You will HATE your husband after your kid is born

[Emperor HeracliusParticipant 317]

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/family/2017/05/happy_mother_s_day_you_will_hate_your_husband_after_having_a_baby.html

Get ready to laugh, gentlemen…

“I thought I had married an evolved guy—one who assured me, when I was pregnant, that we would divide up the work equally. Yet right after our baby was born, we backslid into hidebound midcentury gender roles as I energetically overmet my expectations. I was feeding the baby, so I started cooking for the whole family (pre-baby, Tom and I had alternated). I was laundering our daughter’s absurdly large mountain of soiled onesies, so I took over laundry duty. Soon I was the “expert” in changing a diaper.”

"Admit no woman to the imperial councils. Be accessible to no one. Share with few your most intimate plans."

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

And I hear some of the younger guys expressing hope. This is The Human Condition there’s absolutely no exception. Women do what they do and Men do what we do.

Men build men evolve, solve problems

Women take and cause problems

Its simple “math” haha

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22544]

This and other articles have been on twitter for the last week. The articles are further trying to convince women to be single parents or no parents at all, in the hopes of destroying western people.

The irony is those behind these articles wanted to destroy families and stop children from being born, they would embrace and push MGTOW. But doing so would invalidate the manhating feminist ideology they been pushing for decades. And by supporting MGTOW they would help swing control of having a family from women to men.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

All this baby raising crap is women’s work.

It’s not our fault that women have been lied to by feminism that they could have it all.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

MonkeyMind wrote:

It’s not our fault that women have been lied to by feminism that they could have it all.

It’s also not our problem.

[Anonymous 3]

Faust For Science wrote:

This and other articles have been on twitter for the last week. The articles are further trying to convince women to be single parents or no parents at all, in the hopes of destroying western people.

The irony is those behind these articles wanted to destroy families and stop children from being born, they would embrace and push MGTOW. But doing so would invalidate the manhating feminist ideology they been pushing for decades. And by supporting MGTOW they would help swing control of having a family from women to men.

Actually I think they’re probably somewhat okay with MGTOW. That’s why I don’t worry about a bachelor tax or anything like that. Ultimately they do probably want to reduce population, the best way to do it is with feminism, but there’s a natural sort of “slippage” with MGTOW where some men refuse to be pathetic slaves. I think the elites are okay with letting us go on as we please.

[Anonymous 6]

“…Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that a scant 7 percent of mothers reported feeling more satisfied with their marriage,…”

And there it is folks. Women go to extraordinary lengths to have a baby, even shaming men who don’t want to, and then we get this. These broads aren’t happy either way. I’m glad that I’m MGTOW!!!!

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

An awful lot of clap crap to describe the Human Condition

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MonkeyMind wrote:

All this baby raising crap is women’s work.

Baby BIRTHING is “woman’s work” – and it’s not even mandatory.

Baby RAISING is a man’s work.

Men pay 95% of all child support – even for kids that aren’t their own.

She carries the burden for 9 months – nearly 5 of of which are zero effort or inconvenience at all – and at no time is she under obligation to have or raise the child and she can toss her parental responsibilities on a whim – and leave her unwanted infant at the local fire station with no consequences and no questions asked.

HE carries 216 obligatory monthly payments for the next 18 years – whether he likes it or not. Even when everyone knows the kid is not his.

Ask any women whining about “the pains of childbirth” which she would prefer.

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She’s an “EXPERT” at changing diapers?
What a crowning achievement.

You will HATE your husband after your kid is born

I believe that and have seen it a f~~~-hundred times how a woman’s entire attitude switches into c~~~ mode the moment she thinks her “job” is now done and the universe now OWES her.

A few days before Christmas, my parents bought and moved into their first house. When my mother came home from the nospital with the first child, she berated my father for not having any Christmas greenery, a wreath or a tree, with any candles out. She sent him out into the cold and MADE him chop a tree down and bring it home so she could have her precious f~~~ing tree.

He had already built ALL the cabinets and a wall desk for her out of teak wood with his own hands…… and it STILL wasn’t enough.

He was just coming to terms with a 30 year mortgage and a mountain of debt and decades of slavery ahead, and she already “hated” on him within the first two weeks.

How many times were we told this story? Every f~~~ing Christmas my Dad was made to feel inadequate in front of everyone. I was 20 when I finally told her to knock it off.

Emperor Heraclius wrote:

Get ready to laugh, gentlemen…

It’s not funny. It’s pathetic.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Keymaster wrote:

It’s not funny. It’s pathetic.

