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Brothers, I am in a really bad spot right now. It does not involve any drama with a woman. Instead, it is about a “friend” that I have trusted in my home on numerous occasions over the last 2 years. Today, he came over for a visit. After several minutes, he asked if he could use my bathroom. I told him, “No problem.” When he returned, I had the suspicion that he had gone through my wallet that I had left on the nightstand.
Sure enough, I am missing $300. I had $985 in it. Now I’m down to $685. My fault, I realize, for trusting “friends” a little too much. There is no way that I misplaced the money. I had just returned from the bank 10 minutes before he arrived. I had not spent any cash in the last week, nor did I make any stops on the way back from the bank. As I regularly smoke pot, I can attest to being absent-minded and forgetful about a lot of things. However, this was not one of those days, since I’ve been out for about a week. My lungs needed a break from dabbing shatter for weeks on end. So, no hazy recollections or misguided memories. This motherf~~~er straight up stole from me.
If he had just asked me for the money, I probably would have gladly gave him much more than what he stole. Instead, he has played me for a fool. His arrogance knows no end. He has no idea that I had just returned from the bank. I watched the cash machine count it out, followed by the teller counting it out in front of me. I don’t believe for one second that the bank ripped me off.
My dilemma…
I am taking care of my 90 year old grandmother that is totally dependent on me. There is no other family left. Her son (my father), my sister, and mother are all dead. My grandmother and I are extremely close and I have vowed not to put her in a nursing home. She has middle stage dementia and a host of other complications.
Otherwise, I came pretty close to jamming a boning knife into his throat with no remorse. Instead, I played it off as if he had completely gotten away with it. I don’t know how long I can keep up the act of being clueless of what he has done. I let him go without any accusations or threats of violence, although it was damn hard to.
We live in the same apartment complex. Neither he or I work. I’m living off of an inheritance from my father’s estate. He is ex-military living off of disability for being caught in an IED explosion. So, we come across one another almost daily in the parking lot or at the grilling area.
The $300 is not a big loss. I’ve already covered it from another account. It is the principle that this man used his military service background to make me believe he was a decent person. I invited this son of a bitch into my apartment and this is how I get repaid. As stated, the money is not the issue. It is him pretending to be a trustworthy friend for the past 2 years. Obviously, he won’t ever be in here again. Lesson learned.
I can’t afford to fight him and leave my grandmother without help. Nor do I need a felony assault charge at this time. Once my grandmother has passed, I don’t really give a s~~~ if I got to jail. I’m not afraid of fighting him, despite his military background. He is small, while I am 6’4” and 300 lbs of muscle. I am a retired firefighter in the Dallas/Fort Worth area.
The option I’m looking at is to play him since he likes to play games. I’m thinking that once my grandmother passes, I will reach out to him for support. We will bond and become close friends. I will inherit in the six figures soon. Since he does not work, we could definitely take a vacation to a desolate place out in the woods, desert, jungle…wherever. At that time, I could exact my revenge. I’m afraid that I might have to take the fight all the way to the end. I don’t want to have to look over my shoulder for the rest of my life, worrying if he will ever strike back.
F~~~! I haven’t raged like this since my divorce 11 years ago! The itty bitty s~~~ty committee in my head wants to go ape s~~~ on this asshole. I don’t know if I have it in me to act as if nothing is wrong. I’m not going to bother confronting him about it. I know he did it. I don’t need him to admit it to me. Nor do I need the $300 back from him. I just wish he would move away so I don’t put myself into an uncompromising position and leave my grandmother without help.
Any of you that have had the rage I have are invited to advise me on how to get it under control. How do I go about future encounters with this asshole when all I want to do is stomp his guts into the sidewalk? Please advise before I possibly encounter this jackass later today.
Anonymous3I have felt that type of rage,behind similar betrayals. frankly, I know from past experience that type of anger can manifest itself in left handed ways & what happens is I would usually end up hurting myself or taking it out on an innocent person.
If you have someone you can talk to that would be helpful. you can continue to express it here on this Forum. I am quite sure a lot of us can identify.
Cut this dude out completely,cold shoulder him & remain silent & he will know that you know.F~~~ man just totally aviod the dude for f~~~s sake bro . Donnt answer ya door for a couple of days and bang half an ounce of weed and play some movies . Time out bro you need some you time .
I look after my dad who has parkinsons.
I get where you are comming from on the principle of money . But if you feal like you are HIBERNATE for a couple of days bro . You time .
