POF has become worse.

[megatoad69Participant 449]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Seems they have found a drill and bit for the bottom of the barrel

Hey, another barrel hit by the bit, these women are reaching new lows!

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Cap, you are a masochist

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Russky wrote:

Cap, you are a masochist

If it saves one man, it was worth it.

Think it saved Bear,

Totally worth it.

Fuck this planet.

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

You should get some sort of medal for venturing in there and enduring that.

What a great read.

[I_Walk_AloneParticipant 580]

I love reading the “You’d better be worth it, because I am” or “I may be curvy (no dear – you mean obese), but beauty comes in the size of your heart, not your jeans. I like a man over 6ft who works out.” and many other gems of delusion from the ranks of POF.

The best/funniest is when you get chatting to someone (usually a single mother) and they get straight into a financial audit, asking what you do, how much you earn, how big your house is, how many kids you have, if you’re divorced, what car you have and what year plate it has – all to see how much money you have, space in your house you’d have for her kids, whether or not you’re already paying alimony/child support (after all, spending some of your money on kids that aren’t hers just won’t do!) and you immediately call her out on it. They either go nuclear or backpedal at 100mph!

I had one woman flat out cross-examine me for having a day off work. Like it’s my duty and primary role in life to be out toiling the fields to bring home the bacon for her and her spawn. That is an insight into the female mind and their expectations right there in a nutshell.

[oldSkooldudeParticipant 5]

hey all new member here, happy to be aboard. after a four year hell with my girl a couple months ago i was lookin for some easy tail. after getting another woman to mess around with i saw this same girl was still on the site. i had to hit her up and let her know that 4s thinking they are 8s is UNACCEPTABLE. Im happy to be here i didnt know i was blue pill until i got out of my long relationship. that s~~~ keeps you blinded.

Check it, you will get a kick out of this.
http://share.shutterfly.com/action/welcome?sid=0AcuGrRq1ZNHLiQ

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Wow Cap, thanks for the scoop like that.

I have been on a few sites for almost 2 years now. Free/basic member, so I cant communicate, unless they send an email. I can’t even muster up going out to meet one. Even the one’s that look like they may be attractive. Assuming it’s a real and recent photo.

How you subject yourself to it is mind blowing to me. Some of the emails I have got made me think it was bot generated, but after reading some of the things you shared, made me realize they were real demands, etc.

Even the one’s that look doable, still turn me off because of the attitude & wondering if I would be c~~~ #1000, or #2000 or w/e.
I think the online dating thing is a total waste of time.

Again, I have never dated anyone online from these sites, so my opinion is w/o first hand actual experience.

Thanks again, just wow.

[Anonymous 9]

On a drunken night here recently, I attempted to contact a BBW from POF that I f~~~ed a few times.

It didn’t go so well.

Lol.

She was still upset about me f~~~ing her and not calling back.

Oh well.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Phantom wrote:

Wow Cap, thanks for the scoop like that.

I have been on a few sites for almost 2 years now. Free/basic member, so I cant communicate, unless they send an email. I can’t even muster up going out to meet one. Even the one’s that look like they may be attractive. Assuming it’s a real and recent photo.

How you subject yourself to it is mind blowing to me. Some of the emails I have got made me think it was bot generated, but after reading some of the things you shared, made me realize they were real demands, etc.

Even the one’s that look doable, still turn me off because of the attitude & wondering if I would be c~~~ #1000, or #2000 or w/e.
I think the online dating thing is a total waste of time.

Again, I have never dated anyone online from these sites, so my opinion is w/o first hand actual experience.

Thanks again, just wow.

1. I’m afraid these aren’t bots. These are actual women and this is how they act and what they think they’re entitled to.

2. You’ve never dated anyone from these sites? That makes you smarter than my dumb ass.

3. You’re welcome. Anything for the team.

Fuck this planet.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Cap285 wrote:

2. You’ve never dated anyone from these sites? That makes you smarter than my dumb ass.

Nah man, if anything it makes you braver than I.

There are a few I wouldn’t mind hooking up with, but I am convinced they are either fake profiles, or super whores.

Cap285 wrote:

3. You’re welcome. Anything for the team.

Tips hat to ya sir & buys ya a round or three of your beverage of choice

[I_Walk_AloneParticipant 580]

Another thing that I noticed was the amount profiles that said “It’s not my real age, I’m really *add 5-7 years onto what the profile claims* and it wouldn’t let me change it.”

In other words, they were caught red handed attempting to deny the wall and now they’ve aged to the point where even their own self-delusion has to come clean! It takes no prisoners………

[Anonymous 42]

Cap285 wrote:

You’re welcome. Anything for the team.

@Cap, anything?

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I_Walk_Alone wrote:

Another thing that I noticed was the amount profiles that said “It’s not my real age, I’m really *add 5-7 years onto what the profile claims* and it wouldn’t let me change it.”

In other words, they were caught red handed attempting to deny the wall and now they’ve aged to the point where even their own self-delusion has to come clean! It takes no prisoners………

Haha I love this one as well. It takes what, about 30 seconds to copy your profile into notepad or something, erase it, make a new profile, and copy it back in? Yeah…The web site just had a mysterious glitch that altered your age by 5 years or whatever and you can’t fix it….right.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

This thread is sticky forever. Cap’s online dating antics are a laugh riot.

