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What’s it like and do you miss the sex. I sometimes think this will be my ultimate destination. I have a couple of current situations that require little effort on my part and provide some positives. However could see myself completely failing to chase tail going forward. I enjoy not being at risk of stds and having a full bed to sleep in and avoiding women’s pointless drama. Interested in hearing the monk experiences if any of you wish to share. Cheers.
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Sex with women is always overrated. they think they are so much better than they are, and think having sex is just laying there. Dead person sex ain’t great.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
I don’t really want a women. I know it would be fun. But I’m just no longer really interested anymore. Sure, I do have my moments when I find a women attractive. But then all I see is what she could turn out to be. And then the masks comes off the more you know about them.
Its weird, but I no longer wish to bother or share any of my time anymore. I have family to take care off, and my own things and don’t really care to be the states bitch. Nor do I care about being alone. Maybe I know that there is just nothing down that road. And once you seen it so many times, you understand how empty it all is.
I think about Anthony Hopkins in his movie that he quoted about love. And I wonder if it really is all a tragedy. When I see how many men are miserable, it wakes me up quick. I remember my last boss talking about how distant his wife was. Its sad. I still wonder sometimes why so many people bother.
You see, it only works out if there really is an entire community of people supporting it. As it is now? There is little to none. And like it or not, the system that we have in place was there only due to people on top making sure it stayed that way for all the ones below. While the ones on top knew damn well it was all a Fragile manufactured infrastructure.
The thing is, I don’t want to have anymore fake in my life. I don’t care about what women have to offer me since what they have is worthless to me. Its not what I wanted. And I can see women any other way. I’m not saying that there are no good times to be had. Its just that its not worth the long run of torture.
Have I stopped dating? Yes I have. I don’t see any reason why I should. To me? I’m not a fly by night kind of fellow. I like to build things for the long run. And share the things I do have. But more often then not, this is not what women want.
I don’t care about paying, or taking care of a women. But when the state is there for them? I’m just a fun night out. Why not just keep doing that instead?
People really are sadly made to enjoy each other in small amounts. Its are culture now. And it seems that it is the way to go forward. Problem is? Women don’t get the long term of what they want that is simply control over you. Not to watch you build or grow. Or even invest. Just to use you, and throw you away when the other new thing comes along.
Afterall, no matter what, you are just simply a second choice as always. And the thing is? Even if you are the guy that wants her? She is not really into that. She is really only thinking about the next guy. Not you. You are simply there until the next one comes along.
Women always talk about how men like to trade in their wives. I found out its just women projecting. Almost everything women complain about is just their projections. Not facts. But their own thoughts just blamed on a man. And then they wonder why men don’t want them?
When you hash it all out, sure. Some do find some great relationships. But make no mistake. A women simply saying she loves to cook and take care of her man, is OUSTED at being some kind of slave. Put down for doing so. And then, always under the ruse that other men want her, but its all just about f~~~ing both your lives up. However, she can just start over again. Not you. You are stuck with the bills, while the other man laughs it up.
Then if she does cheat on you, the only thing she can do is blame you for it. And then of course, if it comes out, then its your fault she did it. Then of course, the blame game, the rape allegations/ etc. etc. etc. Whatever to save face. And this is all blessed by the almighty hive mind.
In truth? If men really were in charge? This would never happen. No man wants to go through this hell of women. But in fact, we are all told one thing, and shown another. There is no middle ground here. And their is no solution to the question of women and who they are and what they are willing to do.
Its just simpler to enjoy what they want to trade, and call it a day. When you get tired of it? You just walk away from all of it.
I want something more. And women for the majority just don’t have what I want. So why bother? When you understand that women don’t care about the nice things in life you offer, and take you for granted? Why bother with them?
Countless men have spoken about how women are simply not into the same things that you are. If the only thing they want is sex, and that is the only thing you really share as an interest? Kind of makes women a moot point.
