She tested me, she failed!

[Dr. HammerParticipant 70]

I have an ex that texts me every 4-6 months, just “to keep in contact”. I usually reply a few times out of boredom and because she goes away after a few hours. Today, she texted me, but made the mistake of saying, “I just need to know that you’re there”. I figured it was time to slap her down. I texted back, “I’m always here I’m just not here for you. You can’t treat people like trash and expect them to care.” She replied, “Wow you took that wrong. Can’t we just be friends?” My response, “Yeah, right. Let’s do that because it works so well.” She gave up. “I get your point. Take care.”
She’s insane, so I know she’ll text me again in a few months, which will give me another chance to slap her down.

"Once you start focusing on moving towards something positive instead of away from something negative, you can truly begin to live."

[JVBParticipant]

Block her number. She will get the message once an for all. Your final slap down.

Peace is > piece.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Pardon me, but this is too easy.
No offense meant by this – OKAY? – but she tested and you failed . . . .

Dr. Hammer wrote:

Today, she texted me, but made the mistake of saying, “I just need to know that you’re there”. I figured it was time to slap her down

No. THAT ^ is your cue to not respond – at all.

No response IS a response.

Dr. Hammer wrote:

“I’m always here I’m just not here for you. You can’t treat people like trash and expect them to care.”

Saying that is too much caring right there.
You don’t need to say it.

Dr. Hammer wrote:

“Wow you took that wrong. Can’t we just be friends?”

You could have avoided that 100% with no response altogether.
Don’t even permit her to go there.

“JUST” is the key word in that phrase.
“Just friends” is a lower status in her mind.
It’s not even a lateral move.

Dr. Hammer wrote:

I know she’ll text me again in a few months, which will give me another chance to slap her down.

“Slap” her harder and don’t be there because she needs™ you to be.

IT HURTS WORSE.

Bruises heal. But abandonment issues are forever.

From now on, you do not exist and you will not be there for her. The fact that she “needs” to know you’ll be there, is the first best reason not to be. Do not let this bitch live in your head rent free. Your time attention is not free.

You satisfied her. You gave her a good reason to disrespect you. I know it’s counter-intuitive but she will drive herself insane when there is no response from you at all. That’s how you show her you don’t care. Make up your mind that there will be no contact under any circumstances…. and you will never cave. You will feel like a million bucks – after taxes.

Don’t you ever pick up that phone again when she calls or texts. You’re Mr. Cellophane now.
Handshake on that.

Think about it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

Next time, go full beta and say “You know I’m always here for you, I still love you” and send her a bunch of flowers.

Guaranteed she’ll p~~~ off and never contact you again.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

black_knight wrote:

Next time, go full beta and say “You know I’m always here for you, I still love you” and send her a bunch of flowers.

Guaranteed she’ll p~~~ off and never contact you again.

That’s a valid point too. You can make her want to be sick at the very thought of you. Disgust her. Get on your knees and beg. Tell her she’s the reason you breathe and she’s the most beautiful woman in the whole wide world! Women HATE that s~~~.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

This is what I refer to as a c~~~ “Culling” her potential orbitors.

[Dr. HammerParticipant 70]

JVB wrote:

Block her number. She will get the message once an for all. Your final slap down.

My cell contract is up soon, so I’m gonna switch carriers and get a new number.

black_knight wrote:

Next time, go full beta and say “You know I’m always here for you, I still love you” and send her a bunch of flowers.

That’s a hilarious idea!

Nero wrote:

This is what I refer to as a c~~~ “Culling” her potential orbitors.

She can keep on culling.

"Once you start focusing on moving towards something positive instead of away from something negative, you can truly begin to live."

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

I remember when my ex asked me that, “can we be friends”

Let’s me translate that
What she really is saying is can I be your part time cumdumpster that f~~~s other guys on the side, and I want you to be ok with it, you know, because I’m so special.

Women and men being friends is an illusion. It seems good at first glance, but once you think about it, and analyze it, you realize that you are being duped by a mirage. It only ends up in disappointment.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Your “Slapdown” provided the lil HO with a lil bit o drama !!

Remember, often times HO’S do not interpret what you’re saying the same way that you intended it.

