quotes from the wife

[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

me: you sucking off a 19yo is the reason youve lost anything.

Her: No its not. U not being the husband u should have been is the reason ive lost everything. People make mistakes u have made a few urself. And trust me I have not used an excuse one time about finding a job until today.

 

me: youre manipulative, you try to get what you want the wrong ways by saying anything or doing anything. I see clean through it.</span>

me: dont make it so obvious with your next boyfriend he might stay around longer

Her : Im never dating again. And no I dont ur so mean

 

 

[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

Her: I feel like in a way this would be the perfect time for me to go to school. But u want a divorce so now im kind of screwed for life. When am I ever going to get the chance to go to school??? I will have to work constantly just to pay bills and up keep lillie. I just feel like I am stuck working a basic job and will never amount to anything.

 

txt after quitting job

[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

Her : I really hate how bad I messed me and u up. That is why im so angry. I so hurt that were divorcing. Its not what I want. But I know this is what u want and I dont blame u. I just think about our daughter and I wanted for her to have mom and dad in her life.

 

me : you want it, you talk to seth still as much as me. But hey its like the monkey in the tree. You cant let go of one branch till you got a good grip on the other

 

her : I do talk to seth but thats bc he says hes gonna kill himself. Ive been staying right down the road at missy house. Thats where I stay all the time. And I dont want to divorce. But I know our marriage is f~~~ed beyond repair and I understand why u filed for divorce.

 

me: o so hes got a mental disorder too?

 

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

the only quote from you that matters right now is “Adios”.

there is no quote from her that matters anymore.

try to focus on this: You’re not trying to indict or convict her of being what she is. You’re not trying to prove her guilt or to get her to acknowledge it. You’re not trying to confront her about it or to get even with her for it. You’re trying to get out.

Look at it this way. You’re in a building and the lights start to flicker. The air in the building is getting suddenly and strangely warmer. You hear foot steps running in the hallway. You detect the faint smell of smoke. You hear sirens in the distance coming closer, and you hear people screaming…

You KNOW the building is on fire. You know it’s too far out of control to contain the fire. The building is lost. You also know that the longer you stay, the more damaging and painful to you that it will be. Do not waste time arguing about who started the fire, how it started, who’s job it was to prevent the fire… NONE of that stuff matters. What matters is: getting the f~~~ out!

Stay low and move as quickly as possibly to the exit. Focus ONLY on that. There is nothing in the building worth slowing down for to try to save, and there is no conversation worth slowing down for. If you are asked a question, give whatever answer moves you most efficiently toward the exit. If you are given any kind of choice, choose the one that moves you most efficiently toward the exit. Do not stop or slow down to reminisce about better times in that building. Do not stop for mad people. Do not stop for happy people. DO NOT STOP.

Focus ONLY on the exit signs and do not allow anything to distract you or otherwise slow you down. Your emotions may be stormy, mixed up and confusing. Think of the finalized divorce as the exit sign and just continue to navigate to that.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

I know man… I try to ignore most of her txts. Getting the f~~~ out is seriously the only option. I just wanted everyone to see the typical s~~~ i have to deal with.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I didn’t see your second and third posts go up while I was typing my response to the first one. Here’s my response to the second and third posts:

What the f~~~ are you doing reading and answering text messages (from an arsonist) while standing in a burning building?

Get the f~~~ out! Later, years from now, you can have some long philosophical text message exchanges about how the fire started, who started it…whatever. Right now, focus on getting the f~~~ out of the building!

🙂

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

We’ve seen it buddy. We’ve seen it long before you came to this site. 🙂

When you have a minute, go and survey the topic threads “worst lie a woman ever told you” and “most irrational thing a woman’s ever said to you”. the most irrational one was my original contribution… <taking bow>

We’ve all seen that crazy ass estrogen fueled insanity… you are definitely not alone…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

here’s one last thing I can maybe contribute for you. if you google “stages of loss”, you’ll likely find articles discussing the usual emotional response pattern to a death in the family or major loss of property or health. They are denial, bargaining, anger and acceptance. Read about this is the divorce represents a major loss for your soon to be ex. She is likely to be demonstrating all of these soon, although it sounds like she’s in the denial/bargaining stage now (mentioning loss of opportunity for school and how much she wanted it etc etc etc… is an offering to you of an opportunity to forgive her and take her back… she knows it’s a long shot that you’ll swallow that bait, but she doesn’t want to accept loss of that opportunity yet and is trying to make some deal, any deal that might let her avoid having to face that loss).

