POF has become worse.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

I usually troll POF about once a year to keep abreast (ha ha) of the online dating situation as it relates to the influx of “I can’t get married/find an LTR/where are all the good men” articles on the Interwebz, as well as for data to store in the MGTOW archives for reference. Once again it correlates with the collective experience of men and many of Popp’s videos. However, despite the constant whining of “I can’t find anyone”, entitlement, attitude and inflation of their looks has become worse. Mind you, I’m going to use MGTOW knowledge/techniques to expose the hypocrites for what they are. I used my age, 43, up to 49.

Contact on the site:

1. T~~~ (4/10): It’s nice to see a picture of just a man and not his motorcycle or house.
2. CAP: That’s refreshing; you don’t care about material things.
Never heard from her again.

1. CAP: (Sees picture of T~~~ (7/10) in Hawks gear with mock Stanley Cup over her head at her office). So, you a real fan or been on the bandwagon since 2010?
No response.

1. T~~~ (3/10): (overweight mother of 2) *trying her hardest to get me to respond*
2. CAP: *one word responses*
3. T~~~: See 1.
4: CAP: See 2
5: T~~~: You’re a man of few words; I’ll stop bothering you now.

1. CAP: (Sees T~~~ (7/10) 45 years old acting like she’s 25 in her pictures with aviator sunglasses selfie.) You fly F-18’s?
2. T~~~: No, lol! But I can still rock a pair of aviators!
3. CAP: Your opinion of how cool you are is quite over inflated.
4. T~~~: *paragraph long cliché shaming/insults.*

1. T~~~: (2/10, grandma haircut, frumpy clothes) Help me get off this site lol!
2. CAP: Not interested.
3. T~~~: Why! What’s wrong with me?
4. CAP: Not physically attracted.
5: T~~~: Take a good look at your pictures! You’re not as hot as you think you are!
Blocked so I can’t reply. As we all know, not being attracted to a certain person means you have an inflated sense of your looks.

1. CAP: (Sees T~~~ 6/10. Slender, tan but Mr. Eds Face. With opening “Want’s a man who respects women”.) Respect has to be earned.
2. T~~~: I meant respectful, as in manners. Thank you for your military service.
3. CAP: There is a difference between respect and manners. Open a dictionary.

This led to multiple exchanges of her bragging about her Literature degree despite her obvious lack of vocabulary skills. I wasn’t raised to right, you get the idea.

4: T~~~: You weren’t raised to respect women.
5. CAP: I see you’re entitled as well.
6. T~~~: Entitled?
7. CAP: Yes, you think you’re entitled to respect immediately because you were born with t~~~. (Seems she forgot what she wrote in her own profile.) I have more respect for the dogs I served with in Iraq than I do you.
8. T~~~: *Paragraph long cliché shaming/insults*
9. T~~~: No wonder you’re single!
10. CAP: You’re single. #double standard

1. CAP: (Sees T~~~ 8/10, 44 years old) You’re cute, but you couldn’t crop your ex out of the picture entirely?
No response. However, the next time her profile showed up, the main picture was empty.

Some of you might remember public restroom selfie/picnic girl from another thread. Miss, a first date should be a man dressed in khakis and a nice shirt taking me on a picnic to the beach with nice music (whatever the f~~~ that is) playing while we watch the sunset. She talked about how classy she was and Keymaster caught that she had taken a selfie in a public bathroom. Doesn’t get much classier than that.
1.CAP: Isn’t that a bit much for a first date?
2.T~~~: I’m from near the gulf of Mexico and this is nice.
I don’t actually remember the rest of the exchange. I do remember her paragraph long cliché shaming/insults. She was completely oblivious that a selfie taken in a public restroom was the complete opposite of class.

Also, still many of the same girls that have been on there since 2009. Only their requirements have dropped….some, and their weight has increased.

Text conversations:

Remember, I keep feeding rope until they eventually hang themselves.

T~~~ (7/10): Decent exchange going. Get her to tout the “I don’t need a man for his money” yet shortly later I get the “I need a man who is financially stable’. Informed T~~~ she was no different than the rest and looking for a wallet. She still wanted to talk and something came up about her friends. To which I replied “If you were happy with me, I’m sure your harpy friends would find some reason for you not to be”. Herd mentality kicked in and she broke contact.

