Saving another man from the pit of marriage….

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

What obligation, if any, do we as MGTOW have to save another man from the great lie of marriage? A friend of mine just got engaged. Knowing of the sacrifices, the financial ruin, the constant s~~~ storms (just for starters) that I endured over the course of two marriages – and the blue pill fool I was at the start of each one – I am tempted out of a sense of male obligation to help a brother.

The bride to be is in her late 20’s, thin, attractive and I can picture him envisioning frequent sex, companionship, family, you know, the so called bliss pushed down our collective throats. Then I fast forward in my mind, 5 or 10 years down the road, screaming brats, a woman 25 lbs heavier (if he’s lucky), chopped off hair, bitchy moods, sex once a month but depending on how hard she hits the wall, that may be a blessing in disguise. His wallet squeezed, nagging, his friends and hobbies relegated to the past, and her constantly staring into whatever version of Iphone is around looking at Femmebook to see how many thumbs up and likes she got on her latest kitchen gadget.

Than the other side of me says: he must find out for himself. Sometimes the most effective teacher falling down on ones own face. Thoughts Gentleman?

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

I think you could show him some videos and stats on divorce and how women really are and then let him make up his own mind. You will have done your part and can live on knowing you tried.

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

You can only talk to him. If he is logical, then all will go well. Men in these positions, freshly married, are the most dangerous. Deep in their fantasy land. He might (nay, WILL) at first, label YOU a negative asshole. Until he sees you are right. Then its too late.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Nice Guy EddieParticipant 527]

I really, really wish one of my mates had done this before I married my hypergamous, stupid, self-obsessed lazy ex.

We have a term in Australia for this: it’s called being “c~~~struck”. Basically, being too caught up in the sex and the physical attraction that a woman provides you to think logically.

Thank heavens I’ve emerged from that nightmare. Now I just have to make sure my sons don’t fall into the same trap.

NGE

[Anonymous 1]

My brothers getting married this weekend to an AWALT, she’s got pyscotic rage tendancies, and i’ve kept my distance as much as I can. He won’t be swayed.

it’s going to be a grim day sitting through a celebration of a constitution i don’t believe in.

grin and bear I guess.

[MichaelSpectator 544]

I’m very sorry to hear that. How do you feel about this? My brother is about to get cucked into marriage by a Tinder slut.

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Would you be the best man? Out of obligation? Or just say no?

[Anonymous 1]

Michael wrote:

I’m very sorry to hear that. How do you feel about this? My brother is about to get cucked into marriage by a Tinder slut.

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Would you be the best man? Out of obligation? Or just say no?

It would be a polite no for me, I wouldn’t feel obligated to play such a huge role at a sham ceremony.

[RhettParticipant 637]

New Living Translation

Ezekiel 33:1-9

But if you warn them to repent and they don’t repent, they will die in their sins, but you will have saved yourself

Single guys come home, look at what’s in the fridge, and go to bed. Married guys come home, look at what’s in bed, and go to the fridge.......But the best representative of MGTOW is…………… an empty chair,.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

Jackinov wrote:

You can only talk to him. If he is logical, then all will go well. Men in these positions, freshly married, are the most dangerous. Deep in their fantasy land. He might (nay, WILL) at first, label YOU a negative asshole. Until he sees you are right. Then its too late.

plus he will no doubt tell her about the conversation and she will use that as an extra excuse to get rid of you from his life

Seen it happen to me with a good mate I used to see once a week for beers and now it is once every two/three months at best

[zyo81Participant 84]

Jackinov wrote:

He might (nay, WILL) at first, label YOU a negative asshole. Until he sees you are right. Then its too late.

This. I get told a lot that I am too negative. Then often a while later the same people see that I was right. Some will admit it, others resent it. Either way, they NEVER listen. Also most of these guys just go back and report what you said to their slavemasters, who will make sure you are promptly cut out of their men’s lives.

[HaymakerParticipant 226]

My friend just got engaged after 1 year of dating. I just smiled and congratulated him. Not much I can do anyway. He would just spite me if I told him that he is making a huge mistake so… I will help him out when divorce kicks in.

Always going big, Yeah you know the kid, Call me haymaker.

[Anonymous 54]

I wrestle with the idea of changeing another Mans fate. If he listens ,doesnt marry her,someone else does and is happy with her. Have you intervened with his potentail happyness? (Hypothetical happyness that wouldn’t really happen jajaj) Plus men in love dont hear a word your saying. Idiots. Been one .Marryied 3 times. Where were you all when i needed you!!

[Anonymous 3]

You can’t save anybody in this world. You can only help people save themselves, if and when they’re willing to accept your help.

I mean, I suppose you could try to talk some sense into him, but his response will be something along the lines of “But she’s different! She’s not like these women out there!” Then what do you do?

Think back to your very first marriage, when you made the decision to marry your then wife. Really think back to how you felt back then. I honestly doubt if anybody was to come to you and tell you not to, would have worked.

I wish the same thing. Now, I was never married, but I wish sometimes, when I think about the past, that somebody would have explained all this MGTOW thing to me when I was dating. But, the truth is, I know I probably wouldn’t have listened.

The only person who can save your friend, is your friend himself.

[HitmanParticipant]

Even if you bring the horse to the water. .you can’t make him drink.

When the divorce happens he will drink! !!
Sorry, couldn’t not say that. ..

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

“C~~~stuck” good Lord that is the perfect word for it.

If the friend is someone from your work or is personally connected to people at work, shut up and let him learn the hard way. Last thing you need is all the gyno-pussyboys and HR broads at work jumping your s~~~ as a wimmin-hater and getting fired or suppressed. If he is a non-work friend, talk to him, lay the facts out, and let him decide. My bet is he will follow his programming.

As for the brothers, well, let’s just say I don’t even go to family weddings anymore … certainly not going to participate, and much less I will not even attend. It’s all a sham to rake men over and glorify some rotten kundt for a day, and I see no celebration in that.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Anonymous wrote:

My brothers getting married this weekend to an AWALT, she’s got pyscotic rage tendancies, and i’ve kept my distance as much as I can. He won’t be swayed.

it’s going to be a grim day sitting through a celebration of a constitution i don’t believe in.

grin and bear I guess.

Aw man I wil have to go through the same thing as you… 2 times because I got 2 brothers. I can’t escape it… this short 1 month vacation through hell. I’ll make sure I bring enough red pill refills to survive in those days.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Anonymous 1]

Varun wrote:

Aw man I wil have to go through the same thing as you… 2 times because I got 2 brothers. I can’t escape it… this short 1 month vacation through hell. I’ll make sure I bring enough red pill refills to survive in those days.

I also have 2 brothers, the other one’s already married. The fact both my brothers will be married puts more family pressure on me, but i dont give a s~~~. i don’t listen to what any of them have to say.

Already cringing at the thought of what i’ll be witnessing this Saturday, and my parents have pumped a lot of money into this wedding.

SUCH a waste of money.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

I guess the only thing we can do is decline the invitation. If they ask why, we give them an explanation and say that we can’t in good conscious go to the wedding. If they are a true friend, they can respect that and continue to be friends whether or not they reject or accept the warning.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

My best buddy years ago declined standing up for me at my wedding – bro saw the writing on the wall. 28 years and 18 years of child support later, not to mention 10 years of misery, should have heeded his message

[AttonParticipant]

Offer your friend a warning of what he is getting into, he will likely ignore it he might even become angry. But odds are your prediction is spot on and a warning might actually make him think a little bit when it really matters. It’s not an obligation but frankly it’s the right thing to do and it just might make a difference. He just might think twice and he just might come to his senses.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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