No contact

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

My ex contacted last weekend after months of no contact because I have her blocked on everything. She called me from a random number and I usually pick up because I work in sales and get random calls all the time. She said she just wanted to talk because she was going through a rough time and she feels good after talking to me. I didn’t directly tell her to f~~~ off but I made it clear that I don’t feel the need to talk to her so she hung up but I knew she would either call again or text me 30seconds later which is exactly what happened. When the texts started pouring in, I blocked that number too.

[MATRIXParticipant 2342]

Don’t just wipe them from your mind wipe them from your life, and no I don’t mean literally 😂

Remove her from any social media block her on your email on your phone anyway that she can possibly contact you.

I know this is hard for the men on here with kids, again keep any contact from them and record all phone calls.

Be calm and aloof she will try to push your buttons and we know that she knows how to do it.

I personally know of one evil narcissistic bitch who contacted her ex when she was out with the hive and tried pushing his buttons to get the response she wanted just so she could show the hive what a bad man he is and how much of a victim she is.

There is NO wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

[ghostParticipant]

Mr.Blue wrote:

When the texts started pouring in, I blocked that number too.

Good going, mate. Proud of you. You already put her first and where did that get you? It’s time you put yourself FIRST. Go have yourself a nice meal for displaying courage.

[Anonymous 13]

No Contact.

It’s an ABSOLUTE must if possible.

Especially if children aren’t involved you have ZERO reason to contact.

It’s also symbolic and will help you greatly move on.

You’re firmly CLOSING the door on the past and moving forward.

Your subconscious processes it as such and good or better things can happen.

You can NEVER go back.

ANY contact just slows down the healing and moving on process.

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

ghost wrote:

Mr.Blue wrote:

When the texts started pouring in, I blocked that number too.

Good going, mate. Proud of you. You already put her first and where did that get you? It’s time you put yourself FIRST. Go have yourself a nice meal for displaying courage.

I’m not going to lie, I was surprised that I was so calm yet assertive when talking to her. Before MGTOW, I was such a simp with her….Just thinking of it makes me sick. I have been treating myself to nice things ever since we split up, Cheers!

[ghostParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

No Contact.

It’s an ABSOLUTE must if possible.

Especially if children aren’t involved you have ZERO reason to contact.

It’s also symbolic and will help you greatly move on.

You’re firmly CLOSING the door on the past and moving forward.

Your subconscious processes it as such and good or better things can happen.

You can NEVER go back.

ANY contact just slows down the healing and moving on process.

Absolutely brilliant. You said it best, mate.

[ghostParticipant]

Mr.Blue wrote:

I have been treating myself to nice things ever since we split up

And guess what? Everywhere you go alone, it’s 50% off 24/7/365. Enjoy!

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22519]

What would get her worse would be being positive, upbeat and happy about how your life is going now. But that would mean actually talking to her, but it might work – if they were the ones initiating contact. For, if your life is now going better without her, why would you contact her?

Think, if someone still negatively bothered/affected you, you wouldn’t want to talk to them. But if you can talk to them, and are happy and upbeat, and not at all upset they are not in your life anymore, and your life is better, man that’s gotta grate their cheese. Why? Because they will know they have no power over you, no power to affect you positively or negatively, because your life has moved on and is going better for you without them in it. That will be internalized by them and it won’t be pleasant. Not only are they not missed or pined for by their ex, but their ex is doing a lot better without them around.

No women likes the idea that men can do better without a woman in their life. That’s a hive mind mantra. When you prove them wrong they cannot handle it. Feelings trump facts with them. They cannot handle the truth and cannot handle it when real life destroys their beliefs. Also because it jeopardizes the whole gynocentric bs system they keep feeding to men about needing women for any number of weak, false, fear-based reasons.

Further, individually, no woman wants to know a former ex is doing better without HER in his life. It’s bad for them on multiple levels. Hive mind being one, causes them to see proof that destroys the whole “you will be miserable without a woman” dogma they keep chanting to men. Their personal SMV ranking number two, that takes a big hit, makes them see they do not have the power they thought they did. Third it gets them scared for their own futures. When the ATMs wise up and refuse to spit out money because they stopped taking the vagina card, where is cupcake going to find a guy who wants to take care of her and put up with her drama, baggage and sexual history, for an occasional chance, maybe, at a well-tread hole?

The gynomatrix doesn’t want to lose those useful batteries. Too many batteries wise up and leave, there’s going to be brownouts, blackouts, and grid shutdowns occurring more and more frequently.

Basically it’s the same thing Tom Baugh talks about, but from a different societal angle, in his book “Starving the Monkeys”.

The great thing is, you won’t be lying about how much better your life is without her. Now they could always deal with it by tricking themselves and saying “oh he must be lying, he’s awful without me or women”, but that will be just a ego-saving patch for them. Again for those women who cannot handle the truth.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Further, individually, no woman wants to know a former ex is doing better without HER in his life. It’s bad for them on multiple levels. Hive mind being one, causes them to see proof that destroys the whole “you will be miserable without a woman” dogma they keep chanting to men. Their personal SMV ranking number two, that takes a big hit, makes them see they do not have the power they thought they did. Third it gets them scared for their own futures. When the ATMs wise up and refuse to spit out money because they stopped taking the vagina card, where is cupcake going to find a guy who wants to take care of her and put up with her drama, baggage and sexual history, for an occasional chance, maybe, at a well-tread hole?

I get it and I understand it. The only flaw I see in that argument: Why do you care if it’s bad for her? That’s not apathy. You want to make her feel bad. You still care. That’s not taking the high road. Call it bad karma or whatever, but I’m not looking to inflict damage. And if I do inflict damage, I certainly don’t want to revel in it. She made her decisions. And grown up decisions have grown up consequences. One of those consequences is no contact.

One chance, per person, per lifetime. NO exceptions.

Order the good wine

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Mr.Blue wrote:

I have been treating myself to nice things ever since we split up

I call that a good plan!

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[TheFreeManMGTOWParticipant 119]

No contact. Sounds like the advice given to people who victims of narcissistic personality disorder nut jobs. Yes that’s the only way to save your sanity.

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