The worst truth is, the more you love or care for a women, the more distant she gets. The more you show her your love with Trinkets, devotion etc, the more jaded she is. And the more vulnerable you get, the more she hates you for loving her. SHe knows what she is. And that’s why the inevitable happens.
I think a few men like Big John talked about this. The more you give a women, the more she values herself. But if you treat them like you don’t care, they seem to respect you. If that’s what its all about, count me out. I don’t need people like that in my life. And I don’t care about wasting my time with a human being who thinks less of me the better of a man I try to be.
To women, its all about one thing. They also blame men for this. But little do they know that its women themselves that are one trick ponies. Not men. TO women, if you give them anything, they think only one thing. HOW can you get MORE out of this SIMP. TO Men, all they are thinking is just how Happy it is to have a women in their lives that they love to shower with gifts and so much more. Build them a home. Take care of them. Watch over them. Help them.
Its a strange world. But its all we have for right now. And until their is some kind of evolution? Its always going to be the same thing. Women are like Limited lifetime warranty items. Men are like a 30 year term loan. Even when its all paid off, you always get more. Women expire after 90 days. And then they seek something new.
Its just how it all works. And it sucks. Men and women are just not made for each other. Sure we FIT together. But the glue is just Putty. It dries up real quick.
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Hire a professional only when needed. Simple.
What’s it like and do you miss the sex.
Life is simpler and more rewarding. With no monkey on your back, there are more opportunities to realise your potential.
I don’t miss sex at all. Look at it cold and see it for what it is.
It’s hard to do without. I get a lot of temptations.
Once I swore off women it felt like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders. I’ve been monk since July of 2011. Best choice I have ever made. What I REALLY don’t miss is trying to figure out how to leave her house after I was done banging her. I usually would wait until she fell asleep. That always took too long. I have basically zero desire for sex or the bull$H!+ that comes with it. I will most likely be monk until the day I die. It’s a good feeling.
I did it for a decade in my 20’s. Then had sex in 30’s and now 40’s frequently. I am not into one night stands, and prefer long term FWB.
Monk experience was great for me personally. I was saving large amounts of money. My net worth reached 7 figures before 30 by living a modest lifestyle. Lots of free time. Little stress.
It is very relaxing doing whatever you want, whenever you want. Very liberating. But, I am fine being alone and enjoy solitude. So personality type impacts on this strongly. Moreso even than sex, in my opinion. People desire companionship, some much more strongly than others.
I like sex with a woman, and have a fairly high sex drive, but I am not going to jump through a bunch of hoops for it.
If for some reason FWB situation ends, pursuing another, will be a low priority for me. I don’t see living with a woman again.
Life is simpler and more rewarding. With no monkey on your back, there are more opportunities to realise your potential.
I don’t miss sex at all. Look at it cold and see it for what it is.
Do you think maybe that the mindset of how men think about sex now in Monk mode, is probably how women have always seen sex with men?
Maybe it’s just me, but I get this weird icky feeling of disgust having sex with a woman, and there is nothing else there. Kind of like how TFM puts it, “all you are doing is using her body to Mastrubate”.
That simply does not sound appealing to me.
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I don’t really want a women. I know it would be fun. But I’m just no longer really interested anymore.
Didn’t one of them get you locked up over bullsh!t? Yeah, I can see why you’re no longer really interested anymore.
I can see how a Man that has a lot of Sex over Many Years can get to the point where sexual stimulation/satisfaction becomes LESS easy to achieve as well as LESS satisfying.
For example, If a Man really LOVES steak, and OVER TIME he partakes in all different cuts served in all types of wonderful ways may get to the point where no matter what type he consumes it becomes LESS and LESS satisfying to the point where he may just simply grow tired of it and steer clear of it.
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OK, let me be the accountant in the room for a minute. Simple cost/benefit analysis.
Start with the benefit. Is sex with a woman fun? Yup. Do I miss it? Less as time goes on.
