She called the cops on me

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

DorkShit wrote:

DVD,

I feel I need to clarify my statement about cutting off from your son.

You probably could not do it but it is the way. You are not in a position where you can be a father to your son. Any interaction you have with him will continue to be destructive because you believe you are the victim. He is the victim.

What I am telling you is what my father would tell me. What would you tell your son to do?

Get your life straightened out. That means that you cut out your son until you can be his father. Not some nut case who went to jail or took the easy way out.

Good luck

Thanks for your input. I appreciate what you are saying. ANd you’re right in most respects. I am not a psycho. I do not act like that infront of my son but by jove he has heard his mother and i screaming at each other several times.

I have psychotic/angry tendencies when im pushed too far, who doesn’t, and to be honest most people prob control themselves better than I do lol.

Ahhhhhh f~~~ing hell, what a bloody mess. I hate women i really do. Cheers man.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

I hope anyone doesnt hate me now, I’m getting some bad vibes but maybe I’m being paranoid?

[WarratahParticipant 895]

No bad vibes, no hate here, DYD. There are PLENTY of us in the same situation.
Seems it can take a few years to get re-established after losing a family, job, money etc.
I’m also in the middle of a s~~~storm at the moment, a s~~~storm that seems to be dragging on for way too long. Any bit of money I do get my hands on, immediately disappears into her bank account.
It sucks!
Like you, I was never money-driven. Maybe the situation we find ourselves in now is a wake-up call, much like a heart attack is a wake-up call to watch the diet and exercise more, our current situation is an alert to focus just a bit more on cash.
I’m finding it very hard to change my old mindset and in all honesty I don’t like what I’ve become.
I HATE the way that the lack of money has caused me to become so fixated on it.
I know that I’m whining like a little pussy here and I’m probably going to get my arse kicked but MGTOW includes guys like you, like me who aren’t natural-born bread-heads and financial whizz-kids.
Making money, being seen to be successful, is important in modern society. And when you’re not, or when you’re having a bad run of luck, society looks down on you.
Add a f~~~ed-up relationship, not seeing your children etc etc, all in all it sucks big time.
Knowing you’re not alone helps.
F~~~ ’em – we’ll keep going.
The best revenge is to just keep going.

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[Anonymous 42]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

I hope anyone doesnt hate me now, I’m getting some bad vibes but maybe I’m being paranoid?

F~~~ man, welcome to fight club! Anything else would be a house full pussies and a toilet clocked with bloody napkins!

This place isn’t your average feminized feelie wheelie stroke each-other’s ego and suck each-other’s dicks!

So you’re feeling a little smacked around, so what, how else do you strengthen a brother?

We’re helping ourselves and others rewrite a new program by tearing out all the c~~~y mental implants from feminism and the liberal mass media over the past 50+ years.

I’m on my 11th year without TV! 20th year without women! This s~~~ is REAL, not some powder-puff bluff!

Stop feeling like your brothers don’t like you, we do!

Stop your whining, wipe the blood that’s dripping in your eye, pick up a sword, and slash the f~~~ing dragon!

[Dirtydog73Participant 232]

Bud. …Self harm is def. not the way to go.I tried and failed.nothing worse than waking up in hospital handcuffed to a bed to make sure you dont try anything silly.Not a pleasant experience.
So you have hit the bottom.the only way is up.
Think man.use the brain in there to think outside the square.
What about the military?Police force.Fire brigades.Ambulance.Study something.Try to get a course in basic welding or motor mechanics .To do right by your son ,you will need to spend some time away from him and the ex getting you back together.
Sure you might not see your son for a while ,but think of the opportunities you can give him once you are setup.
I know the desperation. Im out of work ,got my two sons,a house I am barely holding onto ,gonna lose two cars,probably my Harley .and be in debt for quite a few years.Its only money and stuff I keep telling myself.I have the strength to get through it .so do you.

Man the f~~~ up!

Fed, Fucked, Appreciated. The three simple things men want, but women will never grasp.

[Anonymous 0]

@DYD

You said in your first post that you haven’t been to court with your ex to draft a separation agreement regulating custody of your son and visitation rights and all that. You said that you’re afraid the courts will rape you.

Maybe you’ll get raped, but you still need that paperwork to define where you stand. Otherwise, you and the ex will continue to fight over small things, and one day you’ll go too far (as you already did with that text message). Without paperwork, you’re giving your ex an easy way to screw with your head. Without a separation agreement, she’s free to push your buttons whenever she wants. You want to visit your son, she blows you off, you cross a line, then she calls the cops on you.

Do the paperwork, get the separation agreement worked out, get everything defined in black and white, and that should end a lot of the fighting. If your ex doesn’t do what she’s supposed to according to the paperwork, document it and turn it over to your lawyer. Don’t fight with her directly.

And there are legal services for the poor, so don’t plead poverty.

Finally, if you can’t find a job then start applying to a vocational or trade school to learn a proper trade. It doesn’t have to be a long-term thing; some trades can be learned in 6 months or less. And then you can go back later for additional training and certifications if you want. There is financial aid available for broke students. Also, it’ll occupy you until the economy improves and it will look better on your CV than sitting around doing nothing. And you’ll get a trade out of it.

