New girlfriend worries.

[Anonymous 1]

CynicalScotsman wrote:

I have had sex with plenty of girls to know what turns them on.
I’ve tried all that stuff on her and nothing happens…

Cynical – live up to your name.

[mp357Participant 531]

its always the noobs that come here looking for dating advice.THIS AINT THE PLACE FOR IT!reddit is that way

[CynicalScotsmanParticipant 32]

mp357 wrote:

its always the noobs that come here looking for dating advice.THIS AINT THE PLACE FOR IT!reddit is that way

How will MGTOW grow if you don’t accept new people?

[narwhalParticipant]

This site is growing rapidly, new membership is not a problem. It will start falling a part if providing dating advice becomes the norm instead of how to be a MGHOW.

You’ve gotten your advice, whether it’s what you wanted to hear or not. You can take action or keep being unhappy with your situation. Your choice.

Ok. Then do it.

[CynicalScotsmanParticipant 32]

Thanks for all your help guys.

I’ll do what has be done tomorrow.

[L.E.O.MParticipant 120]

I’ll just reiterate what’s already been said, don’t be a f~~~ing moron. You came her knowing full well she’s a crazy bitch. You think she’ll be less crazy AFTER you f~~~ her? Think again. You cannot f~~~ someone sane. Get out now, while you still have some dignity. And next time, don’t give them a 3rd 4th 5th, upteenth chance to prove themselves bats~~~ to you.

[CynicalScotsmanParticipant 32]

L.E.O.M wrote:

You cannot f~~~ someone sane.

Thanks for the laugh.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

The best advice i can give you is don’t have a girlfriend in the first place.

[Mr_OptionsParticipant 298]

Enough said.

A man without a woman is like a fish without a hook.

[TheRunningManParticipant 71]

Ever been falsely accused of rape, Cynical? Because that’s where you are heading. As someone who has seen it first hand, I can tell you: Prepare to lose your job, your friends, to have to change your name and move far, far away. FAR. AWAY. And prepare to lose your dignity. And your innocence. It’s not a fun experience. And this girl, is the -EXACT- carbon f~~~ing copy of what did that.

Need to get laid that bad? Google “BackPages”. Get it done, pay for it, dump this bitch before she crushes your dreams and ruins your life, to the point where you can’t even look at a woman without getting upset.

Don’t do this to yourself.

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

CynicalScotsman wrote:

Hello everyone, as its my first thread on here I would like say how much I’ve enjoyed browsing through these forums.

I will just give you a short backstory on how I met my current girlfriend and problems that I’ve already experienced.

It was around two months ago that I was browsing through POF, I know, its not the best website! Anyway, I saw this girl that I found rather attractive she was slim, good looking and had lovely long black hair. After a week or more of talking on and off Skype we decided to arrange a meet. We arranged to meet near a cinema close to were I live and just see how it went.

The day of our meet I got quite excited to finally meet this girl. I got up had a shower, put on a nice shirt and made myself look decent. I decided to text her and see how things were going…. No reply. I then decided to call her to see whats up.. no answer. I was starting to think I had been stood up. Hours later after we were supposed to meet she sent me a text that went something like this “my mum has been rushed into hospital.. blah blah blah. I’ve have been stood up before, so I wasn’t going to believe any bulls~~~ like that. That night we Skyped and I gave her my doubts on the authenticity of her story.. she didn’t like that.. She turned into a complete psycho shouting and swearing at me. I told her to f~~~ of and never contact me again.

Less then 5 hours after telling her to f~~~ off she texted me saying how sorry she was..etc. I’ve saw girls personalities change quickly, but this girl made me worried. I decided to give her one more chance, which is something I would rarely do. We arranged to meet the following week at the same location. Same thing again, I wake up get dressed yadayada. I then receive a text from her saying how she’s nervous about meeting me the first time. I tried best to calm her down and she agrees she’ll be there on time… she “promised”. I text her to ask if she is on her away… no reply… no reply… you know were this is going. She sends me a long text hours later saying how her ex’s abused her and lots of different stuff I can’t be bothered typing.

I asked her something along the lines of “so you think I would I would hurt you?” she writes me a long text again how she really likes me… blah blah.

As this point i’m getting p~~~ed off and want to shout at her. I call her and voice my concerns, once again! She goes crazy again and starts calling me every name under the sun and I respond by calling her a crazy bitch or something like that.

Couple of hours later after shouting at each other and her not turning up again she send me another text about “that she likes me…”

I thought to myself I would give her one more chance to make it up to me. I said be there tomorrow or I’ll block you and we’ll never speak again. She said she will be there 100%. It’s not like if I had to travel to her anyway.

Next day comes and she actually turns up this time. She is petite and very cute. She’s is really shy though… which I don’t mind.

I will try to end this here.

My question is to you guys – What would you do?

We’ve done sexual things together, but she still won’t let me have sex with her. I also think she’s slightly mental.