Now let’s be perfectly practical for a minute. At my age I would have to meet women online. It’s too hard to meet single women in their 40’s or 50’s any other way. So I have to go out and take some pictures of me pretending to have fun for my profile, write something witty, search through the dumpster looking for that one steak dinner that got thrown out, flirt, get an email, back and forth a few times, phone calls, meet up, find out she 10 years older and 50 pounds heavier than her profile picture, tell her to f~~~ off for lying. Rinse and repeat.
See how short the benefit paragraph is? See how long the cost paragraph is?
The juice isn’t worth the squeeze.
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What’s it like and do you miss the sex.
I have no desire to chase after; money, power, social status and lust, since I choose freedom.
If I chase after money, I will end up working 9-5 at a minimum, if not longer.
If I chase after power, corruption will take over my mind.
If I chase after social status, I will become mentally burnt out trying to please others.
If I chase after lust, all of the above problems combine into one.A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.
I’m 51 and still have a very high sex drive. Unfortunately, due to my primal wiring, jerking off isn’t nearly as satisfying as being with an actual woman. At the moment, hiring a pro is cost prohibitive. So I go for the “no maintenance” women, not only do they expect nothing from me – they surprisingly buy me dinner etc the majority of the time. These women are typically beneath my caste, but that is why they are “no maintenance”…it’s a bit like having something between a FWB and LTR. If one of them gets demanding, I will immediately punt her and quickly snag her replacement. I’ve banged my way right through eight of them already within three years.
Sovereignty above all else.
Sex with women is always overrated. they think they are so much better than they are, and think having sex is just laying there. Dead person sex ain’t great.
Unless you’re into that sort of thing.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Do you think maybe that the mindset of how men think about sex now in Monk mode, is probably how women have always seen sex with men?
I see it simply as reproduction. Wimmin see it as means to lock down resources. Neither viewpoint has anything to say about ‘lurve’.
Do you think maybe that the mindset of how men think about sex now in Monk mode, is probably how women have always seen sex with men?
I see it simply as reproduction. Wimmin see it as means to lock down resources. Neither viewpoint has anything to say about ‘lurve’.
I don’t know where the term “making love” came from, but it makes me sick. Sex has nothing to do with “love”. It’s purely physical pleasure. You don’t even have to like the person you’re having sex with to enjoy it. Many times I’ve had sex with women when neither one of us liked the other at all, but we still enjoyed it and had fun………and then parted ways.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Sex with women is always overrated.
Hard to find a woman who will help with the work. The younger ones really do just kind of lie there. Even then they are all so fat nowadays. I never thought I’d be 49 and most twenty somethings aren’t worth my time therefore…
Hire a professional only when needed. Simple.
Hiring an honest woman is the way to go. You never pay for sex you pay them to leave. Then you don’t have to deal with this…
hat I REALLY don’t miss is trying to figure out how to leave her house after I was done banging her
Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.
Sex with women is always overrated. they think they are so much better than they are, and think having sex is just laying there. Dead person sex ain’t great.
And then of course, afterwards, waiting to see what they ask you to do now that they ‘let you’ have sex with them…
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
Life is simpler and more rewarding. With no monkey on your back, there are more opportunities to realise your potential.
I don’t miss sex at all. Look at it cold and see it for what it is.Do you think maybe that the mindset of how men think about sex now in Monk mode, is probably how women have always seen sex with men?
Maybe it’s just me, but I get this weird icky feeling of disgust having sex with a woman, and there is nothing else there. Kind of like how TFM puts it, “all you are doing is using her body to Mastrubate”.
That simply does not sound appealing to me.I would say no. Because the average woman has 20-50 times less testosterone than the average guy her age. Plus she has the pregnant capability men do not. Plus hypergamy isn’t the same sex drive scenario as a mans. You really cannot say women go monk for the reasons men do. men go monk because they are tired of dealing with women. Men dont need women to survive and maintain their stuff. women need men this way, they on average are not as smart on their own or strong enough on their own. women dont go monk, they want a wallet/security guard around them, they use sex to control the man and through kids and threat of divorce, control the relationship.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
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