No really – AWALT

[Anonymous 1]

So — barely two months into separation, I find the ex has jumped back on the carousel.

I really couldn’t care less, other than I thought she might have more to think about and deal with before mounting up again.

At this time, a new relationship is the last thing I’m thinking of.

couple of ideas on this
a) 25 years meant less to her than me
b) being single is more attractive to a man than a woman.
c) she was already running around before we split
or
d) all of the above

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

She is that other persons problem now at least you got out better late than never.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

It only took one such specimen to ultimately lead me here (and I’d want to thank her for it).
Meanwhile —> more relaxed than ever & close enough to monkdom.

Nuff said (two years on).

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Identical story to my cousin. Including the time frame.

Anonymous wrote:

a) 25 years meant less to her than me

Briffault’s Law?

Anonymous wrote:

• I find the ex has jumped back on the carousel.
• being single is more attractive to a man than a woman.
• she was already running around before we

He found out his barely post-menopausal wife was communicating with multiple dicks online. He says … “for some odd reason I don’t care!”.

Anonymous wrote:

d) all of the above

Yup.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

Keymaster wrote:

He found out his barely post-menopausal wife was communicating with multiple dicks online. He says … “for some odd reason I don’t care!”.

Why should he care ? He, like you, should just be happy that she’s OUT of your life !! Be grateful, she didn’t turn into psycho bitch, and is bothering/harassing you on a daily !!

It’s what you wanted, Now good riddance to it !!!! Start doing what you WANT to do, WHATEVER that may be !!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[BubParticipant 1410]

D) all of the above

Doing a quick calc in my head, married 25 years + estimate she’s 20 years at marriage contract signing, she is a 45 year old, post wall, carousel rider?
Fabulous –
They are ALL Awalt, ALWAYS..

Just rolling down the road

[experiencedParticipant]

Rhino wrote:

She is that other persons problem now at least you got out better late than never.

Congratulations on being rid of the hairbag.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

I would be laughing at her desperate, soon to be, cum-dumpster, post-wall ass…

Life will be so much better unc~~~ed. Congrats brother. Count your lucky stars. Every time you picture her on someone else’s c~~~ crack a beer and be happy it’s not you.

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[Aleph MaleParticipant 214]

Same thing here, and she’s soon hitting the wall. I pity the fool who’ll end up with her.

Behind every miserable man there is a very happy woman.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

She probably never got of the carousel mate even when she was married/in a relationship. most of them cheat. They use projection they will make unfounded accusations against other people based on the evil they are doing.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Keymaster wrote:

He found out his barely post-menopausal wife was communicating with multiple dicks online. He says … “for some odd reason I don’t care!”.

That’s really the point of satori. When one can shrug one’s shoulders and go ‘whatever’.

At temple, there are often people returning to a more observant brand of Judaism. Also, the dinners are nice, and the company pleasant. Some people return more than others, some hang out. There are also gentiles who like the lectures. It’s all good.

There’s a girl, let’s call her Susan. About six weeks ago, Susan seemed very interested in me. We flirted. Looks were exchanged. It’s a precarious position to be in, because my temple DOES NOT APPROVE AT ALL EVER of premarital sex. And I’d prefer to have the privilege of return. So it was not a particularly serious game for me. Also, she kinda seemed like a spoiled bitch.

At one of the dinners, after some meaningful looks, I saved a seat for her, and she looked at me coldly and sat with the Moor, a just G-d-awful 93 year old Moroccan Jewish woman crone devil imp demon dybbuk backbiting spider. Who f~~~ing hates me, because I voted for Trump (joke’s on her now – thanks Obama!). I digress. So Susan decided randomly to start looking angrily at me, giving me the active bitch face, and did everything but stomp her feet.

Post- Red Pill, Post- My Adventures With Sunshine The Librarian In Gainesville Earlier This Year, Post- Decades Wasted, my attitude is zero s~~~s given. Okay, whatever. Can’t really sport f~~~ in temple, she looked just bitchy and awful and spoiled, it’s all good.

Again, since I’d like to be able to return, removing myself from contact seemed safest. No need for psycho complaints of “he was done hittin’ on me”. So I simply ignore her. A brief hello to be social, then total ignoring. I don’t look at her at all, and just tune her out of my focus and presence.

Six weeks of this later, and Wednesday at Talmud Study Time she just can’t get enough of me. Flirty looks, blushing, meaningful glances, whatever the f~~~.

And yes, I well get that the best way to get a girl interested in you is to do exactly what I did. Approach, wait till she withdraws, then back the f~~~ off totally. Then she’ll reapproach you.

This is nifty, and would be awesome. If we were both six years old, and it was kindergarten.

They never change, they never grow up, and once you’ve figured them out, their programming is really, really basic.

@unforgiven: The goal in your situation is to make your divorce as cheap as f~~~ing possible. GTFO. Do not look back. You are now AT F~~~ING WAR. Men, help me with this one. Tax Man, 2017, KM, you out there? You all write more eloquently than I do on this.

Your goal must be to exit this situation as inexpensively as possible, with no law enforcement involved. You must document everything that occurs, and make off-site, ex-apartment backups. She is now the goddamn devil.

