Need some advice

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

I asked my mother and father this exact same question.

My mother said that she must feel an awe inspiring presence each time her man enters her sphere. Today’s society destroys men/boys. She must find one that will inspire her. Blah blah blah.

My father said how can you raise a cat so it is like a dog? The cat will conform to be a cat.

Then my father said how can you get a boy pregnant? Life is not fair. No one is equal. Those that can get pregnant carry a burden. The burden is that they must rely on a man. Teach her that she must select well, her life depends on it.

Peace brothers

[KeymasterKeymaster]

narwhal wrote:

@KM, I get your stance regardless having sex and taking full responsibility, but I am very likely going to push for no sex at all.

If you read my list again, I think you’ll agree she WILL have less (or no) sex…. BECAUSE she is forced to think before she has it, and knows she will be 100% accountable and have to pay for her mistakes.

Notice where I said “have sex wherever you want, however you want and with whomever you want”….. but (bolded) do NOT expect anyone else to pay for your mistakes and s~~~ty choices.

If she KNOWS it’s not acceptable for her to wake up in the morning and “change her mind” or pretend she was some “victim” of spending 1/2 a day getting ready, going out , getting a fake ID, dressing sexy, LOOKING for male attention — putting herself in a position she is NOT READY FOR — and going home and spreading her legs with some greasy Guido on a stolen motorbike… then she will be FAR less likely to do it.

Telling them “no sex” isn’t realistic or possible. Her parents are Justin Beiber and Miley Cyrus. You can’t compete with that kind of cultural bombardment. But if you teach her she is not a “victim” of her own actions and choices, at least you have a hope in hell.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

I think it is important to give your daughters some freedom too. I mean, I think keymaster has some excellent points, but holding the reigns too tight might backfire.

One cousin in my family ran away because her mother, my aunt, was too strict.

Expose them to the struggles of life at early stages (preferably early teens). No better teacher than life itself.

Ge her into a position where she has to cook for herself, take out the trash, clean etc. on her own and meanwhile don’t give her a chance where she could learn to blame a man for her plight.

And after she’s done it, tell her she’s made you proud, thus reinforcing the education for life.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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