Pre-marital real estate assets

[StealthParticipant 5341]

During a recent closing on a house, I had to sign a form to affirm I am a single, unmarried man. The title agent, a middle-aged woman, warned me that if I ever consider getting married, my future wife would have equal interest in this property…and that I should consider this before entering into marriage. I thanked her for her warning, and replied that in my divorce experience a spouse is legally entitled to assets acquired during the marriage only, and not what is acquired beforehand. She corrected me, saying “not in this state.” Legally in this state the wife is granted equal share in all real estate assets that a man enters into marriage with. I mentioned this to a friend, who said this must be a new policy.

“That is bad news,” I said to the title lady. “But I’m never getting married.” My realtor, also female, jumped in to say yes but if I married someone with greater assets, then I would be entitled to hers. “Then I would be bad news” was my reply. And honestly, a woman who has acquired and maintained assets… as if that would ever happen.

At my previous two closings as a single man, both female title agents made a pass at me during the transaction. I wasn’t flattered.

Just one more item on the pile of why a man cannot get married.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22535]

Its’ always been 50% or more than the guys’ assets. Not surprising. Half plus home plus alimony plus child support (alimomy 2), plus at least half of his retirement, and half of his owned business, up to all that much.

plus court costs, both sides legal fees, court demanded expert witnesses…

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I’m not an expert on the laws and its obviously different state to state, but I have a few coworkers who got divorce f~~~ed on real estate they owned prior to marriage because post marriage money was paid from a joint account(marital asset) towards the mortgage, so now the wife had some claim to some portion of that house to be decided by lawyers and judges even though her name wasn’t on the deed.

Stealth wrote:

At my previous two closings as a single man, both female title agents made a pass at me during the transaction. I wasn’t flattered.

Too funny. I was considering buying a lot to build a house on about 5 years ago. At one point I was talking to a loan lady just trying to get pre-approved for a land loan so if I decided to pull the trigger on buying a lot I knew I had the financing lined up. It seemed like the rules were a bit different as compared to a mortgage on an already built house that would be your primary residence soon as you closed on it.

Anyways, while going through the process with her, she asked what I was looking to buy land for. Obviously “To build a house” was my reply. Right when she heard that it was like her facial expression totally changed, she got all googly eyed, and I just remember thinking “Wow…this chick is wet right now.”

They certainly like the idea of having the nest…but unfortunately for them the only thing they hate more than paying for it on their own is being expected to be a good wife if they want a man to pay for it.

[StealthParticipant 5341]

This place was a cash purchase. The legal professionals were telling me that even with a paid off house, she can make a claim later on.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[WarfishParticipant 408]

Stealth wrote:

This place was a cash purchase. The legal professionals were telling me that even with a paid off house, she can make a claim later on.

That is some kind of f~~~ed-up. Obviously the womenz got that law passed….. sumabitches

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

The BEST part is that REGARDLESS of the law, it DOESN”T APPLY TO YOU, AND IT CAN NEVER AFFECT YOU as long as YOU KEEP WALKING AWAY!!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

Doesn’t surprise me in the least. In Pennsylvania even if the house was paid off years before meeting and the marriage, all a new wife has to do is paint a room in the house or hang some curtains and she now has investment in the property and thus is entitled to half it’s worth. Add in the old common-law divorce laws and the fact that a judge can nullify a pre-nup for no reason at all and I cannot see why any sane man would agree to even let a woman live with them let alone get married.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Beer wrote:

Anyways, while going through the process with her, she asked what I was looking to buy land for. Obviously “To build a house” was my reply. Right when she heard that it was like her facial expression totally changed, she got all googly eyed, and I just remember thinking “Wow…this chick is wet right now.”

So let’s be fair here for a minute. That look was “creepy”. I’ve seen it too after my divorce. I now understand when a 20-something woman says a guy looks creepy, because it’s probably the same look they get from a thirsty beta. It’s f’ing uncomfortable.

Desperation is not an attractive look.

Order the good wine

[MonkParticipant 16995]

Stealth wrote:

At my previous two closings as a single man, both female title agents made a pass at me during the transaction.

They wouldn’t have done if you were paying peanuts for a burnt out shell.

Again, the Golden Tripos:

Do not marry.
Do not cohabitate.
Do not impregnate.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22535]

Stealth wrote:

This place was a cash purchase. The legal professionals were telling me that even with a paid off house, she can make a claim later on.

