Saw a lonely lady today while at the supermarket…

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

Title says it all.

I was at the register and the lady in front was a textbook cat lady. Her trolley was made up of a casket of wine and cat food, nothing else. I couldn’t believe my eyes, looking at the cat lady we all say becomes of silly women. To me she didn’t look well, like she was missing something. I honestly felt sad for her, but who knows, I could be wrong about her completely. She could have been from that generation of women that seemed reasonable, had married and loved her husband until his death and stayed alone since.

I have seen men alone at the supermarket, but they looked like they have lived their life and are content with their life as it is now. Happy that they could enjoy their peace and quiet and still put bread on the table despite their age.

The experience made me think about being a man, and reinforced the belief I hold that we do it better either alone or with a family that does loves us.

The dynamics between the sexes these days looks beyond repair. Despite the gynocentrism and misandry we men face, we are built to create the good times and tolerate the bad times. I still feel for people who feel lonely, man or woman, as I believe some people are too scared to be alone with their own thoughts, will never be able to learn to be alone and always feel lonely.

This may seem like a random post, and in a way it is, but what I saw made me think about my future in this world again (I have thought through my life and my goals plenty of times already). Does the sight of older men and women alone and the gynocentric world we live sometimes make you stop and think again about your life plans, think about about how it got this versus what we were told to expect?

Please avoid any tuna calls on me or this post. It is genuine post and I am a genuine menber.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

I personally do not feel sorry for “lonely people”- although I don’t feel sorry for anyone so that might not be valid.

I don’t feel sorry for lonely women at all mainly, because it is pretty much guaranteed she is lonely only because of her own actions, such as rejecting the guys she did not like, and trying to entice the ones she does. Now, there is nothing wrong with rejecting people, it’s just that usually, she keeps them around as orbiters, dangling little morsels of feigned interest to keep them around, playing them.

My point being most women have way to many options starting off (esp with the number of blue pills around), so if they do end up lonely, it’s their own fault. They have way too many chances. When women say they can’t find anyone, usually that just means they can’t find anyone rich.

See: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4754914/Where-good-men-gone.html

and I can’t think of that other article where the bitch left her husband because she “wasn’t in love” and then the other guy didn’t work out, and her ex-husband moved on and she was now “lonely” and “regretful”. Her own fault.

With guys I actually have no input because as I see it, not being able to be by themselves is a personal problem THEY need to work on, if they do see it as such.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Jackinov wrote:

that just means they can’t find anyone rich.

Yep and that article you posted says in the headlines that these women are “solvent” but for a woman to be solvent all she has to do is divorce a guy. Notice that nowhere in the article does it talk about what these women do. It grazes past the fact that one of them got a divorce. I’m fairly sure all of them did. Men on the other hand actually have to go out and work, save and invest to grow their wealth.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Allow me to offer my view Mr.duketogo.

That women belongs to the generation of women who where smart enough to choose a men, older than her, leach his resources, make him work and nag him to death.

That’s how I see it now.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

Carnage wrote:

Allow me to offer my view Mr.duketogo.

That women belongs to the generation of women who where smart enough to choose a men, older than her, leach his resources, make him work and nag him to death.

That’s how I see it now.

Carnage no need for the Mr, Duke is fine.

I understand all points given so far about my strange thread and all points given by all menbers here about MGTOW, gynocentrism and female nature. Maybe the thoughts that went threw my head are remnants of the blue pill indoctrination. But at the same time I try think of everyone as my brothers and sisters, so I do have some compassion left despite no actual relation to strangers like the old lady I saw. I guess having this little compassion for strangers is what makes men different a lot of the things walking around calling themselves women these days.

[Anonymous 42]

Ever notice how large the cat food isle has become in recent years? That’s 1st. 2nd. and 3rd. wave feminism eating the bricks from the wall they hit and never saw coming…

They can eat the entire sidewalk for all I care.

[Anonymous 25]

don’t feel sorry for them.

women brought it on themselves

focus on how we can turn it into a business opportunity and make money out of them

[Cú ChulainnParticipant 3910]

You don’t know her story, she could’ve been a lesbian, or asexual. Feeling compassion for another person, a stranger even, is fine by me, its what makes us human.

Ive always believed never to judge a man unless you’ve walked a mile in his shoes, I suppose you could extend this to women too. An old girl like the one you saw is no harm to anyone.

MGTOW for me isn’t hating women, it’s sorting myself out. I don’t need or want a woman, I don’t need or want a Big Mac either; doesn’t mean I hate Big Macs and I also realise that a lot of men love them, even though they are bad for them.

Forget the rage, turn the page.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

I have never met a human been who I showed some compasión who didn’t try to take advantage.

Sorry but I watch my back, against women, men, kids, old people… it not hate nor rage, just survival.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Cú ChulainnParticipant 3910]

Carnage wrote:

I have never met a human been who I showed some compasión who didn’t try to take advantage.

Sorry but I watch my back, against women, men, kids, old people… it not hate nor rage, just survival.

That’s cool by me brother, who am I to judge? Again, I don’t know you nor have I experienced your own story.

We are all different, no rights or wrongs, its a broad church here, that’s why its a great place to shoot the s~~~. Echo chambers are for feminists, men can disagree rationally and reasonably with dissenting viewpoints.

Its all still MGTOW, 100%

[HermitParticipant]

Cú Chulainn wrote:

You don’t know her story, she could’ve been a lesbian, or asexual. Feeling compassion for another person, a stranger even, is fine by me, its what makes us human.

Ive always believed never to judge a man unless you’ve walked a mile in his shoes, I suppose you could extend this to women too. An old girl like the one you saw is no harm to anyone.

