Oneitis

[TheDigestedRedPillParticipant 165]

I know how this is gonna sound but how do you guys get over oneitis.

Society live's as if we have reached the pinnacle of human potential. Technological Advancement and Innovation, intellectualism, critical thinking is substituted for useless innovations, nasty narcissistic games, tyrannical laws that destroy the very foundation of family, and the world as we know it.

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

Don’t really know myself. I started a topic last night about a possible unicorn. One of the guys really set me straight by explaining that some women are betterthan others at suppressing their true nature. Perhaps that’s all you are seeing.

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[DutchieParticipant 119]

Last time I had oneitis on a girl (big tittedred hair slightly chubby which I like) I found out she used to date criminals and bad guys and that she uses men to do chores for her like fixing her bike and car and s~~~ like that even though she tried to portray herself as independent and strong she turned out to be weak as f~~~. One day she proudly told me she bought a nice house Which later turned out to be this f~~~ing small shack in a ghetto and I laughed my ass off, she’s so not tuned with the world to see how bad of a deal that was, And all that snapped me out of my oneitis real hard. Look hard and you will always see flaws especially when putting on your red pill glasses you’ll see all most women pretend to be is fake as f~~~, That should help overcome your oneitis quite quickly alright.

Nowadays I don’t have oneitis anymore, I see women for what they really are: sex providers (and a bunch of drama and childish behavior) and that’s all value they really have.

Sorry not sorry for my terrible English :p

If you don't understand my post at first, no worries, it's probably my English. 😉

[RennieParticipant]

Don’t get tangled up in that crap. To get out you have to be able to come to the understanding that…

1. Said girl is not special at all.
2. AWALT

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

TheDigestedRedPill wrote:

how do you guys get over oneitis.

By humping another female.

[BudtaoParticipant 293]

This is an odd topic for me because I didn’t even know this was a thing until it was brought up here. I mean I have heard of crushes(and even those I have never experienced). Though I am not sure a crush is the same thing. Maybe it is.
I think for me, the reason I don’t get these feelings is because I got a strong dose of the red pill pre-puberty. This is the thing I think that few people get a chance at because the genders don’t really intermingle much pre-puberty.
So I guess in the end, oneitis is probably hormonally related. Maybe for some reason this person looks like they would birth good children. So the best solution would probably be to just screw her if you can, and move on. Otherwise, fap a couple of times, and move on. Either way, its not a productive feeling.

Nirvanna is never having to worry about a woman ever again.

[Anonymous 0]

Getting over oneitis

1 Keep posting and reading some of horror stories from the guys around here.
2. Do a cost benefit analysis as suggested by several of the posters here.
3. Or better yet, ask a friend to do the CBA. You may be blinded.
4. Learn from the other posters here.

Re-read the previous posts in this thread.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Spank The Misandrists wrote:

By humping another female.

There’s a great phrase about this: “The best way to get over one woman is by getting under another.”

Relatively true. My last rough breakup didn’t take just one woman, it took about 12. But hey, it was fun getting over her by f~~~ing all these other women.

A change in perspective was helpful too – when I realizes this girl isn’t one ***IN*** a million, she’s one ***OF*** a million. All of a sudden one attractive woman is just as good (or bad) as another. That was what helped me get to the decision to not date seriously anymore.

[HitmanParticipant]

it’s psychological,she’s THE ONE ! .nah, she’s not.
in time if it were you two together she would try to manipulate and control.
iv’e been through the gears in the pussy-machine and they ALL tear you to shreds eventually..
that’s why YOU dump THEM first ..or you lose .gauranteed .every time.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I think oneitis must be a trick played by nature to ensure her offspring will be provided for. I’ve had a case or two of it myself. I got over it — probably because my glandular system stopped pumping out the hormones involved once she was gone from my life.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 5]

pabsawake wrote:

Don’t really know myself. I started a topic last night about a possible unicorn. One of the guys really set me straight by explaining that some women are betterthan others at suppressing their true nature. Perhaps that’s all you are seeing.

Well said- man cool avatar.

