Not sure how I feel about presents from my gay stalker

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3759]

I’d at least return the gift, but then again it depends on where you would do it. Can’t meet him at his place ’cause he can make up stuff (like women would).

Uugh, I don’t know. Sorry.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

I returned the gift. I had a good out because we aren’t really supposed to receive gifts at work, although we usually overlook this.

[Remove me!Participant]

I think this post has made me the most uncomfortable I’ve ever been while on this site.

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Remove me! wrote:

I think this post has made me the most uncomfortable I’ve ever been while on this site.

Sorry about that! It goes to show how you cannot control the life of a thread. I mostly posted this to point out how odd it seems that women will accept cash and prizes for doing nothing and how uncomfortable it feels as a guy when the shoe is on the other foot.

Beautiful women get s~~~ like this every day and I don’t know how they keep accepting cash and prizes without feeling weird about it.

[narwhalParticipant]

surfdude12 wrote:

Some people use giving as a means for manipulation. I give you a gift today and next week when you don’t do what I want I say “wow, that’s how you treat a friend who gives you gifts???”

Very true. The reality is that acceptance of a gift does not mean you’re under any obligation to that person.

If you haven’t not talked to him, I’d clearly state that you are heterosexual and have no interested in a relationship. Then drop it. If he refuses, let him know that you will not trust his intentions and treat him like a stalker.

Really, no different than if it was female stalker.

Ok. Then do it.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Why not buy him the blue ray special edition film of Brokeback Mountain? Would make his day for sure!

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

Being that I am in a same sex marriage I figured
I could relate and maybe be of some help.
I laughed at this thread and most of the replies.
My Husband Jesus got a kick out of it also.

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

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