Need Help, Been in a Monk Zone But Feeling Attracted To A New Woman

[Anonymous 18]

Bro remember one thing:

Your game is impression.
Her game is manipulation.

Only idiots believe they can game females. Their survival is predicated on manipulating men.

Men hunt nature, women hunt men.

You are the prey, but so long the f~~~ing is good, long-dick-style, who cares, right?

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

You are not the first monk that has been in this position, and it has always fascinated me as to WHY ANY MONK would think that he would NEVER be attracted to a Woman again.

I’m not a monk, and do not currently seek that path out, but as time goes on that may change as well.

Regardless, even if you proclaim yourself a monk; you are still a heterosexual male first, and it’s quite natural and normal to be attracted to females.

Personally, I think for some men that the longer they are away from Women; the more that they become attracted when they meet an attractive woman that appears interested in them. Other men, may not be affected in the same way, but never the less some Men are. We are all different, and so aren’t our needs, drives, and wants.

My only advice is to recognize it for what it is, and then do AS YOU SEE FIT. If you have the Desire to have sex with her, then that’s up to you. If you prefer to stay monk then that as well is UP TO YOU.

Do WHATEVER YOU NEED TO DO. The answer is Not the Same for every Man.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

I see beautiful women all the time. Hell, I work with 4-5 who are early twenties, single, and very good looking. The solution that works for me is to remember the potential consequences of such a tryst.

STDs
Jail time
Baby jail time
Losing my job to false accusations
Having to explain to my boss, or anybody in the command hierarchy, why some tart is saying I came onto her

A woman can make your life hell. She doesn’t require proof and you will have to prove consent. You have no presumptive innocence. Do not engage.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Anonymous wrote:

Your game is impression.
Her game is manipulation.

This is what currently keeps me away. Women will DO and SAY ANYTHING to manipulate you to their needs.

I was manipulated in my relationship and now I see women doing it to other men DAILY.

I WILL appreciate a beautiful woman BUT THEN I’ll move on.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Anonymous 12]

she drops the pants and you get to suck her dick.
“suck my saucage, you bamboozled fool”

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

She acting like a really good girl now, to lure you in. ACTING.

Rub one (or a few) out and take another look at the situation.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

jmho .. i’d avoid, all of it at all costs, life is just too good here in freedomland …..

walk away, young man, save your life and, remember .. it’s your path, not hers!

[Anonymous 3]

RayBandaku wrote:

I must remember why I was in the monk zone in the first place, so I can be free of women and their drama, neediness, negativity….

You are not free, look at this thread… You have already fall into her trap, at least mentally, because… that is what women do. They manipulate you mentally and emotionally.

Think of this as circles. You have let this woman inside one circle to many. You should have left her outside, restraining your talks and attitude.

Once she jumped the circle she already started the drama, neediness and negativity in your life. She only needs to hint a sex, and you are hooked.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Aussie wrote:

Anal Lice ????
F~~~ me dead, now I have heard everything !
Are they different to the usual crabs that disappear when you shave your pubes off?
Does she have to have a hairy arsehole to have anal nits?

I’m sure Blade will be happy to send you images and/or a video if you ask politely.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[MonkParticipant 16988]

RayBandaku wrote:

She was too attractive and said the right things that made me want to talk to her more. One thing lead to another, now it’s almost at the point that she hinted to me of having sex with me. Next time I meet her we might have sex. I am trying to avoid her but I might fail.

There are no unicorns. She is using your hormones and good nature to manipulate you.

Pumpkin gets p~~~ed at you, so she dials 911 out of spite. You go straight to jail. You lose your job, house, everything.

You have sex with her. She ‘accidentally’ gets pregnant. Now kiss the next 20 years of your life goodbye.

She dumps you in favour of some bad-boy chad who gives her the tingles.

It’s not IF the hammer falls, but WHEN.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

And why you feeling Soo f~~~ed up?

I mean, we are monks, not saints, there is no law or higher power forcing me to go monk, just logic.

If you wanna f~~~, f~~~, if you want to avoid possible problems, stay monk.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 1]

If she’s that attractive i’d drill it.

[MurineesParticipant 704]

You want to have sex with an attractive woman.

Fine.

You got to PAY. One way or other.

Just prepare to pay for it, before you bang her. How much? The more attractive she is the more you will pay. Emotional as well as financial.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

If you are a recovering alcoholic, don’t call me from the bar you voluntarily walked in to, sitting with a poured drink in front of you, and ask for help. You walked in to the joint. You allowed the drink to be poured. You sit there with it in front of you. Get up and walk out or don’t.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

This is why I am a big fan of mgtow.com I was having such a hard time deciding about having sex with her or not. After I read the advice which all you gave helped me make my decision clear, to stay as a monk for the rest of my life if thats possible.

I was thinking back to the darkest moments of my life seven years ago where I almost wanted to buy a gun to shoot myself because of the heartbreak with my ex wife and financial loses I suffered.

All women are the same, I have to stay as a monk to avoid going through so much pain and suicidal depression again. Once is enough to learn my big painful lession, I don’t want to learn the same painful Lession second time.

Thank you so much everyone for taking the time to give me valuable advice, you have saved me from making a big mistake again.

