Parents house their rules

[Anonymous 42]

Keymaster wrote:

“My house. My rules.”

…. and it feels terrific.

I told a relative that didn’t like one of my rules that he can do whatever he wants when he buys it.

STORM wrote:

You’re lucky if you can afford a s~~~ty appartment, and the thought of owning your own home is like a tree reaching for sun. When I had first construction company going and after the expense of initially tooling up, the 1987 stock crash happened drying up all the work. There I was with my plans to finally start packing away money for a down payment, my income flat-lined and my hopes and dreams vanished in a pile of dormant construction equipment. I kept persevering after seeing home ownership vanish and get kicked down the seemingly 50 years away! 7 years later I had enough for a down payment but chose to go to bank auctions instead.

Unlike young females, we don’t get 18 years of free child support checks, section 8 housing, food stamps etc. The system hates us.

There’s no free lunch, their day of reckoning is coming as these parasitic systems will be forced to consolidate these females under one giant structure to maintain efficiency, like a prison or a FEMA camp. There’s simply not enough resources to keep these parasites fed, bathed, and warm, they’ve been overloading the system’s ability to compensate.

Have patients and perseverance, old people keep dying and trying to take their horded s~~~ with them, your turn will come.

housing prices have dropped considerably along with value of the dollar, houses are relatively cheap when you save up enough money to buy a distressed property ought-right sometimes 90% off .

I payed 20 gs’ for mine at a bank auction when houses comparable were going for 100+. It needed everything when I bought it, it took 6 years and busting my ass day, night, and weekends, now the place is looking like Mr. Meyoggi’s house from Karate Kid.

While my friends continued to party with their eyes on pussy instead of the future, I was watching the clock go past 2:00 AM while putting in the windows and “thinking” I would have drank this window with my buddies tonight and wake up tomorrow morning with this rough opening still here, puking sick, and shot for half the day! Those kind of thoughts still do go through my mind, it’s me looking at the timeline I would have been on had I not sacrificed my time and efforts to make a better future for myself (GMOW).

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I do appreciate the opportunity they give me to live here rent free and eat their food but I would prefer to live by my own rules.

Bitching while your mouth is full, huh? Typical.

You’d “prefer” to live by your own rules? Then move out. Until then, stop bitching.

Im honestly sick of living here and want to get out.

Then get out.

Im bored with life as well and am ready for new experiences.

Then get out.

I dont feel like a man living off my parents.

You aren’t a man and you won’t be one until you get out.

Any thoughts or suggestions would be appreciated.

Okay. Your parents are right and you’re wrong. You’re nineteen and a f~~~ing idiot. I remember when I was nineteen and I was a f~~~ing idiot too.

Look at your sad ass “complaints”. “I can’t get a gun”, “I can’t get a motorcycle”, “I can’t get a tattoo”. F~~~ing pathetic. You’re bitching about things because you’re stupid enough to confuse things with accomplishments. You’re still young enough and stupid enough to think owning something will actually change you.

You know what 99% of tattoos say about the people with them? That they were drunk/stupid and p~~~ed away a couple hundred bucks. There are tattoos which you earn, but you’re not whining about getting one of those.

Your “desire” for a motorcycle is more of the same. In a majority of cases “motorcycle” plus “nineteen” equals death or dismemberment. If you wanted a bike to travel across the country, ride the AlCan to Fairbanks, or some other adventure, it would be different but you want a bike because it will make you look “kewl”.

As a war vet I’m not even going to bother commenting on your desire for a gun.

You’re bored and want experiences? You don’t want to go to college and want to be an electrician? Then get off your ass and make it happen. You can walk down to the recruiting office tomorrow and sign up. You can find a roommate on Craig’s List tomorrow and move out. You can quit school tomorrow and join the IBEW union as a journeyman. You can buy a beater, pack a bag, and ride off.

The only thing really stopping you is YOU.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Funny all you guys talking about how “being able to live with our folks” is a big relief!

Over here, not living with your folks until you’re 25 is equivalent to a crime. Maybe because our family systems are tightly knit.

I don’t have a job currently and so we’re all shacking up at my brother’s. He isn’t married AND he needs people to cook and clean for him…. so having us around helps.

