New Young MGTOW

[Anonymous 6]

Anonymous wrote:

Venom wrote:

Thank you sir, if you like discussion and debate, my posts are right up your alley. Stop by anytime.

Whatever, dude. You are clearly a raaaaaaaaaaaaacyst and support the oppression of weempanzees.

Just kidding bro. I look forward to reading what you post. Cheers!

I’m not opressive, i love to talk about LGBT Issues!!! We should have a MGTOW Transgender bathroom lol!

[Anonymous 7]

Anonymous wrote:

We should have a MGTOW Transgender bathroom lol!

Will the users have G-d given t~~~? If so will they be happy, perky titties?

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Welcome, Mr. Blue. Honored to have you aboard. SMW.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 8]

Welcome to MGTOW Mr. Blue.

My piece of advice would be that life is a marathon, not a sprint. The light which shines brightest quickly consumes it’s fuel and burns out. Pace yourself, as a man you are not on a biological clock the way a woman is, your shelf life is much longer. Basically there’s no need to be in a hurry, not to say you can’t go fast.

[LionOnTheLooseParticipant 1315]

Welcome, Mr. Blue! Great to see you here. I’m quite new myself, and still not entirely sure of people’s ages, but I’m 35. I’m excited for everything you have ahead of you! I’m a musician and have my own music business; glad to chat about business stuff if you ever want.

What @autolite says about risk tolerance is spot on, I think. If you’re interested in business and investing, you’ll be learning about risk, and that’s all relevant to sex and relationships as much as it is to money. If there is even a very small risk that X could lead to a catastrophic outcome (say, going to prison, or facing 18 years of child support payments), you might legitimately decide not to do X. As @autolite says, it’s for you to weigh up the risk against the reward.

All I’ll say is that this community shows that men can live without sex. The idea that “men have to have sex” is a myth perpetuated by a lot of industries which stand to benefit, not least the divorce industry. It’s not that we’re not horny, it’s that we can make informed decisions, and if you choose to live without sex for a little while or a long while, that’s perfectly legitimate.

There aren't holes in your pockets. It's called marriage.

[HitmanParticipant]

WARNING.
if any of you guy’s took my beer ,
i will find you .
i will exact revenge of the worst type imaginable.
.
welcome mr. blue..
.
( M52 has the beer in the fridge bro’s…!!!)
hahahhaha!!!!!!!!!!!

[GrumpyParticipant]

Hitman wrote:

i will exact revenge of the worst type imaginable.
.

You’ll put light beer in my fridge?
That’s just downright despicable.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

LionOnTheLoose wrote:

Welcome, Mr. Blue! Great to see you here. I’m quite new myself, and still not entirely sure of people’s ages, but I’m 35. I’m excited for everything you have ahead of you! I’m a musician and have my own music business; glad to chat about business stuff if you ever want.

What @autolite says about risk tolerance is spot on, I think. If you’re interested in business and investing, you’ll be learning about risk, and that’s all relevant to sex and relationships as much as it is to money. If there is even a very small risk that X could lead to a catastrophic outcome (say, going to prison, or facing 18 years of child support payments), you might legitimately decide not to do X. As @autolite says, it’s for you to weigh up the risk against the reward.

All I’ll say is that this community shows that men can live without sex. The idea that “men have to have sex” is a myth perpetuated by a lot of industries which stand to benefit, not least the divorce industry. It’s not that we’re not horny, it’s that we can make informed decisions, and if you choose to live without sex for a little while or a long while, that’s perfectly legitimate.

Thanks for the feedback. I’m always open to chatting. I believe there is something to learn from everyone. I definitely agree that men can live without sex because before and after my LTR I was abstinent and had no issues. I actually feel a lot more focused,relaxed and confident when I’m abstinent.
Feel free to shoot me a message to chat business and welcome to MGTOW as well!

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Welcome home!

I, like you, was MGTOW before I even knew of the acronym.

Stay around and absorb knowledge!

Learn from men here, and use the wisdom to go your own way!

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Welcome Mr Blue. I have about 15 years on you, and goddamn i wish i knew about MGTOW when i hit 21. The best advice i would’ve given my younger self:

You don’t have to earn a lot to retire early.
You just have to not take on insane financial risks. Those financial risks include:
– Marriage & divorce – easily the most expensive decision i’ve ever made
– Having children with a woman that can claim your income
– Invest early & often. It doesn’t have to be much, but start early
– Don’t do hard drugs or smoke. And don’t drink too much

That’s pretty much it. Keep to those and you have a good shot at retiring at 40 y/o to a nice place in latin america or southeast asia.

