[NSFW] Thinking of going to a Japanese brothel, but have questions.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

Thank you everyone so far for your replies. Although I haven’t responded to every single one all of you have been very helpful and this is good information. As to not make this post too long I have divided it up.

PistolPete wrote:

Settle down Bard. I share your fascination with Asian chicks; and I’ve had a Korean girlfriend. It was mind blowing. Being attracted to Asian chicks is the same as liking quinces or olives—its an acquired taste. BUT note once you’ve been with one of them there is NO going back to the blasé typical Caucasian woman…ever.

Well I don’t ever plan on leaving Japan so that won’t be a problem lol.

PistolPete wrote:

Do the brothel thing but don’t get up tight about it—you’re not performing for them—they are performing for you—remember that. Then you can just relax and have a good time.

As for not doing well with Asian chicks—piece of advice: Like all women they love money and will shun any guy they think doesn’t have enough to suit them. (That is how I got dumped after a year and half with talk of marriage) Secondly despite what they say about careers and the usual feminista bulls~~~ they like a man who is physically big, commanding, confident and powerful. Think Germanic Aryan type. Think this guy below: He would get laid every night in an Asian country EVEN if he had no $$$.

I think it is because all of their men pretty much look alike. And tall blond muscular guys with really big dongs are IN demand. They like you to take charge and issue orders—you do this—you do that—you dare talk back to me etc. I’m telling you it works. No w I don’t know what your ethnic background is but whatever: just try and be calm, strong and confident—and don’t chit chat meaningless drivel that is what she and her girlfriends do—everything that comes out of your mouth must be strong and meaningful. That is all the advice I can give you. REMEMBER once you’ve had one there is no repeat NO going back.

Ok that is a good idea to let them know they are performing for me and not the other way around. I am a white guy but not the typical pretty gaijin they are hoping for. If I applied for JET I now know my looks would have disqualified me and I am pretty sure 2 other jobs denied me positions based off of my looks too. I will make sure to boost my testosterone before going as I did that before the interview for this job and I think that greatly helped lol. I could always act like I am richer than I am too, I do like to cosplay and get into it so I just need to channel my inner Bruce Wayne, Oliver Queen, or Tony Stark. Possibly even Lex Luthor.

Crankganker wrote:

Ah yes the yellow fever. I have this as well. Something about Asian chicks, Japanese especially, really get to me. It may sound weird but damn I love their hair.

S~~~ man that long silky hair is amazing.

Ogre wrote:

@bard, relax. You are being consumed by thoughts of just one part of a lovely creature designed to consume you. Herbivore men exist because Japanese girls, lovely as they may be, are Venus flytraps.

Salary men die at work because the once hot wife exerts continuous pressure to earn MORE. Get a blowy, slip in the vag if you can. She’s nothing special, she’s a whore. Rinse and repeat.

Minimalism says that the things we own own us. Get it out of your system, don’t fall in love, purge hormone when the pressure builds up again. Repeat as necessary. AWALT, a succubus will drain you dry no matter her eye shape or nationality.

It is getting better here though as I do see more fathers picking their kids up from class and for the really small children more fathers are coming either with the mother or just them and the child which is nice. Naturally I don’t plan on falling in love with a prostitute though, but getting this out of my system will be a great help.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

FunInTheSun wrote:

The ladies get paid to please you. You can go there, lay down, cop a feel, get a hand job, and not feel any shame about it. If you’re worried about STD’s, bring your own condom. No raw f~~~ing/sucking. Wash up with soap and water afterwards.

I think getting your biological urges taken care of by a professional is a nice alternative to “gaming” women in hopes of getting a f~~~ buddy or a girlfriend.

