On coming train wreck?

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

I was talking to an acquaintance, and I asked how’s married life, they’ve only been married two years.. He said, After marriage, sex slowed to once a week, to once a month, then every other month, and now no sex for over a year. She will not communicate with him and he’s covering all the expenses for them both. They both work, she actually earns the same as him, but gets to keep all of it. I said leave dude. If not, when she decides to leave you, which she will eventually, she will cut your b~~~~ off in divorce court. He said he doesn’t want to. He can make it work. He loves her. I said, do you love giving half your s~~~ to this wonderful piece of sunshine?

I told him to come here for a pep talk. Let’s see if he comes by.. I am at a loss of words as I am typing this..

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

ForeverDone wrote:

After marriage, sex slowed to once a week, to once a month, then every other month, and now no sex for over a year.

It’s like an exponential decay, when a capacitor discharges.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

If you’re married and your woman is withholding sex from you then all I can say is she had a good run riding the c~~~ carousel in her youth.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

I just do not understand why anyone, male or female would put up with a sexless and non-communicative spouse or partner. Give it a year, and then hit the ejection seat. It’s like cruel mental torture.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Joey Alfio wrote:

If you’re married and your woman is withholding sex from you then all I can say is she had a good run riding the c~~~ carousel in her youth.

Yea, but these days, most females have. They start so early nowadays. The dude is only 32.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

I think one of the first signs or symptoms of a relations~~~ hitting rock bottom is when the sex drops or seizes. If the c~~~ won’t even appreciate and reward her man’s hard work and sacrifices to make the marriage work with intimacy then that’s when s~~~ starts hitting the fan.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Joey Alfio wrote:

I think one of the first signs or symptoms of a relations~~~ hitting rock bottom is when the sex drops or seizes. If the c~~~ won’t even appreciate and reward her man’s hard work and sacrifices to make the marriage work with intimacy then that’s when s~~~ starts hitting the fan.

Isn’t usually always the case..

[Admiral CrunchParticipant 776]

MGTOW_Mike wrote:

he’s covering all the expenses for them both. They both work, she actually earns the same as him, but gets to keep all of it

What a deal, he gets to pay ALL of the bills, while she spends all of her money on herself….and he gets NO sex. What exactly does he get in this “marriage” ? I imagine he does ALL of the housework as well. Gotta make Proncess happy and provide that happily ever after life she demands..What the hell does he “love” about her? He may not be getting any sex, but she probably has a Chad or two elsewhere. On coming train wreck? This marriage train has already derailed. Sad thing is, his marriage is probably representative of most two income marriages these days.

Women do not love men. Women only love what men can provide.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

“An open letter to my wife”

/audio/women-who-use-sex-as-a-bargaining-tool/

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[VanXingParticipant 98]

This is me 4 years ago. I was in love with her thus put up with unreal amount of bulls~~~. Why was I in love with her?

Before Marriage she did everything that I wanted to do, gave me the most unbelievable sex without me even asking, was respectful to my parents. My Dad thought she was the best daughter in law ever. That’s until she got pregnant and threw him out of our house.

If only I knew what I know now I would have divorced her 1 year into the marriage. She’ll withhold sex and blame me for it. Once the hissy fits start it only goes down hill. Anything you give or do for her is only a temporary fix like a narcotic. You have to up dose everything you do or give her for a lower rate of return. Eventually you can’t give anymore and that’s when she divorces you.

[Anonymous 18]

Damn.

Pussy is a strong weapon.

It makes men vulnerable.

Once there they are easily shamed, manipulated, and controlled.

Too late for your friend now.

Help him when it’s time to damage control ie when SHE divorces him.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

It’s a shame. Somehow, in this day an age, this may be the norm., not the exception. 🙁

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Joey Alfio wrote:

If you’re married and your woman is withholding sex from you then all I can say is she had a good run riding the c~~~ carousel in her youth.

It always amazes me when a guy thinks they can take a woman who is well into the double(or maybe even triple) digit c~~~ count, marry her, and honestly think he’ll be the last c~~~ she ever gets. Hell no. Women in general aren’t worth the commitment these days…but the ones with the c~~~ count even less so.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Beer wrote:

Joey Alfio wrote:

If you’re married and your woman is withholding sex from you then all I can say is she had a good run riding the c~~~ carousel in her youth.

It always amazes me when a guy thinks they can take a woman who is well into the double(or maybe even triple) digit c~~~ count, marry her, and honestly think he’ll be the last c~~~ she ever gets. Hell no. Women in general aren’t worth the commitment these days…but the ones with the c~~~ count even less so.

Guess you can always screw with the fugly ones. They’re prob. still in the single digits. OLD and the hookup culture ruined the pus. Some of them look like shriveled up prunes or meat hooks… And the bitch is in her 20’s. Not sure they’re supposed to see THAT much action.

[JVBParticipant]

ForeverDone wrote:

I was talking to an acquaintance, and I asked how’s married life, they’ve only been married two years.. He said, After marriage, sex slowed to once a week, to once a month, then every other month, and now no sex for over a year. She will not communicate with him and he’s covering all the expenses for them both. They both work, she actually earns the same as him, but gets to keep all of it. I said leave dude. If not, when she decides to leave you, which she will eventually, she will cut your b~~~~ off in divorce court. He said he doesn’t want to. He can make it work. He loves her. I said, do you love giving half your s~~~ to this wonderful piece of sunshine?

I told him to come here for a pep talk. Let’s see if he comes by.. I am at a loss of words as I am typing this..

You tried bro. That’s all you can do.

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 1]

ForeverDone wrote:

Joey Alfio wrote:

I think one of the first signs or symptoms of a relations~~~ hitting rock bottom is when the sex drops or seizes. If the c~~~ won’t even appreciate and reward her man’s hard work and sacrifices to make the marriage work with intimacy then that’s when s~~~ starts hitting the fan.

Isn’t usually always the case..

its pretty common..

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

The question is.. Is this now the norm? No one talks about it in general, just online. Are they too ashamed because they look like a gullible tool? That the woman is using sex as a bargaining chip? Not judging, as this happened to me as well. Sex slowly stopped once she had the contract. However, I hit the ejection seat as I knew the “partnership” was FUBAR. You know what a marriage “partnership” is right? You have your money, she has your and her money. You do all the work, she does nothing but complain. NO THANKS!

[IRuleMeParticipant]

“But, but but… I can change her!!”

WRONG. Women don’t change.

“I can make it work.” The question is, “why would he want to?” Does he honestly think the sex will magically turn itself around? Does he think that someone who is emotionally distant will somehow gravitate towards him like a magnet and metal? Emotionally distant people tend to stay emotionally distant. Next step is going to be “we’re not communicating! Let’s see a marriage counselor!” Next step after that is divorce court.

[Anonymous 0]

I am in my mid fifties and my wife passed away 10 years ago last month. She was the kindest and most classy and graceful woman I have ever known. She was also 21 years older than me.
Since then, I re-discovered why I married her; women my own age are c~~~s. They were in my twenties, and in my forties and still are.
Our society is sick.
This is my first post…

[Anonymous 0]

I guess how it relates to this thread is, in my experience, women do not fundamentally change. If she turns into a whore, or a manipulator or whatever, after marriage she probably was one before marriage.

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