[Anonymous 6]

Hitman wrote:

WARNING.
if any of you guy’s took my beer ,
i will find you .
i will exact revenge of the worst type imaginable.
.
welcome mr. blue..
.
( M52 has the beer in the fridge bro’s…!!!)
hahahhaha!!!!!!!!!!!

I guess now wouldn’t be a good time to tell you that dog kind of…pooped in your kitchen….

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Mr.Blue wrote:

I would like to start a comment streak below with the best “TIP” you would give your 21year-old self(I’m assuming most people here are older) if you could.

Learn everything you can. Every man you meet has a skill and story. Lend that man your ear.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

MattNYC wrote:

Welcome Mr Blue. I have about 15 years on you, and goddamn i wish i knew about MGTOW when i hit 21. The best advice i would’ve given my younger self:

You don’t have to earn a lot to retire early.
You just have to not take on insane financial risks. Those financial risks include:
– Marriage & divorce – easily the most expensive decision i’ve ever made
– Having children with a woman that can claim your income
– Invest early & often. It doesn’t have to be much, but start early
– Don’t do hard drugs or smoke. And don’t drink too much

That’s pretty much it. Keep to those and you have a good shot at retiring at 40 y/o to a nice place in latin america or southeast asia.

Thanks a lot for that! Definitely useful. I don’t do drugs/smoke and drink very minimal as I am focused on my health a lot. I am already saving to start my own business soon and after that I want to invest into stocks/real estate. Don’t even think about marriage. Cheers!

[AttonParticipant]

I am still not too sure what I want to start my business for but I think it will be car related or some sort of Sales Business.

There is fair bit of opportunity at least in my opinion within the US auto industry. Take into account Tesla and things may become some what interesting. If you can find a way into this industry give it a go.

I am currently going through a time where I don’t know what to do with them.

Temptation is powerful but use protection all the time every time.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[WeakManParticipant 91]

Welcome to MGTOW!

21 years old, hmm, I am not much older, 28, will be 29 in a few days. I will tell you what I would want to know.

Forgive – Whatever it is or whomever it is, forgive him/her/them/yourself. Grudges weigh a lot, and many of them are hard to hold. Think of the analogy of carrying too many grocery bags while having the key to the door. Even if you wield the key to success, it’s useless if you are carrying all those burdens.

Prioritize – Is that video game that important? Is that shirt worth it? Does she really need to eat a 70 dollar dinner? Your time is so valuable. As a young man I traded my time for low wages and spent those earnings on stupid crap. Spend it on some education or a trade. Books are a great investment. I am not saying you can’t have fun, just, well, prioritize.

Absorb – Shut up and listen. In all aspects. Learn from all people even if what they say is garbage. You’ll never know the value of Gold if you don’t know the value of sh*t.

Play to win – Never fear losing or be held back from previous failures. The second you let that apprehensiveness slow your hand, that opportunity may be lost. Always play to win that which is important to you.

Take the hard road – Why? Hah, it builds character. Sure, you could take the easy route, but, sometimes the journey is better than the destination.

Grain of Salt – Listen, you and me are both Millenials. Every day we hear from Baby Boomers telling us how lazy, lack of responsibility and generally useless our generation is. Don’t let them drag you down. This reminds me of when I used to get picked on for being Hispanic. I was told I was a gangster and was destined to be in jail. I didn’t let them get to me, instead I used that frustration to prove them all wrong. So keep your morale and spirits high, it is up to you and me to save this country. (granted this doesn’t apply to all baby boomers however,) Baby Boomers love to talk up their own generation and they have a lot to be proud of, however they also have left us QUITE the mess for us to clean up. My Grandpa opened my eyes the other day and said to me the Baby Boomers are full of **** (he’s 87). He told me my dad(a baby boomer) used to curse the generation before him because they signed his generation(the boomers) up for Vietnam against their will and yet my Grandpa said they did the same d*mn thing to us(the millenials) with Iraq.

There are people out there who do the wrong thing because they simply do not know any better, then there are people out there who do the wrong thing even though they know it’s wrong. I really don’t like people who do the 2nd. Don’t be one of those people. You know better. With that knowledge comes power and responsibility. Be a role model.

Oh, and Love. In everything you do, give Love.

