She called the cops on me

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Oh goody gum drops, my life gets better and better gentlemen. Joooooooy toooooo the wooooooorld.

I had a visit from the po-lice today, regarding a txt message i sent my sons mother, my ex, which said “i will break your f~~~ing door down and get my son” because she’s being a c~~~ and not letting me come over to pick my son up, not compromising to drop him off to me, so what am i supposed to do? Let this land whale dictate to me when i can and cant see my own child when she doesn’t even have sole custody? (Neither of us do, we have never been to court.)

I know, i know, dumb thing to txt, incriminated myself etc, but im bloody fed up dealing with this vagina tyrant. The cops gave me a 5 day tress-pass and have also informed my sons school. This means i also cant go near my own kid for 5 days. Who does this affect the most? My son. Nice one bitch.

I’ve f~~~ing had it i really have. I’m a damn good father to my son, and he knows it. I have raised him alone pretty much. He has manners, respect, a good head on his shoulders thanks to ME and ME alone. When i lived with his mother i did everything. He says he hates being with her and he RELIES on me for everything. I am the only one sorting out the bullying hes been suffering at school and trying to get him into another one while all his mother does is f~~~ing pacify everything and call me a drama queen.

But because ive been out of work for a year and half due to being f~~~ed over and all the s~~~ ive been through, im now a ‘loser’ in her and society’s eyes.

What do i do guys? This bitch is insufferable to deal with. This is not my country and its as gynocentric as any other place. I don’t stand a bloody chance in court.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

I’ll also mention that, before meeting this bitch, i was a happy go lucky dude. Fast forward almost 10 years later, i am angry as f~~~. Ring a bell? I have gotten myself up s~~~ creek having a kid with her, because i can’t seem to get her out of the picture for good. My son would have a fantastic life living with me back inthe UK.

It seems but a pipe dream…I’m tired of losing i really am.

Edit-i am soon to be 32, she is 47, (yes i know what your thinking lol) and treats me like a juvenile. Acts like my mother and constantly talks down to me like im nothing. I curse the day i blew my load into her i really do. (Will never regret my son, but you guys know what i mean.)

[NeroParticipant 1466]

@DYD: Man, I feel for you. I have to admit that what you’re going through is what kept me married about 15 years longer than I wanted to be. The thought of overpaying my lesser half CS and having to beg her for my kids while some strange c~~~ answers my f~~~ing door to my house was too much to even consider at the time. On the back end, though, you end up wasting your youth with her and then she gets lifetime alimony to boot due to an extended marriage term. Think about that for a minute. You are f~~~ed either way!! If she goes full land whale, the chances of her getting remarried are slim to none. LIFETIME F~~~ING ALMIONY!!!

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Luckily i never married her or any worthless stinking c~~~. I’m straight, and would rather suck a giant dick than get married.

[Anonymous 42]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

The cops gave me a 5 day tress-pass and have also informed my sons school.

You’re another casualty of new world order as listed below

#1 GOVERNMENT
#2 WOMAN
#3 CHILDREN
#4 MAN
#5 PETS
MGTOW refuse to be held hostage to this tyrannical and destructive order, consider focusing on yourself and abandoning them entirely without saying a word whiles you service yourself for mental repairs. If she wants to tear the child to pieces there’s nothing you can do anyway, let the rubber-band of drama snap in her f~~~ing face while you take a couple months off and refuse all contact with her altogether!
Tell everything and everyone to f~~~ off and die until you get your life put back together.

I gave myself a lifetime vacation from this exact same s~~~! Women spell misery and misery LOVES company.

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

I don’t stand a bloody chance in court.

No man stands a chance in court! That’s why we stopped joking and playing around with women and recognizing the hazard they all to often are!

I thank god I’m out of the mine field and in my bunker.

You need a medic, and the only medic is YOU!

Get out of the mine field c~~~ has planted and waiting for you! Become SILENT! DEAD SILENT!

[HitmanParticipant]

DYD,
1. once the cops are called, the relationship is over.
.
2. stop sending any texts for the next 5 days and NEVER call her.
.
3 use a back-up app like sms back-up on your phone, which will create a file in your e-mail saving all the texts between you two.
.
4.o.k. , your’e human and you kinda f~~~ed up this time…don’t do this again..you don’t want to hand her the bullets to shoot you with.
.
5. the 5 days will pass quickly, re-organize those thoughts my friend..put your kid first and STOP the hostility with the ex.
.
6.you are NOT a loser, you are a man who has ( like me) suffered because of a woman in his life..please do not repeat this mistake.
.
7.take a DEEP breath, call a friend and vent,..or vent more here..
.
8.continue to be the great dad that you are !..just NO MORE angry texts..and never call her on the phone as she can lie and say that you threatened her etc…
.
9.ONLY text, and use the back-up app..it will save you going through this again.
.
10.if you don’t have a lawyer, get one.
.
11. count your blessings..at least your not in jail.
.
12. if you want to continue seeing your kid, you must shelve the anger, let a lawyer do your talking..do not settle for the every other weekend crap..you will be surprised that you can get a lot more than that.. Good Luck !!!

