Public Fighting

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Why do women do this?

One of the first things I learned in business school was that chewing someone out in public was only done for specific reasons. In general, criticism and yelling should only be done behind closed doors, so that people could save face.

The majority of the women I’ve known – including family – really seem to enjoy fighting in public. They enjoy screaming and yelling and carrying on, like white trash trying to attract an audience.

Am currently in the middle of attempting to have my mother’s house rebuilt. Since I was, four years ago, stupid enough to think that I have any particular obligations to family members who abuse me, I decided to spend a few years straightening out my mothers’ life.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.

Yeah. That’s worked out well. Today I’ve been trying to undo yet another of my mother’s f~~~ups, which involved letting the contractor con her into signing an unaddended contract. Already have an attorney working on the elder abuse angle here, but at least part of it is that the contractor is reasonably handsome (I am not, I don’t think), quite charming, and my mother is stupid enough at 74 to think that flirty men with her want anything other than her cash. It’s not an awful contract, but it’s bad enough that I’m beginning the fight to at least undo some of the worst bits of it. Not fun.

So we’re on the phone with the architects, who are reasonably competent, and have generally attempted to manage things between her and myself. That works better in person, where they can take turns dealing with us. Today . . . not so much. So we’re on a conference call, and it gets *ugly*. My mother is quite upset because to correct the error she’s made, she looks at least mildly like an idiot. So clearly my attorney and I (who were working on an addendum to deal with the contractor’s not-expected-by-him-to-be-signed-contract) are the f~~~ing devil because we’re trying to make things right.

So what’s particularly awesome about this is that my mom and I, who are theoretically on the same side in this (best house at cheapest price) are arguing against each other. She’s negotiating on the contractor’s behalf.

The architects are just, truly, like what the f~~~?.

It occurred to me after this that I’ve never really had long screaming fights with men. Screaming fights with men tend – quickly – to generate into fistfights, which at least ends the fight. I’ve spent hours and hours in a row arguing with women. I don’t ever think I’ve spent hours and hours arguing with a man. Ever. Men simply walk away from it (normally I do this when dealing with women as well). Women are capable of this s~~~ for an entire goddamn day.

So for at least an hour and a half, we’re basically arguing, on speakerphone, in front of the architects, who can’t believe this is occurring. Afterwards I feel dishonored, deeply, and just plain vile. In essence, my mum decided to try and use business acquaintances to try and bully me into doing something just fantastically stupid. . . and what an embarrassing way to do it.

I so very much enjoy being single . . . if only my female relatives were no longer around. Oh wait, I’m moving shortly. Thank G-d.

Thoughts? I’m really trying to think of two guys arguing or fighting where it lasts more than ten or fifteen minutes. I’ve not only myself had girlfriends but roommate couples, fraternity brothers with a girlfriend, relatives, etc. where the fights just never, ever f~~~ing end.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[bladeParticipant]

Woman love an audience and attention . They mat as just well scream …. Mangina’s white knights please . C~~~ power installed proudly by feminist and government . Hard drive of the devil

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Elric Greenstone wrote:

It occurred to me after this that I’ve never really had long screaming fights with men. Screaming fights with men tend – quickly – to generate into fistfights, which at least ends the fight. I’ve spent hours and hours in a row arguing with women. I don’t ever think I’ve spent hours and hours arguing with a man. Ever. Men simply walk away from it (normally I do this when dealing with women as well). Women are capable of this s~~~ for an entire goddamn day.

Too true Eric.

Reason being, we have boundaries. Our actions have consequences. Sometimes Painfull. Women will just wear you down with nonsense and changing attack when their argument is getting busted.

Personally, my frustration at the lack of logic and twisting words, bringing up long forgotten crimes, just gets to fever pitch and I bale.

Result, they win. I’m always wrong and can’t be bothered to argue otherwise. And they know It.

Good tactic huh?

Games always get played to their rules and by these rules the guy will always lose.

It's Time to get Wise

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

if you don’t interact with women (except for your day job), you don’t have to fight them.

If you fight them, get ready to get sent to prison, and probably raped in prison.

Men get sent to prison for really dumb reasons. Just see this guy… i feel so bad for him.
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MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[HitmanParticipant]

i never really considered what you said,
but it’s true.
any argument i ever had with a man was quick and to the point.
with women it goes on as long as you let it.
i used to try logic and explaining things,
but when they get upset they stop thinking completely.
.
now i won’t participate .
no more crazy for me,
i had more than my share already.

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

With a man, you can rationally debate/talk and hash things out using logic. With women, not so much… Best tactics is to let them stew in their on juices so they can learn. There’s no other way. To fight gives them the edge, as Greg Honda mentioned above. On the other hand, you don’t want her to be screwed over, so you’re between a rock and a hard place. I don’t envy you.

"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Hitman wrote:

i used to try logic and explaining things,
but when they get upset they stop thinking completely.
.
now i won’t participate .
no more crazy for me,
i had more than my share already.

When one uses logic with them and wins, they go bats~~~. Something narcissistic about them doesn’t allow them to lose arguments. I’ve noticed that too. At a point where, with a man, they’d either concede the argument or at least concede that, while they didn’t agree with me, I was arguing well, women just f~~~ing come apart. And then keep fighting, often playing fairly basic and childish verbal games like jumping topics (thank you Greg Honda – not sure why it didn’t quote you, probably mis~~~ the key), bringing up the past, all that s~~~. It can literally go on for days.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[HitmanParticipant]

Elric Greenstone wrote:

When one uses logic with them and wins, they go bats~~~.

example; my ex was loud and blaming me for a list of things,
that she had in her head.
her CHILDHOOD was being blamed on me.
i never knew her as a child.
..i explained that i never even knew her as a child,
and the BAT-S~~~ dropped like atomic bombs!!!
she went ballistic.
because I WAS RIGHT .
.
funny, i really don’t miss her!!!

