Red Pill Depression

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Wandering MGHOW wrote:

Zoom66 and Twostep, those were really motivational posts. Especially the part about being in shape when I’m older compared to all the other out of shape people I’ll be competing against in that age bracket. I just hope I’m not TOO attractive to the opposite sex by then. I don’t want desperate c~~~s crawling all over me in my 30’s and 40’s and beyond…

This year I’m going to get Invisalign, continue to beast at the gym, and get my first tattoo. All because I f~~~ing want to do it for myself and because I want to give off a special aura (like Twostep said). Not because I want to impress some bimbo.

Thanks guys.

Sounds good. Glad I could help.

As for women crawling all over you: Yes, they’re going to start coming on to you pretty hard in your 40s, and it will get worse with each passing decade. I’m 60, fit, lean, and looking good, and the women my age throw themselves at me. I even get overtures from single mothers in their 30s looking for a meal ticket.

If I join a social group with women in it (like a senior center, or an over-50s hiking group, or salsa dance classes), it can result in a lot of drama. The alpha female will try to single me out and cut me off from the rest of the women, and so on.

Solution: Nowadays, I just tell everyone that I’m already in a relationship. I say: It’s a long-distance relationship, my girlfriend is working and living in the next state, and we get together occasionally. It’s pretty low-key, and I like it that way. I really don’t want someone underfoot all the time. Just occasionally.

Even after I tell them that, some women still come on to me just to see if they can pry me away from the other woman, but I tell them I’m serious about the other woman and they usually give up after that. I’ve even thought of wearing an old wedding band as sort of a fake “going steady” ring to back up my story, but that hasn’t been necessary so far.

It would be easy to just sleep with the women, of course, but that would increase the drama 10-fold, and I would have to quit the group. So I just keep my dick in my pants, and there’s nothing they can do about it. I figure it’s like the old saying in the workplace: Don’t go fishing in the secretarial pool. Or to put it another way: Don’t s~~~ where you eat.

So, yes, you’ll get lots of attention from women as you age, and it will only increase as you get older. That’s part of the “aura” of being a fit, single alpha male past the age of 40: You get lots of attention everywhere you go, from both sexes. With the women, it’s a role reversal, kind of like being a hot young chick getting lots of attention from horny young guys. You’re “the belle of the ball,” and frankly the attention is flattering.

But you learn how to handle it. A little white lie or two will smooth your path and help manage the women in your social circles. And once they get the message that you’re off-limits, then it’s kind of fun being the “hot chick” who they can’t f~~~. Or if you find one woman who is really heads above the rest, you can always “break up” with your fake girlfriend and suddenly become available for that one woman in your social group. But get ready for the drama when that happens.

[DarkThunder30Participant 201]

Feel exactly the same don’t know where to go with life anymore and I feel empty inside while I get left behind.

[FreedomParticipant 295]

You aren’t suffering from lack of women. You are suffering from lack of purpose. Further, the only task you see as meaningful is pleasing someone else (a woman, specifically).

Example: you think there is no purpose to lifting since nobody else will appreciate your body. The purposelessness is what bugs you, and it feels empty because no woman will appreciate it.

So, you are still chasing lies:

1) The only meaningful action is pleasing others. LIE.
2) The only way to be happy is to have a purpose. LIE.
3) The source of meaning is something outside myself. LIE.

The human mind craves purpose because we are pack animals. Packs fully of lazy bums didn’t do as well as packs full of diligent mission-seekers. But here is the rub: all purposeful actions are ultimately arbitrary.

Even if you got your unicorn, eventually the emptiness of that relationship would be obvious to you.

Address the problem at the root by seeing this simple truth for yourself:

1) Existence (mine, in particular) is the only source of meaning.

Read this book: The Unfolding Now by A. H. Almaas

Here is some inspirational music.

It is wise to fear dangerous commitments.

[Mister Man SmithParticipant 285]

Wandering MGHOW wrote:

Red Pill Depression…

Here are my two cents:

As men we are hardwire to compete and achieve, that’s how we managed to built what we have.

As you said you are lost because you feel without a purpose, basically it’s giving you a bit of depression, but don’t panic just yet, I’ve been there and I think most guys have as well.

I’m guessing you basically feel like nothing, you don’t wanna do anything, not even get outta bed, you’d sleep two weeks if you could, am I right?

In most cases this is just a phase, what always helps is a goal, build or craft something, for example you can build an old bit of furniture, take it apart and restore it to new condition.
Having small projects like that helps focus your brain and it can be your ticket out of depression.

Also, just score some chicks, I know you said you aren’t getting any by choice but here’s my idea: See if you get some that you can really push, have them do it like porn stars, see how far you can push a chick that way.

You just need stuff that will overall challenge your brain to make it excited.

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