Safe to say I f~~~ed up

[PushingnumbersParticipant 72]

Gentlemen, let me start off by saying how glad I am to have found this site. I came across the site when I googled “lazy good for nothing wife.” I’m 36 yrs old no kids of my own and married as of a couple of years ago. Wife has 3 kids.

When I first started going out with this woman she came across as someone who took care of her business. Turns out she’s the laziest person I’ve ever come across in my life…not a domestic bone in her body and the kids are the same way.

I’m trying to avoid writing a novel here there is just so much I can say. Basically she faked the funk hardcore and made me believe she was someone she is not. I was blinded by the booty, was getting it every which way I wanted…oh but all of that came to an end once my income was added to the household and everyone was insured. She’s totally lazy and selfish, will do for herself before her kids. If I do something for them she will stop doing it and let it fall as now my responsibility.

Kids are just as lazy and manipulative only care about being around if they think they will get something out of me.

I’ve enhanced everyone’s quality of life but mine has hit an all time low.

She’s constantly talking about buying a house, well me buying a house, I just can’t and won’t sacrifice what I work hard for to a bunch of people that live like bums.

I’m making my exit in the near future, I’m just getting some things in order first to ensure I set my self up for success.

I wish I would have been hip to this site sooner maybe I wouldn’t have ignored all the red flags.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

At least you didn’t waste 28 years of your life that you could be spending chasing your own dreams. Never feel bad about your place in line inmate jail sorry I mean mgtow.

We all have our own cross to bear don’t make yours out of 16 by 16 by 12.

There’s a funny old saying, “yes we have all been crucified, but let’s now come down off the cross we could use the firewood.”

That’s a quote

Daamn im awesome….. in my own company, women were jealous, no imagination, ‘tall

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

A big welcome to you, @pushingnumbers

Was just commenting on another thread about an article that came out only days before Mothers day (today) entitled “you will hate your husband after having a baby”.

…. penned by the same bitch who wrote “How NOT to hate your husband after kids”.

Looks like she single-handedly shut a few flower shops down today.

Today is the wrong day to recommend “no single mothers” so I won’t subject you to that, because you already know. Just guard your sperm like Fort Knox. Because if she gets pregnant again she will have the kid. And she already knows where family court is, because she has already been there.

Pushingnumbers wrote:

I’ve enhanced everyone’s quality of life but mine has hit an all time low.

Time for a radical change perhaps.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[PushingnumbersParticipant 72]

There’s a funny old saying, “yes we have all been crucified, but let’s now come down off the cross we could use the firewood.”

This is awesome and very true. I’ll be sure to tell this to someone. Thanks

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Pushingnumbers wrote:

I’ve enhanced everyone’s quality of life but mine has hit an all time low.

And now it’s time to put an end to that.

Welcome to your new life–the one where YOU matter most.

[PushingnumbersParticipant 72]

@keymaster thank you

I think any day is fine to recommend “no single mothers.” That was actually one of the rules I was setting for myself when I’m out and going my own way.

I’m really going to just worry about me, work on myself and enhance my own life…I’ve already taken to doing a whole lot less for everyone. As in next to nothing other than my contributions to rent and bills.

I’m having a hard time quoting and replying sorry if I’m too noobish I’ll figure it out.

[Anonymous 54]

I think one of the roughest positiosn to be in is being awakend while married.
You see the truth stareing back at you every day.

Make good your escape!

Welcome Pushingnumbers!!!

[PushingnumbersParticipant 72]

Anonymous wrote:

I think one of the roughest positiosn to be in is being awakend while married.
You see the truth stareing back at you every day.

Yes sir! I’m having a hard time trying to play it cool knowing I’m just thoroughly disgusted with this whole situation.

[Anonymous 6]

Hey PN good to have you here. I’ve run across so many men in my life who have their eyes opened ONLY after the marriage goes south and they get royally screwed in divorce court. You on the other hand, while in a bad and potentially dangerous position, are free to start shoring up your end of the deal and make an exit. In essence you can be proactive. That’s worth more than its weight in gold. So please, get to know the place better. There are many who know so much, some of them have posted on your thread here, I’m not really one of them by the way.

[Anonymous 43]

Guard three things from now until final disposition with this woman.

Guard your precious bodily fluids. Guard your man goo with all that is sacred. No nookie in the shower. hand jobs in the car, no blowies on the couch after the kids go to bed. Lock that spooge down tight…use a zip tie and three condoms if you have to. Make sure she is not pregnant by you ever again.

Guard your cash. Develop a gambling problem now…play scratchies at the gas station when you are out with your special snowflake, when you are alone, look in the trash at the gas station get loser tickets, and leave the losing tickets in the car and in the house. Claim you are spending $20 a day, and getting worse…next week it is $150 a week, and omg you bet on horses and baseball games, have stat sheets and racing forms around, get upset when “your” team loses. Put all this betting loss cash in a secret place…your gambling addiction is out of control you need counseling. You are a wreck. lol.

