New Boyfriend going to "Give me a talking too"

[MgrwmacParticipant 154]

I agree with Monk, get it on the record with your solicitor and have a pre-emotive legal letter delivered stating the serious nature & likely penalties of threats / intimidation / violence.

I was attacked by my ex’s brother in a bar a couple of weeks ago – known the dude for 35 years and it’s totally out of character for him, just shows the persuasive power of a manipulative bitch scorned. I restrained him with the minimum possible force and he was ejected from the bar.

All this occurred on CCTV, and I have a copy which I passed to my solicitor so letter on the way and moral high road remains intact.

Don’t let this get you down brother as it’s highly unlikely anything will happen. Maintain situational awareness, apply common sense and above all be cool.

[JVBParticipant]

Give her the chair and give him your time. Face to face tell him you wish him the best but if he wants the truth about her now and only now is your chance. Trust me he will rather listen then fight.

Peace is > piece.

[BarnstormerParticipant 190]

Member wrote:

What would the MGTOW gang do? Or what have you done in your own experience with this? If confronted do I tell the guy the truth….that she is a drama stirring nut bag that can’t be trusted? Or Ignore her and hope he never says anything? Or tell him as recently as two weeks ago she asked to get back together with me but flipped out when I told her hell no? Or do I take the hard stance and just treat him like an enemy too with all precautions taken? Obviously I don’t want some blue piller thinking he has to defend his “sweet” (cough..cough) girlfriends honor by bashing me over the head with something.

Buy him a beer, wish him luck, and thank him for taking the lil’ cupcake off your hands. In time she will regret f~~~ing things up with you, but she is somebody else’s problem now. My ex was particularly nasty and totally psycho in the first few years of divorce. Your ex’s behavior is very familiar. Stay strong.

If you're going through hell, keep going.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

It’s hard to do, but you need to learn to just not respond to anything she says that doesn’t involve the kids. She’s bluffing. She’s just trying to light a fire. Don’t give her any oxygen. A fire can’t start without it. She’s the heat source and she’s running around trying to find the right fuel that will get you to supply some oxygen.

My ex did that for a year or so. She’s finally given up for the most part because I refused to give her any oxygen. I’ll talk about the kids with her for an hour, but personal stuff is personal. Unless it involves one of us being out of town, so the other one knows when they won’t have any help, I don’t give her anything and I don’t listen to anything.

She NEEDS drama. If you don’t give it to her, she’ll move on to someone else. That’s what the boyfriend is for. Right now she has someone to bitch too. Eventually he’ll be someone to bitch about to the next idiot.

You’ve met the guy and talked to him a couple of times. I seriously doubt he has any interest in getting into a fight with you. Also, if he doesn’t beat you up, he’s out. She’ll dump him. And she can’t have that because then she has no one to bitch to. Plus it might just be the out he’s been waiting for.

I see three scenarios here:

He starts a fight, and ends up in jail
She tells him to start a fight and he won’t do it. She dumps him.
She’s bluffing.

My opinion, it’s most likely she’s bluffing.

Good luck.

Order the good wine

[Maximus AureliusParticipant 351]

THANK HIM!!

Seriously, shake his hand, smile alot…
Tell him you appreciate all he’s doing for her..
Let him know if there’s anything he wants to know about her,
you’ll be glad to sit and chat. Be honest and don’t leave anything out………….
He may think you have done him a favor, if not you’ve not lost a thing.

It’s a win, win for you….IF he still wants to throw down,
oblige him. Do not back down in your word or your deeds.
Be a Man of integrity.

Let us know how it unfolds..

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[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

She running the “Let’s you and him fight” s~~~ test (on BOTH of you).
Don’t fall for it…
If he confronts you, tell him the same…

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

Yeah dont sweat it, I’ve been threatened before and the guy never does a thing. Always be ready to defend yourself from an attack.

Get a vasectomy.

[Remove me!Participant]

Most of these responses are pretty right on. I would NOT fight Chad, unless it’s self defense. I would record EVERYTHING. Then, when the s~~~ hits the fan, you have legal recourse to ruin her evil life. You can even get more time with the kids.
Good luck, man.

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

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