[TheDigestedRedPillParticipant 165]

Dudes as always you deliver truth. Right now I am pumping weights like a testosterone magnet and finding out a lot about myself. Never expected Oneitis to be a part of my transition. Trust me its a very miserable feeling. But for what it’s worth every bit of advice counts.

Society live's as if we have reached the pinnacle of human potential. Technological Advancement and Innovation, intellectualism, critical thinking is substituted for useless innovations, nasty narcissistic games, tyrannical laws that destroy the very foundation of family, and the world as we know it.

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

Ha! I looked up oneitis in the Urban Dictionary. The top definition is looking a bit MGTOW, if you ask me!

Often confused with love, this is the feeling that a particular woman is actually special. This is just an illusion; she is the same as the other three or so billion. “Go f~~~ ten other women” is the most commonly prescribed treatment for this “disease” (hence the “itis”), as it tends to show quite quickly how very alike people are.

In other words, get over yourself and your obsession with that girl, because it’s just an illusion. And when you get rejected, don’t be depressed. Because there’s really not much to worry about.
Dude, you definitely have oneitis for that girl. You’ve been talking about her nonstop for the past week. Don’t you realize she’s nothing special, and that you are just being fooled? Snap out of it so you won’t be so depressed when she rejects you!

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[sidecarParticipant 35842]

The f~~~ is “oneitis”?

Edit: Never mind. Answered in the post above. What a bizarre concept.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Just think of that hot girl “the one” and remember those nice titts will sag,that nice smooth ass will be a surface equivalent to moon craters,not to mention that sad case of vaginosis that ALL women have and ask yourself, is that a princess? Face paint like a circus clown and will start to grow a mustache as she approached 40 when the biological deceit (baby/innocent) skin starts to shed off the female cobra snake and man oh man that voice will sound like your talking to a man. Is that the oneitis you’re talking about?

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

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MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

Is that the oneitis you’re talking about?

Yep, that would be it. Thanks for the AWALT reality check, Monkey!

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Theronius wrote:

Yep, that would be it. Thanks for the AWALT reality check, Monkey!

Anytime my brother…..anytime…..

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[RennieParticipant]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

Just think of that hot girl “the one” and remember those nice titts will sag,that nice smooth ass will be a surface equivalent to moon craters,not to mention that sad case of vaginosis that ALL women have and ask yourself, is that a princess? Face paint like a circus clown and will start to grow a mustache as she approached 40 when the biological deceit (baby/innocent) skin starts to shed off the female cobra snake and man oh man that voice will sound like your talking to a man. Is that the oneitis you’re talking about?

They all depreciate until they’re no longer worth anything to anyone. If you buy her, then you will be stuck with the worn out hulk eventually. Crusing the profiles of girls I went to HS with and they don’t look half as good as they used to and they aren’t even 30 yet.

[sidecarParticipant 35842]

Open a bag of potato chips some time and line up each individual chip on the table in front of you. Examine each potato chip in turn. Notice how each one of them is unique. Whether it’s the size or hue or the pattern of the salt or the delicate curl of the chip, no two chips are exactly alike. But unique is not the same thing as special. When it comes to the bite, they all taste exactly the same.

Women are like potato chips. Superficially unique, but generic to the core. None of them are special. AWALT.

And like potato chips, why would you want to eat just one?

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

Back in my blue pill days, I had one-itis. Definitely. And she dumped me and my heart broke.

It took a while, several years in fact, several women, a few more bad experiences, pulling myself up by my bootstraps, finally swallowing that red pill, and making the decision that come-what-may, I was going to do my own thing, independent of anyone.

On reflection, I think that one-itis comes from a deep insecurity that wants to be filled. We find someone that activates that insecurity, but at the same time, fills it too. And thus we become instantly addicted to them, needing them to activate and fulfill, on a constant, never-ending cycle. Sadly, I have to conclude that it is not red pill behaviour.

The only way out of it forever, is to identify the insecurity, and do whatever inner work you need to just let it go. Without that insecurity constantly needing to be fed, you are a free man.

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