Never an apology

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  • #596674
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    Finallyfree
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    I can remember the day I realized that women never EVER apologize for anything. It was the closest thing to a true epiphany I’ve ever had. All the s~~~ my exes put me through and I cant think of a single apology. 13 years of them purposefully starting arguments, s~~~ testing, gas lighting, cheating, lying, using and manipulating and not ONE apology to be found.

    #596701
    Sparticus66
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    No. Not heard a sorry from any woman in my life.
    It’s ironic. Women never say sorry. Yet there is an epidemic of men in the public limelight forced to apologise, and in a grovelling manner, for some comment that has offended libtards by being a patently true comment.
    So my approach now as a man is never apologise! Women never do it and they try to get men to do it to demean them.
    No f~~~s given. No apologies given.

    #596757
    Monk
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    Last week I confronted my wife on an outright lie which she readily admitted. Completely ‘fessed up. She actually then turned it around and blamed me.

    To them, reality is whatever they say it is.

    #596770
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    Doc
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    this was something I first noticed in my second LTR.
    My girlfriend could never say the word. When I cottoned I was amazed.
    My ex wife could utter the word but would play down the behaviour that merited the apology.
    She would play down some pretty big things. The deal breakers. But the apology was always followed with the BUT, YOU….

    There has to be something pathologically wrong with people who can’t just say sorry, ‘I f~~~ed up, how can I make it up to you?’

    Don’t they realise humility is strength?

    The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

    #596774
    MGTOW Knight
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    The one thing I do get from my wife occasionally is the ‘conditional apology’. Something like “I’m sorry IF that offended you.”

    I like how you emphasized the IF.

    With women everything is contingent on their FEELS.

    A women will never apologize, and why should they?

    When society caters to every negative aspect of their biology, they don’t need to have any culpability.

    They can literally blame their problems on everyone but themselves.

    In the end, we win.

    They will be alone with cats blaming men for THEIR issues.

    I’ll be counting $! NFG to them!

    Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

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    Anonymous
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    i don’t remember ever a thank you, never an excuse me, and never never and apology. Even after being stabbed through the hand, pinned to the kitchen counter and dishwasher, no sorry, oh, there’s a couple holes and blood in the countertop, that will need to be replaced.

    #596806
    Bigboy83
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    Yes, and it gets old.

    Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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    Anonymous
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    My mother constantly put me down with her words. She love to start s~~~ with me, and “lucky” for me, I don’t take s~~~ from nobody. Her words are vile, and nasty. She has called me a degenerate on multiple occasions.

    She never once said, I apologise for my words, NOT once!!

    How can you love someone like that? Whether it’s your wife, or mother?

    Yet, society wants us to believe that women are angels!

    F~~~ Society, and women!

    #596985
    Bigvern
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    MGTOW@50Participant 21
    Russky wrote:
    Apology only makes sense within honor framework, and since honor is men-only concept, women never feel the need to apologize or accept apologies. It’s alien to them. They think of men as idiots for falling for this honor nonsense, missing the part where honor helped humankind to evolve and thrive

    That’s one I’m going to have to digest for a while. Crap, that sure explains a lot.

    MGTOW@50, THIS IS THE RED PILL BROTHER,…….CHEW AND SWALLOW, AND DIGEST……WE, YOUR BROTHER’S ARE HERE WITH THE SICK BUCKET, UNTIL YOU SWALLOW IT COMPLETELY……

    PEACE BROTHER,……

    "What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

    #599502
    Jack Harper
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    This is a good topic. During my marriage my ex would say the word but here is how she put it:
    “I’m sorry you feel that way.”

    Never felt like a genuine apology. After my divorce I went through a lot of counseling and support groups as I was really depressed. One counselor who was a nice lady I did like her; I told her about my ex’s apology and the counselor said “that’s not a real apology. When someone phrases it that way they aren’t taking responsibility they are putting the responsibility back on you. ‘It’s your fault you feel that way.'”

    Then it all clicked

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    Bokeh
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    This is classic narcissism, the clinical kind. The reversal of blame is too – or the classic “non-apology”, ie. “I’m sorry you feel that way” – not sorry she did it, but sorry you have a problem with it.

    If you delve into narcissism and personality disorders, you start to see every woman you know – emotional blackmail, no empathy, greed, no responsibility, gaslighting, explosions of rage, walking on eggshells, it’s all about her, you have to always set yourself on fire to keep her warm – it’s all there.

    The more you delve into it, and see that a typical relationship with a woman is based on emotional abuse and toxic behavior, the less interest you’ll have in starting a relationship. I’ve met very few woman (western) that don’t tick off too many squares on the narcissistic personality disorder checklist.

    I was raised by one – never again. I’m fine alone, because the alternative is literally hell.

    #602055
    Butchi
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    Been through it as well. Had plates flying at my head, curse words adressed to my family.

    There is no solution, for following reasons:
    1. You are a man. Toy, fashion accessory, walking ATM. Toys have no rights.
    2. Woman is always the victim, they have never been taught to apologize. Welcome to the modern society.
    3. If a woman is cornered, she starts A: Crying B: Digging up in the past.
    4. If crying is not working and you did absolutely nothing wrong, sex denial is gonna do the trick.
    5. HC approach – she stops talking to you and walks around wearing that lemon face. Time for some trolling, or at least to do something useful you postponed.
    6. Never forget, you are dealing with a random emotion generator.

    In my last relations~~~, I tried to teach that thing to at least admit she made a mistake. It was a long and painful process full of yelling with a negative result. No matter what you do, there are always female friends or orbiters who convince her she was absolutely right.

    I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

    #603787
    The Deal
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    My ex wife apologized to me a year or so after the divorce. She was trying to get me to remarry her because she found out how hard it was to do actual work when she was on her own.

    Another ex wrote me an apology like 20 years after she dumped me. She had ruined her two marriages. Not sure what she wanted. Maybe for me to tell her I cared. It was good talking to her because it made realize how lucky I was to not have ended up with her.

    #603829
    MGTOW@50
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    My ex wife apologized to me a year or so after the divorce. She was trying to get me to remarry her because she found out how hard it was to do actual work when she was on her own.

    Another ex wrote me an apology like 20 years after she dumped me. She had ruined her two marriages. Not sure what she wanted. Maybe for me to tell her I cared. It was good talking to her because it made realize how lucky I was to not have ended up with her.

    Monkey-branching bitches.

    Think about their thought processes leading up to those ‘apologies’. They are cunning…..

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