New member intro

[BadgerSwagParticipant 70]

Loved the letter on the radio, Keymaster! That was awesome. It hit close to home, except he did hear that biological clock ticking on her and properly interpreted it as a bomb. Well, we are where we are. Fortunately, I have brotherhood resources to turn to now and can make the most of what’s left.

[Jack123Participant 324]

Hi Badger,

Welcome, I remember my first post, it was about 11 months ago and it was about a week after I finally broke up with my borderline narcissistic succubus. I’ve had four relationships in total and they were all doomed to fail. Gosh and my blue-pill friends all blamed me. All I needed to do was become more of a tampon for the girl and buy her more s~~~ to make her happy! I gave my girlfriends the world and they gave me toxic sprays of abuse back.

God bless MGTOW for saving us. Stop buying them s~~~ they don’t deserve, stop agreeing to everything they say and when they open their mouth to spray you with venomous abuse, walk the f~~~ away and don’t look back.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Welcome, Mr. Badger. I suggest you get in touch with Mr. No aka Mr. Stealthy who’s kind of in the same situation you’re in. He’ll give you some pointers on how to get a divorce with minimal damage.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Anonymous 5]

Welcome and thanks for the great read.
The other Badger very kindly went to the trouble of giving directions to the Red Pill trilogy. They’re all quick reads and free.

Badger wrote:

Esther Vilar
The Manipulated Man Online at:
https://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/28/8/the_manipulated_man.pdf

Chinweizu
The Anatomy of Female Power: A Masculinist Dissection of Matriarchy. Online at:
http://therawness.com/AFP.pdf

Lawrence Bostwick Shannon
The Predatory Female. A Field Guide to Dating and the Marriage-Divorce Industry. Online at:
https://www.scribd.com/document/151933863/The-Predatory-Female

BadgerSwag wrote:

Then, exactly on our wedding night as we arrived at the hotel – “I’m actually way too tired, but I feel like it’s something we have to do.” That college sweetheart had now shed her disguise and turned into a brain-eating zombie right in front of me.

Lawrence Shannon describes this in detail.
Women always claim “We grew apart” but as Shannon explains, the change is always overnight.

BadgerSwag wrote:

I figured I must have done something wrong and just needed to be a better husband. I did all the classic mistakes – abandoned my friends,

This is another tactic all men experience, he calls it “Cutting from the heard”

Men who’ve been in long term marriages and then read Shannon’s book get in the same dilemma as you when you were reading the experiences of others.
One minute you’ll be giggling like a fat feminist at an Oprahfest and the next you’ll be wanting to die of regret. It’s bizarre how accurately he’ll descibe the dynamics of your personal marriage.
Chimweizu’s book shows you it’s always been the same with ancient African proverbs, to Summarian stories and Roman and Greek mythology and accounts from through the centuries.
Esther Vilar’s revelations are indescribable.

[SidParticipant 2]

Hello Jack123,

I have been through such nightmare . This was during my second relationship . I was dating a hot rich chick . We were all happy , going out , having fun but after several months , things started to get worse. She started demanding more stuffs , that brought me to be in total debt. I almost maxed out my credit cards . Then it hit my mind, I did some research and I found that she was dating another guy at the same time . I realized she is a gold digger and this was just the beginning to screw my life . I can’t let her walk away with what she did to me .
So I wanted to know if she really loved the other guy . I contacted the other guy , befriended him . He was a dumb ass like me but far better prey . I explained him , what kind of fools we were with all my pics and stuff . Finally we decided to confront her but the other guy still had hopes that she loves him more . We spoke to her , asking to hangout at the same place but different time . She agreed . She was shocked to see both of us walking side by side. She realized that her bewitching spells don’t work any more .
The other guy asked her , do you love me or not . She said I don’t know . She said she wasn’t sure of the relationship . She was too young to decide. I was like WTF. The other guy was totally saddened and he left the place . I told her the exact amount she needs to pay me back . She laughed and said she won’t , challenged me to do whatever I can with a sarcastic smile . She had loads of money , she could have easily paid back but she didn’t .
Well then , I decided no more Mr. Nice guy . I hacked her Dads fb account and uploaded all relevant pics with a post entitled “My Daughter’s fun time with my new fiance ” and tagged all the his friends from high community . He was daunted , perplexed and angry to see all the comments , pics. He also called me up and threatened me . I told him , I already have enough proofs to file a case of fraud , now I have proofs of threatening to kill which is a criminal offense under IPC Section 506 , my lawyer is ready. Fortunately after effortful intimidation , I got my money back . I never looked back. These types of women only bring the worst in men .