I want to go out with her, but at the same time I want to run as far away as possible from her.

I probably made a 100 spelling mistakes, but I think I got my point across.

Why do you even engage with this woman.

Don’t you know better?

Monk

[FuckMeSpectator 215]

Dude…are you some crazy bitch that got by Key Master here and you are just leading us on?? WTF??? If you ARE a real guy then be a REAL man and GROW A PAIR and stay away from this crazy BITCH!!! F~~~ dude she will turn your world upside down, listen to yourself…you want to stick your dick in crazy, you could end up on a rape charge, F~~~ THAT…listen to the MEN here and walk away. Go hump some f~~~ing whore and get it over with, jack off in the mirror, find someone else, there are other options!!! GROW THE F~~~ UP and find a real woman, she is unstable, you will only harm her and that is NOT the right thing to do!!! WALK.THE.F~~~.AWAY. Bubba Zanetti

You think Chernobyl was bad? Wait until the ink drys on that marriage contract you just signed...we know, you just wanted sex and fun...you could have gotten that for $100.00 a couple times a month instead of DESTROYING your life!!!

[the roadParticipant 3125]

I haven’t read through the entire thread yet but I’ll respond to the OP.

Why did you give her a second chance? She was obviously lying right out of the box to you. It was evident when she instantly resorted to cussing and screaming at you. Honest people with a sound mind can handle getting called out on something without getting angry like that.

I’ll tell you why I ever gave second chances in situations where I was dealing with an insane woman: desperation.

I was desperate.

My desperation in life allowed me to accidentally knock up a dumb bitch that I knew I couldn’t stay with. I have a child now. I love him more than anything but I wish things would have happened at least in a better way. I have to own up to it now. I chose this situation that I’m in because I refused to pay attention to the obvious signs that were in front of my face.

My situation might be YOUR situation if you act with desperation.

#MANOUT

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

CynicalScotsman wrote:

She sends me a long text hours later saying how her ex’s abused her and lots of different stuff I can’t be bothered typing.

My crystal ball says that very soon, you will be her new ex that “abused her”.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[Anonymous 1]

Cut her off. Don’t look back, don’t answer her texts, don’t answer her calls, blow her off if you meet in a supermarket.

And if ever you are “caught” by her looks, just remember, this is what she looks like without the “nice” exterior:

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

CynicalScotsman wrote:

I should stop thinking with my dick rather than my head.

Looks like you answered all your questions yourself.

This isn’t rocket science.
Break up and stay away from that crazy bitch.

Learn from this experience and stay away from women in the future.

You should also sit down and think deep and hard how it is possible that you know about mgtow but nevertheless were stupid enough to get yourself deeper and deeper into a situation that every idiot knows won’t end well.

Monk

[CynicalScotsmanParticipant 32]

Sorry, i’ve not logged in for a while.

I dumper her.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Well done!!!

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

@cynicalscotsman: your name is wrong, you should call yourself “IngenueScotsman”.

Uncle Eric’s suggestions:

DO NOT RUN AWAY IMMEDIATLY AND TOTALLY – SHE’S A PSYCHO AND SHE KNOWS WHERE YOU LIVE!!! SHE COULD SEEK REVENGE!!!

First step:
Buy a fleshlight.
Use it at least 2 times per day.
At least 2 times per day, I repeat, 3-4 times per day would be better.

That will take away your sexual desire, making you stronger.
When you will use the fleshlight, you can even think to her – it doesn’t matter on the first times.

Second step:
Do not meet her anymore.
Use excuses, be VERY kind, apologize, lie, be even more kind, but DO NOT meet her anymore.
You should continue to text her, both on Skype and via phone, but with LESS frequency than usual.
Don’t say you love her, don’t say you need her, NEVER: you have to be kind and detached. You have to be boring, insulse, but also kind, very kind.

You should try to not see her photos, not anymore.
By this way we are now avoiding physical contact, and you don’t see her image anymore.
You’re detaching from her, and she’s also detaching from you because you’re being more and more boring within the messages you still exchange with her.
But she cannot overreact, because you’re still messaging her, and you’re still very kind.

Third step:
Less and lesser frequency in messages with her:
First week – 4 messages in a week.
Second week – 2 messages in a week.
Third week – 1 message in a week.
Fourth week: no messages anymore.
That includes messages from you: regarding answering her messages you should answer to 1-in-2 messages she send. Always, even during the fourth week.

Don’t say you love her, don’t say you need her, NEVER: you have to be kind and detached. You have to be boring, insulse, but also kind, very kind.
Don’t watch her photos, not anymore.
Do NOT talk about sex, intimacy, or body’s parts within the messages – NEVER

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

CynicalScotsman wrote:

Sorry, i’ve not logged in for a while.

I dumper her.

I have read this message just only now.
I don’t think it’ll be so easy.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

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