbrg wrote:

Wondering if you’re dating my ex?

30 here too, and I have the same question! AWALT!

What’s up my Eskimo brothers?

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

I was waiting for some horrible ending but then i got escape from Alcatraz. Bulled dodged. Welcome.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[CurmudgeonParticipant 64]

Magpul wrote:

Anyways, we got into it one night

Hi Magpul!
You’ve learned a valuable lesson on crazy demanding whores. Marriage involves a legal contract probably resulting in multiple “we got into it one night” events. Read the stories of the many guys here and avoid some of the misery experienced by others. Continue to listen to your gut…Grace and Peace

Proverbs 21:191599 Geneva Bible (GNV)
19 It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and angry woman.

No Bills No Boss No Bitch

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