You’re obviously educated, literate, know computers and word processing. So get a trade doing something with computers or something secretary-related (courtroom transcriber or something).

Anyway, be smart. Obviously you’re f~~~ing up with the way you’re doing things right now. So stop doing the same old thing and try something new. Get your rights/responsibilities with your ex defined on paper, so that you’re not fighting with her all the time. And if you can’t find a job, then start looking at trade schools.

And yes, you can do this stuff even if you’re broke. You’ll have to do some research and swallow your pride and find some financial aid for schooling and legal services for the poor. But it will get you started in the right direction and help you move past this bad patch. Stop sitting around brooding and obsessing about your ex and your bad luck. That’s just going to drive you nuts. Instead, get some forward motion going, take on some new challenges, and move past the current BS.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

We don’t hate you bro, just take a chill pill, everything is gonna be ok, it’s not like your going to jail for 50 years, just be smarter next time, your cool bro. Don’t sweat it.

Cool hehe.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

DVD,

I call you that because you are acting like a DVD. You are spinning around singing the same tune. Go fast, keep turning right and I’ll see yah when you get back.

You’re the reason I finally signed up for this site. I read your stuff and my sith rage started going. I don’t know how you got an injection of estrogen.

1. Give me a job = I wish a knight on a white horse would come save me.
2. She called the cops on me = help I’m the victim
3. I don’t have any skills = boy
4. Feelings = blah blah blah

I’m being as pleasant as is possible with what little I know. In real life I would probably have nothing to do with you. I would reply, “it’s not your fault, you shouldn’t even be here” if you heard that it would mean what most understand. You shouldn’t have been on the field of procreation.

It’s not about you. It’s about your boy. You don’t get to pick your father, you get what you get.

I make six figures. I am what the corporate world calls intellectual property. I am the problem population they call old white guy. The fact that I am where I am is not an accident. I cannot give you fifty years of strategy. I don’t fill out resumes. I am recruited. Oh wow, good for you lucky one you will reply. What you don’t get is that I was recruited for my mind but really it is so their competitors don’t have me.

With all this said about how brilliant I am, you still will not listen.

Good luck Dark out

Peace brothers

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Warratah wrote:

No bad vibes, no hate here, DYD. There are PLENTY of us in the same situation.
Seems it can take a few years to get re-established after losing a family, job, money etc.
I’m also in the middle of a s~~~storm at the moment, a s~~~storm that seems to be dragging on for way too long. Any bit of money I do get my hands on, immediately disappears into her bank account.
It sucks!
Like you, I was never money-driven. Maybe the situation we find ourselves in now is a wake-up call, much like a heart attack is a wake-up call to watch the diet and exercise more, our current situation is an alert to focus just a bit more on cash.
I’m finding it very hard to change my old mindset and in all honesty I don’t like what I’ve become.
I HATE the way that the lack of money has caused me to become so fixated on it.
I know that I’m whining like a little pussy here and I’m probably going to get my arse kicked but MGTOW includes guys like you, like me who aren’t natural-born bread-heads and financial whizz-kids.
Making money, being seen to be successful, is important in modern society. And when you’re not, or when you’re having a bad run of luck, society looks down on you.
Add a f~~~ed-up relationship, not seeing your children etc etc, all in all it sucks big time.
Knowing you’re not alone helps.
F~~~ ’em – we’ll keep going.
The best revenge is to just keep going.

Too true.

I’m a musician, love heavy metal mostly, drum, sing, learning electric guitar. Did have a beautiful PRS 7 string which i pawned for cash in my most darkest hour. I almost cried when handing it over. It was like selling one of my kids. Even though I only have one child lol. I still to this day regret selling it. It p~~~es me off to no end.

I never once studied for my UK GCSES when I was 15/16 years old, I just did not give a f~~~ about them. I couldn’t understand why everyone else in my year ran around s~~~ting themselves studying like mad and getting worked up about it. While they were doing this, I was in the school library, reading tons of books on sci fi, fantasy etc, recovering from a really bad drug trip I had just had. I think I smoked heroin laced with PCP, I smoked it for a dare infront of these much older guys and tripped b~~~~ and ended up in hospital. (They stitched me up and were never remorseful about what they did to me).

This was the beginning of my ongoing attempt to escape from reality and de-shackle myself from all the constraints that were being forced on on me. I just didnt care about what other people cared about. This was 2000. My mind was on another planet.

Anyway, I left school aged 16, with a damaged cognitive perception on everything, and worked all sorts of dead end jobs just to get by and feed myself etc, living in shared accommodation. Jack of all trades and master of none.

I’ve only ever wanted to be in a metal band and be signed, play around the world, and make movies and be a published writer. Either one of these things would have contented me. Sadly none of this s~~~ materialised.

I ended up doing s~~~ security jobs for the last 10 years. The less work i could do the better. I loved working alone. I’ve always distrusted people and never liked being around them. People in the work place do my head in. And in those ten years ive had two miserable failed realtions~~~s with two older women. And here i am.