Cap285 wrote:

1. CAP: (Sees T~~~ (7/10) 45 years old acting like she’s 25 in her pictures with aviator sunglasses selfie.) You fly F-18’s?
2. T~~~: No, lol! But I can still rock a pair of aviators!
3. CAP: Your opinion of how cool you are is quite over inflated.
4. T~~~: *paragraph long cliché shaming/insults.*

( Did she have any tattoos? I would have told her she will be rocking them into her 80s )

^^^ THIS, is the American female revealed — and you don’t even need to spent 10 minutes with her. Send her a short one liner, she sends 8 words back. Send her anything she perceives as a negative and get a whopping paragraph back. BEST way to get to know her – fast. She drops what she is doing , rolls up her sleeves and litters you mailbox with paragraphs she would never send if you said something positive – like “i like your pictures”.

When a woman responds in greater lengths to a negative, she is BAD NEWS.

I did exactly the same thing once to a female dating profile on snatch dot com about 9 years ago and the pattern was exactly the same – so I turned it into an experiment. It was remarkable. I even gave them a change to say something funny, intelligent or creative back. Same pathetic shaming s~~~ every time

• “Hey why do you look like a chihuahua in two of your photos? Bad hair day?”
(who told women to upload pictures of their chihuahuas on a dating profile)
• “So you’re a model! Whassamatter, couldn’t you get a real job?”
• “Why do you have so many photos in a bathing suit? Can’t you afford clothes?”
• “Who’s the girl standing next to you? She seems interesting. ” (was my favorite. Especially if she was the token fat friend)

Ho boy, the machine gun rapid fire that gets reflected back to you is unbelievable. The one example above sent me 5 paragraphs of hate mail. ( read: hate male) and she flapped her gums with such fervor , I knew everything about her and she did all the work.

Then I said “WHOAH!!!! WTF WAS THAT?? Would you have sent me 5 lengthy paragraphs equally full passion, thanks, compliments and admiration if I said I like your pictures? Or do you just like to f~~~ing HATE. Lady, you are totally toxic and f~~~ed up in the head”.

Dead radio silence. Busted.

That’s when I knew multiple paragraphs of hate mail in response to something she perceives as a dig…..
….. is the BEST compliment you will ever get from an American woman.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[I_Walk_AloneParticipant 580]

My God – I thought it was just me! Say something complimentary and get nothing more than ‘thanks’ or ‘lol’ in return. Say ANYTHING that they disagree with and it’s Tolkien’s complete works filled with shaming language. Paragraphs of hate being the best compliment – truth indeed!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I_Walk_Alone wrote:

My God – I thought it was just me! Say something complimentary and get nothing more than ‘thanks’ or ‘lol’ in return. Say ANYTHING that they disagree with and it’s Tolkien’s complete works filled with shaming language. Paragraphs of hate being the best compliment – truth indeed!

I thought it was just me too. And then long before we existed here, I actually read Cap on another forum (which is now closed)! That’s how I came to know him!! I was addicted to reading his s~~~.

Back to the bitches, I realized something in the culture got all f~~~ed up and women totally lost the ability to flirt or have any fun, or get a little chemistry going. The BEST way to get any back-and-forth going was to insult her? F~~~ that. You can keep her. They REFUSE to respond to anything positive or friendly. To the Ameriskank “friendly” is “creepy”. How f~~~ed up is that. You gotta say something snyde and then she’s all over it – like a fly on s~~~ – one after the other. Why? Because that’s how SHE operates.

For the longest time I refused to believe “treat women like crap and they respond to it”.
But man is it ever the gospel truth. I don’t even wish I could be bothered. I would rather drink bleach.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

Keymaster wrote:

For the longest time I refused to believe “treat women like crap and they respond to it”.
But man is it ever the gospel truth. I don’t even wish I could be bothered. I would rather drink bleach.

Hey KeyMaster, I know what you mean! Until I was in my early 20’s I treated women like s~~~! I didn’t care about their feelings, what they said, none of it! Then somehow one day, I started treating them the way they said they wanted to be treated, That lasted about 7 or 8 years, not wanting to go back to my old ways (I’m not proud of being shallow), I went MGHOW instead, I gave it one last chance with the cemented thought that if this chick goes c~~~ on me, I’m f~~~ing DONE!
The rest is history, she went c~~~, I went MGHOW. My life ever since that day took off like a rocket! I was in my prime SMV, and turning down any and all opportunities. Every temptation denied! After a while I became fond if the freedom I was enjoying, while others suffered under the same endless bulls~~~ that drove me to go total MGHOW.
No more short circuits in my head from the mindf~~~ery, no more wasting my time, nothing to do but work on self betterment and the enjoyment of the life I was now creating.
If you’re dealing with women on any level, it’s just one more level DOWN from the heights of pure MGTOW! I no longer dilute my time, space, plans, or futures with a woman.
Exposure to women and being happy is like trying to win a drag race with no tires!

[NeoSe7enParticipant 112]

This is a good read—should fall in line a bit with what’s going on. That’s for the excellent 411 and descriptions, Cap. It’s a fuggin’ nightmare out there!

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/06/29/results-from-an-online-dating-experiment/

[WolfParticipant 890]

MonkeyMind wrote:

The last profile i looked at had, ‘I’m an independant woman, blah blah, blah’ in the description box. Looked at her occupation, it said full time single mother. How the f~~~ can ayone declare themselves independant if they’re living off the state or child maintenance.

I have wondered the same thing many times. I wonder how they define independent…

[KeymasterKeymaster]

“POF”…. “Plenty of Fish”…. or “Plenty of Sluts” (whatever you call it) gets EVEN worse by charging men more than women for an LA event.

Except there is just one problem with this economics.
Women are 51% of the population. We’re more rare. They pay more. The End.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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