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Since I am self-employeed and a consultant, I really do most of my work now at home. I’ve built and upgraded my small home to where I really do not need to go out much. I have a green house in the back. I have food delivered weekly for dinner by a food service company; which I then prepare. I am paid via ACH weekly. I built a nice little workout room with weights and a heavy bag. I really do not need much else.
I find myself more and more cutting out the rest of the world. I speak and Skype colleagues and clients all the time six days a week. Do see the need to go out much aside from getting fuel, perishable items and go to the post office. Aside from that, I am home either working for $$$ or on myself. Reading a lot articles and books and watching documentaries from time to time. I really do not like going out unless I have too. I chopped some wood for the fireplace, so I am good for the Winter. I’ve tried to socialize with women, but aside from sex, I see little in common or use. Regardless, I’ve not had much luck with them. I am not anti-social, I just DO NOT CARE ANYMORE. I have no problems being alone, and I do not bother others. Sometimes family call me to see if I am still alive. I’ve been like that for years. I am very independent. When I fell off the roof years back and busted my arm, I didn’t want to inconvenience anyone, so I drove myself to the hospital.
In general, I really do not care for the average person these days. The women, look at me for money. The men around I see look battered and torn. It’s rare I see people truly happy. I am more content just being by myself. Yea, at times, I miss female companionship, however, I already had a battle with one STI with my ex-wife. Thank the heavens it was curable and painless. Since then, I have been shying away from women as well. I try here and there, but, same old s~~~. Lies and fakes. I always worry about STIs and do not feel it is worth the few minutes of excitement for weeks, months or a lifetime for pain.
Maybe I am not normal. Maybe I am damaged. I do not know. I do not do debt, I live pretty minimally. I only buy what I need. It seems a means to an end, and a bit boring at times, but this is what I know. I just feel out of place and I feel I should be hanging with people; but I just do not want too. I am much happier just being by myself. I am not depressed, upset at times, but not depressed. It doesn’t interfere with my ability to do my work and stay on task. I do not know. Something is missing, and from what I read, it is probably not healthy.
I was seeing a psychologist after my separation and through my divorce. He said I was fine. He was actually made a comment he was surprised how well I was able to bounce back and continue with life w/o falling apart. I thought that was an odd statement, but I took it as a moderately positive statement.
Is something wrong with me?
Anonymous43I spend time in my apartment looking for a job, on the internet, playing games, sleeping. I shop at Failmart after 11 pm. I have no clue who my neighbors are. I don’t want to deal with anyone, get drawn into anyone’s s~~~ vortex or solve someone’s problems.
Until I found MGTOW, I didn’t think I was worth being some woman’s boyfriend. I kept to myself, doing my own thing, low profile. lol Can you imagine some woman being with me while my insane ex was doing crazy antics? There would be no possible way to maintain a relationship. That crazy bitch would go after anyone I dated.
Sounds like you are just DONE with other people’s s~~~. I feel the same way.
Nothing wrong with you.
I train MMA so I hit the gym regularly, but I like the people there – martial artists are generally high caliber people.
And I love to eat out – tried hundreds of restaurants in my area. Don’t like eating at home on the weekends.
But aside from that I love being alone at home.
I never have guests over. People in general tend to suck so I avoid them as much as possible.
I love the solitude and spending my time, money and energy as I see fit – my home is my bastion of sanity from the outside world.
Do you have any hobbies or passions that you are interested in exploring?
And as for women, have you tried any high quality escorts in your area?
The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau
Nothing wrong with you.
I train MMA so I hit the gym regularly, but I like the people there – martial artists are generally high caliber people.
And I love to eat out – tried hundreds of restaurants in my area. Don’t like eating at home on the weekends.
But aside from that I love being alone at home.
I never have guests over. People in general tend to suck so I avoid them as much as possible.
I love the solitude and spending my time, money and energy as I see fit – my home is my bastion of sanity from the outside world.
Do you have any hobbies or passions that you are interested in exploring?
And as for women, have you tried any high quality escorts in your area?
I used to go to do MMA as well. I am considering picking that up again. I used to go shooting once in a while too. I might pickup a 9mm just to f~~~ around with where the bullets are cheap. Aside from that, no “hobbies” per se.
I couldn’t do an escort. I cannot even do a woman I am not attracted to. I have no idea how males have sex with unattractive women. I’m giving up the women game for awhile. After the last experience with meeting women, it’s not worth the mental and financial expense. Besides, I wouldn’t be able to just use a woman’s body as a machine. I would like to think I could, but I cannot.
Is something wrong with me?