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Hitman wrote:

funny, i really don’t miss her!!!

Darndest thing, that. 🙂

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[Anonymous 3]

There is some science behind this.

Men are wired for short term highly stressful situation. Normally involving life threatening events, requiring fighting or fleeing.

Women, on the other hand, having so many important things to attend, are wired for low intensity and prolonged stress, resulting from social interactions.

Therefore fighting between men and women does not go well for men. The guy is exhausted in a few minutes, and the gurl is just warming up. And they actually enjoy it!

So, the only way for a man to win is actually not to argue. My only successes resulted from stating an illogical position, and hold my ground in that. I once told my mother “this is MY ISLAND!” It worked…

My take is that we limit ourselves by logic and rules of reason, while women are free of any rules.
Its the same as bringing a pistol to a boxing match. Not fair, is it?

The good news is that is not hard to play that game! We just make s~~~ up!

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

I argued with my ex’s so many times and it was futile. I got a common assault charge in 2014 for pushing my 1st ex land whale in rage. She wouldn’t shut the f~~~ up and was in my face dictating to me about everything, and she would not listen to me at all. I’d had enough of her. It was a hard, good shove. She bowled over backwards like the lump of s~~~ she is, and cracked the side of her head on the kitchen door frame. She then began screaming over and over like a demented banshee, and I f~~~ing bailed. Jumped in my car and drove off.

I lived in the house with her, but I hated her so much at that point i didn’t care if she was seriously hurt.

She apparently walked to the local med centre just up the road and told them what happened. The bitches there called the cops on me and i was arrested later that day, can’t remember where. She had a contusion and that was it.

Cops treated me like a murdering rapist scum bag.

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

I argued with my ex’s so many times and it was futile. I got a common assault charge in 2014 for pushing my 1st ex land whale in rage. She wouldn’t shut the f~~~ up and was in my face dictating to me about everything, and she would not listen to me at all. I’d had enough of her. It was a hard, good shove.

Double standard. Hitting people first bad (which I know you know). But if she had clobbered you with a frying pan and laid you out cold, zero charges would be filed. Girls can do whatever the f~~~ they want physically, and the courts do f~~~-all about it. Guys shove a girl (okay, she fell, whatevs, but it’s not like you decked her) and it’s the end of the f~~~ing world.

People get in fights. Sane and normal societies have rules for such fights. No knives, no guns, no clubs. Guy is down, pleads, fight ends. Fights used to happen all the time – still do. Not the end of the f~~~ing world. One wins some fights, loses some fights. That’s how it is. One figures this out in school. There’s always someone tougher; always someone weaker. One generally (but not always) fights in one’s class, one doesn’t pick on people too much smaller. There’s an unwritten code about the whole thing.

Women understand zero of this. A guy who nagged another guy for six hours straight, making fun of him, calling him names, reminding him of every bad decision in his life, hurting him with things told in confidence, mocking him, mimicking him, would get decked or way, way worse, and no one would think twice about it. If women want equality (which they really, really don’t – they want supremacy), they should accept this.

Again – anarcho-capitalist here. I don’t believe in the initiation of force, and am not saying DSD, good move. But certainly f~~~ing understandable, given the circumstances (and the backstory you’ve talked about before with this particular ex-).

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Elric Greenstone wrote:

Double standard. Hitting people first bad (which I know you know). But if she had clobbered you with a frying pan and laid you out cold, zero charges would be filed. Girls can do whatever the f~~~ they want physically, and the courts do f~~~-all about it. Guys shove a girl (okay, she fell, whatevs, but it’s not like you decked her) and it’s the end of the f~~~ing world.

People get in fights. Sane and normal societies have rules for such fights. No knives, no guns, no clubs. Guy is down, pleads, fight ends. Fights used to happen all the time – still do. Not the end of the f~~~ing world. One wins some fights, loses some fights. That’s how it is. One figures this out in school. There’s always someone tougher; always someone weaker. One generally (but not always) fights in one’s class, one doesn’t pick on people too much smaller. There’s an unwritten code about the whole thing.

Women understand zero of this. A guy who nagged another guy for six hours straight would get decked, and no one would think twice about it. If women want equality, they should accept this.

Again – anarcho-capitalist here. I don’t believe in the initiation of force, and am not saying DSD, good move. But certainly f~~~ing understandable, given the circumstances (and the backstory you’ve talked about before with this particular ex-).

I didn’t expect her to go flying back, but then again i wasn’t even thinking when i did it. It was on impulse when the rage kicked in.

I wouldn’t do it again to any bitch, simply because i want nothing to do with a woman and her bulls~~~. Next time i will walk away. F~~~ing waste of time. Leave them standing there frothing at the mouth. C~~~s.

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

I wouldn’t do it again to any bitch, simply because i want nothing to do with a woman and her bulls~~~. Next time i will walk away. F~~~ing waste of time. Leave them standing there frothing at the mouth. C~~~s.

It’s not worth it. It’s like being in traffic, with some little s~~~ screaming and yelling, and then one is stopped next to them at the intersection. One could get out of one’s car and do awful, awful things, but the consequences aren’t worth it.

What’s fascinating to me is how c~~~s really just can’t take being ignored. If you just stay calm, let them rant and scream . . . they get even more hysterical. They yell even louder. Like small children, amongst other things, what they want most of all is attention. Deny that to them and they just f~~~ing lose it.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

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