Never, ever get involved with a single mother.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

I know this has been put out there countless times, but it bears repeating because so many of us have fallen into the trap. Never, under any circumstances, get involved at any level with a single mother. You are literally playing with fire and WILL get burnt. I am living proof as I am 18 months into it and already financially, emotionally and physically depleted. Look at it for what it is worth – you are taking on another mans child. I don’t care if he divorced her, she divorced him, one night stand, you name it – the end result will be the same. You will be sucked in to a vortex of misery. The woman already had her life turned upside down – now she gets to share it all with some poor fool.
They know all the tricks. They will treat you like gold, put out five times a day if necessary, blind you with affection until you are trapped. Then its game over. The focus shifts from you to the kid. Everything will revolve around them. Their school, their clothes, their bulls~~~ – all the while you had nothing to do with creating this human.
My only advice is no matter who tries to set you up, where you meet her, no matter what – CUT AND RUN. It’s bad enough we support them through our taxes – don’t let the rest of your money and sanity go with it.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I dated a SM. After walking away from her, just two days later .. another guy on her FB … 3 months later he’s gone but another on the scene.

The carousel and money and dinner and holidays. It never ends for them.

Why would they stop. I wouldn’t.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

Before I took the red pill and actually looked for the NAWALT, I still had no respect for single mothers. In my opinion, at the time, single mothers were for practice to better your skills for a woman deserving of your attention. Now that I have taken the red pill I see all women as practice, because riding that train for any extended period of time ends up with the same result, misery and poverty.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I never hurts to hear it again.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Been down that road and got the merit survival badge, never again!

My ex was a sneaky bastard though, she hooked up with a single dad and 4 months later she was pregnant. In her mind it was a “bonding” experience and she played the whole “it will glue his kids, my son and our families.” I seriously cannot believe men fall for this s~~~, oh wait, well as written above at that stage the sex is plentiful, amazing and a drug to a man’s rationale.

I will never ever date or even f~~~ a single mum ever again. I’d easily say 98% of them are entitled c~~~s with a victim mentality and they have a comeback for everything. Pains in the asses.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Don’t forget they have already divorced one man. The second one (you) is much easier.

To be fair if she is a widow, and didn’t kill her husband, it might be different.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 0]

Widows – Being 64 y.o. and widowed myself, I happen to know something about that:
Nothing has changed. She will still see you as a resource.
All her girlfriends will tell her not to stay single for too
long because she will lose her edge.
A surprising number of them have the attitude of “thank
goodness it’s over. Now I can screw whoever I want.”
Enough of that.

The original topic by Truthseeker82:
I have noticed a new phenomenon, the single grandmother.
In dating profiles it comes across as “My grandchildren are
important to me” or “my grandchildren live with me” or ” I
babysit my grandchildren while her parents work” all of which
tells me I am third class.
She wants to have a man around to take her out but will drone
on about HER kids and grands.
She will look for ways to put you down or make you feel guilty
for not feeling the same way as her.
The attitude of “I can do anything a man can do” is still there
and she will look for ways to trap you into saying something
she can s~~~ test you on.
Remember this: No matter what her circumstances are, she will still see you as a resource and a utility. Best to just stay away. The sex is not worth risking g your retirement for.
Enough said for now.

[RebalancedParticipant 346]

Some of my experiences with single mothers back when I did my social experiment a couple of years back and why I would always pass on them now:

1) Black woman, average looking, mid 30’s, Had 4 kids, says she doesn’t want anymore babies but needs someone to look after her and her brood, her first question when we met up: ‘how much money would you be able to give me if we got together?!’… HI BITCH, BYE BITCH

2) Mixed race woman, early 30’s, 3 kids, expected me to move 120 miles away from my family to move in with her and her rugrats, GTFOH!

3) Another black woman, early 30’s, very pretty, 3 kids from 3 different fathers, pof profile first line said: I’m not looking for a father for my kids, I’m looking for someone for me.
First meet, her 2 year old brat takes a liking to me, she says oh you would be a great dad to him. HI bitch, bye bitch, I leave.

