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  • #317130
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    The Missing Man
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    What exactly are you telling your daughters about marriage?

    #317140
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    Awakened
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    I’m trying to teach my kids (boy and girls) the importance of each of them to become “Independent” adults. They NEED to have a marketable skill/education that can provide them an income that will grant them their independence. Going through life being reliant upon another person is not an option. They need to be able to support themselves in the world, and the sooner the better. So, at their present ages, I’m indirectly teaching them that marriage is an option, except I directly tell my son in private not to do it. I’m not sure yet how to directly approach the subject with my daughters.

    The ironic thing in all this, is that my wife supports my message to the kids about them becoming an independent adult, but for some reason it doesn’t resonate with her. She’s still a barely part-time working leach !!

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #317141
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    Chaff/Flare
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    The boys gave some great comments on a thread I started “need some help”. Look at my profile

    When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

    #317142
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    TattooDave
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    My daughter eldest was born in 1984 I told her before she could even speak that whatever she wanted to do was good. My youngest daughter was born in 1988 and I told her and her sister who was old enough to understand at the time that they needed to be able to stand on their own without having anyone helping them at all. Look we don’t have some kind of Dowry system here and once a daughter always a daughter but you cannot let them depend on you unless it is completely Beyond The Last Resort. Otherwise they will use you as does every woman out there you have ever known. Come on dude really. My daughters are adults and like all adults they have to learn their own adult lessons. I know it sounds harsh but it is how it has to be for some people such as myself. Although I love my oldest daughter I had to ask her to leave my home last year as neither of us were helping each other. This is a very hard thing to have to do to be forced to do because you see a woman no matter if it is your daughter or your grandmother will ever take Agency for their own actions. I hate to warn you but girls daughters that is specifically will completely use you and when you are done and what is left of you has come through the other end of the meat grinder let us know how that works out otherwise take heed and what men say about women

    I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

    #317145
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    Blue Skies
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    the marriage contract is a bad deal… that’s what i would tell them.

    MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

    #317147
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    TattooDave
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    Remember and it is true girls mature faster than boys so although it appears as though their IQ is higher than boys it levels off and never gets any higher then past a certain point. However young man take while longer 2 mature and as a result are IQs can continue to climb or stay the same as our female counterparts. I think with women’s intelligence if there is such a thing has perhaps an event horizon and they might even see this when they are young girls of 10 or 11. I watched two young girls grow up I observe their behavior and it is consistent with mgtow. Apparently in my opinion anyway all women are like that because all women are simply born that way. I’m thinking about doing a video I’m not going to show my kids faces but I’m going to point out all throughout from birth on how they simply acted like crazy f****** b****** do. I can’t get this m************ thing to shut up okay well anyway I have no f*** vocabulary. No big deal no one ever talks about single fathers what do we have to overcome I think messenger Maybe

    I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

    #317148
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    The Missing Man
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    The boys gave some great comments on a thread I started “need some help”. Look at my profile

    /forums/topic/need-some-advice-3/

    #317150
    TattooDave
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    Remember and it is true girls mature faster than boys so although it appears as though their IQ is higher than boys it levels off and never gets any higher then past a certain point. However young man take while longer 2 mature and as a result are IQs can continue to climb or stay the same as our female counterparts. I think with women’s intelligence if there is such a thing has perhaps an event horizon and they might even see this when they are young girls of 10 or 11. I watched two young girls grow up I observe their behavior and it is consistent with mgtow. Apparently in my opinion anyway all women are like that because all women are simply born that way. I’m thinking about doing a video I’m not going to show my kids faces but I’m going to point out all throughout from birth on how they simply acted like crazy f****** b****** do. I can’t get this m************ thing to shut up okay well anyway I have no f*** vocabulary. No big deal no one ever talks about single fathers what do we have to overcome I think messenger Maybe

    I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

    #317153
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    Chaff/Flare
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    We have had to come to terms with our nature as men. There were no nets to protect us from mistakes.

    Young girls must come to terms with their nature.

    When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

    #317225
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    Blade
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    I have two young daughters i love with my heart and an older step daughter i look at as my own because i have known her from young.She is a kind of mgtow woman just concentrates on her career.My two younger daughters i always tell not to worry about boyfriend’s and concentrate on education.If they play up i tell them not to be an aussie man woman.I always would point out to them if bad behavior of a woman was demenstrated in public or where ever a park.To look how the woman was acting and how un lady like it was.My daughters are 10 and 13 Haven’t seen my youngest in a year and a half now but get to speak once a week on the phone.They are 8 killometers away and just herd a few weeks back that my 13 year old has been hit with a power cord,called fat all the time,had dhit thrown at her and beaten.Police report handed to judge on her partner were he was showing my kids his arse.mother told judge in detail i mean detail how she physically abused them.medical report of when mother attacked me with knife thrown aside.End of my relationship with mother she was putting penicillian in my food which i am alergic.Reason why mother attacked me with knife was because she was one of the few i confided in what happend to me when i was five.kids lived with me for three years mum came and took them so she wouldn’t go to jail for fraud and using my abn tax file number.Havent done an intro on here just as yet due to a gag order on my case so i throw things in the threads at times due to an ex and her white knight i beleave to be lurking.At the wright time i will put my hold story up and plan on breaking order.get to see my girls at xmas.cant wate.seen my 13 year old about 3 months ago.After recieving a text from the ex my 13 year old threatend to stab them with a knife.Alot more to tell that eill reveal corruption in family court Australia. Suffer bad from ptsd and sorry for ranting and derailing the thread.this place has litterally saved my life.thanks guys

    THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

    #317226
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    Blade
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    Somrthing that made mr laugh my 10 year old told me she has a boyfriend and is keeping him.She said he stays with her because she doesn’t nag him.

    THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

    #317294
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    Anonymous
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    Unfortunately,

    I have no contact with my daughters.

    Yeah it hurt to write these words. the truth sucks.

    #317305
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    Chaff/Flare
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    I have two young daughters i love with my heart and an older step daughter i look at as my own because i have known her from young.She is a kind of mgtow woman just concentrates on her career.My two younger daughters i always tell not to worry about boyfriend’s and concentrate on education.If they play up i tell them not to be an aussie man woman.I always would point out to them if bad behavior of a woman was demenstrated in public or where ever a park.To look how the woman was acting and how un lady like it was.My daughters are 10 and 13 Haven’t seen my youngest in a year and a half now but get to speak once a week on the phone.They are 8 killometers away and just herd a few weeks back that my 13 year old has been hit with a power cord,called fat all the time,had dhit thrown at her and beaten.Police report handed to judge on her partner were he was showing my kids his arse.mother told judge in detail i mean detail how she physically abused them.medical report of when mother attacked me with knife thrown aside.End of my relationship with mother she was putting penicillian in my food which i am alergic.Reason why mother attacked me with knife was because she was one of the few i confided in what happend to me when i was five.kids lived with me for three years mum came and took them so she wouldn’t go to jail for fraud and using my abn tax file number.Havent done an intro on here just as yet due to a gag order on my case so i throw things in the threads at times due to an ex and her white knight i beleave to be lurking.At the wright time i will put my hold story up and plan on breaking order.get to see my girls at xmas.cant wate.seen my 13 year old about 3 months ago.After recieving a text from the ex my 13 year old threatend to stab them with a knife.Alot more to tell that eill reveal corruption in family court Australia. Suffer bad from ptsd and sorry for ranting and derailing the thread.this place has litterally saved my life.thanks guys

    I have two young daughters i love with my heart and an older step daughter i look at as my own because i have known her from young.She is a kind of mgtow woman just concentrates on her career.My two younger daughters i always tell not to worry about boyfriend’s and concentrate on education.If they play up i tell them not to be an aussie man woman.I always would point out to them if bad behavior of a woman was demenstrated in public or where ever a park.To look how the woman was acting and how un lady like it was.My daughters are 10 and 13 Haven’t seen my youngest in a year and a half now but get to speak once a week on the phone.They are 8 killometers away and just herd a few weeks back that my 13 year old has been hit with a power cord,called fat all the time,had dhit thrown at her and beaten.Police report handed to judge on her partner were he was showing my kids his arse.mother told judge in detail i mean detail how she physically abused them.medical report of when mother attacked me with knife thrown aside.End of my relationship with mother she was putting penicillian in my food which i am alergic.Reason why mother attacked me with knife was because she was one of the few i confided in what happend to me when i was five.kids lived with me for three years mum came and took them so she wouldn’t go to jail for fraud and using my abn tax file number.Havent done an intro on here just as yet due to a gag order on my case so i throw things in the threads at times due to an ex and her white knight i beleave to be lurking.At the wright time i will put my hold story up and plan on breaking order.get to see my girls at xmas.cant wate.seen my 13 year old about 3 months ago.After recieving a text from the ex my 13 year old threatend to stab them with a knife.Alot more to tell that eill reveal corruption in family court Australia. Suffer bad from ptsd and sorry for ranting and derailing the thread.this place has litterally saved my life.thanks guys

    F~~~ me man. I’m sorry

    When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

    #317311
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    MgtowWave
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    I dont have a daughter.

    But if i did i would tell her to avoid thugs.

    Teach them,if possible to judge people on the quality of their virtues and not on their looks and bulls~~~ talk.

    Teach them to control their hybristophelia.

    frankly my dear i don't give a damn

    #317441
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    Rolling Tin Fist
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    I’m Awakened While Married and have a daughter and son.

    My son (not even in double-digits) is very much is on the cusp of being a mangina or white knight or perhaps gay. I’ve already shown him how both girls and women manipulate him. I tell him point blank, you don’t have to get married, there are other life options. There are serious responsibilities that come with marriage, a few of which you don’t like. Just look at all the things I have to go through.

    As for my daughter, almost middleschool, she tends to dodge hard work, not unlike her mother. I tell her she’d better learn to work hard for the things she wants in life or said life will be hard. She has the mind for success in her own right though.