Thank god , I am over that . I am glad I came across MGTOW and I feel like I belong here. Welcome aboard!! Mr Badger.

[colorado daveParticipant 30]

Hi There!

I recently discovered MGTOW thru YouTube. And have to say Thank You! I am soon to be twice Divorced. The first one destroyed me. Alimony and child support. Didn’t mind the child support so much. I love my daughter and tried my hardest to remain in her life and be a good example. She and my MOM and Sister are the only females in my phones address book now a days. Except my current soon to be Ex Wife. But Her and I have remained friends. With is a huge relief. We are going thru a No contest Divorce. She moved out of our home and moved into her old boyfriends house. I guess she thought it would work out this time. I don’t know. She did have alittle trouble with her renewed relationship and I guess wanted to see if I would want her to come back and move back in, but I flat out said “NO” and she seems to be trying to work out her issues over there. I am not going to allow anybody to live with me ever again and have to live with massive depression and suicidal thoughts like I have the past few years. I woke up and realized I am better off alone. I have a stronger relationship with my parents now and myself. I actually like who I am again like I did when I was younger. Both marriages I always seemed to be the one at fault. Even thou I tried to understand her point of view it always was like my own common sense got in the way. and I never was afraid to call out their bulls~~~. But as I said I almost twice Divorced. But I’m not sad about. I still have a small part of me that wants to see my recent Ex succeed. But she is a nurse so she will be fine. She’s a strong person. And her and my daughter are friends and my ex is great at giving good life advice to her. So we remained friends. I’m happy and so is she. I got lucky with this one I guess. I am a 100% service connected disabled Veteran. I wasn’t hurt in combat but in a training accident. Which was in fact only an accident and I cant blame anyone for my current situation.

[AuctoratusParticipant 52]

Effin’ New Guy here!
The introduction pages are something I usually forget when entering a Forum, but I will give this a shot.
I am 52 years as I write this entry into the journal. I stumbled upon MGTOW about 30 days ago, so the learning curve has been steep & rapid. Good!

In short I was in the military for 14 years, constantly on over-seas deployments, and I left in the year 2000. After which I found a job “in security”as a civilian. My specialty in the military became PSD, Personal Security Detail, and it was in this line of work I continued after I entered civilian life. During my last 5 years while in the military I married, a woman I met at a c~~~tail party in London. We seemed to fit in, we had fun, and became more and more involved. I retrospect I believe I married not so much out of free will, but out of trying to be the Nice Guy. My girlfriend was deeply Catholic African, and her parents told me it was not allowed simply to co-habit (in sin LOL). So I ended up in a society wedding, with 650 guests, and I was the Star Attraction! I was the only white person in that wedding, but that is another story!

