She Almost Got Me To Do It!

[IdiomaticManParticipant 46]

I am a 46 year old man who has recently swallowed the red pill. I am not sure if that is the reason I thought about doing something that goes against all of my programming, or if it was because I just got tired of the massive amount of s~~~ I have taken from women. Recently I became acquainted with and mildly interested in (for sex) a woman who is 34 years old. She is a college educated, professional woman with one child. Things were going slowly because I wanted them to go that way. Anyways, one night at about 8:30 pm, she called me and told me that she had a flat tire off of the highway and asked me to help her. Apparently she could not change it. I was tired from a long day but for some reason I didn’t feel comfortable leaving her out there at night so I drove to her and changed the tire. The donut spare she had was horrible. I told her that she would not get far on it and though it was after 9 pm I told her that I would take her to the only place open (Walmart) so she could get another tire. At Walmart I found the tire for her and told her I would mount it on the rim and have air put in it. She could get it balanced later. We found the tire and it was like $80. We are at the register and she is waiting for me to pay for it! When I don’t reach for my wallet, she asks, “Aren’t you going to get that?” I did not answer, I just walked out of the store. As she was berating me in the parking lot I told her that if she didn’t shut up she could walk back to her car. Once in the car, the berating continued, “You don’t care about me”, You’re not a REAL man, blah, blah, blah. When I do not answer her she sits herself on the console of my vehicle facing me and raises a clenched fist and says, “I ought to beat your ass!” I calmly, with a smile on my face told her not to mistake my kindness in the past to her as weakness. I also said, “I swear to Jesus Christ himself, if you punch me, I will end you!” She then threatens to call the cops. I told her, “You had better do it before you hit me because if you wait, all of your teeth will be gone and both arms will be broken.” Once we are back to her car, she refuses to get out of the car. So, I calmly get out, go to the passenger door, grab her by the ankle and promptly, with little effort, remove her from the vehicle. I got back in and drove away.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Sounds like you dodged a bullet.

If it had been me, at Walmart I would have said “why would you assume that *I* would pay for *your* blown tire?”

I’m currently seeing a gal and we split everything down the middle. We went to an expensive french restaurant for new years and she volunteered to pay. I let her, even though I chose the restaurant because I love the food there. Then I reasoned that I paid for the movie and hotel room so it worked out about even, possible slightly in my favor. That’s how it should be.

Cracks me up that women can’t figure out why men are willing to pay for stuff for them when they’re young and hot, and then when they start hitting the wall that suddenly dries up. Hmmmm could it be that you’re a WhOOOOOoooooore????

Hard to believe she actually trotted out the “real man” shaming technique. I would respond with something like “I’m not sure what your idea of a real man is, but I’m a liberated man. I believe in womens’ equality. That means you pay equally for your own stuff. Don’t you believe in womens’ equality?

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

sounds like a trolling attempt intended to confirm that MGTOW support violence against women

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 7]

IdiomaticMan wrote:

“I ought to beat your ass!” I calmly, with a smile on my face told her not to mistake my kindness in the past to her as weakness.

I used to have a problem with this as before taking the red pill I would treat females the same as I would males. To almost all women just you being nice to them is seen as hitting on them as a weak beta. Now I purposefully treat women like s~~~.

IdiomaticMan wrote:

“You had better do it before you hit me because if you wait, all of your teeth will be gone and both arms will be broken.”

Hahaha f~~~ing perfect

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

Man, first of all, I do not know why she just did not call the CAA or the AAA, you did not have to be there. Also, I read a book saying that people try to be consistent. Marketers know this so they first try to get you to agree on something and then once you do it, they try to get you to do something else because you try to be consistent till they get you to pay for something. She already tried to hook you in my making you decide to go to her to fix her problem and then you just had to be consistent from there on. But at least you were smart enough to know when to stop when it really mattered. Good job.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Russky wrote:

sounds like a trolling attempt intended to confirm that MGTOW support violence against women

That’s a good point. While I don’t think anyone here would advocate for violence, in this case the story is that she was berating him and then SHE threatened physical violence. IM responded by letting her know that that would be a really bad idea for a number of different reasons, including the physical. Hopefully the extreme nature of the response he described was hyperbole, but that’s for IM to say.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[IdiomaticManParticipant 46]

Do you have a reading comprehension problem? There was no violence. I only thought about it. You have nothing better to contribute than that? I try to contribute a Red Pill experience and have to put up with the same kind of BS disrespect that women try to give me? What is this forum supposed to be about again? I am not the one who threatened violence in the beginning nor was I the one who raised my hand. Or, in your infinite wisdom should I have stood for this behavior and allowed this idiot to think she could bully me?