Stay focused on the exit. Let her be in denial and bargaining as long as you can to get as far through the exit as you can before she sees that bargaining aint gonna work. Because at that point, she’s going to get angry. And that’s when some really crazy s~~~ can go down. Hopefully, you’ll be gone and beyond her reach by then…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

thanks, I need to check those out..im sure i can find a few to add to that thread

[TemperedParticipant 55]

Emotional blackmail at its finest.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Um, is English not her first language?

[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

English is supposed to be her first but shes lazy….A few more good ones

“Or I hope u get f~~~ing fired from ur job. U have pushed me over for the last time jason. I wish nothing but bad on ur life everyday until u die. Which couldnt happen soon enough.”

 

“Hope u wreck in the way home and dont come back from it or get paralyzed from it and have to depend on someone to take care of ur sorry ass. I promise u it wont be me and we all know how much ur family will be there for ya hahaha”

 

“Hahaha yea so funny laugh it up jason. Ur the biggest piece s~~~ loser I have ever met and u will get urs in the end. U will see that.”

[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

If she asks for money and I deny, its cause I “don’t want to pay for my child”…Ive paid every bill at our place for months and she pulls the child card.
This one p~~~es me off kind of. Last one

 

If so then im going. to go apply for food stamps and they will set up child support. Since I had ro quit my job bc u refuse to step up and.be a real dad. F~~~ u and f~~~ seth. Its men like u that make women gay. And men like u and seth that make women realize ur all pieces of s~~~s. And seth is the one paying for ur child csuse u refuse to not be a sorry ass dad”

 

 

[RoyDalParticipant]

What the f~~~ are you doing reading and answering text messages (from an arsonist) while standing in a burning building?

Says it for me.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Andypaton505Participant 4]

Your better off solo dude.  Pop Culture feminists have hijacked any rational thought process of any women and the last statement or text about men being s~~~ and turning women gay is just pathetic to be honest.

Good Luck anyways in your future endeavours and avoid these types of bitches if you are continuing any relations with the opposite sex.

[JFick83Participant 21]

Hey man, don’t bother with the tit-for-tat with a soon to be ex, trust me. It’s ultimately illogical and won’t accomplish anything with a woman, which is why they pursue it. Your obligations to her are over, if she needs to talk about it then that’s HER problem; you’ve got a fresh start on life so seize the opportunity and drop the trash on the way out.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

One more thing: keep every single one of those text messages. Do not ever delete any of them. Don’t answer them, but don’t delete them. Same goes for any ranting crazy message she leaves in voice mail. Be especially sure to keep those. And if she ever gets herself recorded making any kind of threat of ANY kind of violence against you: jackpot!

Ranting on about how she would like to see your house burn down or watch you bleed or any other of that crazy stuff that makes them feel good to scream onto a voice mail… Suddenly feels completely different to them when they’re listening to it played back while standing in court in front of a judge. There are two kinds of judges that any kind of threat can be played back for. One who’s holding a mental health warrant to forcibly commit them for psychiatric evaluation, or criminal court judge considering harassment charges or restraining order (either of which will turn up on background search of that person forever after that).