[Anonymous 54]

Your lucky its just get the trespass charge.You could be chraged with asault for makeing a threat.Please my friend be careful what you put in print ! Do not make threats! Some times in life someone will have the upper hand on you. Go into hunker down mode and ride it out.Then find a quiet place you are alone and scream at the top of your lungs what a f~~~ing c~~~ she is.Hang in there. You are not a loser.She is a low life.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Thanks for the great advice guys, really do appreciate it. Should have mentioned we parted ways in 2013/2014.

I can’t believe what a bitter old bag she turned into. She doesn’t even look like the woman i once knew.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

I’m at the point where i want to f~~~ing slit my throat. I have no job, apart fro mthe s~~~ty weekend bouncer job that pays jack s~~~. I have no home. I spend the paltry money that i do make on my son, and have resorted to stealing food etc from the supermarket to feed myself. I’ve pawned everything of value i owned for cash. All i have to look forward to is the bottle of codiene pills the hospital gave me for my hand, but soo nthey will run out.

I have applied for a billion jobs, but there just arent any are there? I have no qualifications and am sick to death of living out the same bulls~~~ day over and over and over and over.

I wake up and think why should i bother getting up, I’ve nowhere to go, nothing to do, why didn’t i die in my sleep, what is this hell i am enduring? When will it end?

Make a phone call or 20 to jobs, get mugged off, never called back, email a billion CV’s to fake bulls~~~ jobs and enver get a reply, or the typical “thanks for applying but…”. Waste my time every day.

I’m one of those dudes with no family, no friends, dont know anyone, no safety net, no help, left to f~~~ing rot if i make one foot wrong in life. All i hear is people i bump into where i live saying stupid s~~~ like “just do this, just do that” when its an impossibility without MONEY. I need a f~~~ing JOB. How else to i repair myself. I need a starting point ffs.

I aint asking for sympathy. I’m a strong person inside, despite me bitching and getting worked up. But i just dont understand why i am constantly trapped in limbo,. forced to watch the world go by while im made to suffer in silence.

SOMEBODY GIVE ME A F~~~ING JOB, I AM AN ABLE AND WILLING HUMAN BEING.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Hitman wrote:

DYD,
1. once the cops are called, the relationship is over.
.
2. stop sending any texts for the next 5 days and NEVER call her.
.
3 use a back-up app like sms back-up on your phone, which will create a file in your e-mail saving all the texts between you two.
.
4.o.k. , your’e human and you kinda f~~~ed up this time…don’t do this again..you don’t want to hand her the bullets to shoot you with.
.
5. the 5 days will pass quickly, re-organize those thoughts my friend..put your kid first and STOP the hostility with the ex.
.
6.you are NOT a loser, you are a man who has ( like me) suffered because of a woman in his life..please do not repeat this mistake.
.
7.take a DEEP breath, call a friend and vent,..or vent more here..
.
8.continue to be the great dad that you are !..just NO MORE angry texts..and never call her on the phone as she can lie and say that you threatened her etc…
.
9.ONLY text, and use the back-up app..it will save you going through this again.
.
10.if you don’t have a lawyer, get one.
.
11. count your blessings..at least your not in jail.
.
12. if you want to continue seeing your kid, you must shelve the anger, let a lawyer do your talking..do not settle for the every other weekend crap..you will be surprised that you can get a lot more than that.. Good Luck !!!

Hitman is right.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[narwhalParticipant]

Stop blaming everyone else for your poor choices and bad behavior. You know your text was idiotic, but instead you want to throw all the blame on your ex. You did it, and others already pointed out, you’re lucky the damage wasn’t worse then it was.

There is no way your life is going to change for the better if you don’t start taking ownership of your problems.

Ok. Then do it.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

Anonymous wrote:

You’re another casualty of new world order as listed below

#1 GOVERNMENT
#2 WOMAN
#3 CHILDREN
#4 MAN
#5 PETS

The way this world is going, Numbers 4 and 5 are going to end up switching places. I know for a fact that women treat their cats better than they treat their men.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

DVD,

The “slit your throat” comment is disturbing. I know it’s a cry for help.

There is no way I can know everything about your situation and be able to advise you on what to do. All I can tell you is that I have stood on the edge of the cliff and had to make the most important decision of my life. No one was there to help me. I was in a bad place.

You have to decide if you are going to get your life together and build it so that one day you can be there for your son. That means you have to cut him out of your life and focus on getting yourself on track.