She has basically gone feral after 25 years. YOU NEVER REALLY KNEW HER. Her behavior is surprising to you? Yeah, she hasn’t changed, Chief. She is exactly the same gal you married years beforehand, my friend. You simply misunderstood what she was like. All of this behavior was always, always a possibility. Always. You just didn’t know it was. The hamster has spun off the wheel, she has decided to enjoy a year or two of whoredom because she believes she is Renee Zellweiger (sp?) and that Hugh Grant will be pursuing her in between transgender prostitutes.

This is of course not the case. Instead, she is currently discovering that males will f~~~ darned near anything, and lie to do it. She will now go take several hundred yards of c~~~, possibly pick up a venereal disease or two . . .

AND BLAME YOU FOR EVERYTHING Yes, Dude, this is all somehow your fault. This theory will occur to her at some point in your near future, and you didn’t luvvvv her enough, or listen to her bulls~~~ enough, or suck her clit enough, and you done caused this divorce, Ricky Bobby, and you done gone pay!

This is the point in which her attorney will attempt to chew a new hole in your chest, Alien Covenant-like, take every goddamn cent you have, and possibly, if her attorney is Facehugger enough, get her to file false domestic abuse charges against you. It only happens to tens if not hundreds of thousands of men a year. Unwitnessed assaults are usually un-prosecutable. . . unless it’s a separated wife versus her soon-to-be-ex. Then they throw the book at his ass.

Got kids? Think of them as hostages now. Mommy Xenomorph is coming! Get the vulcan guns ready! The Queen approacheth!

Ha, ha. You’re just two months into your separation. Well, we’ve saved a place for you. Welcome!

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

Elric Greenstone wrote:

she hasn’t changed,

MANY Women CAN and Do Change in BIG ways over time !! Until you have lived it and experienced it, maybe you can’t understand it, but to try and say “you simply misunderstood what she was like” doesn’t ring true.

Elric Greenstone wrote:

All of this behavior was always, always a possibility. Always. You just didn’t know it was

I really don’t get this either my friend. It seems like you’re letting all women and their behavior off the hook, and in essence blaming men for somehow not being omniscient beings.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

Awakened wrote:

MANY Women CAN and Do Change in BIG ways over time !! Until you have lived it and experienced it, maybe you can’t understand it, but to try and say “you simply misunderstood what she was like” doesn’t ring true.

Not sure I’ve phrased it well. I believe – and feel free to disagree – that she’s the same person she always was. She was always capable of this behavior. She wasn’t a NAWALT who became an AWALT. She was always capable of going feral. Always. OP just wasn’t aware of this.

Awakened wrote:

I really don’t get this either my friend. It seems like you’re letting all women and their behavior off the hook, and in essence blaming men for somehow not being omniscient beings.

Oh, goodness no. We’re all here because of some sucker punch somewhere that came out of the blue. I’m not letting anyone off the hook for their awful behavior. I’m definitely not blaming OP, and hope I didn’t come across that way.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[Anonymous 1]

Elric Greenstone wrote:

That’s really the point of satori. When one can shrug one’s shoulders and go ‘whatever’.

That’s the fortunate, blessed, wonderfully liberating state I’m in. NFG.

Elric Greenstone wrote:

@unforgiven: The goal in your situation is to make your divorce as cheap as f~~~ing possible. GTFO. Do not look back. You are now AT F~~~ING WAR.
…
Your goal must be to exit this situation as inexpensively as possible, with no law enforcement involved. You must document everything that occurs, and make off-site, ex-apartment backups. She is now the goddamn devil.
..
AND BLAME YOU FOR EVERYTHING Yes, Dude, this is all somehow your fault. This theory will occur to her at some point in your near future, and you didn’t luvvvv her enough, or listen to her bulls~~~ enough, or suck her clit enough, and you done caused this divorce, Ricky Bobby, and you done gone pay!

This is the point in which her attorney will attempt to chew a new hole in your chest, Alien Covenant-like, take every goddamn cent you have, and possibly, if her attorney is Facehugger enough, get her to file false domestic abuse charges against you. It only happens to tens if not hundreds of thousands of men a year. Unwitnessed assaults are usually un-prosecutable. . . unless it’s a separated wife versus her soon-to-be-ex. Then they throw the book at his ass.

Got kids? Think of them as hostages now. Mommy Xenomorph is coming! Get the vulcan guns ready! The Queen approacheth!

Thanks — I’m glad people are hammering this into me whenever I pop in (I’m not being facetious). It is all very amicable between us at the moment, but I need to be prepared for the inevitable storm, and not get lulled into thinking the current peace will prevail.

[JVBParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I thought she might have more to think about and deal with before mounting up again.

But that’s how they think and deal.

Peace is > piece.

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

All women that appear to be NAWALTs are just AWALTs that are still in a clitoral cocoon.

When they have a reason to bust out of it, they fall into their predetermined state which is AWALT.

It’s physics & inevitable.

I try to explain it to blue pillars but it is like trying to explain to someone that the catipillar they are looking at is actually a pre-butterfly.

Once an alleged NAWALT breaks out of her cocoon, she is an AWALT. NAWALTs are just AWALTs in a training phase.

It is not a matter of ‘if’ but of ‘when’.

A caterpillar is a pre-butterfly.

A NAWALT is a pre-AWALT.

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Your better off, live your life now, plenty of great advice on this site I hope all the best in the future keep your head up bro.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

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