New Young MGTOW

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

Greetings Gentlemen.

I am 21 years old and came across MGTOW Early this year. Ever since I began reading and watching videos about MGTOW I knew this is what I always wanted in life, I just never had a word for it.

I plan on being very active in the community and continue growing as an individual. After all, my biggest goal is to become the best version of myself. With that being said, If you are reading this, I would like to start a comment streak below with the best “TIP” you would give your 21year-old self(I’m assuming most people here are older) if you could.

A little bit about myself. I live in California and currently helping my dad grow his business while I save money to start my own. I love cars and tech stuff but modifying cars and racing is my favorite hobby. I am still not too sure what I want to start my business for but I think it will be car related or some sort of Sales Business. If anyone has tips for a starting Entrepreneur, please chime in! Aside from that, I like reading and absorbing new information daily. Currently reading The Intelligent Investor and Power of Now.

I got out of a 3year relationship(My first “Adult Love”) a few months ago which left me devastated at first until I realized how much better I have it being single and the problems I am now avoiding. This girl and I were extremely close. We got together right after High-School and spent almost every-day together doing different things. We had even moved in together at one point and I thought I was going to Marry her ( I know, I would have been a dead man ). We had a very fun relationship but I think she has some kind of Personality Disorder. Either NPD or BPD. When the relationship first started, she would Shower me with affection, attention, effort, and everything else I wanted. As time went on, everything became about her and I began feeling exhausted. Anyway, we broke up, and she moved across the country with her family. We kept in touch for a bit but when she started seeing other people I just blocked her in every way possible and moved on. I’m not going to lie, I still think about her occasionally but I slap that blue pill out of my mouth and take in a Red one. I still struggle with the thought of thinking I want a girlfriend, especially at my age but I know I do better on my own when it comes to personal Development.

Enough of that… Back to the personal-development. I began working out when I got out of that relationship and it is one of the best moves I made for my life. I am naturally skinny but have been putting on lean muscle and have reached the best shape of my life. I now have all the time to do as I please and hit the weights atleast 5 times week.

I see a lot of posts by guys on here that seem to have very high opinions of females. I have learned(and still am) the truth of female nature but I definitely don’t despise them. I am currently going through a time where I don’t know what to do with them. Whether it be pump & dump, casual dating, relations~~~s, or just avoid them outside of work.

Thanks for Reading and I hope to talk with you all in the future!

[Anonymous 6]

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Find a post by Old Bill. Look at his tag line. Follow that.

Welcome home Brother.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 7]

Welcome. Beer is in Hitman’s icebox (stole this one).

Mr.Blue wrote:

I would like to start a comment streak below with the best “TIP” you would give your 21year-old self(I’m assuming most people here are older) if you could.

Debt and the life support system for pussy (chicks) are to be avoided. Save your money and your sanity by avoiding both. Start investing for retirement NOW.

If you have to deal with cupcakes, get a body cam.

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

Lol, Thanks Venom. I enjoy a lot of your posts

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Mr.Blue wrote:

I just never had a word for it.

Now you do. It was always on the tips of our tongues. Like Fight Club.

Welcome Sir.

[Anonymous 13]

Welcome Mr. Blue

When you keep women out of your life the skies are always blue.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Welcome. Beer is in Hitman’s icebox (stole this one).

Ha. I stole it from someone else and now you steal it from me. LOL Awesome.

Wait. Where did my beer go?

[Anonymous 3]

indifference was the path that made me MGHOW. I am not a mysogynist. I just do not buy in to any of their drama. I am quite a bit older than you. I would say TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE. A small suggestion: take up a meditation practice & that will help you know yourself. You have plenty of time. there is no hurry. find out for yourself how you want to deal with women ( their here to stay ) just remember what your dealing with & what brought you here. Stick with the winners stick with MGTOW

[Anonymous 6]

Mr.Blue wrote:

Lol, Thanks Venom. I enjoy a lot of your posts

Thank you sir, if you like discussion and debate, my posts are right up your alley. Stop by anytime.

[wyrParticipant 591]

Welcome brother! Don’t ignore red flags in relations~~~s and focus more on long term goals like building credit, assets, and retirement.

