[NSFW] Thinking of going to a Japanese brothel, but have questions.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

I apologize if this is the wrong board but “dating” or relationships” didn’t seem like a proper fit.

All my life I have had a huge Japanese fetish, but haven’t really gotten to act on it. In high school I held hands with an exchange student on a field trip and did some slow dancing with some others, but that is it. I live in Japan and have terrible luck with women so haven’t found a girlfriend. Since prostitution is legal here as long as it isn’t vaginal I am thinking about just going to a brothel to get having sex with a Japanese women out of the way so I stop stressing about it. With that being said I have a bunch of questions as I have not only never been, but my sexual experience is only 2 women who were girlfriends.

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Here is a place I found in Tokyo that looks legit, gaijin friendly, have English speaking women, and the women all get STD checks. What exactly should I expect the women to do? I have heard of pink salons which are blow job bars but for a place like this can they do anything I ask them to do as long as it isn’t vaginal? If she says I can put my dick in her pussy is it ok to go for it or should I not? The place I mentioned above is a soapland which I read do offer vaginal intercourse as they are legally able to get around it. So does that mean if I go to the place I listed above I can expected actual sex with a woman?
As for my current sex life I have not had sex in 7 years so to not blow my load too quickly should I at least jack off a day before going or 2 days before? If I pay for 30 minutes, but cum after 10 minutes is it over or do I still have her another 20 minutes? When I got my first blow job ever I surprisingly didn’t cum from the sucking and she had to jack me off to finish me, but this situation could be different. Should I be worried about the amount of cum too? Jacking off to Japanese porn usually makes me cum a lot more then with non Japanese porn so I can only imagine what a actual Japanese woman is going to do. Is there such a thing as cumming too much with a prostitute? How should I act? I know to be calm and cool, but any pointers? When I get in the room with her is it ok to kind of just take the lead and start doing what you want since you are paying? How often do prostitutes like this get STD’s? I know we would use a condom, but I worry in between check ups she might have blown a guy with herpes and then pass it on to me. Any other pieces of advice?

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Settle down Bard. I share your fascination with Asian chicks; and I’ve had a Korean girlfriend. It was mind blowing. Being attracted to Asian chicks is the same as liking quinces or olives—its an acquired taste. BUT note once you’ve been with one of them there is NO going back to the blasé typical Caucasian woman…ever.

Do the brothel thing but don’t get up tight about it—you’re not performing for them—they are performing for you—remember that. Then you can just relax and have a good time.

As for not doing well with Asian chicks—piece of advice: Like all women they love money and will shun any guy they think doesn’t have enough to suit them. (That is how I got dumped after a year and half with talk of marriage) Secondly despite what they say about careers and the usual feminista bulls~~~ they like a man who is physically big, commanding, confident and powerful. Think Germanic Aryan type. Think this guy below: He would get laid every night in an Asian country EVEN if he had no $$$.

I think it is because all of their men pretty much look alike. And tall blond muscular guys with really big dongs are IN demand. They like you to take charge and issue orders—you do this—you do that—you dare talk back to me etc. I’m telling you it works. No w I don’t know what your ethnic background is but whatever: just try and be calm, strong and confident—and don’t chit chat meaningless drivel that is what she and her girlfriends do—everything that comes out of your mouth must be strong and meaningful. That is all the advice I can give you. REMEMBER once you’ve had one there is no repeat NO going back.

[MonkParticipant 16975]

This isn’t the right site for advice on knocking shops.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

NOW NOW Monk—I’m as Monk as you are–been that way for 25 years but the young guys still have the hormones pumping and he is doing the right thing if he must…its a safe, secure way of getting it out of your system. He’ll grow up in time and lose the urge we all do. But for the moment let him revel pump & dump to his heart’s content. I might be monk but I’m not a prude. Well OK I am a prude but for Asian chicks I’ll make an exception.

[CrankgankerParticipant 466]

Ah yes the yellow fever. I have this as well. Something about Asian chicks, Japanese especially, really get to me. It may sound weird but damn I love their hair.

At one point I thought Eastern chicks were the answer but a few men I know thought the same and it didnt work out so well for them. AWALT

I was thinking of planning a trip to visit one of these brothels myself so I would be interested to hear how it goes.

You want to make me angry? I will take a bite out of that anger and shit out success.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

I just visited the site and there are a couple of them I would for whom I would board a plane, fly 7000 miles just repeat just to bang.

[HermitParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

NOW NOW Monk—I’m as Monk as you are–been that way for 25 years but the young guys still have the hormones pumping and he is doing the right thing if he must…its a safe, secure way of getting it out of your system. He’ll grow up in time and lose the urge we all do. But for the moment let him revel pump & dump to his heart’s content. I might be monk but I’m not a prude. Well OK I am a prude but for Asian chicks I’ll make an exception.

At what age do you lose the urge? I’m almost 51 years old and I’m still as horny as when I was a teenager……….enough so that I’ll still put up with a certain amount of a woman’s s~~~ to have her get me off.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

YIKES Hermit! I don’t know. I lost the urge a long LONG time ago. (But I think its coming back for a moment.)

[Anonymous 43]

I am trying to imagine a sexual experience where the woman cares about how I am feeling. I can’t imagine having sex with a woman who takes a very active part in the goings on. I guess the promise of cash is the foreplay.