I don’t see anything wrong with you. Maybe if you hang out with some like-minded guys once in a while, you won’t feel completely alienated. Personally, I envy you. I deal with customers all day at my job, and some of them are very annoying. Sometimes I just stay inside my apartment and order pizza when I get a day off. My job makes me hate to be around people—and this holiday season is making me hate Christmas because I’m forced to listen to Christmas songs all day while I’m stressing out. I also ride the bus, so that makes it worse.
I really don’t feel like talking to people except for my friends & family. It seems like a lot of people have lost the concept of having good manners, or making some kind of effort to live in harmony with strangers.
"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)
People in general just f~~~ing suck. It’s HARD to find good people and if it’s not worth the effort to you then don’t do it. If it is worth the effort to you, just know that it’ll probably take spending time with 100+ people just to find one decent one.
I work from home too, and I never go anywhere. I live a block from Target in an affluent suburb in a 5 bedroom, 5,000 square foot house. The Target also has a Five Guys, Kohls, UPS store, pet store (for my dog’s food), Chinese restaurant, gas station, and a dozen other stores right there in the same shopping center. Because of this, I rarely go anywhere except the one block down the road to this shopping center. I’ve thought about selling my car because of how little I drive it (less than 500 miles a year nowadays), but it’s old (2005 Cadillac Escalade) and totally paid off so I keep it.
I see clients every day so I stay somewhat social. My mother moved in with me so I get more than enough social interaction. I’m young (26) and I feel like I’m throwing my life away, but I think I have a good life. I work hard, and I take time off when I want to play video games, watch TV, and work on my hobbies.
The bottom line here is, I’m doing what I want and I’m happy with my life. If you’re unhappy with your life, you need to find the root cause of it. It might be that you feel socially isolated, but it might be something else. Try going out for a week or so and see if you feel better. If you don’t, then that’s probably not your problem.
Ya I live in a trendy new hip apartment and work from home and love it. I sold my house last year with no regrets – love it. My new apt has lots of concrete, glass, and stainless steel which is my style until the next recession when I’ll buy the dip again.So getting back to you no worries – exercise your body – avoid hard drugs – make your life better every day – and you’ll be just fine. Don’t seat the the small stuff – (here’s my big challenge) – Don’t overthink s~~~! – and be a good Man. Great your on the site, be good, do good, spread positivity! (and ya I’m a good guy & also a free market capitalist).
A government that robs Peter to pay Paul can always depend upon the support of Paul
Nothing wrong at all. Smarter people tend to require more time alone away from dealing with less intelligent people, it is a source of stress.
Get a sex doll or robot. Get one where you can swap heads and hairstyles for variety.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
Is something wrong with me?
Not in the slightest.
As a consultant, I live and work much the same way you do. (Although I suspect I often travel to and work at customer sites more than you do.) When I’m home, I am my sole priority.
I leave my home only when I choose to do so. I socialize only when I choose to do so. I only do those things I choose to.
I’ve little interest in groups, clubs, dating, and any of that s~~~. I do what I wish when I wish to.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
There is nothing wrong with you and you’re fortunate to be able to work from home. Maybe you’re getting stuck in a bit of a rut and need a new experience. Have you thought about doing some traveling?
"The secret to happiness is freedom... And the secret to freedom is courage." - Thucydides
Anonymous12you are all Professionals with no need for drama.
Just don’t bring no girl into your life, hear me?
I spend time in my apartment looking for a job, on the internet, playing games, sleeping. I shop at Failmart after 11 pm. I have no clue who my neighbors are. I don’t want to deal with anyone, get drawn into anyone’s s~~~ vortex or solve someone’s problems.
Until I found MGTOW, I didn’t think I was worth being some woman’s boyfriend. I kept to myself, doing my own thing, low profile. lol Can you imagine some woman being with me while my insane ex was doing crazy antics? There would be no possible way to maintain a relationship. That crazy bitch would go after anyone I dated.
You’r like my American brother from another mother.
That is exactly what I do-I have one neighbour in my block of flats who says hello if we pass in the car park or the hallway, taht’s it.
Shop at Tesco for food after 8pm when it is quite(my local tesco is not 24hrs closes at 10pm)
I do go for walks for exercise but I odn’t talk to anyone plus been cold so been staying in last two weeks.
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Is something wrong with me?
I don’t see anything wrong with you. Maybe if you hang out with some like-minded guys once in a while, you won’t feel completely alienated. Personally, I envy you. I deal with customers all day at my job, and some of them are very annoying. Sometimes I just stay inside my apartment and order pizza when I get a day off. My job makes me hate to be around people—and this holiday season is making me hate Christmas because I’m forced to listen to Christmas songs all day while I’m stressing out. I also ride the bus, so that makes it worse.