Google ‘mental health warrant’ in your state and you will likely find language that refers to things like, “physical danger to themselves or others…”, “expressed intent or plan to commit violent acts…”. Depending on where you live, she may have already reached the threshold with her “hope you die and it couldn’t happen soon enough” text you posted. If it doesn’t meet the threshold of making a threat, she is coming very very close. If you live in a major city, it is likely that there is a judge’s office on the ground floor of the county psychiatric ward where a judge does nothing but deal with these warrants. Laws differ state to state so google it for your state. In my state, a mental health warrant results in constables picking a person up (by force and in handcuffs if necessary) and bringing them to the local county psych ward for 96 hour evaluation. They will have 4 days to convince a team of psychiatrists that they are not a ‘danger to themselves or others’ before being released, or kept locked for up to 90 more days. The team of psychiatrists will have heard those recordings if they were the basis of the warrant. If she has ever had any history of taking any psychoactive medications, (antidepressants etc), the team will have been made aware of that as well.

Any evidence of crazy can also be useful when played back during a court hearing to determine who’s the better parent. While it’s true that men’s rights to their kids don’t mean much to most judges, the judge’s own career does. The nightmare scenario for any judge is to put a kid with a parent even after hearing evidence of crazy in that parent’s own voice, and then ending up on the 5 o’clock news after something bad happened to the kid at the hands of that parent who had already been shown to him to be crazy. News outlets will play back that crazy message that the judge ignored on the evening news while displaying a picture of a kid in a hospital bed or morgue. The news outlets are more ruthless than the courts.

Remember during the OJ Simpson trial for killing his wife, the news stations were playing back 911 tapes of her voice begging the LA Police to come and get him, but they had not. Judge may not care much about your rights, but he’s an elected politician …and he DOES NOT want to share that embarrassment with the LA police.

Don’t ever discard any evidence of crazy… and don’t ever tell her that you are collecting it.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[TomParticipant 3]

Our wedding night  , she tells my daughter ” you are not going to win I’m meaner that you are ” well that’s why I’m MIGTOW now and my daughter talks to me again .

“I have no rights where I live”

” Why did I marry ” after not paying her 25.00 light bill , I was paying too other households at the time my old home and the new one we just bought by the way

” I feel like your f~~~ing maid ” the first time she set the table by herself

I was deep frying a turkey with her brother , her mom had one in the oven she stated

” I don’t care about your turkey”

“you owe me rent for staying here” after I left her free apartment to go move into our new house with out her

“you never put me on your debit card ”

” they are going to shut off my cable can you pay the bill’ eights months after I left

” I will procesute you to the fullest extent of the law if you take me off the car insurance ” eight months after I left and living in my own

“You told pastor you will take care of me he will testify to that ”

“your and idiot ” at least 100 times in 5 months

“It must be lonely being you ” nope by that time I was fishing again

“you obnoxious when you drink” I don’t drink , but she did a lot , red flags I missed them all, thank god for this site

Oh there is more , I picked a good one

“My doctor said I can drink my liver is fine,”

Im so glad to be free again , I know now what it really means , at 52 I’m done chasing , work on yourselves guys , Sandman has a good path

 

Thank you ,

 

 

 

 

 

[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

Sounds like she and my De-fiance our related..Well wait, All women are like that.

[Mr. LameParticipant 13]

Check this s~~~ out, a message from my de-fiance to her ex boyfriends dad…wtf. …So dude was hooked on ice, my de-finace was giving him money. No wonder she always asked me for cash she was giving it all to him, and the bitch is still living with me.#rage Oh yea, and dude was f~~~ing her cousin lmao.

 

‘You know I have every right to be mad. Seth lied to me and made me feel like absolute s~~~. And he was cheating on me with my.cousin who is more like a sister. Yes he is younger but he knew what he was doing. No disrespect to you at all but how many.people came to u and said ur gf was only 30 u should have known better. U still have feelings for her. I have feelings for seth and he really hurt mine. Do I think he is a pussy ass bitch no way. But he is acting like a coward and so is she bc they knew they have done me and my daughter wrong. No disrespect to you at all but I feel like u needed to step back and see where im coming from. I love seth and want the best for him but she is.not the best. She sleeps with people.for pills and.ice. seth is so.broke.bc.he.is doing.ice. he has not been to see his po officer or paid him. I.gave him the 400 for that so he stayed out of jail. The.girl is.bad.news and seth is not the same person I first met. Hes going down.a.bad road and dont want to see him hurt or anything. Sorry and thank.you’

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