It’s both.

Like a sad clown, it’s pathetic for those who are stuck in that trap, but for the rest of us it’s funny as hell.

And also a little creepy.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

Sorry Key Master but this time you don’t have any experience. I’m sure you don’t have to step on a landmine to know it’s dangerous but if you’ve never actually raise children Maybe consider different point of View.

Many of us men have had to be both mother and father we don’t deserve some kind of special praise but we deserve to have the knowledge and the experience we’ve had

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Anonymous 1]

TattooDave wrote:

Its simple “math” haha

Yeah, it is simple!

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

“Assured me, when I was pregnant we would divide up work EQUALLY ”

Notice how she then proceeds to bitch about how the work IS EQUAL – he likely works all day and she takes care of house

[KeymasterKeymaster]

sidecar wrote:

but for the rest of us it’s funny as hell.

I successfully avoided it and I’m still not laughing and I’ll tell you why.

An ex actually reached out to me after about 6 years of becoming a “mommy”… and she wrote “you should really have a kid”. Her instagram/facebook pics and the ones she send are just selfies with the kid. The man is nowhere to be seen. If she didn’t say so, you wouldn’t even know she was married.

“I should”? So she can HATE me afterwards?

That doesn’t make me laugh.

TattooDave wrote:

if you’ve never actually raise children Maybe consider different point of View.

Was a teacher & coach of children ages 6-18 for 5 years.
I carefully considered my point of view before putting it down.

Which part of my point of view wasn’t well thought out enough? The facts?

It’s f~~~ing MOTHERS DAY today.
And they publish “you will hate your husband after your kid is born?”

What a great way to put restaurants and flower shops out of business!!!

And there’s even a book!! “how NOT to hate your husband after kids”. WORST way to generate respect and admiration for Moms. Really nicely done. Just in time for Mother’s Day. And such a great title!

Only a woman would write a wo-manual on how NOT to do something.
She’s an authority on that. NOT doing anything.

“……men did a fairly equal share of housework—until, that is, they became dads. By the time their baby had reached nine months, the women had added more than two hours of daily work, the men a mere 40 minutes.”

… on top of his 70 hour work week because hateful c~~~ took maternity leave??
40 minutes is TOO GENEROUS.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

surfdude12 wrote:

“Assured me, when I was pregnant we would divide up work EQUALLY ”

Notice how she then proceeds to bitch about how the work IS EQUAL – he likely works all day and she takes care of house

Dividing the work up evenly means that she can duck out anytime she wants you’re stuck with a child.

You could ask yourself did you sign up to be a babysitter

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[Anonymous 3]

Women won’t shut up about how awful marriage is for women. And then when men stop marrying them, they still whine endlessly how men need to get married.

They are so f~~~ing stupid they can’t even shut up for 5 seconds and just reap the ridiculous privilege they get. Instead they have to be as obnoxious as possible.

No man should reward a woman with marriage.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Social psychologists say that men simply feel more entitled to take leisure time.

Oh, is that why the father works his ass off to provide for you and your brats while you sit around eating chips, watching TV, and complaining about how hard your life is?

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

No man should reward a woman with marriage.

No man should marry a woman who HATES him enough to actually let him go through with it. But they still do an excellent job – and all the work – at explaining “why MGTOW”.

You can shove that article (and book) in anyone’s face who would question such a precipitous decline marriage rates to a new 96-year low.

“How NOT to hate your husband”.
Jesus Christ.

Worthless junk feminist excrement like everything else they don’t produce.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 25]

She conveniently left out the part where she does ‘lunch with the girls’ and sits on her arse and watches daytime tv while the baby is sleeping

that’s what really happens the majority of the time

looking after a baby is the easiest job in the world. when women say otherwise, they’re lying

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Keymaster wrote:

“I should”? So she can HATE me afterwards?

That doesn’t make me laugh.

But the fact that I know better, the fact that I won’t fall for it, makes me laugh.

It’s like being the only person in the entire Blue-Pill Comedy Club who gets the joke. Because I know, “You will hate your husband after your kid is born,” soon enough turns to: “Where are all the Good Men™?” and, “Sperm bank shortage,” and, “Women freezing eggs in desperate hail mary play at an all time high,” and, “Here are one billion ridiculously lame reasons to f~~~ yourself over being captain save-a-ho for some worthless single mother.” And when I leave the Blue Pill Comedy Club and drop into my f~~~ing awesome car and just for the f~~~ of it take the long way home to my fully paid for quiet clean house, I’m laughing all the way because none of that is my problem.

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