4) White woman, mid 30’s, quite pretty, 4 kids, 2 different fathers, getting bullied by ex, when she saw that I’m not going to be her emotional tampon/white knight says she needs to stay single as there will be trouble from her ex with anyone she dates. I told her I’m fine with that and that she shouldn’t get the wrong idea that we were going to be a couple anyway. 2 days later she surfaces on another dating site (still on it a year later) saying she wants to get married and wants more kids (so much for trouble with ex and whoever she dates).

5) White woman, mid 20’s, one child, ex glamour model, believes she can have any man she wants and expects nothing but the best in life, kicked her to the curb day 1, years later she still can’t get and keep a man.

There’s more I could add too.

I don't need pussy

[LurchParticipant 3866]

Rebalanced wrote:

There’s more I could add too.

Please do. Reading these incidents is like driving past a series of car wrecks. You know it’s wrong to look, but you can’t look away. 😉

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I had a female friend tell me recently if I want to find someone, I should start considering single mothers since a lot of the women my age are going to have kids. I told her hell no, single moms are toxic and I avoid other men’s offspring like the plague…I have no desire to provide for or take care of them in any capacity when I don’t even have kids of my own.

Now this isn’t anything worth mentioning on its own…but this particular friend is about 15 years older than I am and loves dating men 10+ years older than her. Its hilarious she’d act like at this point I have to settle for a 30+ year old post waller with a kid if I want someone, and I couldn’t still find a girl 5 years younger in her mid 20s with no kids if I wanted. Also…she never had kids of her own and will only date men with no kids or grown up kids…meaning she never has or wanted to play mommy to kids or even have kids get in the way of date nights and booty calls…yet she’d suggest I should be willing to play daddy to kids that aren’t even mine lol.

It just goes to show how women truly think. I should just man up and be a good beta provider, and women get to all be irresponsible and carefree while they ride the carousel. They all hate to be single and “alone,” so they can’t quite figure out they have long passed a point where being single is preferable to dealing with them.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Lurch wrote:

Rebalanced wrote:

There’s more I could add too.

Please do. Reading these incidents is like driving past a series of car wrecks. You know it’s wrong to look, but you can’t look away.

Side issue: I heard this phrase so many times, but still don’t understand why it would be wrong to look at a car wreck

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[RebalancedParticipant 346]

A few more of the single mother experiences I had;

6) Asian woman (Bengali) 33 years old, pretty, poshly spoken, trainee solicitor, 1 child from her ex. Went on like she was such a good girl/doesn’t sleep around etc. I mentioned that I get problems trying to see my kids to find out what her view on that subject were and she agreed that women are bitches for coming between a father and his kids and should never do that.

Spoke to her for a couple of times before meeting up with her at her house and she let slip that she wasn’t going to let her ex see their daughter now because he’s annoying her (AWALT?!). Also, she mentioned that if we got together people would think her daughter is mine as she is mixed race and could pass for ‘our child’ (replacement dad alert).

Turned up at her house expecting to just talk at this point as she was not the ‘loose’ type. She opened the door and had some skin tight leggings and a tight vest on. Told me to sit down in the front room and came back 1 minute later with our drinks and nothing but her pussy and breasts on display. So much for not being the loose type. I didn’t bring any condoms and although she was literally begging me to f~~~ her I didn’t, bullet dodged.

7) Oriental woman, 32, average looking, softly spoken, trying to fit the nice oriental woman stereotype it seemed, 2 kids, transpires that she had run away from her ex, back in the Fillipines or wherever she had fled from, wanted me to come and stay at her house for the weekend so we could get to know each other better. Before that I spoke to her on Skype and she said she really liked me/how I look and I could see her getting red in the face. She cut the convo short and said she was going to email me something she couldn’t say on Skype. A few minutes later I get an email asking how big my dick is and could I send her a photo and would I let her see me jerking off on Skype for her. I asked her if she was going to send me a naked photo of her and do the same in return if I did to which she said, no I just want to see you but don’t want to do the same.

2 days later, I got an email saying she had just got married and not to worry about the video (worry? there was never going to be a video).