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

IdiomaticMan wrote:

Do you have a reading comprehension problem?

Do YOU have a reading comprehension problem?

I was trying to defend you numbnuts. I never said you did anything violent, only that you responded to her threat of violence by telling her what would happen. I think threatening to break bones and teeth and to “end her” is a little out there, so I was willing to give you the benefit of the doubt by attributing it to hyperbole.

WTF is your malfunction?

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

It’s like we’ve gotten to the point as a society that we shouldn’t help women. You just don’t know if they’re bulls~~~ting you of not.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

IdiomaticMan-
Wow, you had a stressful evening. Sorry for the drama.
This demonstrates (to me anyway) the entitlement of modern women.
I am an older geezer and might have looked for a softer answer to try to avoid possible confrontation or legal entanglements. Even if you are in the right, once these bitches complain you sometimes have to expend time and energy to make the problem go away. Isn’t it wild that women will threaten you with violence because you are not buying for them what they think they are entitled to?

[IdiomaticManParticipant 46]

I replied to Russky, not you. I have no malfunction.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

It’s also worth noting that in many states, threatening to end someone, break bones etc is considered a form of assault and domestic violence. You could find yourself in front of a jury for threats like that, and guess who they’re going to believe when she turns on the waterworks?

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

IdiomaticMan wrote:

I replied to Russky, not you. I have no malfunction.

Sorry — my bad. I thought you meant me.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

It’s also worth noting that in many states, threatening to end someone, break bones etc is considered a form of assault and domestic violence. You could find yourself in front of a jury for threats like that, and guess who they’re going to believe when she turns on the waterworks?

I don’t think that she has any proof though. Unless he tries to be a martyr and be honest with the cops about what he said, I don’t think that they can do anything about it.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

Maybe you would be taking a risk because they might put you on a lie detector test or they would try to get you to repeat the story again to see if there are any inconsistencies to see if you made up anything.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

I don’t think that she has any proof though. Unless he tries to be a martyr and be honest with the cops about what he said, I don’t think that they can do anything about it.

Ya, I thought about that, but thought it worth mentioning anyway. Since everyone’s phone is now a recording device, you never know. Plus if it did come down to his word against hers, the man loses by default.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Brilliant! And a little frightening because it’s right out of the playbook……

IdiomaticMan wrote:

but for some reason I didn’t feel comfortable leaving her out there at night so I drove to her and changed the tire.

There is book called the Manipulated Man and it starts out with a story just like this. First chapter. For some reason, men think they owe it to women to inconvenience themselves and make themselves late just to help a woman out for no real reason, thanks or reward. If you haven’t read it, it’s like the opening chapter.

/content/books/pdf/the_manipulated_man.pdf

The story starts at “THE SLAVE’S HAPPINESS”.

IdiomaticMan wrote:

You don’t care about me”, You’re not a REAL man,

In the book, the ( female) author mentions how women will tell you you’re “not a REAL man” when you don’t do something that’s useful to her. You’re a “real man” if you give her your money, hang a picture for her, carry heavy s~~~ ……. and you are “NOT a real man” when you don’t. Exactly the same man is a “real man” if he serves her….. but not a real man when he doesn’t lower himself to the position of disposable tool for her use. Classic script exactly as you described.

EXCELLENT job averting that s~~~.

Grabbing her out of the car wouldn’t be my first choice, though, although the situation would certainly p~~~ me off enough to be tempted. but I would certainly have talked to her that way and let her know VERBALLY that she will not get away with it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

I would have NEVER left the house,i barely hold doors open anymore what she will die if you dont come? Go Your Own Way……..chalk it up as a lesson learned,I love hearing real time stories like this because it paints a picture that we may or have already had to go through,so with that said all bets are off if a female ever calls me about a flat.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I would have offered her a phone number of the nearest open tire shop and avoid the whole thing altogether.
She’s a educated professional and probably makes money. Anyone incapable in changing a tire should either have a roadside assistance subscription, or have money reserves to call a tire place truck

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 1]

I had a young female called me in the middle of the night on a work night to help her change a tire. She was drunk and crash into the curve and blow a tire. I told her to call Triple A and she ended up calling another guy to come. I had work in the morning so I did not want to waste my sleep. I don’t think I would have went anyway if I did not have work. She was trying to see what kinds of sh*t I would do for her.

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