    With kids it’s hard to tell what their genetic c~~~tail will produce once they are adults.

    For both I tell them they have Until 18 and then they will get more responsibility than they know what to do with.

    "Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

    #317450
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    Chaff/Flare
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    I’m Awakened While Married and have a daughter and son.

    My son (not even in double-digits) is very much is on the cusp of being a mangina or white knight or perhaps gay. I’ve already shown him how both girls and women manipulate him. I tell him point blank, you don’t have to get married, there are other life options. There are serious responsibilities that come with marriage, a few of which you don’t like. Just look at all the things I have to go through.

    As for my daughter, almost middleschool, she tends to dodge hard work, not unlike her mother. I tell her she’d better learn to work hard for the things she wants in life or said life will be hard. She has the mind for success in her own right though.

    With kids it’s hard to tell what their genetic c~~~tail will produce once they are adults.

    For both I tell them they have Until 18 and then they will get more responsibility than they know what to do with.

    The one thing I can go to God with and be confident of is that I tried to be a good dad with all my strength.

    What I say to you:

    There is no way you should judge your kids at this age like that. Do not tell them what to do, show them what to do and be an example.
    Quantity time over quality time if you have to choose. Do not get frustrated. Play with them, teach them through challenging games. Be interested in what they are interested in. Never call your boy or think of him as a mangina. Be with him when your tired, talk to him when you don’t feel like it.

    Effort, hard effort. It will not be hard for long…they will follow. Then the hard part is, make sure you are worth following.

    When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

    #317496
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    Torchem
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    I have one daughter. She has seen first hand what a toxic marriage is, what it does to the kids and Father. But, still getting married against my advice end of next month. I’m still attending and paying part of the wedding. I wont cut her off so to speak. She can’t help it as AWALT. They’ve been together for 6 years, living together for 3. I’ve had 1 on 1 talks with the boyfriend on what will happen if/when down the track they split and “understands” the risk, but, little head still rules the big head. Only thing really is all his side of the family are all still married right back to great grand parents so, wait and see.

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    Varun
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    I don’t have daughters. But I do have small nieces.

    When it’ll be time, I’ll give them the ‘independence’ talk. Do not always depend on a man etc. etc. If I sense misandry, I’ll just ask them to see men from men’s point of view but at the end of the day, it’ll be their decision to make.

    A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

    #317848
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    Rolling Tin Fist
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    <quote>
    What I say to you:

    There is no way you should judge your kids at this age like that. Do not tell them what to do, show them what to do and be an example.
    Quantity time over quality time if you have to choose. Do not get frustrated. Play with them, teach them through challenging games. Be interested in what they are interested in. Never call your boy or think of him as a mangina. Be with him when your tired, talk to him when you don’t feel like it.

    Effort, hard effort. It will not be hard for long…they will follow. Then the hard part is, make sure you are worth following.

    [/quote]

    No judgement here or any name calling :), just observations of my kids at this point their lives, which I can understand people taking offense to, out of context.

    I always keep it real with all the kids Ive raised, including these two, and I keep it age appropriate as well. None of what I wrote is out of annoyance, frustration, or disappointment with my kids. They’re great and I love them, and I’m proud of who they are.

    However, I know that parenting differs from culture to culture so appropriate means different things to different people.

    Along the lines of what I wrote earlier, you never know how kids are going to turn out, no matter how well you raise them. I’ve raised kids who are now in their twenties as well, that’s just the way it goes sometimes.

    Some are doing well, others not so much. That’s life. This is with doing and being the best possible parent one could be given the person one is and given one’s circumstances.

    The elephant in the room, is that a lot of American parents that I know were and are afraid to see things in their children that are not as optimal as they would like, and they make excuses for these thing instead of at least start by acknowledging that they may exist, without judgment.

    There is this belief, that if they just do all the right things, everything things will be fine. I used to believe that before the Red Pill. That’s simply not the case. There is nurture and there is nature. One can do and be all the “right” things on the nurture side, but one still has to contend with male and female nature.

    At the end of the day, I see the NAWALT as a myth. Even if one were to find a NAWALT, she would eventually loose the N, once her female nature kicked in (ref. Hypergamy and Briffault’s Law). Raising the perfect daughter may not change this. Still, I do and be the best parent I can be, with as little attachment to the outcome as possible.

    "Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

    #319016

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    Many reasonable ideas suggested here so far. I have two young daughters. One of the many things I will be encouraging will be that they should not use their breasts as a display. They should not wear clothing that exposes any cleavage. They need to hopefully understand that exposing cleavage is just a manipulative tool and it is wrong. I once went out with a girl who had massive kahooners without the excessive body-fat that can sometimes accompany such massive fun bags. She always wore clothing that did not direct attention at her breasts. I respected this self-respect she had for herself. Girls and women need to learn that their breasts are actually no big deal and they should keep them to themselves and release them only in private. Might sound very conservative, and I could fail but I’m gonna try.

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