I really don’t feel like talking to people except for my friends & family. It seems like a lot of people have lost the concept of having good manners, or making some kind of effort to live in harmony with strangers.
Not people around here. Everyone seems to be families. I was thinking about getting an apt. in the city, but I do not think I’d like living in a box with people above and below me. I also like silence, so that may be an issue. I’ve tried Meetup groups, but the people are, well, special it seems. I had some decent friends, but they’re long gone. Ironically, I got married to reboot my social life. That didn’t plan out so well. Lost those friends too.
Seems I am in a catch-22 position. Nothing to envy; that much I can say. It can get lonely at times, but I try to make the best of it.
Ya I live in a trendy new hip apartment and work from home and love it. I sold my house last year with no regrets – love it. My new apt has lots of concrete, glass, and stainless steel which is my style until the next recession when I’ll buy the dip again.So getting back to you no worries – exercise your body – avoid hard drugs – make your life better every day – and you’ll be just fine. Don’t seat the the small stuff – (here’s my big challenge) – Don’t overthink s~~~! – and be a good Man. Great your on the site, be good, do good, spread positivity! (and ya I’m a good guy & also a free market capitalist).
I like your setup. I’ve slowly completed similar upgrading and modernization on my place when things fail or just break. I exercise all the time, I do not do drugs or drink. I help people when I can, with little to no expectation of it to be returned; and it usually isn’t. That’s fine. I have a pretty straight routine each day. Get up > work out > breakfast > work > lunch > work > dinner > entertainment (tv/Internet/radio) > sleep. Rinse and repeat.
Quite boring, but predictable. I had the similar regimen after moving out of my parents place 2 decades ago through marriage. I automatically went back to that routine during separation. Amazing how our minds/bodies go back to what’s familiar.
Nothing wrong at all. Smarter people tend to require more time alone away from dealing with less intelligent people, it is a source of stress.
Get a sex doll or robot. Get one where you can swap heads and hairstyles for variety.
LOL on the doll or robot. I would just feel weird with that. I am just hoping as I get older my sex drive will just disappear. Seems to be going in the opposite direction.
Is something wrong with me?
Not in the slightest.
As a consultant, I live and work much the same way you do. (Although I suspect I often travel to and work at customer sites more than you do.) When I’m home, I am my sole priority.
I leave my home only when I choose to do so. I socialize only when I choose to do so. I only do those things I choose to.
I’ve little interest in groups, clubs, dating, and any of that s~~~. I do what I wish when I wish to.
Seems we think similar in this instance. I used to go to customer sites, however, I crunched the #’s and it’s actually more efficient and I save several hundred dollars a month (tolls/fuel/miles/etc.) if I transact from home. I was thinking of eventually getting an office for others who work with me and myself. Chances are, I’d not visit it often and it would just be a waste of money. It would be more of an ego thing, and that is not really something I care for. I’m very laid back and the less people know of me, the better.
It seems technology has moved social interaction away from everyone, instead of bringing people together.
Nothing wrong at all. Smarter people tend to require more time alone away from dealing with less intelligent people, it is a source of stress.
You absolutely hit the nail square on the head. Being around stupid people all day really drains a person and the stupid people are everywhere you go. I work with some real self absorbed idiots and keep my office door closed as much as possible. My home is my island of escape from these ………… people. The older I get, the more I love being home, alone.
I have one or two hangouts I go to every week and the regulars there aren’t bad, but I really get along best with the owner and the waitresses at my one favorite place. However, I keep it down to just once a week, because I do prefer being home alone.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
There is nothing wrong with you and you’re fortunate to be able to work from home. Maybe you’re getting stuck in a bit of a rut and need a new experience. Have you thought about doing some traveling?
Yea, I was thinking about going to the Caribbean, but chances are, I’d just be on the beach, eat some food and go back to the hotel room. Seems like a waste of money.
I spend time in my apartment looking for a job, on the internet, playing games, sleeping. I shop at Failmart after 11 pm. I have no clue who my neighbors are. I don’t want to deal with anyone, get drawn into anyone’s s~~~ vortex or solve someone’s problems.
Until I found MGTOW, I didn’t think I was worth being some woman’s boyfriend. I kept to myself, doing my own thing, low profile. lol Can you imagine some woman being with me while my insane ex was doing crazy antics? There would be no possible way to maintain a relationship. That crazy bitch would go after anyone I dated.
You’r like my American brother from another mother.
That is exactly what I do-I have one neighbour in my block of flats who says hello if we pass in the car park or the hallway, taht’s it.
Shop at Tesco for food after 8pm when it is quite(my local tesco is not 24hrs closes at 10pm)
I do go for walks for exercise but I odn’t talk to anyone plus been cold so been staying in last two weeks.
You do not get bored or lonely?
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