If only i knew 10 years ago what i know now. Could have saved myself so much heart ache.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

DorkShit wrote:

DVD,

I call you that because you are acting like a DVD. You are spinning around singing the same tune. Go fast, keep turning right and I’ll see yah when you get back.

You’re the reason I finally signed up for this site. I read your stuff and my sith rage started going. I don’t know how you got an injection of estrogen.

1. Give me a job = I wish a knight on a white horse would come save me.
2. She called the cops on me = help I’m the victim
3. I don’t have any skills = boy
4. Feelings = blah blah blah

I’m being as pleasant as is possible with what little I know. In real life I would probably have nothing to do with you. I would reply, “it’s not your fault, you shouldn’t even be here” if you heard that it would mean what most understand. You shouldn’t have been on the field of procreation.

It’s not about you. It’s about your boy. You don’t get to pick your father, you get what you get.

I make six figures. I am what the corporate world calls intellectual property. I am the problem population they call old white guy. The fact that I am where I am is not an accident. I cannot give you fifty years of strategy. I don’t fill out resumes. I am recruited. Oh wow, good for you lucky one you will reply. What you don’t get is that I was recruited for my mind but really it is so their competitors don’t have me.

With all this said about how brilliant I am, you still will not listen.

Good luck Dark out

Yes I’m listening. I get it. You’re conceited and measure yourself by external principles. Then I’m supposed to feign interest in the latest SUV you bought to assert your economic dominance over your storm trooper underlings. All hail the upper echelons of plutocracy.

I’m rather a cog in the machine suffering from cognitive dissonance than a DVD spinning perpetually.

Escape the tyranny.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Ahhhh, my bad. Did I go too far? Guess I need sensitivity training.

Close, I don’t own an SUV. But, I do have a tesla model s p90d.

Look on the bright side. I recently bought this sweet PRS CE 24, vintage sunburst. I’m going to go sing this song I just wrote. It’s titled “I’m going to smash your door in and get hauled off to jail, do wahh, do wahh….”

It’s not your fault….

Dark out

Peace brothers

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Stay frosty.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

SOMEBODY GIVE ME A F~~~ING JOB, I AM AN ABLE AND WILLING HUMAN BEING.

Try applying for call centre jobs they usually hire ppl on the spot since they have a high turn over percentage if not, try getting a security license and work as a guard for a while.

There is this call centre company called sykes here You can work for them from home, they are usually hiring all the time.

Thanks, ive got a UK security badge i just need to renew it. I think its the only way for sure that i will get work once i get a plane ticket back to England. Its a starting point anyway.

I’ll check out Sykes. Thanks again.

[narwhalParticipant]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

I’m responsible for all my actions, I make no qualms about that. I’ve done stupid things, made poor choices in life,
but who hasnt?

As I said before, stop giving yourself bad behavior. No you are not the first person to make mistakes, big or small, but that is not going to take away the consequences of your actions. It’s utterly irrelevant. I am not saying you should feel guilty, or not forgive yourself, just that if you keep looking at life as things happening to you, or everybody does it, you remove all control over fixing these issues.

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

Hope you understand

On some level, I do, but I live in a completely different world then you. I’ve never been where you are, so I cannot fully relate. However, I certainly have made my own excuses for poor choices and regretted it. It always works better to my own my mistakes, so I have a chance of correcting them.

I’m not at all upset or annoying with you, I just don’t think it would be very useful to sugar coat things, and you seem to be a man that can handle constructive criticism, so I won’t just be wasting time. That’s a compliment.

Ok. Then do it.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

narwhal wrote:

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

I’m responsible for all my actions, I make no qualms about that. I’ve done stupid things, made poor choices in life,
but who hasnt?

As I said before, stop giving yourself bad behavior. No you are not the first person to make mistakes, big or small, but that is not going to take away the consequences of your actions. It’s utterly irrelevant. I am not saying you should feel guilty, or not forgive yourself, just that if you keep looking at life as things happening to you, or everybody does it, you remove all control over fixing these issues.

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

Hope you understand

On some level, I do, but I live in a completely different world then you. I’ve never been where you are, so I cannot fully relate. However, I certainly have made my own excuses for poor choices and regretted it. It always works better to my own my mistakes, so I have a chance of correcting them.

I’m not at all upset or annoying with you, I just don’t think it would be very useful to sugar coat things, and you seem to be a man that can handle constructive criticism, so I won’t just be wasting time. That’s a compliment.

Cheers. I can handle it. After all, I seem to be the only realist where I live, questioning everything and wondering why people look down on me for being dirt poor and not aspiring to be like all these blue pill middle class suburban male “I’m the man” f~~~~~s.

And their hag, nagging c~~~s who come home to watch Neighbours, Coronation Street, whatever dog s~~~ is on tv, glued to it like a f~~~ing mental patient, then coming to work the next day to make some red pills dudes life a f~~~ing misery with their liberation and left wing PC politics.

It’s no wonder i don’t last in these work places. The place is infested with femtard liberal tumbling dickweeds who have nothing valuable to contribute to society or themselves.

It’s mental aids, and who the f~~~ know where it started/came from.

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