Or act out and go to jail . Think bro .
TIME BRO time .
If you snap it will be you in jail with all the REGRETS IN THE WORLD .
Do you have weed ? Chill out bro chill
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
If he indeed took the money: This is very unbecoming of a veteran. This conduct should be addressed, and he should have to explain his actions. Integrity is a core value that does not vanish after discharge from the service. If you do nothing about it, he will eat himself up about it, and things will inevitably become worse in time. If you approach him, with a way to make amends, he undoubtedly would take that option.
He violated your trust and you need to make that the reason you put distance between you too. Trust is hard to earn back once lost.
Anonymous42Oh the f~~~ing burn!
I played it off as if he had completely gotten away with it. I don’t know how long I can keep up the act of being clueless of what he has done. I let him go without any accusations or threats of violence, although it was damn hard to.
If you don’t smoke that motherf~~~er, shame on YOU!
Same thing happened to me many years ago! My response was the same as yours, my legs felt like cement, I never confronted him, and I never spoke to him again after dismissing him from my life. We were friends for nearly a decade.
Draw lines my friend, then burn everything that crosses them!
Spiritual war is also hell! No room for Judas Iscariot at the round table! Solid or S~~~ are the friends you can have, it’s only a matter of choice. Liars, cheaters, thieves and manipulators, they all go in the trash bucket! They may as well be one of today’s modern entitled women!
He entitled himself to YOUR EARNINGS! F~~~ HIM!
For my 35 years of living, I completely realized what the expression “My home is my fortress” does mean. Only the most significant and trustworthy people may be left at your home on their own. Don’t make of the home, as we say, “a through passage yard”.
And always remember about your grandmother. As a rule, reckless acts aren’t fixable.Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)
Anonymous42“My home is my fortress”
If it’s not your fortress then who’s is it?
Without domicile you’re just someone eles’s property. That motherf~~~er took a piece of him!
Get right up in his face and demand your money back, then cut him out of your life.
"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K
Don’t take this the wrong way, but, honestly, three hundred is a cheap way to learn someone needs to not be in your life. I’ve been taken for a lot more, and I ain’t never even made the mistake of getting married. There are divorced men here who dearly wish that lesson had cost them a mere three hundred.
The next time you see him, tell him you know about the three hundred and tell him that’s the last you ever want to see of him or say to him.
I believe that it is rather much of a consensus here. I am still deeply bothered that this is a veteran. He should know better. There is a reason why so many of us end up homeless or committing suicide. We don’t put our burdens on others to shoulder, and we do not steal from others to meet our ends.
I have been ripped off worse by male “friends” before.
I don’t know if I have it in me to act as if nothing is wrong. I’m not going to bother confronting him about it. I know he did it. I don’t need him to admit it to me. Nor do I need the $300 back from him. I just wish he would move away so I don’t put myself into an uncompromising position and leave my grandmother without help.
That’s exactly what you must do.
Calmly and covertly “call him out” on what he did and “hope to” end the relationship with this.
“Have you seen my wallet? I thought there were 900 something bucks in there???”
“Oh, the rabbits/smurfs/snorks must have stolen it…”He is probably a male borderline and he will cause more damage if you stick with him. Offending these people can be dangerous but silently embarrassing and guilt tripping them usually gets the job done.
Show him that you know he did it but don’t accuse him.
300 bucks is the first of a much bigger damage if you keep him around. Try to get rid of him the silent way. Without cops or courts.
Maybe get him an apartment (not on your pay of course) some place far away.
In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim
If it’s not your fortress then who’s is it?
Er, maybe that is someone who is ready to defend it like a fortress? 😀
In Russia, you can be mapped up with a knife or beaten down with a club in your own house. Because the Law works on one side only. Guilty is always the side which committed a crime. So it doesn’t matter if you got attacked at your own home, self-defending can easily brought you to the jail.Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)
Anonymous42My post got wiped out when automatically I was logged out and tried to post. That sucks!
My post got wiped out when automatically I was logged out and tried to post. That sucks!
I lost a huge post yesterday.
Time to pre-edit them on Word 2016 or OpenOffice again like I used to do.
Or use Ctrl+A followed by Ctrl+C to cache it before clicking “Post my reply”.
I wonder what changed. Firefox used to be able to keep the post even after a blue screen crash (My old scrap PC had that problem) It used to be like using the back button and your post would still be there.