I am very content, happy, peaceful and free with my life now, no need to create drama, stress and pain because of a woman. I appreciate all of you for helping me out with your great guidance and wisdom. Have a fantistic day. With infinite gratitude, Ray

[It’sallbsParticipant]

RayBandaku wrote:

This is why I am a big fan of mgtow.com I was having such a hard time deciding about having sex with her or not. After I read the advice which all you gave helped me make my decision clear, to stay as a monk for the rest of my life of possible.

I was thinking back to the darkest moments of my life seven years ago where I almost wanted to buy a gun to shoot myself because of the heartbreak with my ex wife and financial loses I suffered.

All women are the same, I have to stay as monk to avoid going through so much pain and suicidal depression again. Once is enough to learn my big painful lession, I don’t want to learn the same painful Lession second time.

Thank so much everyone for taking the time to give me valuable advice, you have saved me from making a big mistake.

I am very content, happy, peaceful and free with my life, no need to create drama, stress and pain because of a woman. I appreciate all you for helping me out with your great guidance and wisdom. Have a fantistic day. With infinite gratitude, Ray

Results

Total words: 202
Too few words. Try 300 words or more.

Genre: Informal
Female = 361
Male = 275
Difference = -86; 43.23%
Verdict: Weak FEMALE

Weak emphasis could indicate European.

Genre: Formal
Female = 373
Male = 201
Difference = -172; 35.01%
Verdict: FEMALE

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[It’sallbsParticipant]

RayBandaku wrote:

For past two years I was able to stay in a Monk Zone, I successfully avoided being around woman. Recently I met a women during a family party, she was a friend of my friend. I tried to avoid talking to her but I failed. She was too attractive and said the right things that made me want to talk to her more. One thing lead to another, now it’s almost at the point that she hinted to me of having sex with me. Next time I meet her we might have sex. I am trying to avoid her but I might fail.

I need a little help, need your advice. Has anyone been in this type of problem before. What I am asking for is, how can I stay in my Monk Zone without getting Attracted to any woman. Some times being human we slip up, what are the ways to stay in Monk Zone forever. I appreciate any advice on this matter, it might help me avoid getting involved with women. Your advice might help fellow MGTOW brothers who are in similar circumstances. Thank you.

Results

Total words: 188
Too few words. Try 300 words or more.

Genre: Informal
Female = 282
Male = 299
Difference = 17; 51.46%
Verdict: Weak MALE

Weak emphasis could indicate European.

Genre: Formal
Female = 231
Male = 323
Difference = 92; 58.3%
Verdict: Weak MALE

Weak emphasis could indicate European.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Go monk, pump & dump, what ever, try to avoid problems. But if you feel that you are confused by this situation here some unpopular opinions.

AWALT, your mind is just confusing and you are attracted to something that she isn’t, she is a meat hole, nothing more, she is a walking object to milk your dick and turn your dna sample into another being by mixing it with her dna. But avoid damage, I mean, really avoid, if the temptation to have sex is so intense, find a hooker that look like her, problem solved. Is better than banging her. But the best thing to do if your brain is start to stop look at things in an analytical way and is trying to make you get back to the plantation, is make the c~~~ give you some red pills, believe me, this is the most effective way to lose all your interest in a c~~~, but is also risky as f~~~.

How you do that ? Simple, start asking her some naive questions like a BP man would, let her do the talking, let her talk about the past, make her feel comfortable that she can manipulate you and put any s~~~ test in practice, like telling her about that you like sometimes to have some crazy sex fueled with alcohol an drugs, tell her some crazy sex stories about what you did in the past. This will make her inner whore feel the need to tell you that she have done those things too, or even worse.

But believe me she won’t tell you everything, maybe 2-5% of what she did, but she will give you enough red pills about her, to feel disgusted, then you apply some logic, if she told you that she has sex with 10 guys, never had a threesome, never cheated and all her ex-bfs are dicks. You know the answer, more than 100 dicks, lots of crazy s~~~, lot of drugs, lot of STDs, and she probably f~~~ed all her other relationships by cheating or being a f~~~ing c~~~.

If she is really attractive, why isn’t she married ? Ask yourself that question. There is only way things end up, she is sooooooo boring, nag so much, is a f~~~ing complete bitch and cheater, that no man wanted to handle that problem, even with her looks being as you described.

If you feel confused, just do that, just gather some red pills about her, just let her ruin her own reputation, apply some logic and analysis to this situation, but above everything, always weight what you choose in order to minimize the damage.

– Jerk off & push her away = 0 damage – best choice

– F~~~ a hooker that look just like her = $$$ lose some small amount of money, but at least you get over it

– Let her give some red pills about her past = 100% guaranteed that you will be disgusted by her appearance forever, but it will demand that you talk to her, it will cost you time, and once you are “close” to her so she will say that kind of s~~~, she will immediately assume that you own her something, like “I opened up for you ! I TOLD YOU MY FEELINGS !”, so it can end in some problems. The only reason to choose this one is if you are thinking with your dick and it is blurring your mind.

[Anonymous 14]

@It’sallbs
Something is very out of place here. I agree.

[Anonymous 3]

Solid wrote:

But if you feel that you are confused by this situation here some unpopular opinions.

Solid “unpopular opinions” are good advice.

Being a monk has an inherent danger. You are what you are, but you are also what you avoid. Because you would not need to actively avoid it if it wasn’t in you.

Its like wearing an armour full of holes. The enemy just stabs you through one.

So, Solid just gave you 3 “armour patching techniques” and the respective cost.
Great post!
Grande reposta!

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