The HO’S Hamster Wheels is Illogical and driven by Emotion.

She probably left that whole thing with the thought that he must really STILL “Love” me to be so bitter after all this time ???

Boy, I really got him GOOD !!

Personally, I would have done one of the two below.

1. Delete the message or,

2. Respond in about a week, saying something like, ” I kinda forgot about your text because I have been busy working, beaching, working on the car, riding my bike, and hangin with buddies ETC. (or anything similar that states that life is GREAT without her) Hope everything is going GREAT for you too. BYE” –Keep it SHORT and FOCUSED on YOU

If she responds, and your bored MAYBE play with her, but wait over a week, and send another similar type text.

It basically says to her that you have MOVED on and that you are having to much FUN to even text her, LIFE IS GREAT WITHOUT HER, and there is no time or desire on your part to even keep in touch.

NO emotion, NO Drama, No Hard Feelings, JUST YOUR LIFE IS GREAT WITHOUT HER.

Living WELL is the ULTIMATE Way to Slap Down A HO !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Keymaster wrote:

From now on, you do not exist and you will not be there for her. The fact that she “needs” to know you’ll be there, is the first best reason not to be. Do not let this bitch live in your head rent free. Your time attention is not free.

Damn KM that is a great way to look at it. I have this redhead girl snapchatting me after she wanted to be “just” friends. I just refuse to even respond to her. I’m literally embracing the NFG attitude. Women are just impossible to deal with. I’ll be too busy making money, and investing to give any f~~~s about them! 🙂

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10909]

black_knight wrote:

Next time, go full beta and say “You know I’m always here for you, I still love you” and send her a bunch of flowers.

Guaranteed she’ll p~~~ off and never contact you again.

Not a bad idea but why spend the money on the worthless bitch when the silence will work just as well and is cheaper?

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

Reply back next time like she’s another c~~~. Hey “new c~~~”, I enjoyed being b~~~~ deep in you the other day. I would talk but I’m busy. Later.

When she lights up your phone a few times, let her know you thought she was the new c~~~ and tell her not to contact you again.
See how that goes

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[OdinParticipant 524]

Lmao I’d text hello, then an hour text sorry wrong person

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Women and friends, excuse me, women and resources.

Bad news: Its going Bankrupt!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

I’d also say if you have any other “friends” of the girlular variety get rid of them too, it’s only a matter of time before they try the same thing or something similar.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

Just change your number like you planned. You will both forget about each other soon enough. Don’t allow her back in your life unless you want her there. Any response you make to her is allowing her back in your life.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Odin wrote:

Lmao I’d text hello, then an hour text sorry wrong person

Yes!!

Or…..

“11pm my place bring da movies”.

“LOL!! O-KAY!!!”.

“wrnog chick osrry”.

It’s fun for a laugh, but I stick with no contact. You’re not “there for her”. It takes much more than a demand. She can find some other sucker to call “Justin Case”. If you keep exchanging with her, that’s your name: Justin Case.

“I need to know you’re there for me!”

“Get a puppy for that.”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

I remember when my ex asked me that, “can we be friends”

Let’s me translate that
What she really is saying is can I be your part time cumdumpster that f~~~s other guys on the side, and I want you to be ok with it, you know, because I’m so special.

When I first heard Tom Leykis refer to women as cum dumpsters or as sex as the same thing as taking a p~~~ or having a cheeseburger I thought it was extreme. But it’s very true.
Agree with others here – go NC, block her tel no.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

Also stop worrying about women’s “tests”. If you stop caring you will pass them all and feel disinterested when snowflake gets all excited because you did…

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[narwhalParticipant]

What all these ‘solutions’ have in common is that you don’t let her think you have any positive or negative emotions for her. So absolutely, no contact does that. Making a joke out of it does that.

When asked a direct question, I find a direct logical answer works best.

Why can’t we be friends?
Because you’re a cheater, and I don’t like to associate with people like that. Don’t take it personally.

You don’t even need to mention that she cheated on you.

or simply
Because I don’t want to.

No emotion. You are neither happy or sad from the conversation…just bored.

Ok. Then do it.

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