Wouldn’t a brothel have condoms though? Does a blow job with a condom even feel good? I am not the kind of guy who has one night stands and only has sex with women he is dating, and this does make a hypocrite to some degree, but I feel if I am going to f~~~ a woman I am not dating better to have it be a prostitute then some random chick for a variety of reasons. With a prostitute there are no games, I am paying for sex and shes know it, I know, that is why I am there. I don’t have to worry about wooing her, buying her drinks, staying interesting, etc. These prostitutes get STD checks. And no bulls~~~ of her crying rape, baby mama drama, or knowing where I live.

sidecar wrote:

A gaijin in Tokyo does not need to go to a brothel. Trust me on this. Just don’t make the mistake of dressing like a weeaboo otaku nerd and you’ll be fine.

That being said, be careful what you wish for. There’s a reason for all the herbivores over there.

I am different. I am not the pretty boy gaijin you see in the JET programme or the other big Eikaiwa’s. I am an otaku but don’t always dress like one and it makes no difference. I am kind of weird by their standards too. I have students that say I am strange too. It isn’t really a problem with children since they don’t fully understand which is why I do best when working with children. It is the upper grades that notice and while they don’t hate me, they seem to tolerate me and get some fun out of our classes.

Anonymous wrote:

Your fantasy about Japanese women is ironic considering they’ve sent more men MGTOW than any other race of women on earth.

Well I can’t help what I am attracted too lol. Just think there are Japanese men who think blonde white women in the west are ideal NAWLT lol.

Puffin Stuff wrote:

Relax, have a plan for the evening. Remember, your paying for it so she is looking for you to tell her what you want. For an hour, perhaps you want to get comfortable with her for a few minutes. That makes taking off your clothes less uncomfortable. But then you have to tell her what you want.

For example. If you want her to sit next to you say “come sit over here” and pat the seat. Then if you want a blow job ask “is it OK if I take off my pants.”, “Why don’t you take yours off”.

Then you can guide her hand to your member and she’ll take it from there. When your ready for sex, just nudge her toward the bed. No words about potential illegal activity but be ready to pay a high tip if it occurs.

When your done, you get dressed tell her it was great, pay her and leave.

It’ll make you feel great. Like a good loose massage.

Ok so take charge more. However if I am taking charge why should I ask her to take off her pants? Couldn’t I just tell her to take them off since I am paying or is it up to how I feel? Since this place is listed as a soapland should I expect sexual intercourse to happen then? If no sexual intercourse then what else can I expect besides a blow job? Anal? Dry sex?

Gargamel wrote:

I see.

But they can become clingy like cats and make you think they are “marriage material”…

“Pretty Woman” style.

Even paying 20,000 yen a month to f~~~ her twice a month is still pocket change when compared to a wife though lol.

The Black Scorpion wrote:

The first time you see an escort you will be as nervous as hell, it’s like that for all new clients. But that’s a good thing as it adds to the excitement.

And after the session is over and you are out the door you’ll realize that their was really nothing to it.

Look at it as a fun adventure.

I am trying to look at it similar to how I f~~~ed my last girlfriend. For example I would go to her house when her parents were gone, walk in, grab her, kiss, take her to the bed room, a little fore play, f~~~ her, then we would do something like home work, watch tv, eat ,etc. So I figure use that as a base, change a few things around, and I should be fine right?

~BS wrote:

Meh my problem is that I do better with someone I have a connection with, not someone I met 5 minutes ago opening up her wet hole

I understand. With my last girlfriend we had very good sexual chemistry so it helped make the sex amazing while me and my second girlfriend and no chemistry and the sex was terrible. I figure a prostitute who I feel like I can get along with when speaking with her at the line up and has to make a living can probably better sex then some chick at a bar.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

Muglintar wrote:

@the Bard – as a former seafarer I have been in brothels all over this world. Including Yokohama, Japan and as you know it’s hard to tell where Tokio ends and Yokohama begins.