T~~~ (3/10 I was totally playing this fish (pun intended) overweight mother of 2 with meme about “once you have thick, you’ll never go back” or something like that. Same as above touts strong and independent but needs a man who is ‘financially stable’. Only she didn’t have the looks to demand anything. Says my hair is too long as she likes the bald look on men and how she’s dated bikers that look like ZZ Top. Funny how those guys like fat hogs on their hogs. This degraded into me dropping MGTOW nukes and her hamstering (cliche insults/shaming) to the point of blocking so she got the last word. Remember, this is a single, overweight mom with mostly high angle cleavage shots.

T~~~ (7/10) apparently owned her own cleaning business. I mentioned the hours that I worked. She makes a comment about how I need to be the boss like her. I replied that she seems to be looking for someone who is ‘financially stable’ and told her no thanks. She left a bewildered goodbye.

T~~~ (7/10) kind of hit or miss. One picture looked meh, but one would look stunning. All face shots mind you. We texted a good long while, at least a couple hours. I was actually wondering if this would pan out. How can woman go that long without putting her foot in her mouth? I didn’t have to wait much longer. Eventually, the talk turned to things of a sexual nature. So of course, she’s bragging about how great she is and that she has fairy dust coming out of her pussy (yes, she actually said that) and that her friends say it must be true because of all the men hanging around.
CAP: Pretty strong words.
T~~~: I know you would be happy.
CAP: So would you.
T~~~: Pfffffft
CAP: My ex-girlfriends nickname for me was cunnalingus.
T~~~: I’ll believe it when it happens.

I should take her word but she won’t take mine? Hello double standard. Still, the conversation continued about sex and what have you for a good, long while. She’s saying what a great time she’s having, she’s sexually excited and how she can’t wait to meet me. Her shields are probably at 50% so it’s almost time to fire the photon torpedo. We got on the subject of kissing and it followed exactly as above exchange. It led to this:

T~~~: We should just do a walk-by, text yes or no and just make out if it’s both ‘yes’. (More on this later.) You wear yummy cologne?
CAP: No
T~~~: Moment ruined.
CAP: Cologne is a deal breaker? What’s next, my shoes?
T~~~: Maybe lol! Those are easy fixes.

Time for the torpedo.

CAP: This was a colossal waste of time. Go ‘fix’ someone else. I’m out.
T~~~: What?! Are you really out? (Sad emoticon)
T~~~: You’re killing me Smalls.

I explained how this was doomed as she would hate my lack of cologne, hi-tops and Batman shirt. I also explained how this is what dating male/female relations has come to (remember what I said earlier about the walk-by?) and that it’s not of my making. As I go on, I’m getting belligerent and mean. She’s actually hanging on and still wants to meet. I’m guessing she’s knows she’s being rejected, is confused and doesn’t know what to do.

T~~~: We can still meet.
CAP: Why the hell would you still want to that after what I’ve said? Sick curiosity?

The only reason I can think is for a free meal and drinks and to publicly reject me.

T~~~: Wow. Ok. So I’ll leave it at this. If you don’t text back I’ll guess the answer is NO.
CAP: It is no. Have a pleasant evening.
T~~~: Wow. Ok.
Some time goes by.
T~~~: No response?
Some more time goes by.
T~~~: No response?
Yet more time goes by.
T~~~: You sound like a bitter woman.

Dates:

T~~~: 50 years old 6/10 (in her pictures), but we all know how that turns out in person, don’t we? We meet for coffee….and has anyone ever heard the term ‘rode hard and put away wet’? Well, Cap was looking at it. In person she immediately became a 3/10 and this is done up to meet a guy. The makeup was caked on. Caked. I could see how haggard she was through it, it was f~~~ing astounding. Decent rack but no ass. She’s sitting there going “I don’t look 50.” I sat there dumbfounded with no response. In my head I’m going: “Yeah, you look 63.” I don’t know what happened. I couldn’t speak or move. Mild shock or something. Imagine her when she gets complacent and waking up to that on a lazy Sunday with no makeup and a frumpy night gown. Yecchh.