[Anonymous 3]

Weakman you might want to change your name to Strong- insightful – man. Your comments are very on point. Every generation has its good & bad. I would add don’t blame anybody for anything. Drop blame from your vocabulary & move on.
I became bitter after coming home from the military & ruined a lot of good things & opportunities I had b/c of drugs & alcohol. I am free of all that know. I am free b/c I woke up & started taking responsibility for my own life. F~~~ed up quite a bit over the years,but never stopped learning or improving. I got educated ( financed on my own) regained my self – respect & today I have found my peace. I sit on the board of 2 non profits. I live alone & love it. I do not need anything from anybody & my best College was the BP Matrix, crazy relationships & the feminazies. I am free of it all today.
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can & the wisdom to know the difference.
Good luck on your MGTOW journey

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

WeakMan wrote:

Welcome to MGTOW!

21 years old, hmm, I am not much older, 28, will be 29 in a few days. I will tell you what I would want to know.

Forgive – Whatever it is or whomever it is, forgive him/her/them/yourself. Grudges weigh a lot, and many of them are hard to hold. Think of the analogy of carrying too many grocery bags while having the key to the door. Even if you wield the key to success, it’s useless if you are carrying all those burdens.

Prioritize – Is that video game that important? Is that shirt worth it? Does she really need to eat a 70 dollar dinner? Your time is so valuable. As a young man I traded my time for low wages and spent those earnings on stupid crap. Spend it on some education or a trade. Books are a great investment. I am not saying you can’t have fun, just, well, prioritize.

Absorb – Shut up and listen. In all aspects. Learn from all people even if what they say is garbage. You’ll never know the value of Gold if you don’t know the value of sh*t.

Play to win – Never fear losing or be held back from previous failures. The second you let that apprehensiveness slow your hand, that opportunity may be lost. Always play to win that which is important to you.

Take the hard road – Why? Hah, it builds character. Sure, you could take the easy route, but, sometimes the journey is better than the destination.

Thank you sir. This is definitely some great advice. I would like to say I am doing well in most of these categories excluding prioritizing.

That is where I am currently in a battle between always wanting to to do something for my own pleasure vs. what might be the “better” choice. For example, I love cars and modifying/racing them but it gets expensive buying aftermarket parts and going to the racetrack. I get stuck between “Save money and don’t spend it on cars” vs. “You’re young, enjoy life right now and have fun”.

I feel like the best choice here is to enjoy my hobby in moderation without making me broke.

Thanks again for the wise words.

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

Anonymous wrote:

Weakman you might want to change your name to Strong- insightful – man. Your comments are very on point. Every generation has its good & bad. I would add don’t blame anybody for anything. Drop blame from your vocabulary & move on.
I became bitter after coming home from the military & ruined a lot of good things & opportunities I had b/c of drugs & alcohol. I am free of all that know. I am free b/c I woke up & started taking responsibility for my own life. F~~~ed up quite a bit over the years,but never stopped learning or improving. I got educated ( financed on my own) regained my self – respect & today I have found my peace. I sit on the board of 2 non profits. I live alone & love it. I do not need anything from anybody & my best College was the BP Matrix, crazy relationships & the feminazies. I am free of it all today.
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can & the wisdom to know the difference.
Good luck on your MGTOW journey

I’m glad you were able to turn your life around and reach the level of success you are at today!

I definitely am one of those people who don’t blame(or try not to),because I know there is always something I can do more or better to improve the situation myself. I have always told myself that if I don’t like the situation I am in, it is under my control, and only mine. What I do struggle with is knowing how much responsibility is too much. For example, I always try to fix situations, or make them better, but I feel like I don’t know when too much is too much.

I was going a little crazy with my ex because everytime there was a problem I would try to fix it and improve the situation but never felt that reciprocated…And by this I don’t mean being a mangina and giving up to her desires. I would always sit down with her, acknowledge what the problem is, proceed to do my part to fix it, tell her what she needed to do on her part, and work towards fixing it. Sometimes she would do her part and help but most of the time it felt as if I was trying to mend the relationship on my own which everyone knows will never work. This is just one of many examples where I try and try and continue taking responsibility for the situations I am in to try to improve them when I should just give up.

Thanks for your comment!

[Anonymous 3]

I call it: Knowing when to put the period at the end of a sentence.
Its not giving up if you have given your best & it still doesn’t work.

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

Welcome Mr. Blue, consider youself lucky for never having been divorced like most of us. You seemed to have learned quite a bit from that 3 year relationship, dont forget them. My advice to you: When you find a MGTOW brother on here whos post you like or if something resonates with you go back and read their introductions, learn their stories. Some of these MGTOW brother stories will shock you…

Get a vasectomy.

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