She got her ring annnnnnd …. he's toast.

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

Not sure whether to laugh at this or what, but I am certain this very true story that I have been observing for about a year and somehow knew how it would end will be of use to anyone reading who is sitting on the fence and not quite swallowed the red pill. Here’s the gist, and please note everything I am saying here is virtually verbatim from her mouth, naturally with a bit of realistic flavor from me …

Girl at work I know and often work with gets engaged to some guy at work whom I don’t really know. She’s in her late 20s – her ass is starting to spread enormously and all her friends are finding husbands after riding the carousel, so she dupes this dude so she is not left out. He’s not loaded but has saved a couple bucks (not much), but she gets him to go blow all that plus go into serious debt for an engagement ring …

And now his dumbf~~~ery comes back to kick him in the ass:
His pile of crap old car breaks down and goes to the scrap heap. He has no money to buy another car now because he stupidly blew it all on her friggin’ ring, and he needs to go into more debt to get a used set of wheels. She is now p~~~ed off at him because he has no cash, already has a mound of student debt (she knew that before they were engaged but needed to feel wanted by someone), and is heading into more for a car and a wedding. She suddenly has no desire to be married to an “indebted loser,” is calling everything off, and is refusing to return the ring.

From everything I have read I doubt he has recourse on the ring. It is effectively legally considered a trade for the agreement to be engaged, which she technically fulfilled for a reasonable time and now can change her mind. He has very little chance of getting it back, and even if he partially could it would be way to late for him financially.

Either way he is f~~~ed … and why? Because he is a braindead dumbs~~~ who believed the lie. Swallow the red pill early and often, gents … if he had he wouldn’t be f~~~ed right now.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[Anonymous 1]

And the quarterback is toast.

[WarratahParticipant 895]

Hey, the man’s dodged a bullet.
Damn fool is deep in debt and that’s even BEFORE he got married!
sigh.

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[Anonymous 18]

He should write this off for the learning curve. And move on. I am sure the next girl will appreciate him for him.

I think how this played out is- she already had some thirsty guy(s) from her c~~~ carousal days and thought it’d be better to try it with someone else.

Most average women have 5x more options than the said average male.

Nature takes it course. National Geographic (OP) was there to capture it.

Thanks for the share.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Moments like these, it’s the universe offering a man the red pill. TAKE IT !

But many don’t.

[Darth TyrannusParticipant 349]

What…a…f~~~ing…IDIOT!! I hate shaming a guy but seriously how could he be that much of an idiot?

[The SavedParticipant 101]

Thanks for the share.

I’ve had two friends and 3 relatives get either engaged or married in the last 12 months.

I’m still ducking and diving like a champ.

Don’t get married!!

"A man's feelings are inconvenient to a woman's needs".

[Anonymous 16]

Dart, thats normal. we are guys… he learned, but is ok, he aint soo bad yet and is young.
Send him this way, make him learn the truth.
Migth the MGTOW grow on him.
hahaha

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

What self centered, backstabbing Lil c~~~, who got him in debt then point the finger at him.

He’ll wake up, eventually.

C~~~s don’t want to get married until her friends are, so they can be excepted in their clique. High school losers.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10922]

It probably doesn’t seem like it to him now but he got off cheap. I don’t know what he paid for the ring but monthly alimony and a big wedding/honeymoon would have easily tripled the ring debt. Add on a house and then tack on a child or two and he’d be in a hole the size of a crater with no chance of being completely out until at least 2045 and that’s if he’s lucky.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Anonymous 54]

Oh that’s sooooo romantic!Rings symbolize loooove!
Puke…..

[~BSParticipant 3266]

dodges a bigger marriage bullet, but an expensive lesson. Assuming outside of the return period, he’ll probably be able to recoup maybe $0.20 on the dollar, if that.

I’m curious as to what female rationale she (or any other woman) has for keeping the ring. Keeping the ring isn’t logical, therefore makes perfect sense to the female mind.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Darth Tyrannus, don’t be too hard on the poor slob, we all got here through hard lessons learned.

This could be the first big red pill he’s ever swallowed or it could be his tenth. The thing is, we all got here when the time was right for each one of us. I think that is the real strength of this site, that the men who arrive on the MGTOW.com doorstep, arrive of their own free will: thirsty and hungry for a new truth, a truth that reflects the reality they are living and not the mainstream version of it.

I hope to see his story in the Introductions some day.

[Anonymous 24]

Ha, he got off easy. Hope he learned a lesson.

[BoarParticipant]

MOWsince95 wrote:

She suddenly has no desire to be married to an “indebted loser,” is calling everything off, and is refusing to return the ring.

That’s it? He got a relatively cheap lesson on whimyn. There is a whole list of men here who paid and continue to pay a s~~~-ton more.

Do your friend a favor: make sure the red pill sticks in his gullet permanently. Now would be a good time for the NAWALT talk….

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3299]

He definitely got off easy, trust me the amount he has lost on a ring is chump change compared to the amount it costs to get divorced. The second hand value of the ring is virtually nothing so not getting it back is not really a big concern. There is no second hand market for diamonds, the whole thing is a scam thought up by the De Beers diamond company.

It is amazing that in this day and age the whole “Alpha F~~~s, Beta Bucks” situation is still a secret to the majority of thirsty blue pill men. Women can still get away with riding the carousel in their 20s, having a low paid admin job, live in rented accomodation, build up massive credit card debt on clothes, holidays and going out safe in the knowledge that some Beta they wouldn’t look at twice in their 20s will bail them out by marrying them.

Men in your 30’s who had no luck with women in your 20’s do not fall for it, it is a trap! Do not buy the “I had to date assholes to realise what I really wanted” bulls~~~. They had a massive party in their 20s, gave the sex away for free to Alphas yet you are expected to pay full retail for that used up pussy. Honestly, it is like paying full retail for a brand new car but ending up with a 15 year old, 10 owner car with 150K miles on the clock and thinking you have got a good deal.

Treat these women like you would any old car, drive it into the ground, spend no money on it and dump it the second it gives you any trouble. This is how all the other alphas treated her and she loved it, so don’t think you are doing anything wrong.

For god sake don’t think “But she loves me!” and marry her because in a few years she will realise she can keep the house and get back to the carousel party and you will have to pay for it all.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[SwimcatParticipant 3599]

He dodged a bullet.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

This guy is sooooo lucky. If he learns, he just got a million dollar education and 10 years of his life for the price of a ring. Tell him Chaff said so.

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Has he considered stopping the payments on the ring? It will hurt his credit some, but there isn’t much they can do about it.

He could give the jewelry store her address and point them to her finger if they want it back.

And you can tell him he got off lucky from a guy who is out $500k. I wish I was only out the price of a ring.

Order the good wine

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

Darth Tyrannus wrote:

What…a…f~~~ing…IDIOT!! I hate shaming a guy but seriously how could he be that much of an idiot?

Seems a man in love has no brain, alas…

Anonymous wrote:

Ha, he got off easy. Hope he learned a lesson.

Just what I was going to say. Got off easy.

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