Once during family dinner I expressed my desire to “move out and live on my own”, everybody looked at me with dismay as if I had announced I was going to kill somebody. The follow-up was “not until you get a good job you’re not”.

@lottery One man’s trash is the next man’s treasure. Just saying.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Anonymous 7]

OldBill wrote:

Bitching while your mouth is full, huh? Typical.

You’d “prefer” to live by your own rules? Then move out. Until then, stop bitching.

Im honestly sick of living here and want to get out.
Then get out.

Im bored with life as well and am ready for new experiences.
Then get out.

I dont feel like a man living off my parents.
You aren’t a man and you won’t be one until you get out.

Any thoughts or suggestions would be appreciated.
Okay. Your parents are right and you’re wrong. You’re nineteen and a f~~~ing idiot. I remember when I was nineteen and I was a f~~~ing idiot too.

Look at your sad ass “complaints”. “I can’t get a gun”, “I can’t get a motorcycle”, “I can’t get a tattoo”. F~~~ing pathetic. You’re bitching about things because you’re stupid enough to confuse things with accomplishments. You’re still young enough and stupid enough to think owning something will actually change you.

You know what 99% of tattoos say about the people with them? That they were drunk/stupid and p~~~ed away a couple hundred bucks. There are tattoos which you earn, but you’re not whining about getting one of those.

Your “desire” for a motorcycle is more of the same. In a majority of cases “motorcycle” plus “nineteen” equals death or dismemberment. If you wanted a bike to travel across the country, ride the AlCan to Fairbanks, or some other adventure, it would be different but you want a bike because it will make you look “kewl”.

As a war vet I’m not even going to bother commenting on your desire for a gun.

You’re bored and want experiences? You don’t want to go to college and want to be an electrician? Then get off your ass and make it happen. You can walk down to the recruiting office tomorrow and sign up. You can find a roommate on Craig’s List tomorrow and move out. You can quit school tomorrow and join the IBEW union as a journeyman. You can buy a beater, pack a bag, and ride off.

The only thing really stopping you is YOU.

Thats why I outlined my savings plan….

All of your get out comments are exactly what I plan to do which was the whole point of this post.

Keep your strawman arguments to yourself.

[Anonymous 7]

OldBill wrote:

You aren’t a man and you won’t be one until you get out.

What are you a feminist now dictating what the definition of what a “man” is?

All that matters is that I need to change to feel like one, not listen to some s~~~ty definition from someone else.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

I would suggest for you to live frugally and save $ while at home with the folks. Yea it sucks, but it will suck more if you move out, then something negative happens and you’re forced to move back in. If you get a taste of freedom on your own, with your own place then have to move back in with mom and dad, it will really bring you down. You’ll be alright, you’re still pretty young. Also if you wanted to learn how to cook, apply for a job in a restaurant and work your way up. If you do a good job, show you’re a hard worker, managers will see that and give you an opportunity.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

I live at my parent’s place as well and I’m lucky because they offered to pay for my education. Its been five years since I graduated high school and now I am just one semester from getting my degree. Patience pays off.

If you have trouble getting along, then try spending more time on campus. That’s pretty much what I do. I commute to school early in the morning and don’t return home until the sun sets. That way, I get to see them everyday, but I don’t have to deal with too much of my mother’s drama.

Since my campus is under the influence of feminism, I actually take advantage of the local park in order to get some peace and quite and a daily walk. Public libraries arn’t bad either.

Living with the folks has its advantages and disadvantages, but we stay because the advantages out weigh the disadvantages. For now, you just have to work around your circumstances and make the best of it. When at home, don’t start conversations that will inevitably result in an argument. If they start it, change the subject or excuse yourself from the room. Help around the house if you don’t already so that you are as small of a burden as possible.

Over the past few years, I’ve got my self some cash ready via odd jobs and relatives. My parents actually borrow from me occasionally when they have car problems. Once I graduate and leave, I’ll have a nice emergency fund (or as KM would call it, “f~~~ you fund”) thanks to my parents. That’s why we put up with the minor difficulties of living with our parents. When we are in our thirties, our peers will be paying off old college debts and being sucked dry by their wives. We will be mgtow free.

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