T~~~: 48 6/10 according to pictures. Name is zumbagirlsometingorother. Mostly face shots and one in yoga pants. During the course of texting, she sent me two pictures in her underwear. I think she has a funhouse mirror in her room. Even in the low light and poor resolution of the picture I could see the lower half of her body was a f~~~ing train wreck, her thighs in particular were foul. All the Zumba, spin classes and tanning wasn’t going to hide this. Rack looked ok in the bra but Crom knows what would happen once it came off. Time to take one for the team. She wanted to meet as soon as possible for some reason. She mentioned I should drive the 20 minutes to her work and meet her on her lunch break. Uh. No. She wound up driving out to a bar by me. She didn’t look bad (done up for a date) and had on those mom jeans. The wide bottom, cuff at the mid-calf and slightly snug as tight would give the mess away. Skin was messed up from tanning beds. I could tell right away that she wasn’t interested. She had stated when we first started talking she was very attracted physically. However, I’m assuming my Batman shirt and hi-tops turned her off right away. The rate I was consuming Guinness might have factored in as she asked how many I had. Star Wars came up as an interest and I don’t think she was impressed. She mentioned a friend who was on the site for years and I said she’s looking for a unicorn and will never find it. When I came back from the bathroom I did a stealth approach and noticed she was texting somebody “what are u doing tonite?” Wonder who that was?…..That’s when it was time to go. Cost for date? Her $3 beer.

I get the text the next day “Thank you but there was no connection. I don’t want to waste your time.” That was totally cool, honest and polite. However, in my experience they use that because if they use specific reasons, they’ll get it right back and they don’t like that. I was 5 years younger than she was. She complained the entire date that men her age were out of shape, had pictures with their grandchildren, etc. Who the Hell does she think she’s actually capable of getting with a train wreck of a body and two kids?

Make no mistake, for as much as they crow about how they can’t find a man, their entitlements are still off the chart and their attitudes are still terrible. I bolded the paragraph long responses because they only respond at length if you call them on their s~~~. Otherwise it’s short phrases and text-talk. I don’t think things are changing anytime soon. Just more of their empty rhetoric.

Fuck this planet.

[I_Walk_AloneParticipant 580]

Beautiful reading. This is exactly why I’ve deleted my POF profile. It’s amazing isn’t it? Geriatric, leather-skinned hambeasts with expectations and narcissism off the charts. After a while it becomes hilarious to poke the hornet’s nest to see what gems of arrogance fall out.

[Anonymous 42]

Cap285 wrote:

Remember, I keep feeding rope until they eventually hang themselves.

Ya need more rope? Let me know!

[RebalancedParticipant 346]

I did the same as part of a social experiment on and off for 3 years (ended 2014), hit up plenty of crabs.com, eharm many.com, even some matrimonial sites to see if there was much difference, wish I’d kept a copy of the dialogues but they usually went along the lines of, they have kids (often many) don’t want a dad for them but do want a sponsor , have hit the wall/are bottom of the barrel yet demand the cream of the crop, want to know how much you can contribute financially very early on, want dick pics (but 9/10 of the time wont send you any naked shots back) are good girls who are waiting till marriage before they give up the so called golden V (had 3 of these types who I met up with offer it on a plate on the 1st date though).

Have never gone back online since and never again intend to.

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I don't need pussy

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Cap285 wrote:

I think she has a funhouse mirror in her room.

..that’s a good one

[UntamedParticipant]

Dating sites are wastelands of self-entitled weemins and delusional Bluepillers, nauseating nawalts and idiotic treacherous White Knights, backstabbing menginas and the usual ugly, nasty land-whale hard-core Feminists.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Good read. Eloquent analysis. It will only get worse with my generation. By the time I’m 40 and have amassed a decent life for myself I imagined the entitlement levels will be over 9000 and online dating will become a cesspool of whoredom and high standards.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

I haven’t been on POF for a long time. It’s full of used up 4’s thinking the’re an 8.

The last profile i looked at had, ‘I’m an independant woman, blah blah, blah’ in the description box. Looked at her occupation, it said full time single mother. How the f~~~ can ayone declare themselves independant if they’re living off the state or child maintenance!

I closed my account for good after that.