Of course she could. They never face any negative consequences for any of their lies against men.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 1]

Good comments above…plus this consideration:
You buy a house before marriage.
During marriage, you sell that house…now you’re talking JOINT MONEY…of which she will get half.
So, in essence, she took half of what you acquired BEFORE marriage.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22535]

Anonymous wrote:

Good comments above…plus this consideration:You buy a house before marriage.During marriage, you sell that house…now you’re talking JOINT MONEY…of which she will get half.So, in essence, she took half of what you acquired BEFORE marriage.

She will claim she made the house, a “home”. Aka she filled it up with expensive but unnecessary, worthless knick knack crap that you paid for. So she is entitled to half the house sale. Right.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[bstoffParticipant 4867]

How about somebody coming up with a new post about effectively hiding or protecting assets from women, other than simply GYOW, of course.
But blue- and purple-pilled guys can still benefit from some tips.

[StealthParticipant 5341]

bstoff wrote:

How about somebody coming up with a new post about effectively hiding or protecting assets from women, other than simply GYOW, of course.But blue- and purple-pilled guys can still benefit from some tips.

I think keeping assets away from women is most effectively done by keeping women away from your assets.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[GrumpyParticipant]

bstoff wrote:

How about somebody coming up with a new post about effectively hiding or protecting assets from women, other than simply GYOW, of course.

Loose lips sink ships my friend.
Anything posted online is in the “public domain” therefor usable to “everyone”.

The below quote is the most obvious, and morally/legally/ethically and “non discriminatory” advice available.

Stealth wrote:

I think keeping assets away from women is most effectively done by keeping women away from your assets.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[MonkParticipant 16995]

bstoff wrote:

How about somebody coming up with a new post about effectively hiding or protecting assets from women, other than simply GYOW, of course.

Buy bullion. Deposit it in a numbered account.

[RumpoleParticipant 994]

What’s hers is hers, and what’s yours is hers.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Monk wrote:

bstoff wrote:

How about somebody coming up with a new post about effectively hiding or protecting assets from women, other than simply GYOW, of course.

Buy bullion. Deposit it in a numbered account.

Any bank that has your name on it in the USA can and will honor all Lein’s or orders to pay. Even if they are Illegal. I found out how much they like to follow the law at US BANK.

Crypto is the only way I know of that you can safeguard you money from any outside influence. I even asked about the Safe Deposit box. Nope, that is not safe either.

Strangely enough, investment firms seem to be a safer bet as they are no Banks. But I would be WEARY if any of them have a banking department attached to them.

I want you to think of it this way. If she wants it? If you can be screwed? You will be. Remember, women and lawyers don’t have to follow rules. And by the time you start to fight it? They have already go their money out of you.

Few people understand just how many loop holes there are for the state to get your money from you using ANY WOMEN to do so.

And Companies? They will go out of their way to screw you over. Comcast tried to make me pay for my Ex’s Internet and cell phone bills. They even contacted me to pay her Pay Day loan stuff? How? But they did!

I am living proof that the state will do whatever it wants to do. Take your Personal property, never give it back, intimidate you with false investigations etc.

Many of you men don’t understand just how stacked the deck is against you. Never let your guard down when it comes to your money.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[MonkParticipant 16995]

iMickey503 wrote:

Any bank that has your name on it in the USA …

Numbered accounts have no name – that’s the point.
You assume a bank in the USA. Of course it isn’t – you choose a bank in a different legal jurisdiction.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

Women view marriage like a trader views a stock. It is nothing more than a financial vehicle to be flipped for a short term gain. Women are more like traders than investors these days. But throughout history it has been the same: it’s all about the bottom line and turning a profit. And with No Fault Divorces (marriage 2.0) and marriage 1.5 ( since about 1861 the child custody stooped being automatically awarded to the father and started to be automatically awarded to the mother )…the female perspective towards marriage has largely shifted from a long term investment strategy to a short term stock trade. And through it all well over 90% of all women who married: married UP in terms of income and assets, and this has been found to be universal across all cultures and countries, whether it is a first world country to a 3rd world country whether it is a modern civilization or a Stone Age tribe living deep in the Amazon jungle away from any modern influences. Hypergamy is a bitch and it is ingrained in a woman’s DNA.

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