In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim
Anonymous42I lost a huge post yesterday.
Anonymous43punt that c~~~ out of your life.
Solid wall.
When you can, move away. Leave that f~~~er far behind.
Do not fight, do not assault, just get away. Ghost.Thank you for the responses, gentlemen. I have decided to look at the big picture and play the tape all the way to the end. I do no one any good by finding myself in a jail cell. Instead, I like blade’s invitation to hit the bong, fry up some grub, and chill.
I can ghost this motherf~~~er as I have done with most of society. The long game is what I’m shooting for. In a short time, whether it be a few months, or a few years, my 90 year old grandmother will no longer be here. I start collecting my pension from the Fire Department in November, 2019. In addition to that, I’ll have a substantial inheritance from my grandmother.
I’ve been busy the past 3 years taking care of her as her health has declined. I go to a s~~~load of doctor appointments, cook everything from scratch (she taught me how to cook before I got married), and keep the place clean. I don’t have much “down time.”
If there ever was a unicorn in my life, it would be her. Part of my story is pretty dark. As I went through the pain of my divorce 11 years ago, I ended up shooting crystal meth until I lost everything and everyone that remained after the wife left. While everyone else shut their doors to me, my grandmother did not. If I wanted a hot meal, she was there to give it. She never stopped loving me and praying for me. My road to recovery was long and arduous. So far, I haven’t touched the s~~~ since 08-08-2008. With that kind of loyalty to me, I have felt compelled to take care of this woman to the best of my ability and will not jeopardize my freedom over this. As sidecar has noted, $300 isn’t much money to discover a “s~~~ friend.” We’ve all lost MUCH more in our divorces.
I look to my future. I will likely never have to work again. I will have enough start up capital to put myself into a trade school, go on some miraculous trips, or be a lazy f~~~ without a care in the world.
As for the asshole, he is superglued to his c~~~ and is miserable. I’m sure he is hard up for money, as she has made him work part time to raise their standard of living. Apparently, his military pension isn’t enough to keep her happy. Their relationship isn’t very solid, as I remember that she gave him a black eye last summer, along with pulling a pistol on him. A few months ago, he admitted that he was thinking of suicide and letting her discover his bloody corpse when she got home. When I consider his history with her, I have very little doubt that he will one day act upon his misery and become one of the 22 veteran suicides that happen each day. I need to make sure that he doesn’t come gunning for me on that day.
In retrospect, I have it good. Really good. Instead of wasting my time on plotting revenge, I shall invest that time into planning my MGTOW future. I have visions of blasting down the Colorado Rockies on double black diamond runs, scuba diving in the Caymans, or dropping $100 chips on a blackjack table. I am going to live LARGE without a parasite clinging on to my wallet. I’ll soon be “kushing out” my cigars while drinking fine cognac.
Some might argue that I am not truly a MGTOW, since I’m bound to the responsibility of taking care of my grandmother. I disagree. I simply discovered that I could be inheriting that money one day that she was paying to the nursing home each month. Furthermore, what other job could I get that allowed me to smoke weed, sleep during the day, and play xbox? So, in a way, I am a man going my own way. Since I asked her to move in with me, I feel that I am walking my own path. I will not jeopardize this with rash decisions that could really f~~~ up my future.
Again, thank you for the responses, gentlemen. I really appreciate having this site where I can express myself without having to worry about some c~~~ notifying the authorities. I don’t know of any other place that I have the freedom or ability to do that.
If you are new to MGTOW, I invite you to get to know some of the personalities here. Let them get to know you. Knowing that I have access to 30,000 brothers’ wisdom, makes me a very satisfied customer of MGTOW. This fellowship has turned a blue pilled simp into a red pilled man with a plan. I thank God for this place. It is sacred ground where we walk. Peace to all.
I wouldn’t assault the guy, if you want your cash back, just tell him you feel he betrayed you, and you want your 300 dollars back or you’re going to have to call the police. Most guys, if they know they’re guilty, will give it back because they don’t want to have to deal with the cops. I hate having to call the cops on another man, but don’t get yourself thrown in jail, he’s the dishonest one who took your $300.
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C~~~s come in all genders, colours, and sizes.
$300 doesn’t mean s~~~ in the scheme of things. Take the high road. Guilt is probably the worst emotion for a person to live with. That $300 is going to cost him dearly, with no intervention from you needed.
Take care of yourself brother.
The answer, is no.
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