After a couple of years first being deployed in uniform, then in civilian garb, away from my wife and our child, I realized there were so much more to see out there than just one wife, and started cheating on my wife. It was around the same time my wife was putting pressure on me to quit my job, that I loved. God knows why I needed to quit, as she was enjoying my fat salary and loved shopping French designer curtains, Danish designer furniture, and YSL handbags. In think I used sex to reduce the stress, and became quite adept at cheating…For a couple of years I was keeping it afloat: father & husband while at home, then rich & handsome bachelor, with several girlfriends, while gone. I loved every second of my job, so I was in a good place. When I was away…
In 2010 I went to a new location, and despite the advice from my best friend & colleague (a Man!) I got involved with a Man Eater. Tall (5.8), curvy, with a set of really big t~~~ to die for. And sure enough: that woman nearly became my death…
I declared to my wife I wanted a divorce, after seeing the new woman for about 60 days! All the warning signs were there, that this was not the person to make a future with, but I was in Lalaland. My wife for 16 years divorced me. We had an out of court settlement: I took, my clothes, my guns, my books and left the house, the car, and anything else behind. Our child was 16 at the time so the length of the alimony would not be a problem.
My new GF moved in with me and the problems started: she was increasingly showing me that she was dirty, unorganized, jealous, lazy, a narcissistic drama queen who had to go out to clubs and bars 3-5 times a week, to let men drool over her. Say what? As a self-reliant man I know how to cook; clean; make the bed, iron, you name it: I did it. I tried to patch up the relationship with my GF, because the sex was sooo good, and my GF was such a trophy wife material. And yes, you guys: I am playing this piano now!!! But in the back of my head a thought was forming that what person could live like this? Should I, as a man, give up my mental freedom or sanity, to have this woman by my side? I was cracking. Ever so slightly.
Money was never the issue, my GF never asked for money, but I gave her a couple of hundred USD a month to feel free, or less dependent of me. During the first two years I kicked out my GF twice. She pleaded her way back in, and the roller coaster continued.
My GF suggested birth control pills instead of suiting up in latex. And of course being highly unorganized she forgot to follow the instructions and became pregnant. OK, I thought. I love here, and she loves me, so we’re good. My second child was born in 2011, and I am unashamed to admit that my second child became my favorite, as for my first born I was never there to see her grow up. This was the new start I wanted.
The relationship was rocky, but I put it down for post-partum depression, or some other things, always making excuses for the mother (my GF), who complained I had OCD or just was a nitpicking idiot. We hired a nanny, we had cleaning and laundry done by a another woman. Despite this my GF was increasingly ungrateful, and resisting logic & reason. Now she started complaining that the pocket money she was given was not enough. I remember waking up in the middle of the night with my hear pounding hard in the chest, thinking how easy it would be just to put one of my duty guns to my head and pull the trigger. The stone face I put up at work for the guys not to see how I was dying inside.
Once I had to leave my job in a hurry, fly off to a neighboring country (where my GF had gone for a week on vacation), because I got a call saying my GF had tried to commit suicide because she was so angry at me. My GF had requested that I give her all my passwords. Not a chance I told her. WTF? Another warning sign right there, folks!
I know now that my GF always had monkey branched between men. She met the new guy while still in a relationship with another man. She loved how men would fight for her charm, presence, and sex. Perhaps there was a pause in the monkey branching for a while, but she confessed later that “she had to move on because I never loved her” (roll eyes hard!). Well, to me that is called cheating. I stopped cheating in 2010 BTW, when I met my ex-GF. I never cheated on the same woman who accused me of cheating. Funny! It’s called acting honorable and with self-respect.
Again, I kicked out my GF, she took off leaving me with our child. So now I am single parent. I retained the nanny, MON-FRI 06-17 HRS, and did the rest myself. In a normal place with a normal job, this would not have been such an achievement, but in the place I was in and the job I was doing? Unheard of…So now I had another form of stress, but I prevailed, as a man should. As I was raised.
My GF went to USA for a while, twice I believe, came back, and we became a couple again. I still had the intention of making our relationship work for the sake of our child. The grip that woman had on my being was unreal. This time it lasted about a year. I had to do everything myself, she was absolutely useless around the house. She even told me that I had been a better husband she could have ironed my shirts for me. So making money, cooking, cleaning, ironing, raising a child, shopping food was apparently something a good husband did? She accused me of trying to cheat on her with her friends, and became violent. I have never laid a hand on a woman in my life, but that was close. I should have bounced her between the concrete walls. She had already reported me falsely to the local police (for abuse or something), so she would have a case against me she said, should we ever go to court.
We went on family vacations together, and she continues the same way, constantly on the phone, or on social media, complaining to all her friends of men, and how her life is, dramas, bla bla bla. OK, this is not going to work I thought. I challenged her, as I had a torn meniscus at the time, and had trouble even getting in and out of a vehicle. She told me to my face: this is what you can expect from now on. Really? No thanks was my answer.

I paid the tickets and she left with our child. That was 19 months ago. Now I pay a monthly fee for the pleasures I had with this woman. She is contact with me almost daily, as she if she trying to reel me back in; she complains about men to me (that they f~~~ her and then dump her, duh!), saying her life is sooo hard, that she was diagnosed with bipolar and schizophrenia, bla bla bla. I told her that I am not her friend, not her ATM, she had it all but chose to be a lying, cheating, narcissistic bitch, so Karma is great!

After finding MGTOW video clips and MGTOW information here and there I started reassessing my life with women, and especially my last relationship, and the more I dissect it the more I see I was duped, played, and generally mistreated for the reason of the golden vagina.
I never took s~~~ from anyone, but some women had me eating out of their hand like a lapdog. What happened!? How did I become so stupid? This ends now…

Alright, that an intro to this forum I believe?

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

That is too good of an intro to be left here, copy text to new thread.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[AuctoratusParticipant 52]

Got it! Copied to a new Post!
Thx Man

[LexParticipant 117]

Welcome brother and thanks for sharing your story.
Your comment of

BadgerSwag wrote:

I figured I must have done something wrong and just needed to be a better husband. I did all the classic mistakes – abandoned my friends, did mounds of housework, and complied with the agenda

speaks volumes to me as I had the same thoughts and started out with the same actions.

Welcome to the other side

[Chase PesosParticipant 2136]

They are really all the same, wow.

Chase a check, never chase a chick...

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Chase Pesos wrote:

They are really all the same, wow.

Welcome Chase.
Have you done an intro?
I would enjoy reading it.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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