Oneitis

[GrotesqueRogueParticipant 116]

Hm… AWALT. There is NO exception. There are some women who bats~~~ crazy, and some, who are less. That’s how they are. I, personally, have known a couple of examples who could be classified as quite understanding about their own nature and trying to control it to SOME degree, but even they admitted to me that there is NO reason to NOT get into the default mode when convenient, because it’s just simpler.

I must say that I had oneitis for 2-3 years. Sometimes it still hits me when I hang around with that girl (having her in my life is quite convenient atm), but my logic overrides my “feeeelingzzzzz”, because I do realize that AWALT and she is no exception, this concept exists only in my head. She is what she is, she is who she is, and nothing is gonna change.

And then there’s another thought.
No one will make you happy except you. You might build an empire, you might move to whatever country you want, you might do stuff that is of importance to you and many other things.
A girl will not bring such type of satisfaction in one’s life.

[Anonymous 7]

Truth over everything said that quote pab

[Anonymous 11]

I was the f~~~ing king of Oneitis back in my blue pill days.

I failed myself. I failed to leverage being seen with “The One” into getting into other women’s pants. I experienced a lot of misery by following that stupid strategy.

Failing protected me from being destroyed though so looking back it was a blessing. I am now the king of Noneitis. I keep those crazy c~~~s and their inane bulls~~~ as far from me as possible.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Oneitis is the term used to describe a condition where a man becomes infatuated and obsessed with one single female. He is so hung up on her that he spends each and every day thinking about her and what she is doing.”

I wasn’t familiar with oneitis until this thread. We probably have all been infatuated with one particular female. What works is banging some other chick(s).

[KeymasterKeymaster]

One-itis (pronounced like the name of a disease “one-eye-ties”) is basically the “center of the universe misconception”… where a man makes one woman “the center of the universe” ….. while actually having the reverse effect of what’s intended. Instead of pulling her closer, it’s like pushing her away.

The concept of “the one” is a female conception.

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If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

Thanks Bro been looking for that answer

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[KeymasterKeymaster]

how do you guys get over oneitis.

I got over a case off oneitis instantly – by enforcing a strict NO-contact rule.

I decided I was done giving a s~~~. Just done. And I made up my mind to absolutely never cave on it. She was now dead to me. I put too much effort in and I was still treated like an asshole. So f~~~ it.

She thought it was “unconditional love” and that I would always be there no matter what. “For better or for worse” if that’s the phrase . When this happens a woman will actually leave (or cheat) – BECAUSE she thinks you will always be there. So I took that , used it to my advantage and smashed it on the ground. Done. It was only a matter of time before she reached out again…. and I was “don’t ever contact me under any circumstances”. No signature. No apology. No explanation.

As soon as I clicked “send” it was awesome. Felt like a million bucks. After taxes.

One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. No exceptions.

When a woman leaves or loses interest…. let the other guy keep her.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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