Rule 1) you pay, your rules. (Aka “sin Plata, sin amor” in South America). You are buying entertainment, it’s her job to ensure you are happy, so you come back.
Rule 2) at the end of the day each prostitute is a woman (and vice versa). They are human beings, who deserve to be treated as human being.
Rule 3) always use protection! If she offers “all natural” to you, then she offers same to each other customer as well. Which significantly increases the risk of attracting an STD.
FYI They come with a money back guarantee. Dismiss her, choose another.
Rule 4) a decent brothel has a shower in each cabin. If there is just a basin, leave. You don’t need pubic lice.
5) never carry credit cards, cellphone, expensive watches or the like with you. In red-light districts it’s cash only.
6)Store the bills in different pockets (seaman usually put one 50 or 100 dollar bill in their sock as well). That’s to protect you from pickpockets. Even if you’re ambushed and plundered, at least you’ll have enough left for a drink and a taxi home.
7) many brothels offer newbie specialists. When you enter and speak to mama-san, tell her you’re not experienced. She will pick a girl, respectively a selection of girls, who can handle the situation.
8) never try to French kiss the girl of choice. If she allows it, she will be the one to put her tongue into your mouth first. Careful! Kissing is often considered a special service and has therefore a price. Especially Japanese girls are often very hesitant regarding this.
9) if there is anything happening, which makes you feel uncomfortable. Do not hesitate to clarify.
10) if you want a certain position ( pushcart, doggy, cowgirl, reverse missionary, 69, eagle…) tell her. It’s quite common the girl(s) having preferences, too.
11) you pay for time. Whatever you do in the time you paid for, is up to you. It happens the girls ask for a “ladie’s drink”(10 to 50 usd for colored, sugared water) before going to cabin and they start chatting with you. That’s a TJ (talk job). The clock is ticking always.
12) Studies show most men need 13 to 21 minutes from penetration to ejaculation. Therefore make sure to book enough time.
13) don’t try to cover your insecurities by being c~~~y. You’re the beginner and they are the pro’s.
14) you don’t need game. When bringing a common girl into your bed, you need game. You show your skills, confidence and dominance. As you don’t appear to be a natural born alpha, (neither am I), leave the game at the wardrobe. PuA skills don’t work with professionals.
15) don’t stress yourself. There’s barely a thing you can do or demand that they haven’t seen already.
16) forget about the idea you would have to perform. It is your satisfaction and your satisfaction only. No jacking off beforehand. If you come quickly, very likely the second shot is for free (if not covered by the hour rate anyway).

Last advice from hitchhiker’s guide to the galaxy “don’t panic!”

Hope I covered your questions. Have fun!

Great points, they help a lot. Just a question on some.
Is the shower included in the time I am paying for? Is just french kissing off the table or all kissing? Kissing on the lips or neck ok? If the girls ask for a drink before going to the room can I just say no because I don’t want to waste time? So say I pay for 45 minutes and cum after 15 minutes. I can still do stuff with her and go again provided there is time? When you say no jacking off before hand do you mean right before I go, the day before, should I not jack off a few before going or what?

[Jim01Participant 6678]

No offence Bard but you asked if a blowjob feels the same with a condom on and a couple of the other questions you ask make me wonder – are you a virgin?

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Hitman wrote:

pussy aint worth s~~~.
KNOCK IT OFF THE F~~~ING PEDESTAL.

I have a mental “erectile dysfunction” when I smell fish.

I can never get over what brought me here.

Cynically ranting and laughing about c~~~s and imagining their cat lady future is so much more fun than listening to their s~~~.

Or actually wasting any money on them.

Even though my sex drive is actually still alive and kicking.

The right hand rule does not only apply to the magnetic field.

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[OldBillParticipant]

TheBard wrote:

I apologize if this is the wrong board…

You’re not on the wrong board. You’re on the wrong site.

If you needs tips regarding whores and brothels, there are any number of sites specifically created for that. This is not one of them.

Finally, if you saw how Japanese women treat their husbands, your pathetic “rive fever” would be cured instantaneously.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

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