Phone call from daughter at boyfriends house.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

My ex did similar things to me with our kids. I know just how much anxiety it creates worrying about a situation you can’t control. I can’t offer more advice than what has been given already. Talking about it can help with the worry so keep posting. Kids are innocent and a narcissist ex only cares about themselves.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[DBCooperParticipant 200]

Thanks for all the advice guys. I’m minimal contact with the ex, and she has been blocked on social media for a long time. I did snoop when I heard about Chad, only to be sure my daughter was not in any danger. It appears Chad is just the next victim, so my course of action on this is to just document and hide some snacks in her backpack. Thanks for allowing me to vent.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I found out several months ago, from my stepson that lives with his Mom and my pre-teen daughter out of state, that there have been incidents where both my ex and her white-knight/Chad were both out drinking, and then drove home heavily intoxicated… with both my stepson and my daughter in the car.

Not much I can do now; but if my daughter ends up dead because of s~~~ like that, I’ll be driving down there and there literally will be blood. I don’t have the emotion of fear anymore, nor the emotion of compassion, and I have an enormous mental database of how to inflict pain, misery and death on those that deserve it.

I have ZFG of any consequences if any of my kids gets killed. No fear of prison, or my own death. I literally have no fear of death. If someone put a loaded shotgun in my mouth, it wouldn’t make me afraid.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

DBCooper wrote:

Thanks for all the advice guys. I’m minimal contact with the ex, and she has been blocked on social media for a long time. I did snoop when I heard about Chad, only to be sure my daughter was not in any danger. It appears Chad is just the next victim, so my course of action on this is to just document and hide some snacks in her backpack. Thanks for allowing me to vent.

One thing you have to look forward to is the schadenfreude of finding out she has victimized him. He thought he was getting a prize, but what he really got was the tiger by the tail.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[DBCooperParticipant 200]

Ranger One wrote:

DirtbikesMM wrote:

Thanks for all the advice guys. I’m minimal contact with the ex, and she has been blocked on social media for a long time. I did snoop when I heard about Chad, only to be sure my daughter was not in any danger. It appears Chad is just the next victim, so my course of action on this is to just document and hide some snacks in her backpack. Thanks for allowing me to vent.

One thing you have to look forward to is the schadenfreude of finding out she has victimized him. He thought he was getting a prize, but what he really got was the tiger by the tail.

I could care less about him. The only thing left in this life that I care about is my daughter.

[VladParticipant 210]

Maybe your daughter is old enough to teach her cooking something simple and healthy? Young girls usually love that. Preferrably with ingredients which unlikely to be consumed raw, so Chad wouldn’t eat them from refregerator before she does.

Also getting rid of “victim mentality” and gaining attitude of solving problems, even small, on her own will definitely help her in life.

Marriage is the tomb of love (c)Giacomo Casanova

[Author]

Posts