Self-improvement is my religion. Sovereignty is my god.

[Anonymous 7]

MarketWatcher wrote:

Ha. I stole it from someone else and now you steal it from me. LOL Awesome.

Wait. Where did my beer go?

Your beer is being held for ransom.
You will pay me

or I will drink your beer.

Just kidding bro. Cheers!

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

Thanks for the replies so far guys. Love the feedback!

[MagpulParticipant 59]

Welcome. I know exactly what it’s like being with a BPD chick. My ex was BPD, but we didn’t last long. She showered me with affection in the beginning too, but that quickly changed as she tried to gaslight me and change me into what her perfect version of a man was. That didn’t fly with me so she ended it.

Good job getting in the gym. I started working out at 125 pounds @ 13% body fat and am now 195 at 10% body fat. I go 5-6 times a week. There is nothing like taking your rage out on the weights and being rewarded for it with quality muscle and endurance. It is the best high there is. Keep it up and don’t let women distract you. They are dream killers.

[JVBParticipant]

At your age don’t even think further than hump n dump.
Watch all you friends go through divorce rape and never get to see there kids while living in a tent. Focus on you, your future and your to be business. Welcome sir.

Peace is > piece.

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

Magpul wrote:

Welcome. I know exactly what it’s like being with a BPD chick. My ex was BPD, but we didn’t last long. She showered me with affection in the beginning too, but that quickly changed as she tried to gaslight me and change me into what her perfect version of a man was. That didn’t fly with me so she ended it.

Good job getting in the gym. I started working out at 125 pounds @ 13% body fat and am now 195 at 10% body fat. I go 5-6 times a week. There is nothing like taking your rage out on the weights and being rewarded for it with quality muscle and endurance. It is the best high there is. Keep it up and don’t let women distract you. They are dream killers.

Thanks for the Reply Magpul.

My ex also tried gaslighting me and it was very frustrating. She has been trying to contact me recently but I just block any incoming messages from any sources, including texting my cousin to tell me to unblock her(which I didn’t). Glad she left you just how my ex left me.. They did us a favor brother!

Impressive Gains! I am what is considered an “ectomorph” and was 130lb at the beginning of the year. I am now 145lb with roughly 12%BF. My long-term goal is to hit 170s with 8-10%bf and then maintain that. Fitness is definitely one of the best moves I made.

[Mr.BlueParticipant 614]

JVB wrote:

At your age don’t even think further than hump n dump.
Watch all you friends go through divorce rape and never get to see there kids while living in a tent. Focus on you, your future and your to be business. Welcome sir.

Thank you sir, I appreciate the suggestion. I really don’t want anything more than pump&dump but I’m not even putting any effort in that at the moment because I don’t want to waste time, money or other resources on women and most of them my age want something first before they spread their legs.

[Anonymous 7]

Anonymous wrote:

Thank you sir, if you like discussion and debate, my posts are right up your alley. Stop by anytime.

Whatever, dude. You are clearly a raaaaaaaaaaaaacyst and support the oppression of weempanzees.

Just kidding bro. I look forward to reading what you post. Cheers!

[Modern Day WarriorParticipant 499]

You can learn from your own mistakes or learn from other’s mistakes. Learn from our mistakes.

"One must put up barriers to keep oneself intact." - Neil Peart

[AutoliteParticipant]

Mr.Blue wrote:

I don’t know what to do with them. Whether it be pump & dump, casual dating, relations~~~s, or just avoid them outside of work.

Really it depends on your own individual risk tolerance level and your wealth. Knowing what I now know about women, I would avoid them as much as possible. However I have a high aversion to risk and I live on a very modest income. If a women wants to lay a false assault charge on me or falsely accuse me of rape, I just couldn’t afford a decent lawyer. If she sperm jacks me, I certainly couldn’t afford CS payments.

OTOH, if you have a high tolerance for risk, not afraid of STDs and/or have plenty of money to spend on lawyers or raising a kid then I would say go for it! It’s really depends on what you, as an individual, can afford or are willing to lose. Everybody is different…

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