Good luck

Peace brothers

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

hey Dashing, I was in this dark place you are in right now minus the no job situation. the thought of harming yourself is a crazy and ridiculous thought. it proves nothing, I had two close friends take their own lives over scumbag females. and all these scumbag c~~~s did is go out and latch on to a stupid “beta males” resources. I cant do anything for you as far as having no family but you do have plenty of friends in this forum. as for the job…..that will eventually come so long as you continue to look. this situation you find yourself in now is all too common for men, married or not once you have a child with one of these CREATURES the solution is never simple. but you can never issue another threat if you want to continue to see your son on a regular basis. females (I try not to even refer to them as woman anymore) will always use white knighting cops and an unfair court system to get whatever they want. keep your head about you for now its just about spending time with your son, and if she tries to deny you of that then let your lawyer handle it. just try to remember one thing, at 47 she is a post wall hag! you are 32 and a man your best years are still ahead of you if you work it the right way. you will learn all the red pill tactics as you go on, you just need to get that red pill in your bloodstream. good luck!

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

DVD,

I feel I need to clarify my statement about cutting off from your son.

You probably could not do it but it is the way. You are not in a position where you can be a father to your son. Any interaction you have with him will continue to be destructive because you believe you are the victim. He is the victim.

What I am telling you is what my father would tell me. What would you tell your son to do?

Get your life straightened out. That means that you cut out your son until you can be his father. Not some nut case who went to jail or took the easy way out.

Good luck

Peace brothers

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

Thanks for the great advice guys, really do appreciate it. Should have mentioned we parted ways in 2013/2014.

I can’t believe what a bitter old bag she turned into. She doesn’t even look like the woman i once knew.

If you’re in the usa you can get legal advice from tom leykis show. It is general advice but still. The only losers are the dead ones. We’re here for you bro you will win eventually because once your son grows up he will not see her fat ass.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

narwhal wrote:

Stop blaming everyone else for your poor choices and bad behavior. You know your text was idiotic, but instead you want to throw all the blame on your ex. You did it, and others already pointed out, you’re lucky the damage wasn’t worse then it was.

There is no way your life is going to change for the better if you don’t start taking ownership of your problems.

I’m not blaming anyone, I simply stated that she has caused me alot of grief. Maybe you’ve never been this low in your life before, so you can’t relate.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

DorkShit wrote:

DVD,

The “slit your throat” comment is disturbing. I know it’s a cry for help.

There is no way I can know everything about your situation and be able to advise you on what to do. All I can tell you is that I have stood on the edge of the cliff and had to make the most important decision of my life. No one was there to help me. I was in a bad place.

You have to decide if you are going to get your life together and build it so that one day you can be there for your son. That means you have to cut him out of your life and focus on getting yourself on track.

Good luck

It’s not really a cry for help, I’m just venting my frustration. I’m tired of dealing with retards in my life and trying to find a job is like searching for the holy grail.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

narwhal wrote:

Stop blaming everyone else for your poor choices and bad behavior. You know your text was idiotic, but instead you want to throw all the blame on your ex. You did it, and others already pointed out, you’re lucky the damage wasn’t worse then it was.

There is no way your life is going to change for the better if you don’t start taking ownership of your problems.

Sorry if I came off brash before, but I can never really say what i really want to say, everything is lost in translation and everything comes out in a rant when im angry or p~~~ed off.

I’m responsible for all my actions, I make no qualms about that. I’ve done stupid things, made poor choices in life, but who hasnt?

I am trying, more than you know, to get back on my feet. This is the longest time i have ever been out of work since i was 16. It really sucks.

I’m not some woe is me pussy, wanting sympathy or anything like that.

I have never had a well paid job, and part of that is my fault for not going to university or whatever. I don’t even know how you get a 6 figure job. Money has never interested me until now. And i say now because i dont want to scrape by anymore in some bulls~~~ minimum wage job when I have a brain thats not being put to use.

I’m not a mans man, I don’t really know what you’d class me as. All this macho s~~~ today is pathetic anyway.

You’ll prob laugh at me but ive been writing a few novels over the last 3 years and working on other creative writing that i want to get published. I also have several movie scripts im writing on. Its a long process really.

I do not want to kill myself, let me make that clear. THe stuff i say is figure of speech because im frustrated as f~~~.

Hope you understand 🙂

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Crazy Canuck wrote:

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

Thanks for the great advice guys, really do appreciate it. Should have mentioned we parted ways in 2013/2014.

I can’t believe what a bitter old bag she turned into. She doesn’t even look like the woman i once knew.

If you’re in the usa you can get legal advice from tom leykis show. It is general advice but still. The only losers are the dead ones. We’re here for you bro you will win eventually because once your son grows up he will not see her fat ass.

Thanks man, appreciate it.

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