MGTOW for me isn’t hating women, it’s sorting myself out. I don’t need or want a woman, I don’t need or want a Big Mac either; doesn’t mean I hate Big Macs and I also realise that a lot of men love them, even though they are bad for them.

Forget the rage, turn the page.

That’s well put. There was a time when I hated women, but now, they are just something to avoid……like rattlesnakes.

I can feel some compassion for a lonely person. Some people, some men, may get lonely and need to be around other people, or at least another person. I was that way for a short while when I was very young. Now, the older I get, the more I dislike being around people for extended periods of time. I can hang out with others for an hour or two, but then, it’s so nice to go home and be alone. I can’t see myself ever being lonely again.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Anonymous 25]

Cú Chulainn wrote:

You don’t know her story, she could’ve been a lesbian, or asexual. Feeling compassion for another person, a stranger even, is fine by me, its what makes us human.

Unfortunately, it’s that same sympathy that has been exploited by women to give us the current laws that we have. Leading to men being divorce raped. And men convicted of DV, rape, sexual harassment etc solely on a woman’s word. And special privileges like tampon tax exemptions.

There’s a world of difference between hate and indifference.

Women are indifferent to men’s suffering, it’s the rule of law that requires men show them the same indifference.

If they want to change that dynamic, go right ahead. Women can change their own behaviour and show compassion towards men, I will welcome that. Until then NFG and I will apply the same standard to them.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Duke Togo wrote:

To me she didn’t look well, like she was missing something.

Yes, she was missing the 5 kids she aborted and the man she cheated on and dumped because he was too nice.

She needed to have her fun you know, and kids are a nuisance and good guys are boring.

Enjoy your cats, bitch!

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[hmskl’dParticipant 6413]

Excellent thread. I am that guy .. just slightly older than most .. might even be noticed that some early gray showing through.
But wait, life isn’t over .. it’t just beginning for me in many ways. I gmow, that doesn’t mean that I will be lonely. Far from it. Recall the post I recently made about keeping in touch with some friends who are staring a journey sailing around the world on a 43.4 foot Beneteau Cyclades sailboat. They’ve gone through the Caribbean and are now approaching France having just passed Gibraltar. Well, the captain and owner of that vessel is a young 70 years old .. and he’s having the time of his life. He just hiked Gibraltar, he snorkels in mid ocean to check the underside of his craft .. and he rides motorcycles throughout the Azores.
Have a great week. I will. I sailed earlier in life. Who says I can’t begin again .. and maybe head for Bimini anchorage. Used 39′ boat in really good shape would cost about same as a small house on tiny lot so where do I want to live? it’s a choice in years ahead .. someday. Right now it’s time to work. I wish Stealthy were here .. his post about the future trends would be fantastic. Cheers.

[Cú ChulainnParticipant 3910]

@machiavelli good points mate. There’s nothing you’ve said there that I don’t agree with. Men as a group are getting f~~~ed over everywhere, but what can I do? As an individual man with his own agency I can only look after number one.

Sure, I’d help a bro out, guy breaks down I’m out there seeing if I can help. If its a broad? Situational awareness was hammered into me in the army and as a PMC. Probably not, self preservation. But I might help out if its particularly s~~~ty for the broad and there’s no risk of her accusing me of whatever. Don’t become a casualty yourself – first rule of combat first aid, applies in ordinary life too.

That’s how I live, I can’t avoid 50% of the population, so I minimise my relations with them, i.e. my dentist is female and is very good, I respect her skills. Outside of that she’s just scenery like all other women.

I enjoy or rather sympathise with the stories of the utter f~~~ing nonsense women get up to when its posted on this site. It does rile me up, but I learn from it and accept AWALT, but they can’t get to me – I’ve adjusted my life where I control every aspect of my interactions with them. Going my own way is doing stuff I wanted to do but couldn’t before, I always say MGTOW is positive, it teaches and sets examples for the uninitiated. Its a way out, once you’ve crossed the Rubicon then MGTOW is fully realised without a backward glance.

Its like wilderness living and popping down to the outpost (this place) once in a while to pick up supplies (you guys and the forums), catch up on news (red pill rage), then heading back into the bush, glad to be out of it.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Duke Togo wrote:

I believe some people are too scared to be alone with their own thoughts, will never be able to learn to be alone and always feel lonely.

I think this is a natural, as humans are naturally social creatures.

The American physiologists, Harry Harlow, demonstrated this phenomena with rhesus macaques.

Monkeys without social stimuli exhibit traits of schizophrenia

His work is applicable to humans, and many people display similar traits.

As for me, I have always been on the more introverted spectrum.

Introverts are typically OK with being alone, and I find this to be true with me.

When I am alone with my thoughts, I can actually reach logical epiphany’s that allow me to find solace.

Everyday on the public bus, I think about my life’s direction, my goals, and my relationships.

I think about my long-term goals and strive to make them happen.

This is something sadly many extroverts and women lack.

From my observation with my friends, introverts tend to have more levels of introspection which allows them to assess their faults.

They then reevaluate, and make adjustments to improve themselves as a human being.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[AutoliteParticipant]

Duke Togo wrote:

Does the sight of older men and women alone and the gynocentric world we live sometimes make you stop and think again about your life plans,

no

[Anonymous 54]

Would she feel sorry for you, as a Man?

[Anonymous 54]

Autolite wrote:

Duke Togo wrote:

Does the sight of older men and women alone and the gynocentric world we live sometimes make you stop and think again about your life plans,

no

No. Being alone is Great!!!

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Anonymous wrote:

Would she feel sorry for you, as a Man?

I work with old people mostly (hemodialysis) with the exception of one guy, all of them are extremely selfish, they want to be first in everything and lie a lot.

I don’t trust old people, of 54 patients only 1 looks like a worthy person.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

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