Good luck with that amigo.

[narwhalParticipant]

For me, urges seem to be tied to stimulations. The less I’m around attractive women, the more I am busy with work, hobbies, or whatever, the better off I am. It makes sense that an older man would have less urges since they are likely to be around fewer attractive women and have better uses of their time.

On Asian women, my first GF was Asian. Her friends shamed her for going out with a white guy, so that was end of that. I think the whole experience turned me off on Asian women. It could also be that I developed an attraction to big boobs along the way, which tends to eliminate most Asian women. The exotic appeal never did anything for me either.

Ok. Then do it.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

@pistol Pete. I’m the giant German dude, no Asian fixation though. I guess my natural attributes are wasted.

@bard, relax. You are being consumed by thoughts of just one part of a lovely creature designed to consume you. Herbivore men exist because Japanese girls, lovely as they may be, are Venus flytraps.

Salary men die at work because the once hot wife exerts continuous pressure to earn MORE. Get a blowy, slip in the vag if you can. She’s nothing special, she’s a whore. Rinse and repeat.

Minimalism says that the things we own own us. Get it out of your system, don’t fall in love, purge hormone when the pressure builds up again. Repeat as necessary. AWALT, a succubus will drain you dry no matter her eye shape or nationality.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Anonymous 0]

Anonymous wrote:

I am trying to imagine a sexual experience where the woman cares about how I am feeling. I can’t imagine having sex with a woman who takes a very active part in the goings on. I guess the promise of cash is the foreplay.

Good luck with that amigo.

I don’t know anything about the particular institutions described in the OP. But I had to laugh when May 7 mentioned hookers “taking an active part in the goings on.” The average hookers are pretty cold fish. They generally do the absoulte minimum. Especially if it’s evening. They’re generally half in the bag (drunk or stoned) and just looking to do the minimum necessary so they can collect their fee and get some shuteye.

When I was a kid in the military, I hit a lot of whorehouses all over Southeast Asia. I don’t have any complaints or regrets; it was fun and we had some adventures. But sex for pay is actually pretty drab. Forget the “hooker with a heart of gold” trope. For all the “participation” you’ll get from those gals, you might as well have sex with a sex doll.

Anyway, as for answering the OP’s questions: I would just go there and ask them what the rules are. They’ll tell you what’s expected and what you’re supposed to do or pay or whatever.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

Bard, this whole situation screams “honey pot” trap.

If you are looking for somewhere to sleep with a prostitute, I highly suggest you do so where prostitution is legal. It cost more, but things on the up and up, and if someone says something you can always point that what you did was legal where you did it.

Most visitors to Nevada either are going for the legalized gambling, or legalized prostitution.

[narwhalParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I am trying to imagine a sexual experience where the woman cares about how I am feeling. I can’t imagine having sex with a woman who takes a very active part in the goings on. I guess the promise of cash is the foreplay.

I think both men and women want to feel like they are physically capable of giving their partner an orgasm. When that comes in to question, the person will try harder. In other words, if you start want to quit before you’ve had your orgasm, she’ll either decide she needs to try harder or there is something wrong with you. If she is convinced that you’re something special and had good experiences with other women, then she’ll do her best to make sure she measures up.

Of course a prostitute won’t care either way.

Ok. Then do it.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

The ladies get paid to please you. You can go there, lay down, cop a feel, get a hand job, and not feel any shame about it. If you’re worried about STD’s, bring your own condom. No raw f~~~ing/sucking. Wash up with soap and water afterwards.

I think getting your biological urges taken care of by a professional is a nice alternative to “gaming” women in hopes of getting a f~~~ buddy or a girlfriend.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

TheBard wrote:

Here is a place I found in Tokyo that looks legit, gaijin friendly, have English speaking women, and the women all get STD checks.

A gaijin in Tokyo does not need to go to a brothel. Trust me on this. Just don’t make the mistake of dressing like a weeaboo otaku nerd and you’ll be fine.

That being said, be careful what you wish for. There’s a reason for all the herbivores over there.

[Anonymous 5]

Your fantasy about Japanese women is ironic considering they’ve sent more men MGTOW than any other race of women on earth.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Relax, have a plan for the evening. Remember, your paying for it so she is looking for you to tell her what you want. For an hour, perhaps you want to get comfortable with her for a few minutes. That makes taking off your clothes less uncomfortable. But then you have to tell her what you want.

For example. If you want her to sit next to you say “come sit over here” and pat the seat. Then if you want a blow job ask “is it OK if I take off my pants.”, “Why don’t you take yours off”.

Then you can guide her hand to your member and she’ll take it from there. When your ready for sex, just nudge her toward the bed. No words about potential illegal activity but be ready to pay a high tip if it occurs.

When your done, you get dressed tell her it was great, pay her and leave.

It’ll make you feel great. Like a good loose massage.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22520]

Anonymous wrote:

Your fantasy about Japanese women is ironic considering they’ve sent more men MGTOW than any other race of women on earth.

That is a very good point.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Interesting I was looking at the site, I was about to think “I could bang one of those too” and my alien beated up my brain to NFG…

Awesome, I used to have an Asian fetish too, now I don’t give a f~~~.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

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