Need Help, Been in a Monk Zone But Feeling Attracted To A New Woman

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

For past two years I was able to stay in a Monk Zone, I successfully avoided being around woman. Recently I met a women during a family party, she was a friend of my friend. I tried to avoid talking to her but I failed. She was too attractive and said the right things that made me want to talk to her more. One thing lead to another, now it’s almost at the point that she hinted to me of having sex with me. Next time I meet her we might have sex. I am trying to avoid her but I might fail.

I need a little help, need your advice. Has anyone been in this type of problem before. What I am asking for is, how can I stay in my Monk Zone without getting Attracted to any woman. Some times being human we slip up, what are the ways to stay in Monk Zone forever. I appreciate any advice on this matter, it might help me avoid getting involved with women. Your advice might help fellow MGTOW brothers who are in similar circumstances. Thank you.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

False accusations and prison time don’t forget your soap on a roap.
Talking about you behind your back.
Antibiotic resistant green ooze.
Inane chitter chatter.
Fakeup means a 9 is really a 3.
AIDS.
Syphillis.
Warts.
Anal lice.

…,…,…

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Will RobinsonParticipant 3479]

Go sit in on a local family court and criminal court cases and see how men get treated when a woman makes her one phone call and falsely accuses a man. I’m pretty certain that will cure it.

May you walk in peace and happiness, May you and all mgtow, near and far walk in peace and happiness.

[Anonymous 14]

Jedi Monk 12 years and never looking back. The choice is yours, be brave but be wise.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Just remember… Them special snowflakes all start out looking like unicorns. They eventually show themselves to be monstrous. I’ve been monk almost 2 years now. Sometimes I wonder, but then again, the thing is this, if you like one then try getting to know her a little first before moving in on her body. The more you become acquainted with her personality the more you’ll see her for who she really is. If I try to think of what KM would say, the idea is to be extremely cautious and to the interaction for what it is and don’t get involved, stay disconnected as much as possible, time will do the rest of the work. She’ll blow her cover sooner or later. And if not, maybe try to enjoy the connection in a platonic way.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[AussieParticipant 2509]

It’sallbs wrote:

False accusations and prison time don’t forget your soap on a roap.
Talking about you behind your back.
Antibiotic resistant green ooze.
Inane chitter chatter.
Fakeup means a 9 is really a 3.
AIDS.
Syphillis.
Warts.
Anal lice.

…,…,…

Anal Lice ????
F~~~ me dead, now I have heard everything !
Are they different to the usual crabs that disappear when you shave your pubes off?
Does she have to have a hairy arsehole to have anal nits?

" I feel threatened "

[Anonymous 0]

AWALT

It’s all an act by her. She doesn’t care for you. She just wants your resources, whatever those are, until she monkey branches to the next victim.

How many c~~~s have filled her holes? She won’t ever be able to pair bond with you. You’re just next in line. How many false claims has she made? You aren’t an exception when she turns on you.

Don’t forget what brought you here. How much of your time, money, and resources have you expended? Has she reciprocated as much? Nope.

Your lizard brain wants you to expend endless amount of your resources so that you do all the work in seducing her and getting her off…just so you can enjoy one orgasm for a short moment.

That juice ain’t worth the squeeze. Go back to focusing on your more productive interests.

She’s just a special, snowflake, unicorn? Roll the dice and see where it gets you.

AWALT

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

RayBandaku wrote:

Next time I meet her we might have sex. I am trying to avoid her but I might fail.

RayBandaku wrote:

What I am asking for is, how can I stay in my Monk Zone

You’re CONFLICTED here mate. What do you want?

So far your actions have put you in a situation where you might have sex. If you want to maintain monk, GET THE F~~~ OUT.

Your actions MUST match your intention.

We all have our own vices. If you fancy a lay, go ahead but slap on a condom and DO NOT INVEST anything else into her.

You’ve been monk for 2 years so I’m guessing you have a solid understanding of female nature – if you do ANYTHING more, you’re shooting yourself in the foot.

Remember WHY you went monk in the first place. We will be tested. They are masters of manipulation, adept at seduction and deceit.

Anonymous wrote:

She’s just a special, snowflake, unicorn? Roll the dice and see where it gets you.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Best advice I’m seeing here is to remember what brought you here in the first place.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

And as per “American Pie”, rub one out before going out…. nothing like the male refractory period after emptying the seminal vesicles to calm lust….

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[WallyParticipant]

Don’t meet her again, cut off all contact, know you don’t want to appear like a jerk to your family but it’s your life, keep control of it.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Going monk is a great way to go, but if he uses protection and is prepared to pump and dump…

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[IRuleMeParticipant]

There’s something fishy going on here. I suspect a tuna. Something seems off about this post.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

They can smell scent on the air.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Thank you everyone for the wise words. Yes, I must remember why I was in the monk zone in the first place, so I can be free of women and their drama, neediness, negativity…. I still remember my ex wife who made my life hell and took 80% of my wealth in our divorce. I don’t need to go through that hell again. Thank you for reminding me to go back to my monk zone. It’s not worth starting the same thing with a new women because they are all the same.

[Anonymous 42]

She’s on her BEST behavior!

Just think yourself past all the courtship when she sours and the fangs come out!

You’re buzzing a penis fly-trap!

Think of ALL the things that CAN and WILL go WRONG once the good behavior switch is turned off!

You let things progress WAY BEYOND the POINT OF SAFETY!

Here, you’re gonna need this, liberally rub it allover yourself and spread it out with a basting brush!

[narwhalParticipant]

I’m guessing you haven’t really told her that you’ve abstained for 2 years and that you have no intention of being in a relationship again. It sounds like she’s thinking she’s gut a budding relationship here, and you haven’t told her that you aren’t interested in that.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 54]

It’sallbs wrote:

Anal lice.

…,…,…

Ill be thinking this when I look at women now….oh man…

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

The problem is not f~~~ing her. The problem is getting rid of her. She has social ties to you, so pump and dump is not an option.

[Artboy99Participant 369]

That you are a monk is why she is interested. You are the ultimate challenge. As soon as she discovers she can manipulate you in any way then her switch will flip to sucking you dry of whatever resources she wants from you. Or perhaps you are just her way of proving to her friends that she has ultimate market value.
WARNING: even if you decline her advances, know that she will continue to try as women are attracted to what they can’t have ( until they do have it ).

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