Guard your property. Make sure all the property is in your name only. House, car, boats, land. If it is in your name, start borrowing against this stuff, as part of your addiction problem…home equity lines of credit…draw on it, cash the check and make it go away, make sure you make the payments.

OK Guard your baby making juice, cash and property.

Got a job? good, keep it. Want to keep your job…keep quiet.

next legal protection. Want to be a real asshole? Visit all the lawyers you can find with free consultation. All of them in the next 5 counties. If these lawyers talk to you, they cant talk to her, its a conflict of interest. Catch one of these assholes representing your special snowflake, and let your lawyer know, sit back and watch the show.

Lawyer will cost money…deny snowflake access to cash. Get new debit cards now. Claim your account was compromised ask the bank for new cards, then do it again after the new cards arrive but do not tell your woman. Keep the good cards for yourself, activate the new and kill the old cards on the day you kick her to the curb.

In a different town, you need

a po box, a storage unit, a bank account, and possibly a beater car if you think your car will be seized. Title the car in a friend’s name, pay all the expenses. you want a car the snowflake will not want…a scabby truck or a Korean sedan with peeling paint, lots of miles and dents.

In the storage unit, you need several changes of work and play clothes, a small safe with cash and copies of all the bills, financial statements, large purchase receipts, house papers, car papers, passports birth certificates…stuff you will need later. Also a cheap laptop and a printer.

have lawyer prepare restraining order papers, eviction papers, order of protection papers. Imperative that you file first. YOu want to be the plaintiff, not the defendant. Defendant = criminal = f~~~ed in the ass

You want to punt her out of the house. Kids go with her.

Do not be nice. She will not be nice to you.

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome Pushingnumbers, I agree with Sage you are in a tight spot.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Pushing him here
Beer’s in the fridge

[Anonymous 43]

sorry, forgot the disclosure

I am not a lawyer nor do I purport to have or dispense legal advice. Do what you gotta do so you are not caught by surprise like I was, and kicked in the crotch like I was. Soften the ass rape in divorce court any way you can.

I am suggesting what I would have done if I had assets to protect, and time to prepare for the onslaught.

Know this, She will do everything short of putting you in the ground…prepare for a wide variety of bulls~~~.

Post divorce, I keep a journal, and have receipts dated every day, and time stamped every 4 hours. I lived 900 miles away, now over 1600 miles away. Record who you see, what you talk about, where you go, what you buy, what time you arrived at your job, what time you went home, be on camera, a lot.

Prepare for the wildest ride of your life dude!

[PushingnumbersParticipant 72]

Anonymous wrote:

You want to punt her out of the house. Kids go with her.

I broke lease on my apartment(ignoring the voices in my head telling me “NO!”)to move in with her, no room for them in a one bedroom and the kids aren’t mine. Do you think she could really try to get anything out of me. We own nothing together and I keep my money separate.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Pushingnumbers wrote:

Do you think she could really try to get anything out of me.

MAY 7 2020, just gave outstanding recommendations (like wow serious). And even had the courtesy to follow up with a disclaimer. By the way, he calls himself that because that’s the day his payments will finally stop.

Do you want to have a 3 year countdown of every minute until then?

Your situation is precarious. Consider a swift exit and don’t think there is something she wont do. This is not just between you and her. Its’ between you and the state too.

Start plotting your new course, captain.

Pushingnumbers wrote:

ignoring the voices in my head telling me “NO!”)

Listen to your manstincts.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I am not a lawyer nor do I purport to have or dispense legal advice.

Welcome brother and 2020,for someone who’s not a lawyer you sure have your s~~~ together!,lol

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Pushingnumbers wrote:

Gentlemen, let me start off by saying how glad I am to have found this site. I came across the site when I googled “lazy good for nothing wife.” I’m 36 yrs old no kids of my own and married as of a couple of years ago. Wife has 3 kids.

You raise 3 kids that are not yours you have f~~~ed up to the highest level. The only additional f~~~up you can make is if your wife f~~~s other guys and you end up raising more bastard kids.

I would not take care of my own kids none the less someone else’s.

Now go follow mays advice here.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

Welcome and good luck. Please keep us updated on your situation. I too fell hard for the power of the pussy. 2020 knows what the f~~~ he is talking about. I hope for your sake you do listen to the men here and realize the extreme potential danger you are in. Be very careful. You are at war. We are here for you and you don’t have to go through it alone.

BIB

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[Anonymous 1]

Welcome, I hope you have a plan to get out of there ASAP. And for the future: whenever a woman says that she has 1 or X kids imagine an atomic explosion, ask kindly for the bathroom, get out of the window(unless it costs your life, in that case just say you forgot something in the car) and run as fast as you can, never looking back.

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