7) Another Asian, Indian, works, had her own place, one son, 15 years old, doesn’t see his father, met her at a shopping centre, she said as her son is older, she now has time for a man in her life and wants one. Several times while meeting her for the 1st time, her son phoned or she phoned him. A few days passed and she hadn’t been in touch, she rang to say she had been busy the whole weekend with her son and his sport activities (apparently he was very good at swimming and competing at a high level). I asked her if every weekend was like that and she said yes, then asked her how she envisages having enough time for a man as she claims if every weekend is like that. She got mad at being caught out and I ended up hanging up on the bitch as I wasn’t going to have some idiot screaming in my ear.

She also had asked about dick size and wanted a picture yet she refused to give one (she said: ‘thats not what ladies do’).

There’s a few more tales I could tell but they don’t really fall outside of the types I’ve already mentioned, other than a single mother who was a ho throughout her university days, used to have 3somes galore, yet wanted to have a man take her out, wine her and dine her and wait for sex now. I kicked that to the curb from the jump as I’m not interested in paying for high mileage pussy that others had for free.

Out of all of my experiences with single mothers (about 12 in total) they were all negative, so I’d never waste my time with them again. Hope me sharing these experiences benefits some of you brothers reading.

I don't need pussy

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

OMG. So basic.
What’s up with all the dick pic craze? Is this a norm now? I’m missing out on all this new age insanity

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[RebalancedParticipant 346]

Russky wrote:

OMG. So basic.
What’s up with all the dick pic craze? Is this a norm now? I’m missing out on all this new age insanity

Online that had become quite common by late 2014, I hear its only on the increase from people I know that still mess around with online dating sites.

I don't need pussy

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

Russky wrote:

OMG. So basic.
What’s up with all the dick pic craze? Is this a norm now? I’m missing out on all this new age insanity

I think it’s a s~~~ test. She wants to see what she can get you to do for her. Sending one gives her a lot of ammunition that she can put away and use against you as she feels the need.
If things go sour, she can do whatever she wants with that pic and show it to anyone. She can also use it to portray herself as a victim. Female; ” I was talking with this guy on line and he started sending me these pics…PERV”. Worse case scenario you get accused of being a serial stalker who harassed her.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[BigDParticipant 3024]

Mr. Spock wrote:

Russky wrote:

OMG. So basic.
What’s up with all the dick pic craze? Is this a norm now? I’m missing out on all this new age insanity

I think it’s a s~~~ test. She wants to see what she can get you to do for her. Sending one gives her a lot of ammunition that she can put away and use against you as she feels the need.
If things go sour, she can do whatever she wants with that pic and show it to anyone. She can also use it to portray herself as a victim. Female; ” I was talking with this guy on line and he started sending me these pics…PERV”. Worse case scenario you get accused of being a serial stalker who harassed her.

Lived in the PI for years. You can take the woman out of the PI, but you can’t take the PI out of the woman. She was looking for black mail material. Nothing more.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[SOLI2DEParticipant 746]

It wasn’t until the discovery and acceptance of the red pill did I take a deep long look into all of my relationship history. 99% were single mothers. It was my self esteem, the willingness to settle and accept whoever. I’m only a few months in to this way of life after realizing this was my way all along. Go ping on my own. I truly failed when I deviated from this path. No thanks

“Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.” -Proverbs 31:3-

[bomwaParticipant 488]

Russky wrote:

OMG. So basic.
What’s up with all the dick pic craze? Is this a norm now? I’m missing out on all this new age insanity

Why send a dick pic when you can send her a 200 pound wooden dildo?

http://jalopnik.com/putin-critic-finds-200-pound-wooden-c~~~-on-roof-of-her-1515890130

[LurchParticipant 3866]

When it comes to single mothers…

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[bob__Participant 946]

A single mother needs some sucker to pay for her kids. They exploit the fact that most men care more about pussy than money. A single mother is usually so toxic that the biological father of those kids would rather not be involved with what are equally his kids than deal with her. Or he’s not able to be involved because the mother wanted all of the father’s money so she could **** men with higher social status.

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