[Anonymous 11]

Cap, your bravery and ability to stomach the washed out sea hags and report back to MGTOW is to be commended. Thanks for the read. It was a hoot.

Disclaimer: I do not participate in online dating and my opinions may or may not be valid.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Seems they have found a drill and bit for the bottom of the barrel ?

[UntamedParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Cap, your bravery and ability to stomach the washed out sea hags and report back to MGTOW is to be commended. Thanks for the read. It was a hoot.

Disclaimer: I do not participate in online dating and my opinions may or may not be valid.

I don’t know how you can stand responding to their crap but as CP said, it is hoot. And eye-opening as well.
Glad I’m not on those sites anymore.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[felixParticipant 406]

Holy S~~~ Cap. That is hillarious. You have created a brand new MGTOW SPORTING EVENT!

more throttle ..... less brakes.....

[MotivParticipant 441]

Thanks for sharing great read

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[BearParticipant 11]

I have read before that guys who meet good, attractive women are NOT doing it online!
I know that the great majority of women I enjoyed dating have NOT been met online.

This is the shove I needed to give up online dating!

The ROI (Return On Investment) of time and money is p~~~ poor.

I have never met more dysfunctional women in my life than on POF!
Those chicks are messed up!

Since it seems that even the fattest, ugliest women with the worst social skills can still get laid frequently, there just has to be something
wrong with most of these women in almost all cases.

I figure if I completely stop online dating and focus my efforts on meeting women “in real life”, I will do far better.
I might not have the best game, but I am confident and don’t fear rejection.
I don’t think any women is “too good for me”. (Only that some are far too high maintenance.)

It would be great if all men bailed on these sites leaving these controlling and manipulative women with no naive victims to prey upon!

One thing you mentioned really struck a chord with me.
Women who specify EXACTLY what they expect to do on their first couple of dates down to what you wear should be avoided like the plague.
They have no concept of the compromise that a real relationship entails.

Down here in South Florida, the words “boating” and a 1st date with dinner and drinks “on the water” send me running.
If they want dinner on the water, we can pick up some beer or wine and some takeout food and sit on a beach blanket by the ocean!
Of course, that type would never go for that!

[Cap285Participant 6007]

@mgtower More rope next year. I’ve had my fill for now.

@Fermat271 Thank you. I put it together the best I could.

@chauvinistpig I do what needs to be done CP…..now where is my MGTOW Silver Star??

@untamed It’s a necessary evil. When they shoot their mouths off about how they’re not like that and don’t do those things. We have hard evidence that they do. They must be exposed for what they are. Peruse any YouTube video or comment section about a “Where have all the good men gone” article and it’s a f~~~ing cavalcade of them denying this s~~~ I just reported.

To everyone else, I’m glad you got a chuckle and I hope you learned something. This is like Fat Albert for MGTOW.

Fuck this planet.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

@bear I hope it helps you in the future! Notice how Bear brings up the T~~~ dating requirement where he lives: owning a boat and dining on the water. More proof they’re the same everywhere you go.

Fuck this planet.

[Anonymous 42]

Cap, I salute you! SIR!,,,willing to mess your mind! You Transverse dangerous territory in that dark forest infested with the toxic and deadly woombat hanging from every branch! You’re more man than I! The rope for next year will be made of the finest MGTOW manila, mortal money just can’t buy!

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Cap285 wrote:

Also, still many of the same girls that have been on there since 2009. Only their requirements have dropped….some, and their weight has increased.

I browse through those sites on occasion partially out of curiosity, partially for a good laugh…but you are so right about this. I actually tried online dating a few years back, and to this day there are still some of the same women on there. If its a land whale with 4 kids I can understand it…but any of them that are like a 6/10 or better with no kids…they are either the biggest whore you could imagine or have such ridiculous expectations they’ll end up 40 and single with wondering why nobody but their 8 cats love them.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Some of them sounded desperate.

One of reasons they haven’t change is because by nature of women, they can’t see the future, or even predict it, so they won’t see it until it’s front and center.

It’s going to be a fun future for us men!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Cap,

I’m a little confused. Are you rating their looks on a scale of 1 to 10? (1/10 to 10/10) <=== Like this?

—Fun

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

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