Reflections of the wall

[OldBillParticipant]

ForeverDone wrote:

I have her stupid old Iphone too. Debating on sending it to her or not. I do not want to give her ideas on me trying to contact her. Her birthday is coming up. Maybe send it then.

Do Not Do That.

The break must be clean and total. You must continue to remember why it happened.

All this mooning over her stuff – the stuff she chose to leave behind – is not heathly or helpful. You need to stop it now and you need to get rid of all of it now.

Do you poke and pick at an old band-aid trying to ease it loose? Hell no. You rip that sucker off as quickly as you can to get it over with.

You’ve not going to be able to move on until you let go of the burdens she left you. Dump it, ditch it, burn it, or sell it, just get rid of it.

There’s a reason it’s over. Remember that.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Anonymous wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

I have her stupid old Iphone too. Debating on sending it to her or not. I do not want to give her ideas on me trying to contact her. Her birthday is coming up. Maybe send it then.

Sending her old obsolete stuff on her birthday isn’t going to give her ideas?

Oh man, you got to stop with this.

No, just NO.

ZERO CONTACT.

GHOST.

If you want to move on fully there’s no other way.

All I’m hearing here, is her still renting a lot of space in your head.

Agreed. Working through it. Takes time.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

ghost wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

I have her stupid old Iphone too. Debating on sending it to her or not. I do not want to give her ideas on me trying to contact her. Her birthday is coming up. Maybe send it then.

DO NOT send her anything.

DO NOT wish her happy birthday.

Be STRONG.

No doubt. Today I found a better use. Went outside and used her phone as target practice. Felt good.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

OldBill wrote:

ForeverDone wrote:

I have her stupid old Iphone too. Debating on sending it to her or not. I do not want to give her ideas on me trying to contact her. Her birthday is coming up. Maybe send it then.

Do Not Do That.

The break must be clean and total. You must continue to remember why it happened.

All this mooning over her stuff – the stuff she chose to leave behind – is not heathly or helpful. You need to stop it now and you need to get rid of all of it now.

Do you poke and pick at an old band-aid trying to ease it loose? Hell no. You rip that sucker off as quickly as you can to get it over with.

You’ve not going to be able to move on until you let go of the burdens she left you. Dump it, ditch it, burn it, or sell it, just get rid of it.

There’s a reason it’s over. Remember that.

Yep. Words of wisdom.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Just move on brother and keep her stuff away from you…You will heal much faster when those pesky memories are slowing you down…There were good times during the relationship but it is over..Remember what brought you here and the pain and manipulation she put you through…
They are very insensitive on the gifts we give them..They dont understand what it means when we spend time and money on something we gift them..They just treat it like ordinary crap because it didnt match her attire…Yup..AWALT…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 12]

Not even a MGTOW thing but just a HUMAN thing.
Much more simple, much less anger, much deeper, basic.

Look.

There was a time in your life, where you lived and grew – without her.
Then there was a Time in your life where you lived together.
Now there is a time in your life where you live and grow – without her.

Live your life without her(s~~~).
Like before.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Heave-Ho Mgtow wrote:

I put my ring in a collection pail for Salvation Army around Christmas a few years after the fact. Felt exilerating.

Damn! I have ZFG about memories.

I kept my ring… it was too cool to get rid of. Has the elven script inside of it, from the Lord of the Rings. I wanted a wedding ring that would have meaning outside of the marriage itself. Maybe it was my subconscious going MGTOW before the rest of me, LOL.

Maybe I’ll wear the ring at bar if I decide to get some strange pussy. Wedding rings seem to attract women the way catnip attracts cats. Like a pussy magnet. Maybe the ring IS magical, LOL.

THAT, and it also reminds me that when you put a ring on the finger of a woman, no matter how virtuous, it is like putting Sauron’s One Ring on her finger. The longer she wears it, the more she will be corrupted by having the power of the state and the court system at her beck and call.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Bob DylanParticipant 1352]

My ex sent me another one of her ‘nicey-nice’ e-mails yesterday. There are plenty of things that I would like to say to her, but it would be pointless, and would only encourage her to write back.
After 3 years, I have never responded to any of her attempts at dialog. She had a great deal and f~~~ed it up. I know it and she knows it. End of story !

..it ain't me babe...it ain't me you're looking for, babe...

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Bob Dylan wrote:

My ex sent me another one of her ‘nicey-nice’ e-mails yesterday. There are plenty of things that I would like to say to her, but it would be pointless, and would only encourage her to write back.
After 3 years, I have never responded to any of her attempts at dialog. She had a great deal and f~~~ed it up. I know it and she knows it. End of story !

Yep, I go with the old saying I do not negotiate with terrorists. I’m told it actually drives them more crazy when one doesn’t respond.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Anonymous wrote:

Not even a MGTOW thing but just a HUMAN thing.
Much more simple, much less anger, much deeper, basic.

Look.

There was a time in your life, where you lived and grew – without her.
Then there was a Time in your life where you lived together.
Now there is a time in your life where you live and grow – without her.

Live your life without her(s~~~).
Like before.

Yep, you’re right. Though, there were warning signs I overlooked and I accept that responsibility.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

NerdTunneler wrote:

Just move on brother and keep her stuff away from you…You will heal much faster when those pesky memories are slowing you down…There were good times during the relationship but it is over..Remember what brought you here and the pain and manipulation she put you through…
They are very insensitive on the gifts we give them..They dont understand what it means when we spend time and money on something we gift them..They just treat it like ordinary crap because it didnt match her attire…Yup..AWALT…

Yep, agreed. I am in the process of polishing the jewelry and selling it to the Jeweler. Amazing how things loose so much “value”; monetarily speaking. Never understood the point of jewelry. I get a watch; sometimes, maybe a necklace, but anything else seems pointless and a waste.

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