On coming train wreck?

[Anonymous 1]

ForeverDone wrote:

The question is.. Is this now the norm? No one talks about it in general, just online. Are they too ashamed because they look like a gullible tool? That the woman is using sex as a bargaining chip? Not judging, as this happened to me as well. Sex slowly stopped once she had the contract. However, I hit the ejection seat as I knew the “partnership” was FUBAR. You know what a marriage “partnership” is right? You have your money, she has your and her money. You do all the work, she does nothing but complain. NO THANKS!

I’m not sure its the norm – but sex is definitely a good indicator.

They spend of of the relationship using sex as a reward — when it stops, they’ve decided you’re not worthy of their cookies any more.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Anonymous wrote:

I am in my mid fifties and my wife passed away 10 years ago last month. She was the kindest and most classy and graceful woman I have ever known. She was also 21 years older than me.
Since then, I re-discovered why I married her; women my own age are c~~~s. They were in my twenties, and in my forties and still are.
Our society is sick.
This is my first post…

Sir,

Be for warned, after the honeymoon period (2 months on average), their true self starts to appear. They used to wait until there was a relationship or marriage. Not these days…

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

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I’m not sure its the norm – but sex is definitely a good indicator.

They spend of of the relationship using sex as a reward — when it stops, they’ve decided you’re not worthy of their cookies any more.

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Still think many just reach their biological time limit and say s~~~, need to settle down. Then, when the kid (s) are here, I’m not happy. Honey, you’re never happy. I want a divorce. Rinse and repeat. Seems this is what young girls are taught from the get-go nowadays.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

Jesus, I have been there and a half. The last time I had sex with my wife was March, 2016 and it wasn’t even good. We separated 26/December after I discovered she had been having an ongoing affair a few days before Christmas. Time for him to take the red pill.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

The plot thickens. He’s in the process of setting up a partnership with a well known business leader in NYC. She doesn’t know it yet, but once it’s announced, his financial situation could be much better once his company receives the firm’s investment. He’s wondering if he should tell her about it in hopes it will fix some of the issues or file and be free. In NY, you can file and not inform the spouse for up to six months. When you file, the separation of assets freezes and anything after that date is not touchable. I said, I cannot tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I did. I filed, so I could control the process. In that time, I tried to work on our marriage. She, unfortunately, refused to work with me on any level. It took five months to get her s~~~ out of my place. After she left, I served her. Any money I made during that time, was not touchable.

Here’s hoping he thinks with his mind and not his heart. The heart sometimes gets in the way of doing what’s right for YOU. It may not be nice, but it is right to look out for # 1. She isn’t looking out for you I said. Is she trying to work on the marriage? Not much he said. She goes up and down. Well, it seems to me she’s given up and she wants out, but doesn’t have the guts to do it. You should set things right if that’s the case and kick her ass to the curb.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

You’ve given him excellent advice. That’s a pretty strange delay built into New York law, but he should definitely use it.

Any change in her attitude will be short lived until the boon becomes her new norm and she settles back into apathy toward him.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[MonkParticipant 16995]

ForeverDone wrote:

He said, After marriage, sex slowed to once a week, to once a month, then every other month, and now no sex for over a year.

She will not communicate with him …

… and he’s covering all the expenses for them both. They both work, she actually earns the same as him, but gets to keep all of it.

All of these say the same thing – in her mind, he’s already history.

Time for him to make a move before she does.

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